Long story short, GF told me she had a BIG surprise for me for Christmas.
It's a baby. She's pregnant.
SHE'S BEEN ON THE PILL FFS.
RAGEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Been trying to convince her to Ctrl+QQ on the fetus, but she wants to keep it because it's very likely we'll get married anyway after we graduate, plus she's Christian and loves kids.
Guess I'll have to keep trying. That or I'll have to grease the bathtub and stairs in a few months.
I FINALLY talked some sense into her. WHEW, dodged a bullet, I did.
Everything is well, once again. I'm wearing rubber no matter what from now on.
Edit:
On December 28 2009 11:50 plated.rawr wrote: Let her know that she's: - About to have nine months of mood swings and homrone imbalance, pain and exhaustion - About to get the followup one year of stress and sleep deprivation - Most probably going to lose her figure from the maternal eating and baby stretching - Ruining any chance you two had to travel the world and see new places for twenty years - Ruining any chance you two had to get higher education. Enjoy a low-payed high-stress job - Alienating friends due to the increased responsibility and unavailability of childcare - Not fully mentally aged yet, which will negatively impact her parenting and raising of the child - Statistically more likely to break up with the father due to the mental age and stress factors than a more mature mother would avoid.
If you really love her though, go for it. As long as the love lasts, you'll have the motivation to accomplish anything.
If you've got any kind of doubts though, talk to her properly - don't leave anything unsaid that'll pain you later down the line.
Thanks, good and needed advice.
On December 28 2009 13:14 orgolove wrote: You are a fucking idiot. Holy shit, what were you fucking THINKING? AT 20?!?! Man, I feel so sorry for your child. Not only did you ruin your own life, you ruined the life of both your wife and the unborn child as well.
Just burn in hell and die. I can see it now, 15 years from now, you living in your trailer park trash heap, your kid already a star in the local gang, you becoming an alcoholic drowning your sorrows away after your wife left you. I hope you die a horrible death.
Figures, this guy's from Vatican City. Regardless, I lol'ed.
Moral of the story:
When someone tells you they have a BIG surprise for you for Christmas, brace yourself. Chances are it's going to be I'm coming out of the closet / I crashed your car / You're adopted / I'm pregnant with your child / I smurfed your D- ass when I'm actually B+.
Why are people giving "Christmas" presents that suck.
I've read of someone on reddit who told her husband that she had a big surprise for him on Christmas and it ended up being divorce papers. Then I talked to a girl whose brother came out to her family he was gay (although it was probably because it was one of the few times he had the opportunity of seeing his family aside from being in University) and now this. People either don't take things seriously enough or they just like fucking with each other. If I was in any of the situations above I'd give them my own "Christmas" present.
dude.... omg I'd rage so hard, I know I'm supposed to say congratulations, but as a man, usually the reaction is FFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU, at least mine would.... -.- oh god, use lots of grease
One missed pill can be all it takes... but seriously, it could be a crazy health hazard for the kid if she took pills after she got pregnant. Since the option of having a kid is there, you've GOT to make sure when she stopped, not only for the option of strangling her if she lied to you about using them. On a positive note, I know people who've been trying to have kids for two years now, and while enthusiastic about their work are not as successful.
Don't worry, your girlfriend could just pull a blizzard and keep the baby in development for like 5 years. Then you won't have to worry about it for a while.
On December 28 2009 10:47 WheelOfTime wrote: Long story short, GF told me she had a BIG surprise for me for Christmas.
It's a baby. She's pregnant.
SHE'S BEEN ON THE PILL FFS.
RAGEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Been trying to convince her to Ctrl+QQ on the fetus, but she wants to keep it because it's very likely we'll get married anyway after we graduate, plus she's Christian and loves kids.
Guess I'll have to keep trying. That or I'll have to grease the bathtub and stairs in a few months.
