Top 5 Things to Improve to Own Life EZ! - Page 2
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Sharp-eYe
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Monstah-_-
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On October 16 2009 04:19 Frits wrote: things i hate the most 1 amateur psychology blogs 2 kpop blogs 3 iccup blogs 4 anime blogs 5 iccup blogs Wow agreed 101%!! Except anime defiantly above iccup blogs... On October 16 2009 05:26 Zinbiel wrote: Ok I already do all of this but how do I get gurls? Please tell me you really aren't from Sweden. | ||
duckett
United States589 Posts
On October 16 2009 04:10 Navane wrote: Just be. Truth. Also, this is a terrible book reference but you remind me of that bitchy nun in Jane Eyre... | ||
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FakeSteve[TPR]
Valhalla18444 Posts
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Ilikestarcraft
Korea (South)17727 Posts
On October 16 2009 04:19 Frits wrote: things i hate the most 1 amateur psychology blogs 2 kpop blogs 3 iccup blogs 4 anime blogs 5 iccup blogs things i hate the most 1 race's blogs and posts 2 kdog's blogs 3 siegetankandbluegoo's blogs and posts 4 raithed's blogs and posts good thing they dont posts blogs anymore :> | ||
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demonic_phate
United States442 Posts
op obviously has no idea what he's talking about... | ||
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France8043 Posts
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JeeJee
Canada5652 Posts
realize you're the shit and stop giving a shit all problems solved | ||
Vero
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On October 16 2009 04:54 micronesia wrote: Do you have any other tips for this? I've tried going to bed early, eating properly, and pretty much everything else you can think of but I'm always completely exhausted when I'm waking up to the point that I can't make the connection between a ringing alarm clock and pushing a snooze or off button. Check out: http://plantmiracle.com/2009/10-natural-ways-to-gain-more-energy/ | ||
Vero
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On October 16 2009 04:28 PanN wrote: Why do you make big blogs and not discuss them with the people in the blog afterwards? When someone brings up something actually worth discussing I will. | ||
Pengu1n
United States552 Posts
On October 16 2009 04:19 Frits wrote: things i hate the most 1 amateur psychology blogs 2 kpop blogs 3 iccup blogs 4 anime blogs 5 iccup blogs lol my advice to you would be stay clear of the blog section :p | ||
LordWeird
United States3411 Posts
On October 16 2009 11:43 Vero wrote: When someone brings up something actually worth discussing I will. How much do you expect people to discuss... especially since some of us aren't even convinced this is your work that you wrote specifically for TL? You post five obvious ways to make your life easier and then people ask questions and you think that it's not worth discussing? Really? If you're not going to participate at all on this site other than to post your top five lists, then I think you owe it to the people here to discuss whatever they want to discuss. | ||
Vero
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On October 17 2009 05:48 LordWeird wrote: How much do you expect people to discuss... especially since some of us aren't even convinced this is your work that you wrote specifically for TL? You post five obvious ways to make your life easier and then people ask questions and you think that it's not worth discussing? Really? If you're not going to participate at all on this site other than to post your top five lists, then I think you owe it to the people here to discuss whatever they want to discuss. When someone asks a good question I will, and I've already answered one, and I will continue to do answer good questions and participate in positive discussions. I don't respond to people insulting, bitching, disagreeing, complaining or being negative. That's my policy. Now ironically you're complaining about me and i'm responding to you. Well.. consider yourself lucky this one time because normally i wouldn't respond to such a complaint. If you're not adding value to the post you are just a nuisance, and i choose not to participate to the negativity. So, I hope you understand my reasoning. If you still don't then so be it. | ||
Mora
Canada5235 Posts
On October 18 2009 08:28 Vero wrote: When someone asks a good question I will, and I've already answered one, and I will continue to do answer good questions and participate in positive discussions. I don't respond to people insulting, bitching, disagreeing, complaining or being negative. That's my policy. Now ironically you're complaining about me and i'm responding to you. Well.. consider yourself lucky this one time because normally i wouldn't respond to such a complaint. If you're not adding value to the post you are just a nuisance, and i choose not to participate to the negativity. So, I hope you understand my reasoning. If you still don't then so be it. responding and debating criticism is key to being self-aware. the fact that most of the people in this thread think your advice is vague, unhelpful, and generally bullshit, it might be indicative that you should examine it. When someone makes a good post or makes a good point in their blog's, it's generally well received. Not saying that all these people are right and that you're full of shit, but more so that it seems counter-productive to your 4th ideal of being self-aware. good luck to you. | ||
