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On May 22 2008 00:15 Spike wrote:Show nested quote +On May 22 2008 00:12 Boonbag wrote:On May 22 2008 00:11 Spike wrote:On May 22 2008 00:03 Boonbag wrote: You need to fucking relax and mind your own business. He's older. so? who cares if he's older? Dont just chunk the thing. Read the following. The part of minding his own business can be quoted alone tho. dude, i don't care who or how old you are; but you should be respectful enough to keep the volume down for others to sleep.
If it's a volume issue only that can easily be solved. I don't think the main point of this stupid rant was the volume.
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On May 22 2008 00:17 thedeadhaji wrote: ok a serious reply for a change.
It sounds hard b/c obviously he doesnt value when you have to say, or what opnions you have etc. I + my friends basically coerced a good friend out of playing wow, but that was b/c we were on very good terms and we respect each other's opinions etc, + the guy himself knew wow was bad but it was like a fucking drug, etcetc.
Then again there's another friend who wont stop smoking when all of are telling him to fucking stop, so -_-.
True - it's doable, but seeing as how he only has one friend, I doubt it is very possible and because I doubt his also lazy friend will do anything about it. I've thought of sending a video or something about what I just typed (OP first post) to his girlfriend (although with less fucktacular hate), seeing as how she's his girlfriend - she must have SOME power of influence on him.
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thedeadhaji
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One idea is to have the parents kick him out, plug him into a college dorm and have HIM be responsible for paying the fees to the dorm. ie get a fucking job. $10/hour jobs are not hard to find, and if he is actually somewhat intelligient then he can go tutor some JH/HS kids for upwards of $50/hour.
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On May 22 2008 00:19 Boonbag wrote:Show nested quote +On May 22 2008 00:15 Spike wrote:On May 22 2008 00:12 Boonbag wrote:On May 22 2008 00:11 Spike wrote:On May 22 2008 00:03 Boonbag wrote: You need to fucking relax and mind your own business. He's older. so? who cares if he's older? Dont just chunk the thing. Read the following. The part of minding his own business can be quoted alone tho. dude, i don't care who or how old you are; but you should be respectful enough to keep the volume down for others to sleep. If it's a volume issue only that can easily be solved. I don't think the main point of this stupid rant was the volume.
Volume is part of it of course - just another branch.
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thedeadhaji
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On May 22 2008 00:20 XDawn wrote:Show nested quote +On May 22 2008 00:17 thedeadhaji wrote: ok a serious reply for a change.
It sounds hard b/c obviously he doesnt value when you have to say, or what opnions you have etc. I + my friends basically coerced a good friend out of playing wow, but that was b/c we were on very good terms and we respect each other's opinions etc, + the guy himself knew wow was bad but it was like a fucking drug, etcetc.
Then again there's another friend who wont stop smoking when all of are telling him to fucking stop, so -_-. True - it's doable, but seeing as how he only has one friend, I doubt it is very possible and because I doubt his also lazy friend will do anything about it. I've thought of sending a video or something about what I just typed (OP first post) to his girlfriend (although with less fucktacular hate), seeing as how she's his girlfriend - she must have SOME power of influence on him.
From what you've described, I really can't figure out even a reasonably plausible solution, other than the latest one where the parents force action upon him. He's fucking 22 ffs, has a decent brain (potentially), and is doing well in uni apparently. Go talk to you parents in earnest, kick him the fuck out, move him into a dorm, and force him to work. Work will force him to interact with pple, and who knows, maybe he'll get a RL GF at the local taco bell for all we know.
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On May 22 2008 00:19 Boonbag wrote:Show nested quote +On May 22 2008 00:15 Spike wrote:On May 22 2008 00:12 Boonbag wrote:On May 22 2008 00:11 Spike wrote:On May 22 2008 00:03 Boonbag wrote: You need to fucking relax and mind your own business. He's older. so? who cares if he's older? Dont just chunk the thing. Read the following. The part of minding his own business can be quoted alone tho. dude, i don't care who or how old you are; but you should be respectful enough to keep the volume down for others to sleep. If it's a volume issue only that can easily be solved. I don't think the main point of this stupid rant was the volume.
yea... it was meant as an example.
seriously, i don't know how you can defend the man boonbag. he obviously doesn't do much in taking care of himself.
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thedeadhaji
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God sry but your brother reminds me of the NEET tards in japan (except your bro is actually in education, but w/e)
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On May 22 2008 00:20 thedeadhaji wrote: One idea is to have the parents kick him out, plug him into a college dorm and have HIM be responsible for paying the fees to the dorm. ie get a fucking job. $10/hour jobs are not hard to find, and if he is actually somewhat intelligient then he can go tutor some JH/HS kids for upwards of $50/hour.