Look on the bright side; you may actually get to see your great grandchildren, having a kid so young, and you're practically guaranteed in having someone look after you when you're old and burying you when you die.
The first few years will be a pain, but things will work out. It's not that bad, just more a of a nuisance.
And here they come the pro life arguers (how unexpected). Ofcourse nobody is thinking about the poor kid who has to grow up with at least one parent who thinks his whole existence is a disaster. I mean seriously, think good about it, and if you can't manage to see a positive side in this don't screw up your life (and that of that kid).
Thank god all my gf's would have aborted if necessary. Thank god even more all the years infront of my radioactive monitors probably ruined my sperm.
Gl. For real though, a lot of people I know your age with kids are happy about it and say its the best thing that's ever happened to them. Your life may suck but you may learn to find pleasure in the mundane shitty aspects of life
Ugh. Tell your girlfriend that 20 year olds have nothing to offer a child, because you haven't lived yet yourselves.
On December 28 2009 11:24 MiniRoman wrote: For real though, a lot of people I know your age with kids are happy about it and say its the best thing that's ever happened to them.
Willfully ignorant. I love kids, but the 20s should offer more opportunity than any other time in your life, and you're both going to resent missing that. You establish complete independence, you're given access to all liberties, you're at your peak of attractiveness, and you're less tied to things like jobs/families which allows you to travel and experience the world. After you do all that, then you have kids. 1-18 are meaningless years.
Let her know that she's: - About to have nine months of mood swings and homrone imbalance, pain and exhaustion - About to get the followup one year of stress and sleep deprivation - Most probably going to lose her figure from the maternal eating and baby stretching - Ruining any chance you two had to travel the world and see new places for twenty years - Ruining any chance you two had to get higher education. Enjoy a low-payed high-stress job - Alienating friends due to the increased responsibility and unavailability of childcare - Not fully mentally aged yet, which will negatively impact her parenting and raising of the child - Statistically more likely to break up with the father due to the mental age and stress factors than a more mature mother would avoid.
If you really love her though, go for it. As long as the love lasts, you'll have the motivation to accomplish anything.
If you've got any kind of doubts though, talk to her properly - don't leave anything unsaid that'll pain you later down the line.
On December 28 2009 11:50 plated.rawr wrote: Let her know that she's: - About to have nine months of mood swings and homrone imbalance, pain and exhaustion - About to get the followup one year of stress and sleep deprivation - Most probably going to lose her figure from the maternal eating and baby stretching - Ruining any chance you two had to travel the world and see new places for twenty years - Ruining any chance you two had to get higher education. Enjoy a low-payed high-stress job - Alienating friends due to the increased responsibility and unavailability of childcare - Not fully mentally aged yet, which will negatively impact her parenting and raising of the child - Statistically more likely to break up with the father due to the mental age and stress factors than a more mature mother would avoid.
If you really love her though, go for it. As long as the love lasts, you'll have the motivation to accomplish anything.
If you've got any kind of doubts though, talk to her properly - don't leave anything unsaid that'll pain you later down the line.
100% agreed.
Edit: Especially about the "- Ruining any chance you two had to get higher education. Enjoy a low-payed high-stress job" My cousin was 18 when she got prego and they are 37ish now living in a small one. one works at a restaurent as the waitress the other just lost his job working at a radio station..At least they're happy? think again.
On December 28 2009 11:27 Magic84 wrote: A child is the greatest thing ever, especially if the woman is desirable, hot/smart, so i don't see the problem here.
AT 20? You're out of your mind.
I'd never ever want a kid in my 20's. I still have things to do. Maybe when im 28-30..MAYBE. Also yay pro-lifers -.- Not your damn decision.
On December 28 2009 11:27 Magic84 wrote: A child is the greatest thing ever, especially if the woman is desirable, hot/smart, so i don't see the problem here.
AT 20? You're out of your mind.
I'd never ever want a kid in my 20's. I still have things to do. Maybe when im 28-30..MAYBE. Also yay pro-lifers -.- Not your damn decision.
