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[QUOTE]On May 23 2004 01:52 Mydnyte wrote:
I've known my current girlfriend for about 7 years, and have been with her for about 4 years, and have been living with her for about 7 months.
I fucking love her.
The way we met, is somewhat fucked up... you know that Usher song - You make me wanna?
Me and her got together somewhat like that, I liked this one girl, and started dating her, and realised that this girl was really stuck up and had an attitude problem, I just couldn't relate to. And Peggy, the girl I'm with now, was my best friend for about 2 years at that time.
I told her all the shit I went through with Julia, and how much I hated it, and tried to make it work, and went to Peggy for some tips on what to do to make it work better. Only to no avail though.
So, about 8 months after putting up with all that bullshit, I was like 'fuck this' and dumped Julia, and about 2 weeks after that, I had an epiphany about how fucking special Peggy really was, and about the pain I put her through, being with Julia.
Turns out, the entire time I was with Julia (8 months), Peggy really liked me, and put up with the shit I ran to her about.
So, about a month after my break up with Julia, I told Peggy straight up, that I REALLY wanted to be with her. And our relationship at that point is more fucked up than one may think.
She's Taiwanese, I'm white, and her parents fucking hated me.
Not like it was a racist kind of thing I hope not, but more of a family tradion thing. That her parents wanted her to marry another chinese guy.
But for about 2 years, we put up with her parents not liking me, and over time her parents realised that I just wasn't gunna give up.
About 2 years and 3 months into mine and Peggys relationship, I told her straight up that I fucking loved her, and wanted no other.
And it's still the same way after 4 years and 8 months.
I'm only 21 and she's turning 21 on June 17.
4 years is a long time for those ages.
About 3 weeks ago last friday, I cheated on my girlfriend with my buddy, I didn't full out have sex, but I did fool around. I got really drunk, lost all sense of morality, and care that I had, and blacked out.
My buddy that I was with told me about it, and that same day, I told my girlfriend. I never ever wanna go through that feeling again, and no one on this forum, no matter how much they care for their current girlfriend, should ever go through that shit.
Now...
I'm up in Kamloops, northern BC, and I'm just fucking pissed off. All my buddies are doing all these drugs and shit, and I don't do drugs, I had only 5 beers, got a tiny buzz going because I'm surrounded by girls, have had 3 girls hit on me tonight asking for you know the fuck what. And I just said no. And I just know how much I really do love my girlfriend now. More than I thought I ever did.
If any of you guys ever get the feeling of what you believe is love, and what is right. Props to you, I'm fucking proud of it.
You don't like what I had to type because it was so long - fuck you.
You can relate to me on the shit I typed - then you can relate to this, and strength to that. [/QUOTE
 i am sorry
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Yeh, that was preety rude Zerius, i found Mydnyte's post an interesting read...
So, tell us what happened when u told your gf about how u fooled around with another girl, how she took it and does it affect your relationship now?
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Well... it doesn't really affect your relationship which was totally bound by trust for about 4 years, you'll know when you deal with the shit too, but I wouldn't advise it. She was like.. 'ok' and she was hella hurt, like not to the point where she was crying. Because she knew I was out drinking, and that I drank alot. I didn't know how far I could go with drinking, and now I know I will never try to go that far again. And I'm so lucky she forgave me in that situation, because if it was flipped, being a guy and a jealous fucker I am, I probably woulda flipped, and MIGHT have dumped her. I'm just glad that we really love each other enough that it was a minor bump along the road for both of us. I'm pretty damn sure I felt worse though because I knew I loved her so much. But then again, if I loved her so much, I should've watched how much I drank to begin with, right? Well, I hella fucked up nicely that night, and I'm never doing it again. I know about guys and their one night stands, fuck friends, friends with benefits/booty call whatever, I've never had those, and I hope I never have to. I just think that Peggy will be the last girl for me, and I hope I'm the last man for her as long as I don't fuck up. I'm making sure I drink more responsibly with the people I'm surrounded with.
Umm.. TLKiD.. I really don't get why you would say that you're sorry...?
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i am sorry to hear that u had such a bad feeling
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Oh... lol well, it's healing with time. 
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I just hella miss her right now up here in Kamloops surrounded by high girls and guys I have no idea who the fuck are. Can't relate to them on shit fuck all. -_-;;
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if she get to read your post i guess she d burst out crying !
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That would suck... -_-;;
Good thing she doesn't read TL?
She thinks it's full of idiots, and that I'm an idiot for posting here.
I think so, too.
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thread like this doesnt suck at all i am intested in reading all this it teaches me alot eventho there soem idiots like ppl i have mentioned in a couple of pages b4 ^^
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True, that's one of the reasons I like the social threads so much, or the threads asking for advice about love or friendship and stuff. Their hella cool, it was hella cool you made this thread. Kind of came in handy today I'm so bored and pissed. -_-;;
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ohh how old r u btw? did u say u were 21?
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hehe ^^ i wasnt just bored but more in need of hearing something that i can relate to, like many of us who contributed in this thread.
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On May 23 2004 05:01 TLKiD wrote:
do u have msn ? ^^
YOU HAVE BEEN YAWNED.
Use PM. -_-;;
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Yeah the appropriate response to Mydnytes post would be a longggggg yawn that would be so BM 
EDIT: ROFL I DIDN"T KNOW ZERIUS ACTUALLY DID IT )(@#*4702398470398390f4980f7n8f703987nf
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At least SOMEONE here has had luck. Better than the girl getting po'ed and tossing all your stuff out the window and/or setting it on fire.
I guess if both people are at an understanding and are willing to reason with each other, even the hardest obstacles can be overcome.
Added some much needed light to this overall dark topic, Mydnyte. :D
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On May 23 2004 11:10 exalted wrote: Yeah the appropriate response to Mydnytes post would be a longggggg yawn that would be so BM EDIT: ROFL I DIDN"T KNOW ZERIUS ACTUALLY DID IT )(@#*4702398470398390f4980f7n8f703987nf
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On May 23 2004 05:06 Mydnyte wrote: YOU HAVE BEEN YAWNED. Use PM. -_-;;
only me got the privilege 8) :p
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