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twelveapm
Profile Blog Joined April 2011
United States46 Posts
July 12 2011 20:43 GMT
#1
So usually I'm a lurker, reading a prodigious amount of TL a day but not posting very frequently. But over time I've noticed and then looked into (thank you search function) a particular poster whom I think is just an amazing person, and now my feelings have developed to the point where I want to take action. The problem is, what should I do? I don't really have experience with online hook-ups, mostly just the IRL kind. However I feel like the community can help me out, given their experience and success with others, so please read and thanks in advance!

First you may wonder--how do I even know if there's an opportunity there? Well, in terms of pure logistics, I'm 21 and Chinese-American and from what he's said, I think he's also in his 20s and is Korean-American. The ages work out and I am Asian and like Starcraft, Kpop, kimchi, and skin-care products so I have some cultural understanding. Also, he likes Bruce Lee, Magic: The Gathering, It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, and cats. ME TOO!

I don't know if he has a girlfriend or not, but I'm scared to ask because the minute I do it'll be like declaring my interest. But I really do think we have a lot of potential...He definitely has experience with girls though, because he responds to girl blogs very often and extremely well. Onto that:

Why do I think this is worth pursuing? Aside from the aforementioned shared interests, his posts are always thoughtful, funny, intelligent, and creative, which is why he stood out in the first place. (No offense guys.) And, perhaps most importantly, he's CONFIDENT without coming off as a douche. I mean, from here it's not too hard to figure out why I would like him. All that stuff you've seen in movies about girls liking guys like that? Yeah, it's true. In fact, I'm surprised other girls in the community haven't already propositioned him...well, maybe they have and I am just one of many. I guess that's worth considering too.

I have a job and an apartment so I don't need him to provide for me--I don't have any ulterior motives like that. I just think he's a really great and intelligent guy that I'd like to spend time with. On one hand, I'm scared to move forward but on the other, I haven't felt this excited since high school. I can't get him off my mind.

So what do you think? Is it worth sending him a PM? Or rather, should I try to post in threads he's posted in, hoping he'll notice me? Or is he completely out of my league and I should just admire him quietly?

There's even a chance he's reading this right now. If so...hi?
"She said she loves me and I am like her brother. I think we are going to bang soon." =ILOVEKITTENS ...┐('~`;)┌
Backpack
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
United States1776 Posts
July 12 2011 20:47 GMT
#2
I'm also in love with Torte De Lini so I guess that makes us competitors.
"You people need to just generally care a lot less about everything." -Zatic
Khaymus
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
United States750 Posts
July 12 2011 20:50 GMT
#3
Just tell him.

If a girl walked up to me and said "hey, I like the same things you like and I also like you."

It is a very good chance I would date her and see where it went from there. Really, with a guy, it is simple. Just tell him and it should be fine.
Let them say we lived in the time of Boxer, Emperor of Terran. Let them say we lived in the time of Nal_rA, Dreamer of Protoss. Let them say we lived in the time of Savior, Master of the Zerg.
intrigue
Profile Blog Joined November 2005
Washington, D.C9933 Posts
July 12 2011 20:52 GMT
#4
oh, you, adorable. go with pm, get his bnet id first, eventually msn, skype, you know?
Moderatorhttps://soundcloud.com/castlesmusic/sets/oak
intrigue
Profile Blog Joined November 2005
Washington, D.C9933 Posts
July 12 2011 20:54 GMT
#5
this actually interests me quite a bit because i can't think of anyone that fits those criteria.
Moderatorhttps://soundcloud.com/castlesmusic/sets/oak
ShaperofDreams
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
Canada2492 Posts
July 12 2011 20:55 GMT
#6
so cute
Bitches don't know about my overlord. FUCK OFF ALDARIS I HAVE ENOUGH PYLONS. My Balls are as smooth as Eggs.
Th1rdEye
Profile Blog Joined December 2006
United States1074 Posts
July 12 2011 20:55 GMT
#7
You probably made 1000 nerds' hearts fall out of their chest with this post
from the days of: TheMarine [NC]...YellOw [H.O.T.]-Forever99 OgOgO [_MuMyung_] ChRh PlayGrrrr.... SlayerS_`BoxeR` [Oops]Reach [ReD]NaDa [DF]zergboy..!! Pusan[S.G] Nal_rA GARIMTO SSamJJang ChoJJa JinSu Silent_Control iloveoov H_PauL_WII JulyZerg [DaK]JoYo
SnetteL
Profile Blog Joined February 2011
Belgium473 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-07-12 20:56:10
July 12 2011 20:55 GMT
#8
A how to.
Caps lock is cruise control for cool.
QuanticHawk
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
United States32051 Posts
July 12 2011 20:56 GMT
#9
you never know without asking!!