Oh no... we're not allowed to post our opinion on the internetz...
On December 24 2009 08:05 Bosu wrote: Next week you will make a blog about your girlfriends big surprise for xmas will be that she is pregnant.
I can see it now: "HELL NO, life hates me"
LOL
lmfao. But seriously, this SUCKS for OP. This is life changing, and not necessarily in a good way when you're not ready for it. That was a bit of a bitch move to "surprise" you during Christmas as well.
On December 28 2009 11:32 Mastermind wrote: Your gf is a bitch for springing that on you at Christmas when she knew before. That must have ruined your entire day life.
heh, i was thinking she was pregnant from your last blog but someone already posted it so i didn't bother but now i should of so i could of said "I told you so" xDD
You are a fucking idiot. Holy shit, what were you fucking THINKING? AT 20?!?! Man, I feel so sorry for your child. Not only did you ruin your own life, you ruined the life of both your wife and the unborn child as well.
Just burn in hell and die. I can see it now, 15 years from now, you living in your trailer park trash heap, your kid already a star in the local gang, you becoming an alcoholic drowning your sorrows away after your wife left you. I hope you die a horrible death.
On December 28 2009 13:14 orgolove wrote: You are a fucking idiot. Holy shit, what were you fucking THINKING? AT 20?!?! Man, I feel so sorry for your child. Not only did you ruin your own life, you ruined the life of both your wife and the unborn child as well.
Just burn in hell and die. I can see it now, 15 years from now, you living in your trailer park trash heap, your kid already a star in the local gang, you becoming an alcoholic drowning your sorrows away after your wife left you. I hope you die a horrible death.
Holy crap O.O issues?
Anyways, good luck with the nooblet. If she keeps it. train it to be the best SC2 foreigner in the world. =D
On December 28 2009 13:14 orgolove wrote: You are a fucking idiot. Holy shit, what were you fucking THINKING? AT 20?!?! Man, I feel so sorry for your child. Not only did you ruin your own life, you ruined the life of both your wife and the unborn child as well.
Just burn in hell and die. I can see it now, 15 years from now, you living in your trailer park trash heap, your kid already a star in the local gang, you becoming an alcoholic drowning your sorrows away after your wife left you. I hope you die a horrible death.
Not everyone believes in "hell", and I have a number of friends (my parents included) who have had great lives despite having extremely young parents. My best friends mom was a coke addict and got pregnant at 14, the guy was a coke addict as well, at like 17. Both are doing extremely well, and my friend had a great life, and is doing great him self.
Also, you should be hoping the best for him, not telling him to die. What kind of asshole tells someone to die if they might have a kid? You'd kill a guy and send him to hell because hes twenty years old?
My mom got pregnant at seventeen and had three children, both my dad and her were alcoholics and speed addicts, no education and living away from their [poor and estranged] families. Were upper middle class now. Fuck I hate this generational thinking of "if your not rich, your kids life will be terrible and your an evil person". Its just so fucking pathetic on a variety of levels.
On December 28 2009 13:14 orgolove wrote: You are a fucking idiot. Holy shit, what were you fucking THINKING? AT 20?!?! Man, I feel so sorry for your child. Not only did you ruin your own life, you ruined the life of both your wife and the unborn child as well.
Just burn in hell and die. I can see it now, 15 years from now, you living in your trailer park trash heap, your kid already a star in the local gang, you becoming an alcoholic drowning your sorrows away after your wife left you. I hope you die a horrible death.
On December 28 2009 14:09 yhnmk wrote: My mom got pregnant at seventeen and had three children, both my dad and her were alcoholics and speed addicts, no education and living away from their [poor and estranged] families. Were upper middle class now. Fuck I hate this generational thinking of "if your not rich, your kids life will be terrible and your an evil person". Its just so fucking pathetic on a variety of levels.
