So basically it was our first time trying weed. We are all AP students and stuff and thought it would be a fun experience. Basically we were all over at my friend andrew's house cause his parents left. We were smoking outside and when a couple of us went inside to make some food, his parents came home to get a phone. They realized that it smelled smokey but no smell of weed. They checked around and started asking questions. We were also going to smoke sheesha that night too. Basically what they found was a bag with a hookah inside, maybe the pipe but not sure, and a jar where i put the weed inside. we left and i was so scared and wanted to get the hell out of there that i left my jacket and shoes there. We had a total of 6 people there. 3 of them jumped the wall cause they were the ones outside while 3 of us were inside making food.

should we come clean? ASIAN PARENTS but not too intense

writer22816

United States5775 Posts

December 06 2009 03:25 GMT

Don't do drugs

FXOTheoRy

United States519 Posts

December 06 2009 03:27 GMT

bad kevin!

StRyKeR

United States1756 Posts

December 06 2009 03:29 GMT

You sound like an otherwise good kid. There's no way you're gonna be able to lie to your parents face to face. Just come clean. Imagine talking to them and you KNOW that they know you're lying, and you just keep covering up. That'd be pretty awkward. Also, what if one of your friends tells but you deny? Super awkward.

DoctorHelvetica

United States15034 Posts

December 06 2009 03:31 GMT

Yes, just explain it to your parents as calmly and rationally as possible. They're going to find out anyway so there is no point in lying. Telling the truth is usually the best course of action unless you're 100% sure you can get away with lying.

echo_O

United States115 Posts

December 06 2009 03:31 GMT

hmm but the thing is that andrew's parents dont know my parents. Its like my second time going to his house because we never hung out at his place

Foreplay

United States1154 Posts

December 06 2009 03:32 GMT

ahhh the wonders of having white parents

echo_O

United States115 Posts

December 06 2009 03:38 GMT

haha i hate you Foreplay!!

Etherone

United States1898 Posts

December 06 2009 03:39 GMT

hahaha you guys suck, DENY EVERYTHING best way imo

Chef

10810 Posts

December 06 2009 03:46 GMT

#10

One day you're gonna be that guy at some party who tells a story and someone will say "Well at least you got a story out of it!" and everyone will laugh and lose a little bit of that precious thing we call individuality.

The worst that could happen is you'll get a stern talking to (and some trivial 'no something for a month).' Maybe you'll even listen. Either way it's no big deal.

LuMiX

China5758 Posts

December 06 2009 03:55 GMT

#11

etherone is right, you're even more crazy if you want to tell the parents especially since you're asian! haha

echo_O

United States115 Posts

December 06 2009 03:57 GMT

#12

my parents i dont think would get really mad, but that trust will be gone and im pretty sure ill break their hearts which i really dont want to do =(

echo_O

United States115 Posts

December 06 2009 03:59 GMT

#13

but the thing is, im hoping they thought we were going to smoke the hookah which wouldnt be as bad thats for sure

asl-ninja

78 Posts

December 06 2009 04:04 GMT

#14

dont do weed then :d

alffla

Hong Kong20321 Posts

December 06 2009 04:10 GMT

#15

just tell them ur doing some nice fruity flavoured hookah filtered through water, oh so pure you all are!

semantics

10040 Posts

December 06 2009 04:22 GMT

#16

On December 06 2009 12:32 Foreplay wrote:
ahhh the wonders of having white parents

Are we going with white parents just want their kids not to end up dead or in jail and other then all it's all about their child's happiness while Asian parents just want their kids to be successful so in by association to their kids they are better parents because their kids make money.

Haha Anyways if you're terrified of getting caught you do have to re-evaluate why you are doing it then anyways what kind of ap students take smoking weed over playing video games zeesh every time my friends came over fuck work we just gonna play melee all day.

BuGzlToOnl

United States5918 Posts

December 06 2009 04:28 GMT

#17

DENY EVERYTHING!

Kwidowmaker

Canada978 Posts

December 06 2009 04:54 GMT

#18

I wouldn't tell them.

If they bring it up, remember, you've done nothing wrong! Marijuana is about as benign as recreational drugs can go. Furthermore, as you've only tried it this one time, none of the arguments against chronic marijuana use apply to you (and all the real arguments are against chronic use). Stigma against marijuana isn't readily changed from a single, from stating these facts though, so your best bet is to hit them where it hurts. Two of the most respected scientists of the twentieth century smoked pot, and they were the readily identifiable Carl Sagan and the badass of QED, Richard Feynman.

If that doesn't work tell them to chill the fuck out and smoke a blunt with 'em