Vero
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On October 18 2009 09:13 Mora wrote: responding and debating criticism is key to being self-aware. the fact that most of the people in this thread think your advice is vague, unhelpful, and generally bullshit, it might be indicative that you should examine it. When someone makes a good post or makes a good point in their blog's, it's generally well received. Not saying that all these people are right and that you're full of shit, but more so that it seems counter-productive to your 4th ideal of being self-aware. good luck to you. It's quite obvious to me what people think of my advice. I am well aware. Responding to criticism would not be the key to self-awareness when that criticism comes from people you don't know on the internet and a place of ill-intentions. So you are wrong in that respect. My posts are to help people who are truly seeking more knowledge. And if that leads to discussions, good. However, I have nothing to prove to anyone. You act as if im getting paid to do this, and that I need to appease everyone. If you don't like the content I write then my blog is not for you. There are plenty of other blogs for you to read. | ||
d3_crescentia
United States4054 Posts
On October 16 2009 04:54 micronesia wrote: Do you have any other tips for this? I've tried going to bed early, eating properly, and pretty much everything else you can think of but I'm always completely exhausted when I'm waking up to the point that I can't make the connection between a ringing alarm clock and pushing a snooze or off button. so you know day[9]'s podcast about building triggers in SC? turns out it's pretty similar in real life - you just have to build a trigger inside of you that goes "hear alarm, get out of bed and stay out of bed." the difference is that you ALSO have to work against an old trigger at the same time - "hear alarm, hit snooze." so you have to figure out a new trigger you want to use that's different from the old one - if you've been using the same alarm clock for the past 10 years of your life it might be good to get a new one with a different sound, or try a different radio station or playlist to wake up to, or place your alarm in a completely different part of the room, etc. exercise helps wake you up in the morning as well, but you may want to save that for a bit later for when you've actually started waking up on your own. next step is to visualize it and practice it OUTSIDE of normally waking up - set your alarm for a few minutes later, pretend to sleep, hear alarm, wake up - practicing/visualizing will help BUILD the trigger in your head before you actually have to do it. then you do it in real life, and you continue doing it or practicing it until it becomes habit. lastly it might be good to have accountability partners - i.e. someone you give/promise something significant to and call every morning by a certain time to let them know you're up and out of bed and doing shit. If you missed calling you have to do what you promised (i.e. you give them $50 to hold onto unless you miss a call and then it's theirs to spend or burn or whatever), and you do this every time you miss a call. generally speaking you'd need a really close/trusted friend to do this for you, because otherwise they might run off with your money... or worse, not care if you fuck up and hold you accountable for your words. one more thing to remember - don't try to change too many of your habits at once - if you just wanted to wake up earlier, don't change your diet and add exercise or vow to put in extra hours at your job or hobby, or else you might burn out and revert to old habits very easily. this was the biggest pitfall for me whenever I tried to change myself - all the sleeping habits, eating habits and working habits would go at the same time, but in the end missing one caused me to revert. you have to build these experiences and habits separately, one by one. | ||
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micronesia
United States24682 Posts