Your parents are an exception to a long line of failures.
Age is a concept. Some of the posts here are ridiculous. Don't let age be a factor in any decision making. I know 40 year olds who are more childish than 25 year olds I know. Age is a NUMBER. Nothing more. However, with the attitude you've taken towards this pregnancy I do hope she aborts it asap.
On December 28 2009 14:09 yhnmk wrote: My mom got pregnant at seventeen and had three children, both my dad and her were alcoholics and speed addicts, no education and living away from their [poor and estranged] families. Were upper middle class now. Fuck I hate this generational thinking of "if your not rich, your kids life will be terrible and your an evil person". Its just so fucking pathetic on a variety of levels.
When your mom got pregnant college degrees weren't mandatory for most jobs like they are today.
On December 28 2009 14:09 yhnmk wrote: My mom got pregnant at seventeen and had three children, both my dad and her were alcoholics and speed addicts, no education and living away from their [poor and estranged] families. Were upper middle class now. Fuck I hate this generational thinking of "if your not rich, your kids life will be terrible and your an evil person". Its just so fucking pathetic on a variety of levels.
When your mom got pregnant college degrees weren't mandatory for most jobs like they are today.
Thats not relevant to my point. My point was that, regardless of how fucked up your circumstances are [and this was during a recession, at that] social mobility is very high in the west. Especially in America and Canada. You can make it with sacrifice. And beyond that, being relatively poor does not make a bad life, people are far too materialistic. My parents were still drunks when my sister was growing up and they lived in a roach infested apartment, no money, hand me down clothes. Does my sister regret her childhood? No. She was happy. She still IS happy. People associate being poor instantly with a shitty life, or adoption or the product of rape, all these children are instantly fucked. No they are not. And its just such a load of bullshit when people just presume failure and unhappiness and suggest "humane" actions [really, things just to alleviate responsibility so they can maintain their adolescence] to relieve them of a "horrible existence". Nobody should have that right but, ultimately, I'd wish that nobody was so arrogant and stupid as to presume what is a quality life before its even lived.
Anyways, doesn't matter if my parents and my life was an exception to the rule. Even if his kid grows up in a poor family, or in circumstances that arent ideal, there is a chance for happiness and a good future. If the Dad gets his head out of his fucking ass, mans up and acts responsibly.
On December 28 2009 14:09 yhnmk wrote: My mom got pregnant at seventeen and had three children, both my dad and her were alcoholics and speed addicts, no education and living away from their [poor and estranged] families. Were upper middle class now. Fuck I hate this generational thinking of "if your not rich, your kids life will be terrible and your an evil person". Its just so fucking pathetic on a variety of levels.
When your mom got pregnant college degrees weren't mandatory for most jobs like they are today.
Thats not relevant to my point. My point was that, regardless of how fucked up your circumstances are [and this was during a recession, at that] social mobility is very high in the west. Especially in America and Canada. You can make it with sacrifice. And beyond that, being relatively poor does not make a bad life, people are far too materialistic. My parents were still drunks when my sister was growing up and they lived in a roach infested apartment, no money, hand me down clothes. Does my sister regret her childhood? No. She was happy. She still IS happy. People associate being poor instantly with a shitty life, or adoption or the product of rape, all these children are instantly fucked. No they are not. And its just such a load of bullshit when people just presume failure and unhappiness and suggest "humane" actions [really, things just to alleviate responsibility so they can maintain their adolescence] to relieve them of a "horrible existence". Nobody should have that right but, ultimately, I'd wish that nobody was so arrogant and stupid as to presume what is a quality life before its even lived.
Anyways, doesn't matter if my parents and my life was an exception to the rule. Even if his kid grows up in a poor family, or in circumstances that arent ideal, there is a chance for happiness and a good future. If the Dad gets his head out of his fucking ass, mans up and acts responsibly.
