I agree; it is cold, and she likely won't want to be friends with you. Saying that you didn't want to hear her cry means you don't have the guts to face up to the consequences, and your letter was full of empty words and devoid of any actual emotion.

Mickey

United States2606 Posts

January 11 2010 07:01 GMT

#22

I guess he was trying to avoid the awkward cryingphest the telephone conversation would of become. A cold, but smart move by his part.

edit: wait a minute, you're that guy that made that thread. Wow...

iNcontroL

USA29055 Posts

January 11 2010 07:08 GMT

#23

letter was a terrible idea.

But if you've only seen her 4-5 times in person I don't think this is that bad. Sounds like a real infantile relationship in which case tactics like this aren't so bad.

Some people just stop calling/talking rofl.. at least you aren't as bad as them

Hypnosis

United States2061 Posts

January 11 2010 07:12 GMT

#24

Yea I want to end this early so it does not escalate into a shitfest where she ends up hating me. I'm sorry for a lack of background here guys I just wanted to write it somewhere.

Canada4732 Posts

January 11 2010 07:20 GMT

#25

Ethan, you have a big dick and you are destined for success. Trust me, I can tell by your letter.

Pengu1n

United States552 Posts

January 11 2010 07:42 GMT

#26

man that must be a horrible letter to read

DeathSpank

United States1029 Posts

January 11 2010 07:52 GMT

#27

damn ethan you a dick.

Romance_us

Seychelles1806 Posts

January 11 2010 08:00 GMT

#28

Mind saying how she took it at least?

Zoler

Sweden6339 Posts

January 11 2010 08:00 GMT

#29

You sent a fucking letter? -.- dude.....

Probe.

United States877 Posts

January 11 2010 09:15 GMT

#30

On January 11 2010 14:58 Hypnosis wrote:
Hey guys I have decided to break my relationship off with my GF because things are not working out well

. I can't see her in person soon so i wrote her a letter. Please leave feedback.

+ Show Spoiler +

Dear [name removed],
I would generally tell you this in person because it is the mature thing to do but I am not sure when I will see you next.
I really think that we should not be in a relationship right now for a few reasons. First off, we hardly get to see each other. I have only seen you in person four or five times in real life and to me it is pretty painful to only see you once in a while; to that I am sure you agree. This separation causes a few problems when we do see each other. We are so close when I come up to Foco or Sterling that it is almost overwhelming and I always feel shitty at the end of the day because I know that it only lasts a day and then I have to wait again to see you. You moving to Foco would help a little bit but while I am in school I work most weekends and pretty soon those hours are going to be vital in order for me to afford my schooling. Please do not take this the wrong way because it could be easily distorted. I am willing to talk about it if you would like but my phone died again and my new one won’t be here until next week so you would need to call me.

-Ethan

WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU ASK FOR FEEDBACK AFTER YOU ALREADY SENT IT????

dangots0ul

United States919 Posts

January 11 2010 09:17 GMT

#31

wait for your phone to come then call her and talk about it. Its WTF if you do it over the letter and then say u can't call me during the crucial moment

Leg[end]

United States241 Posts

January 11 2010 09:58 GMT

#32

I don't believe a letter is the best way to go about this in most cases. However, I can understand that other methods would be difficult (given the circumstances).

You obviously care very much for this girl, and I think you should consider trying to work things out. That is only my opinion, though. Good luck to you.

Lemonwalrus

United States5465 Posts

January 11 2010 10:03 GMT

#33

On January 11 2010 16:08 {88}iNcontroL wrote:
Some people just stop calling/talking rofl.. at least you aren't as bad as them

How many times do I have to apologize for that inc?

theron[wdt]

United States395 Posts

January 11 2010 10:45 GMT

#34

not to sound rude but be a man and tell her in person

MountainDewJunkie

United States10344 Posts

January 11 2010 10:53 GMT

#35

No balls.

micronesia

United States24740 Posts

January 11 2010 11:47 GMT

#36

On January 11 2010 15:37 Hypnosis wrote:
I really don't know right now leave me alone about my reasoning behind posting a blog jesus christ!

There's an epidemic of people making blogs with copies of things they wrote after they already sent/submitted it. I had a feeling this would be one of them which explains my question in the first reply of this thread.

madnessman

United States1581 Posts

January 11 2010 12:03 GMT

#37

On January 11 2010 18:15 Probe. wrote:

Show nested quote +

WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU ASK FOR FEEDBACK AFTER YOU ALREADY SENT IT????

For future break-up letters?

Caphe

Vietnam10817 Posts

January 11 2010 14:16 GMT

#38

On January 11 2010 21:03 madnessman wrote:

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For future break-up letters?

You stole my line, lol.
But honestly I think the OP is being a coward, not to call her or tell her in person.
Me and my gf always agree that, if we are ever going to break up we would tell each other face to face.

Chromyne

Canada561 Posts

January 11 2010 14:36 GMT

#39

On January 11 2010 15:04 lOvOlUNiMEDiA wrote:
Sounds like BS

Just tell her you don't like her that much -- because if you were digging her you would surmount these small difficulties.

typo

I get a similar impression. It seems from your letter that you really look forward to your time spent with her and hate it when you're apart. That's generally a good thing in relationships.