Yeah he did this for like a month or two. He got a warehouse job @ canadian tire, and tutored two HS friends I know (from another school tho) like 2 years ago, 'cause my parents told him to. After 2 months, he quit because he "had enough money" - adding to the 2 grand that he got for selling his shitty maplestory account.
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thedeadhaji
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Right. time to kick him out again! gogo~~
(wait a minute, shouldnt he already be out of college if he's 22 --;;
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On May 22 2008 00:18 MiniRoman wrote: He'll quit on his own. You think it's fun to do nothing every single day? It wears on you and I bet at that age it makes him feel like crap. Given enough time he'll get out of it. You need to chill out and stop being a pussy for noise at 2am (it's not even that late).
True, listen to this man.
Your brother is probably well aware of his situation and probably doesn't like it as much as you think he does, no 22 year old person wants to sit at home doing nothing but play WoW all days knowing that most people are out living their lives, you'll feel like shit. People like that usually have low self-esteem or something like that which hinders them from taking the step to move out, find a job or whatever.
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People are free to do whatever they want. Leave him the fuck alone. Even if he was masturbating on 5 years old boys pics wouldn't be your business.
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try watch the anime: Welcome to the NHK its about a guy who is neet
anyway, i had a period (3 months or so) where i didnt have a computer, because it broke down, it seriously made med stop all my games, and now i also spend more time outdoors.
Or else, get some hobby's (not computer-related)
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I can hardcore anygame all day for months without feeling like shit. I make a decision. I do what I want. If I don't enjoy what I do, I don't do it.
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On May 22 2008 00:29 Boonbag wrote: I can hardcore anygame all day for months without feeling like shit. I make a decision. I do what I want. If I don't enjoy what I do, I don't do it.
lol, I wouldn't have a problem with it if he was supporting himself with his OWN money. He is mooching off his parents and you know it.
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thedeadhaji
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btw rowing is like the perfect sport for fatasses to get into b/c you dont have to carry your weight around lololol. But it's like impossible to get introduced to it unless you're somehow affiliated to a club or you join it in college.
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On May 22 2008 00:29 Boonbag wrote: I can hardcore anygame all day for months without feeling like shit. I make a decision. I do what I want. If I don't enjoy what I do, I don't do it.
I am using drugs, probably i will seriously fuck myself and i will be dead, my parents will cry for me in funeral, they will have a really fucking bad life but what ever, I make a decision. I do not care anybody. I enjoy using drugs, fuck off.
+ Show Spoiler +I know that wow and drugs are not same thing but seriously wow is a kind of drug and he is addicted to it, you got the point imo.
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hire someone to come and chop your hands off. then you won't be able to play. meaning quit!
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On May 22 2008 00:13 Boonbag wrote: I love when people feel "forced" to save others, or prevent them from doing something they believe will harm an individual. Who the fuck gave you that right ?
By doing so and acting this way you just prove you're much more stupid than him. That's complete bullshit. Most of the time, you can't save a person from themselves, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't try. Who gives you that right? That's the right you get when you care for another human being, like a friend or lover or relative. If you hardcore game all day and enjoy it, you probably don't know what that experience is like.
To think that you shouldn't try to change someone who's harming themselves is absolutely absurd. When it fails, as it likely will, then you can abandon them, but don't try and play indifference from the start and call yourself a decent human being.
To the OP, really your parents have to deal with it. I doubt there's much you can do as a younger brother.
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Repeat to him without end:
WOW CONSUMES SOULS
He'll think twice next time when he does the shattered sun daily in blade's edge mountains >.>
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On May 22 2008 00:55 Jibba wrote:Show nested quote +On May 22 2008 00:13 Boonbag wrote: I love when people feel "forced" to save others, or prevent them from doing something they believe will harm an individual. Who the fuck gave you that right ?
By doing so and acting this way you just prove you're much more stupid than him. That's complete bullshit. Most of the time, you can't save a person from themselves, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't try. Who gives you that right? That's the right you get when you care for another human being, like a friend or lover or relative. If you hardcore game all day and enjoy it, you probably don't know what that experience is like. To think that you shouldn't try to change someone who's harming themselves is absolutely absurd. When it fails, as it likely will, then you can abandon them, but don't try and play indifference from the start and call yourself a decent human being.
And you just without knowing it, showed a large chunk of that human behaviour that brings disasters upon others.
Why do you care ?
Just for the very feeling of satisfaction any human beeing can feel upon acting on someone else's life.
This is obnoxious.
Again you have no fucking right to do so. Go and plant fucking trees, might prove to be much more useful.
PS : You watch too much television.
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