Statistically speaking, teenage pregnancy is bad for the father, the mother and the child. No one is saying the children are "instantly fucked", but their lives will be much harder than others. Yes, things *might* work out, but more likely, they won't. The OP has every reason to be concerned.
Yes, even if the kid grows up in non-ideal circumstances, there is still a chance for happiness; but if the kid grows up in ideal circumstances, he will have a much higher chance for happiness. I don't understand your point.
I guess you should try answering these questions...
Are (both of) you still in school? Are you financially independent? Can you afford to have a child? Are your parents willing to lend support if necessary? Are you (you alone) ready to be a father?
Guess I'll have to keep trying. That or I'll have to grease the bathtub and stairs in a few months.
It seems to me that you aren't 100% on the child, then you should really try to persuade her into giving it up. If she doesn't agree... then good luck (with life and the greasing of stairs).
On December 28 2009 10:47 WheelOfTime wrote: Long story short, GF told me she had a BIG surprise for me for Christmas.
It's a baby. She's pregnant.
SHE'S BEEN ON THE PILL FFS.
RAGEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Been trying to convince her to Ctrl+QQ on the fetus, but she wants to keep it because it's very likely we'll get married anyway after we graduate, plus she's Christian and loves kids.
Guess I'll have to keep trying. That or I'll have to grease the bathtub and stairs in a few months.
On December 28 2009 11:50 plated.rawr wrote: Let her know that she's: - About to have nine months of mood swings and homrone imbalance, pain and exhaustion - About to get the followup one year of stress and sleep deprivation - Most probably going to lose her figure from the maternal eating and baby stretching - Ruining any chance you two had to travel the world and see new places for twenty years - Ruining any chance you two had to get higher education. Enjoy a low-payed high-stress job - Alienating friends due to the increased responsibility and unavailability of childcare - Not fully mentally aged yet, which will negatively impact her parenting and raising of the child - Statistically more likely to break up with the father due to the mental age and stress factors than a more mature mother would avoid.
If you really love her though, go for it. As long as the love lasts, you'll have the motivation to accomplish anything.
If you've got any kind of doubts though, talk to her properly - don't leave anything unsaid that'll pain you later down the line.
On December 28 2009 13:14 orgolove wrote: You are a fucking idiot. Holy shit, what were you fucking THINKING? AT 20?!?! Man, I feel so sorry for your child. Not only did you ruin your own life, you ruined the life of both your wife and the unborn child as well.
Just burn in hell and die. I can see it now, 15 years from now, you living in your trailer park trash heap, your kid already a star in the local gang, you becoming an alcoholic drowning your sorrows away after your wife left you. I hope you die a horrible death.
Figures, this guy's from Vatican City. Regardless, I lol'ed.
Moral of the story:
When someone tells you they have a BIG surprise for you for Christmas, brace yourself. Chances are it's going to be I'm coming out of the closet / I crashed your car / You're adopted / I'm pregnant with your child / I smurfed your D- ass when I'm actually B+.
On December 28 2009 10:47 WheelOfTime wrote: Long story short, GF told me she had a BIG surprise for me for Christmas.
It's a baby. She's pregnant.
SHE'S BEEN ON THE PILL FFS.
RAGEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Been trying to convince her to Ctrl+QQ on the fetus, but she wants to keep it because it's very likely we'll get married anyway after we graduate, plus she's Christian and loves kids.
Guess I'll have to keep trying. That or I'll have to grease the bathtub and stairs in a few months.
On December 28 2009 11:50 plated.rawr wrote: Let her know that she's: - About to have nine months of mood swings and homrone imbalance, pain and exhaustion - About to get the followup one year of stress and sleep deprivation - Most probably going to lose her figure from the maternal eating and baby stretching - Ruining any chance you two had to travel the world and see new places for twenty years - Ruining any chance you two had to get higher education. Enjoy a low-payed high-stress job - Alienating friends due to the increased responsibility and unavailability of childcare - Not fully mentally aged yet, which will negatively impact her parenting and raising of the child - Statistically more likely to break up with the father due to the mental age and stress factors than a more mature mother would avoid.