dawwwwwwww, this is so cute
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Stringy
Profile Joined April 2011
United States127 Posts
July 12 2011 20:58 GMT
#10
be mean to him, thats what i do to girls i like
war4 > sc2
micronesia
Profile Blog Joined July 2006
United States24676 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-07-12 21:34:19
July 12 2011 21:00 GMT
#11
If he's a poster on TL then there's a good chance he's going to read this before you talk to him.....

Is that your intention? It is a pretty big deal.

I bet a lot of people were reading the intro paragraphs of your blog like "hmm... could it be me!!?" XD
ModeratorThere are animal crackers for people and there are people crackers for animals.
leantebellum
Profile Joined November 2010
Canada3 Posts
July 12 2011 21:00 GMT
#12
ilovekittens too!!! ^^
Lucumo
Profile Joined January 2010
6850 Posts
July 12 2011 21:01 GMT
#13
On July 13 2011 05:55 Galaxy_Zerg wrote:
You probably made 1000 nerds' hearts fall out of their chest with this post

Way too specific. But it would certainly be awesome if a confirmed, good-looking(and non-Riku) girl posted something like this but more vague. Your statement would be absolutely true in that case.
LeLfe
Profile Joined February 2011
France3160 Posts
July 12 2011 21:01 GMT
#14
I love ILOVEKITTENS too (no homo) I read girlsblog just because his posts are so awesome and funny (but accurate)

be sure he'll read it, anyway I would have gone for the PM 1st rather than the open letter but maybe he'll love the romantic bravery of such a try!
good luck
Writer for Red bull (Fr) and Iron Squid (En/Fr) @ClemLeLfe on twitter
Lanaia
Profile Blog Joined March 2011
Canada1142 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-07-13 03:19:06
July 12 2011 21:01 GMT
#15
Aweeeee <3 You're adorable. I know exactly how you feel. Girl, just tell him. I'm sure he'll want to get to know you. You seem really nice and caring.

I wish you luck <3

Don't just hope he'll notice you. In a thread there tend to be a lot of people. Your name doesn't scream 21 year old female Chinese-American who has a thing for him. PM him. Most guys need that little prod, especially online. <3
<3 If you chase a mirage, the desert will swallow you.
gm.tOSS
Profile Joined September 2005
Germany898 Posts
July 12 2011 21:03 GMT
#16
You got nothing to lose, go for it.

Anod more important, tell us how it went
HuK HuK HuK | ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ | There is death in the hane.
intrigue
Profile Blog Joined November 2005
Washington, D.C9933 Posts
July 12 2011 21:03 GMT
#17
oh, i see. well, he's white, quite a good-looking guy, charming, and a long-time veteran of this website. pm him.
Moderatorhttps://soundcloud.com/castlesmusic/sets/oak
d(O.o)a
Profile Blog Joined June 2008
Canada5066 Posts
July 12 2011 21:05 GMT
#18
On July 13 2011 06:00 leantebellum wrote:
ilovekittens too!!! ^^


^^ :D
Hi.
RaGe
Profile Blog Joined July 2004
Belgium9947 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-07-12 21:05:37
July 12 2011 21:05 GMT
#19
edit: im a retard
Moderatorsometimes I get intimidated by the size of my right testicle
Backpack
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
United States1776 Posts
July 12 2011 21:06 GMT
#20
On July 13 2011 06:00 micronesia wrote:
If he's a poster on TL then there's a good chance he's going to read this before you talk to him.....

Is that your intention? It makes a pretty big deal.

i would be pretty creeped out if I were him....
"You people need to just generally care a lot less about everything." -Zatic
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