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Hypnosis
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States2061 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-01-11 23:40:17
January 11 2010 05:58 GMT
#1
Hey guys I have decided to break my relationship off with my GF because things are not working out well . I can't see her in person soon so i wrote her a letter. Please leave feedback.

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Dear [name removed],
I would generally tell you this in person because it is the mature thing to do but I am not sure when I will see you next.
I really think that we should not be in a relationship right now for a few reasons. First off, we hardly get to see each other. I have only seen you in person four or five times in real life and to me it is pretty painful to only see you once in a while; to that I am sure you agree. This separation causes a few problems when we do see each other. We are so close when I come up to Foco or Sterling that it is almost overwhelming and I always feel shitty at the end of the day because I know that it only lasts a day and then I have to wait again to see you. You moving to Foco would help a little bit but while I am in school I work most weekends and pretty soon those hours are going to be vital in order for me to afford my schooling. Please do not take this the wrong way because it could be easily distorted. I am willing to talk about it if you would like but my phone died again and my new one won’t be here until next week so you would need to call me.

-Ethan


UPDATE****

Ok this went exactly as I planned! I sent her the letter and she read it, called me and the first thing she said was "I have a funny story to tell you Ethan". I listened then we talked about what I had sent her and she said she understood but she still really likes me and asked if I would be ok with getting together later in life when she moved to Foco. Of course I said possibly kekeke and then we just talked for a bit and she told me her friends reactions that I am a "sissy" and I "should have thought of the distance thing beforehand". It went well and she is upset but being extremely mature about this . Sweet I'm a free man!

god I feel like a dickhead

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Science without religion is lame, Religion without science is blind
micronesia
Profile Blog Joined July 2006
United States24698 Posts
January 11 2010 06:01 GMT
#2
I'm kind of curious as to whether or not you have actually given this message to her yet. Is it going to be a mailed letter?
ModeratorThere are animal crackers for people and there are people crackers for animals.
Xusneb
Profile Blog Joined November 2006
Canada612 Posts
January 11 2010 06:02 GMT
#3
Letter breakup? Come on, just wait until you see her again... or call her on your new phone next week. This has to be one of the most detached ways of doing it!
If you want to be happy, be. - Leo Tolstoy
lOvOlUNiMEDiA
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States643 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-01-11 06:04:32
January 11 2010 06:04 GMT
#4
Sounds like BS

Just tell her you don't like her that much -- because if you were digging her you would surmount these small difficulties.

typo
To say that I'm missing the point, you would first have to show that such work can have a point.
Insane
Profile Blog Joined November 2003
United States4991 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-01-11 06:07:25
January 11 2010 06:04 GMT
#5
You should call her on the phone since you apparently can't see her in person. A letter is like "..."

For what it's worth, you say "first off", but that really seems to be the only reason why . Obviously it's up to you, but if you're so busy are you really going to have time for a girlfriend who's closer anyway? I've never seen distance as a big reason not to have a relationship if you care about the other person and think she's interesting.
Thegilaboy
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
United States2018 Posts
January 11 2010 06:05 GMT
#6
The beginning seems a little too much like a formal letter, or even a report. Gets better in the end I suppose, but come on man, a letter is no way to do this. At the very least wait until your next phone gets in
meeple
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
Canada10211 Posts
January 11 2010 06:06 GMT
#7
Yeah... no letter... over the phone or in person. Otherwise its just wimping out.
Humbug
Profile Blog Joined November 2008
United States264 Posts
January 11 2010 06:07 GMT
#8
Mmmmm have you two been together long? This seems..pretty serious, you might want to talk with her about it first to see what she thinks about the whole distance thing before doing something this drastic.
What is an angel? Show me an angel and I shall paint one
Xeofreestyler
Profile Blog Joined June 2005
Belgium6771 Posts
January 11 2010 06:15 GMT
#9
1) that letter sounds like a letter I'd send to my cablecompany or w/e, way too formal

2) dont use letters for this kind of thing man, wtf..
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Hypnosis
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States2061 Posts
January 11 2010 06:23 GMT
#10
Already sent it.
Science without religion is lame, Religion without science is blind
Thegilaboy
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
United States2018 Posts
January 11 2010 06:24 GMT
#11
On January 11 2010 15:23 Hypnosis wrote:
Already sent it.


Why did you ask for feedback then?
Hypnosis
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States2061 Posts
Last Edited: 2010-01-11 06:29:16
January 11 2010 06:27 GMT
#12
It's blog worthy. What's the big deal I am not asking for a reviser from team fuckin liquid man. I just wanted to write it somewhere..

Also she is such an innocent girl I want to let her down gently with as little drama as possible and I do not want to hear her cry over the phone..
Science without religion is lame, Religion without science is blind
Equaoh
Profile Joined October 2008
Canada427 Posts
January 11 2010 06:28 GMT
#13
On January 11 2010 15:23 Hypnosis wrote:
Already sent it.


What a cold way to break it off with someone. She's going to have a lot of questions, at least talk to her on the phone if you can't in person.
Shauni
Profile Blog Joined July 2004
4077 Posts
January 11 2010 06:30 GMT
#14
On January 11 2010 15:27 Hypnosis wrote:
It's blog worthy. What's the big deal I am not asking for a reviser from team fuckin liquid man. I just wanted to write it somewhere..

Also she is such an innocent girl I want to let her down gently with as little drama as possible and I do not want to hear her cry over the phone..


LOL what is this blog for then? And why so formal?
I'm taking whatever coverage I can get, because frankly, I'm busy working on this million dollar deal at my job. Early retirement is a good thing brotha man. - MessengerASL
Hypnosis
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States2061 Posts
January 11 2010 06:37 GMT
#15
I really don't know right now leave me alone about my reasoning behind posting a blog jesus christ! I think I am just trying to find excuses for just not liking her..But I can't say to her because I must have led her on terribly.
Science without religion is lame, Religion without science is blind
littlechava
Profile Blog Joined March 2004
United States7218 Posts
January 11 2010 06:40 GMT
#16
should have sent her a break up text instead.
Entusman #12
ForTheSwarm
Profile Blog Joined April 2009
United States556 Posts
January 11 2010 06:40 GMT
#17
On January 11 2010 15:27 Hypnosis wrote:...and I do not want to hear her cry over the phone..


Really? Honestly? This is why you ended things with a letter? Cold man...
Whenever I see a dropship, my asshole tingles, because it knows whats coming... - TheAntZ
Hypnosis
Profile Blog Joined October 2007
United States2061 Posts
January 11 2010 06:51 GMT
#18
It's not cold, we can be friends..
Science without religion is lame, Religion without science is blind
shurgen
Profile Joined October 2009
350 Posts
January 11 2010 06:54 GMT
#19
I know its tough to see in your situation, but it really is pretty cold =(
esla_sol
Profile Blog Joined September 2008
United States756 Posts
January 11 2010 06:57 GMT
#20
i guess it beats the break up bat through your windshield.


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