If you really love her though, go for it. As long as the love lasts, you'll have the motivation to accomplish anything.
If you've got any kind of doubts though, talk to her properly - don't leave anything unsaid that'll pain you later down the line.
On December 28 2009 13:14 orgolove wrote: You are a fucking idiot. Holy shit, what were you fucking THINKING? AT 20?!?! Man, I feel so sorry for your child. Not only did you ruin your own life, you ruined the life of both your wife and the unborn child as well.
Just burn in hell and die. I can see it now, 15 years from now, you living in your trailer park trash heap, your kid already a star in the local gang, you becoming an alcoholic drowning your sorrows away after your wife left you. I hope you die a horrible death.
Figures, this guy's from Vatican City. Regardless, I lol'ed.
Moral of the story:
When someone tells you they have a BIG surprise for you for Christmas, brace yourself. Chances are it's going to be I'm coming out of the closet / I crashed your car / You're adopted / I'm pregnant with your child / I smurfed your D- ass when I'm actually B+.
They should really make you an admin so you can stop quoting every single semi-interesting blog -_-
On December 28 2009 10:47 WheelOfTime wrote: Long story short, GF told me she had a BIG surprise for me for Christmas.
It's a baby. She's pregnant.
SHE'S BEEN ON THE PILL FFS.
RAGEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
Been trying to convince her to Ctrl+QQ on the fetus, but she wants to keep it because it's very likely we'll get married anyway after we graduate, plus she's Christian and loves kids.
Guess I'll have to keep trying. That or I'll have to grease the bathtub and stairs in a few months.
On December 28 2009 11:50 plated.rawr wrote: Let her know that she's: - About to have nine months of mood swings and homrone imbalance, pain and exhaustion - About to get the followup one year of stress and sleep deprivation - Most probably going to lose her figure from the maternal eating and baby stretching - Ruining any chance you two had to travel the world and see new places for twenty years - Ruining any chance you two had to get higher education. Enjoy a low-payed high-stress job - Alienating friends due to the increased responsibility and unavailability of childcare - Not fully mentally aged yet, which will negatively impact her parenting and raising of the child - Statistically more likely to break up with the father due to the mental age and stress factors than a more mature mother would avoid.
If you really love her though, go for it. As long as the love lasts, you'll have the motivation to accomplish anything.
If you've got any kind of doubts though, talk to her properly - don't leave anything unsaid that'll pain you later down the line.
On December 28 2009 13:14 orgolove wrote: You are a fucking idiot. Holy shit, what were you fucking THINKING? AT 20?!?! Man, I feel so sorry for your child. Not only did you ruin your own life, you ruined the life of both your wife and the unborn child as well.
Just burn in hell and die. I can see it now, 15 years from now, you living in your trailer park trash heap, your kid already a star in the local gang, you becoming an alcoholic drowning your sorrows away after your wife left you. I hope you die a horrible death.
Figures, this guy's from Vatican City. Regardless, I lol'ed.
Moral of the story:
When someone tells you they have a BIG surprise for you for Christmas, brace yourself. Chances are it's going to be I'm coming out of the closet / I crashed your car / You're adopted / I'm pregnant with your child / I smurfed your D- ass when I'm actually B+.
They should really make you an admin so you can stop quoting every single semi-interesting blog -_-
No, there's a secret way to stop admins from doing that.
On December 28 2009 19:48 Draconizard wrote: You participated in intercourse, the prime function of which is procreation, yet sound disappointed, even outraged, at the result.
I lol'ed. That's not really why humans do it, you know?
On December 28 2009 19:48 Draconizard wrote: You participated in intercourse, the prime function of which is procreation, yet sound disappointed, even outraged, at the result.