On October 20 2009 03:19 d3_crescentia wrote: so you know day[9]'s podcast about building triggers in SC? turns out it's pretty similar in real life - you just have to build a trigger inside of you that goes "hear alarm, get out of bed and stay out of bed." the difference is that you ALSO have to work against an old trigger at the same time - "hear alarm, hit snooze." so you have to figure out a new trigger you want to use that's different from the old one - if you've been using the same alarm clock for the past 10 years of your life it might be good to get a new one with a different sound, or try a different radio station or playlist to wake up to, or place your alarm in a completely different part of the room, etc. exercise helps wake you up in the morning as well, but you may want to save that for a bit later for when you've actually started waking up on your own. next step is to visualize it and practice it OUTSIDE of normally waking up - set your alarm for a few minutes later, pretend to sleep, hear alarm, wake up - practicing/visualizing will help BUILD the trigger in your head before you actually have to do it. then you do it in real life, and you continue doing it or practicing it until it becomes habit. lastly it might be good to have accountability partners - i.e. someone you give/promise something significant to and call every morning by a certain time to let them know you're up and out of bed and doing shit. If you missed calling you have to do what you promised (i.e. you give them $50 to hold onto unless you miss a call and then it's theirs to spend or burn or whatever), and you do this every time you miss a call. generally speaking you'd need a really close/trusted friend to do this for you, because otherwise they might run off with your money... or worse, not care if you fuck up and hold you accountable for your words. one more thing to remember - don't try to change too many of your habits at once - if you just wanted to wake up earlier, don't change your diet and add exercise or vow to put in extra hours at your job or hobby, or else you might burn out and revert to old habits very easily. this was the biggest pitfall for me whenever I tried to change myself - all the sleeping habits, eating habits and working habits would go at the same time, but in the end missing one caused me to revert. you have to build these experiences and habits separately, one by one. Interesting Post. I certainly have an accountability partner on weekdays since I must get to work on time XD Exercise isn't necessary for me since once I'm up to the point where I can sit on my computer, I'm fine. It seems like the only thing that could make a difference would be to somehow establish a trigger like what you were talking about... I need to somehow convince my body that I should stop feeling tired when it's time to get up. I don't expect myself to get up the moment the alarm first goes off since that isn't even supposed to be easy. But if I set one alarm for 5:30 by my bed so that I can snooze and another on the other side of the room at 6 to ensure I get up, then the blow should be lessened ideally. Unfortunately I am still sometimes completely exhausted by the time the second alarm goes off! | ||
LordWeird
United States3411 Posts
On October 18 2009 08:28 Vero wrote: When someone asks a good question I will, and I've already answered one, and I will continue to do answer good questions and participate in positive discussions. I don't respond to people insulting, bitching, disagreeing, complaining or being negative. That's my policy. Now ironically you're complaining about me and i'm responding to you. Well.. consider yourself lucky this one time because normally i wouldn't respond to such a complaint. If you're not adding value to the post you are just a nuisance, and i choose not to participate to the negativity. So, I hope you understand my reasoning. If you still don't then so be it. You didn't really answer anything. You basically just said "look at this link, I can't be bothered to give you any advice personally". That's not discussing anything. Actually the only posts you DID bother giving a decent reply to were Mora's and mine (and believe me, you have no idea how lucky I consider myself for that one time). Let's take a closer look at things. Top gamers: 37 replies, no replies from you other than OP Top animes: 102 replies, no replies from you other than OP Top graduations tips: 25 replies, no replies from you other than OP Top fat reasons: 67 replies, no replies from you other than OP Top NBA players: 13 replies, no replies from you other than OP This thread: 37 replies, 4 replies from you overall. Not very much actual "discussion" of topic Top beef up techniques: 25 replies, 1 reply from you being two sentences. Top rockers: 11 replies (so far), no replies from you other than OP So I've accounted for every single one of your posts right there. Something isn't right about this. Are you telling me that not a single post in any of those other threads was worth more than two sentences and/or a link? TL lets you post your blog here, right? So shouldn't you be interacting more with TL (by TL I mean the users of course)? Nobody expects you to reply to everybody but it gives off a horrible image if you don't reply to ANYBODY. | ||
ThunderGod
New Zealand897 Posts
This leads to problems getting up in the morning as you can imagine. I have two alarms on the other side of the room but sometimes sleep through both of them even though one is very loud. Even if I manage to wake up I have nausea and feel like vomiting cos I'm so exhausted and just fall asleep in class. So I struggle thorugh the week with little sleep and spend the weekend sleeeping. EDIT: Help! | ||
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