I think having sex with the person you love is really important. Not so much the 'am I good in bed?' stuff...because if you are smart/open enough you can both talk about any problems/improve together/find out what each other wants far more then you could in another relationship, and even thats beside the point because they love you. What is important (or was for me), is the time afterwards.
Lying in bed naked after sex with the person you love most in the world...its just incredible. It just feels like the entire world has been set to rights.

So yeah...try not to miss out on that.

RebelHeart

New Zealand722 Posts

May 20 2007 08:31 GMT

#65

i haven't bothered reading through... but if you don't fuck her, someone else will

iSTime

1579 Posts

May 20 2007 08:41 GMT

#66

On May 20 2007 15:29 mrdx wrote:
Thanks for all replies

I'm physically normal btw -.- I'm way too old for immature childish love but probably not experienced enough for a real commited relationship I guess.

Nobody is "too old" for immature childish love.

to miss the mark

Bosnia-Herzegovina1381 Posts

May 20 2007 08:41 GMT

#67

I've been in love with my girlfriend for 3 years.

We still have sex all the time, and we enjoy it.
Or at least I do, but who cares.

MadNeSs

Denmark1507 Posts

May 20 2007 08:44 GMT

#68

LMAO, I've never heard of anything like this. Not being able to fuck your gf, because you're in love.

lol, I have it the other way around (like all other guys), I can't wait to fuck my gf, and I know she want it too.

NewbSaibot

3849 Posts

May 20 2007 09:13 GMT

#69

On May 20 2007 17:31 RebelHeart wrote:
i haven't bothered reading through... but if you don't fuck her, someone else will

Truer words have never been spoken. Quit being selfish, if there is really nothing wrong with you and you just dont like sex, then have sex for her sake. Do it for her.

MadNeSs

Denmark1507 Posts

May 20 2007 09:24 GMT

#70

I think the problem is that you're gay, og your gf i fat and ugly.

evanthebouncy!

United States12796 Posts

May 20 2007 12:39 GMT

#71

Man that girl doesn't make you go erotic. You probably need to find some other ones that turns you on both sexually and intellectually.

unknown.sam

Philippines2701 Posts

May 20 2007 12:53 GMT

#72

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On May 20 2007 18:13 NewbSaibot wrote:

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Truer words have never been spoken. Quit being selfish, if there is really nothing wrong with you and you just dont like sex, then have sex for her sake. Do it for her.

AMEN

Storchen

Sweden4385 Posts

May 20 2007 15:15 GMT

#73

Maybe you got some performance anxiety (if you can say something like that) ?
It's normal that you feel a bit shy/insecure when starting to have a sexual relation with a new person.
You may feel like having sex in the head but your body won't allow it.
Happened to me when I got together with my gf. I though she was hot and all but I couldn't get my little buddy to cooperate, kept thinking more on my erection then on my gf.
After a week or so I got over it and started to enjoy instead.

If that's the case just relax and think solely on her!

Storchen

Sweden4385 Posts

May 20 2007 15:16 GMT

#74

On May 20 2007 17:44 MadNeSs wrote:
LMAO, I've never heard of anything like this. Not being able to fuck your gf, because you're in love.

lol, I have it the other way around (like all other guys), I can't wait to fuck my gf, and I know she want it too.

On May 20 2007 18:24 MadNeSs wrote:
I think the problem is that you're gay, og your gf i fat and ugly.

Sir, you are a fucking idiot. Plz stop posting.

Hot_Bid

Braavos36400 Posts

May 20 2007 15:27 GMT

#75

i guess there are different types of relationships

theres the kind where as soon as you meet the girl you want to bang her brains out 24/7

and then theres the other type where you're all in puppy love and want to just cuddle and hug and talk to her all day.

except this only lasts for a little while before you realize you want to bang her brains out 24/7

if you don't, time to find another girlfriend

WhatisProtoss

Korea (South)2325 Posts

May 20 2007 15:28 GMT

#76

On May 20 2007 10:48 Pressure wrote:

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4. 13 year old boys u wanna fuck

hmm?

What the hell, Pressure? What kind of post is that?

On May 20 2007 18:24 MadNeSs wrote:
I think the problem is that you're gay, og your gf i fat and ugly.

You should be banned, bitch.

(1) Can we stop using the word "fuck" in regards to sex? What the fuck is wrong with you people? It's some kind of game? Or are you guys all so good at fucking/banging girls?

(2) I know many guys, including myself, who have felt that way about a girl. It's a stage that some people go through. I know that it comes from you having a bad feeling about sex because you think it's demeaning. It's not. As long as the feeling is right and you care about her, sex is an important and trusting activity between the two of you.

intrigue

Washington, D.C9935 Posts

May 20 2007 15:38 GMT

#77

yup, i know what you're talking about
i'd hook up np if the girl's cute and the situation is right, woo woo! but there are a few prospects that for me make messing around seem very trivial, i just want to have fun with them, hold their hand, and all that ridiculous lololol kissy cute stuff. i don't see my intentions staying so noble for very long though! =P

whatisprotoss just lay back and enjoy the forums, how do you live life so angrily

WhatisProtoss

Korea (South)2325 Posts

May 20 2007 15:41 GMT

#78

On May 21 2007 00:38 intrigue wrote:
yup, i know what you're talking about
i'd hook up np if the girl's cute and the situation is right, woo woo! but there are a few prospects that for me make messing around seem very trivial, i just want to have fun with them, hold their hand, and all that ridiculous lololol kissy cute stuff. i don't see my intentions staying so noble for very long though! =P

whatisprotoss just lay back and enjoy the forums, how do you live life so angrily

I enjoy the actual forums. You'll see that my response to this guy is straightforward and good, unlike other posters.

I just think it's crazy that staff members can post complete junk, when there supposedly are rules against doing so.

Hot_Bid

Braavos36400 Posts

May 20 2007 15:50 GMT

#79

On May 21 2007 00:28 WhatisProtoss wrote:
(1) Can we stop using the word "fuck" in regards to sex? What the fuck is wrong with you people? It's some kind of game? Or are you guys all so good at fucking/banging girls?

(2) I know many guys, including myself, who have felt that way about a girl. It's a stage that some people go through. I know that it comes from you having a bad feeling about sex because you think it's demeaning. It's not. As long as the feeling is right and you care about her, sex is an important and trusting activity between the two of you.

for (2), that feeling goes away really fast. i mean, for ilovezil or mrdx or whoever gets these kind of feelings for "cute" girls, don't you just feel urges after periods of time? i mean do you just go home and jerk off or whatever after hanging out with this girl? you can't just go weeks or whatever without ever having an orgasm if you're seeing her right?

and for (1), "fuck" and "bang" are necessary because they express a complete different meaning than "make love" or "have sex with." the connotation is more raw, its more primal, its more sexual and dirty, it's less candlelight and music and more bathroom stall or tabletop. i don't see what's wrong with people using that word if their intent is to convey a certain meaning.

certainly not censoring those words altogether which is what you're suggesting, that's kind of ridiculous.

i also don't think people using "fuck" or "bang" necessarily implies anything about them treating sex like a game or how they view how "good" they are at getting sex. you are reading way too much into it and being oversensitive.