I lol'ed. That's not really why humans do it, you know?
On December 28 2009 14:09 yhnmk wrote: My mom got pregnant at seventeen and had three children, both my dad and her were alcoholics and speed addicts, no education and living away from their [poor and estranged] families. Were upper middle class now. Fuck I hate this generational thinking of "if your not rich, your kids life will be terrible and your an evil person". Its just so fucking pathetic on a variety of levels.
When your mom got pregnant college degrees weren't mandatory for most jobs like they are today.
Thats not relevant to my point. My point was that, regardless of how fucked up your circumstances are [and this was during a recession, at that] social mobility is very high in the west. Especially in America and Canada. You can make it with sacrifice. And beyond that, being relatively poor does not make a bad life, people are far too materialistic. My parents were still drunks when my sister was growing up and they lived in a roach infested apartment, no money, hand me down clothes. Does my sister regret her childhood? No. She was happy. She still IS happy. People associate being poor instantly with a shitty life, or adoption or the product of rape, all these children are instantly fucked. No they are not. And its just such a load of bullshit when people just presume failure and unhappiness and suggest "humane" actions [really, things just to alleviate responsibility so they can maintain their adolescence] to relieve them of a "horrible existence". Nobody should have that right but, ultimately, I'd wish that nobody was so arrogant and stupid as to presume what is a quality life before its even lived.
Anyways, doesn't matter if my parents and my life was an exception to the rule. Even if his kid grows up in a poor family, or in circumstances that arent ideal, there is a chance for happiness and a good future. If the Dad gets his head out of his fucking ass, mans up and acts responsibly.
Statistically speaking, teenage pregnancy is bad for the father, the mother and the child. No one is saying the children are "instantly fucked", but their lives will be much harder than others. Yes, things *might* work out, but more likely, they won't. The OP has every reason to be concerned.
Yes, even if the kid grows up in non-ideal circumstances, there is still a chance for happiness; but if the kid grows up in ideal circumstances, he will have a much higher chance for happiness. I don't understand your point.
The stats there are interesting, the USA which have a very high age of consent and very low tolerance for nakedness also tops the chart of teen pregnancies by a very large margin. Also I am happy to see that 70% of the teen pregnancies are aborted in my country That is a sign that we don't pressure them into keeping it like you do in more conservative countries.
You obviously should dump her, fuck her, she did it on her own... But, by the other hand you should be responsible for your kid. She is not getting an abortion, you are not getting married. She fuck you up, lie to you and doesnt give a shit about your opinion.
But, your kid is your kid. Be responsible, be a man.
i guess you got ass saved usually i am fine with whatever tasteless jokes people make but trivilazing abortion with comments like "alt-qq" and "mission aborted" especially when it's your own fucking fetus you are talking about seems bit off-putting
On December 29 2009 06:30 phosphorylation wrote: i guess you got ass saved usually i am fine with whatever tasteless jokes people make but trivilazing abortion with comments like "alt-qq" and "mission aborted" especially when it's your own fucking fetus you are talking about seems bit off-putting
Give him some rest, his whole life just flashed in front of his eyes.
Just think of it this way, Phosphor. It's potential for life, as the majority has agreed that death is no brain activity and/or the stoppage of the heart. If we assume said potential for life did not have either of those, it wasn't actually alive.
Also, everyone goes to Heaven so it's not like it will be sent to hell, and as long as it doesn't have any pain, there really shouldn't be any worries.
On December 29 2009 06:30 phosphorylation wrote: i guess you got ass saved usually i am fine with whatever tasteless jokes people make but trivilazing abortion with comments like "alt-qq" and "mission aborted" especially when it's your own fucking fetus you are talking about seems bit off-putting
Agreed. I think you both probably made the safest choice, but don't desensitize the issue like this. I can guarantee you she'd flip shit if she heard you say "mission aborted."
On December 29 2009 06:30 phosphorylation wrote: i guess you got ass saved usually i am fine with whatever tasteless jokes people make but trivilazing abortion with comments like "alt-qq" and "mission aborted" especially when it's your own fucking fetus you are talking about seems bit off-putting
Agreed. I think you both probably made the safest choice, but don't desensitize the issue like this. I can guarantee you she'd flip shit if she heard you say "mission aborted."
I agree completely.
I only act like this when I'm on TL.
I have my real-life professional side ofc, I am working at an accounting firm after all. It's just... the relief that rushed over me when she finally said she'd abort it... it was overwhelming, I had to sit down and almost cried in joy.
And to all the pro-lifers... give me a break please, it's a 3 week old fetus. No one is killing anything or going to hell, thanks.
Close call there.. its for the best but it's always a hard decision to make. it might not be human but it's hard not to feel anything for it. Shitty timing though, waiting for Christmas to announce it.
On December 29 2009 15:24 {CC}StealthBlue wrote: If you were adult enough to have sex then be grown up enough to be a father ffs.
Also mission aborted wtf?
Bullshit. We're physically capable of reproduction by age 12 because our lifespan when we were still fighting for survival with other creatures of nature was less than 30 years old.
God, I fucking hate that argument. Good job on the abortion. Don't need one more baby crowding up this already overpopulated planet, nor do we need said child screwed up for life because the marriage lasted 2 years after the kid was born and whatnot.
Edit: Also, don't trust anyone but yourself. She very well could be taking the pill like she says, but one missed day and you have a pregnancy. You lucked out and it was either chance that she got pregnant or she screwed up. Many women are worse and will lie to you so they can get pregnant. Wrap up your junk so shit like that doesn't happen.
I've heard on several accounts that some of the crazier women will wait until you're passed out/left the room/whatever to take your used condom and pour the semen in to their vagoos to get pregnant. If you even suspect for a minute that a girl you're dating is crazy, put some hot sauce in your condom after you're done. This goes for anyone who's worried about getting a girl pregnant. Maternal instinct SUCKS
On December 29 2009 06:30 phosphorylation wrote: i guess you got ass saved usually i am fine with whatever tasteless jokes people make but trivilazing abortion with comments like "alt-qq" and "mission aborted" especially when it's your own fucking fetus you are talking about seems bit off-putting
Agreed. I think you both probably made the safest choice, but don't desensitize the issue like this. I can guarantee you she'd flip shit if she heard you say "mission aborted."
Eh desensitizing it makes it easier then if you take it overly serious. Obviously he's learned his lesson which is key and i think he believe that abortion is not a form of birth control but i rather tell myself MISSION ABORTED then "oh my god my gf killed my potential offspring" for the rest of my life.
I dont mean to be a jerk but this make me laugh as I read your Life is good blog a few days ago . Anyway, its said to abort the baby but i think it is good for your and her life. Just be careful from now on. Wear the goddam condom!!!. Try the feather thin one from durex, I didnt notice anything diffirence at all when wearing those.
Your first mistaken was having sex with someone who is pro-life. Your second mistake was not using a condom. Your third mistake was believing a girl that says she's on the pill. Your fourth mistake is celebrating, because down the line, she is going to throw this back in your face so bad, you have no idea.
All for the best, really. That child is lucky to not exist. Who wants a father who wanted them aborted and a mother who calls herself Christian but puts out for her boyfriend?
The news must have given you the rage of the Brooklyn variety:
On a serious note, I kind of feel sorry for your girlfriend. Women that had abortion have a lot of trouble later on when they want to get pregnant. You may be celebrating the fact now, but if your relationship lasts long enough that you will eventually want to start a family, it will come back to haunt you.
Nevertheless, I suppose aborting the pregnancy is the lesser evil, considering that you and your girlfriend are not in a position to take care of a child.
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That is a sign that we don't pressure them into keeping it like you do in more conservative countries. 
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