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On December 14 2011 09:51 Klondikebar wrote:
So, I have a little update for you guys about my situation with my best friend. We had the discussion tonight. She insisted that being gay was a choice and literally would not discuss it with me. She told me "I have believed it in my heart of hearts my whole life now so I'm not going to change."
I just walked out on a 10 year friendship.
And, to be perfectly honest, I'm a lot more scared about being a gay man now. My biggest anchor just got pulled out from under me. I don't have anyone in my immediate life who accepts me .
*HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGS*
you seem to have already come to this conclusion, but she seems like the kind of person who you probably don't want to be friends with anyway. Just remember, in your darkest hours, we are always here for you <3
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On December 14 2011 11:07 Catreina wrote:Show nested quote +On December 14 2011 09:51 Klondikebar wrote:
So, I have a little update for you guys about my situation with my best friend. We had the discussion tonight. She insisted that being gay was a choice and literally would not discuss it with me. She told me "I have believed it in my heart of hearts my whole life now so I'm not going to change."
I just walked out on a 10 year friendship.
And, to be perfectly honest, I'm a lot more scared about being a gay man now. My biggest anchor just got pulled out from under me. I don't have anyone in my immediate life who accepts me . Next time she talks to you, if ever, ask her when she chose to be straight. I really detest ignorance, and I am sorry for your loss =(
He already said that, unfortunately, and nothing changed.
I'm sorry for your loss man, if you ever need someone to talk to as an anchor or anything, PM me and i'll offer any of my messengers to you.
Some people just don't understand... and i'm sure that the thought going through her mind is "of course I was born straight. Everyone was born straight, it's just some choose to be gay." Which is... well... wrong. On so many levels. but sadly, all you can do is say well, obviously we don't agree and I'd just like to thank you for your help with me in the past, but... I can't continue this friendship with you anymore.
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On December 14 2011 10:45 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On December 14 2011 10:01 Roe wrote:On December 14 2011 09:51 Klondikebar wrote:
So, I have a little update for you guys about my situation with my best friend. We had the discussion tonight. She insisted that being gay was a choice and literally would not discuss it with me. She told me "I have believed it in my heart of hearts my whole life now so I'm not going to change."
I just walked out on a 10 year friendship.
And, to be perfectly honest, I'm a lot more scared about being a gay man now. My biggest anchor just got pulled out from under me. I don't have anyone in my immediate life who accepts me . did you ask her if she chose to be straight? Yes. One of the many mind fucks of the conversation was that she admitted she was born straight but still insisted that I chose to be gay.
I know it's quoted to death but:
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.”
― Dr. Seuss
That's all there really is to say. It sucks to be you right now, but what can you do but get on with it.
Edit: Sorry, reading that sounds like I'm being a dick - I empathise 100%, but I don't have any other advice or comfort I can give.
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On December 14 2011 11:14 jarrydesque wrote:Show nested quote +On December 14 2011 10:45 Klondikebar wrote:On December 14 2011 10:01 Roe wrote:On December 14 2011 09:51 Klondikebar wrote:
So, I have a little update for you guys about my situation with my best friend. We had the discussion tonight. She insisted that being gay was a choice and literally would not discuss it with me. She told me "I have believed it in my heart of hearts my whole life now so I'm not going to change."
I just walked out on a 10 year friendship.
And, to be perfectly honest, I'm a lot more scared about being a gay man now. My biggest anchor just got pulled out from under me. I don't have anyone in my immediate life who accepts me . did you ask her if she chose to be straight? Yes. One of the many mind fucks of the conversation was that she admitted she was born straight but still insisted that I chose to be gay. I know it's quoted to death but: “Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind.” ― Dr. Seuss That's all there really is to say. It sucks to be you right now, but what can you do but get on with it.
Dr.Seuss is just so goddamn wise! He's so simple and so silly but so oddly powerful.
Edit: I swear I can type in coherent english!
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On December 14 2011 11:07 Catreina wrote:Show nested quote +On December 14 2011 09:51 Klondikebar wrote:
So, I have a little update for you guys about my situation with my best friend. We had the discussion tonight. She insisted that being gay was a choice and literally would not discuss it with me. She told me "I have believed it in my heart of hearts my whole life now so I'm not going to change."
I just walked out on a 10 year friendship.
And, to be perfectly honest, I'm a lot more scared about being a gay man now. My biggest anchor just got pulled out from under me. I don't have anyone in my immediate life who accepts me . Next time she talks to you, if ever, ask her when she chose to be straight. I really detest ignorance, and I am sorry for your loss =(
Her loss more like <3
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On December 14 2011 11:35 RoMGraViTy wrote:Show nested quote +On December 14 2011 11:07 Catreina wrote:On December 14 2011 09:51 Klondikebar wrote:
So, I have a little update for you guys about my situation with my best friend. We had the discussion tonight. She insisted that being gay was a choice and literally would not discuss it with me. She told me "I have believed it in my heart of hearts my whole life now so I'm not going to change."
I just walked out on a 10 year friendship.
And, to be perfectly honest, I'm a lot more scared about being a gay man now. My biggest anchor just got pulled out from under me. I don't have anyone in my immediate life who accepts me . Next time she talks to you, if ever, ask her when she chose to be straight. I really detest ignorance, and I am sorry for your loss =( Her loss more like <3
Point.
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Ok I know what will make me feel better...
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KENNIGIT I BELIEVE JARRYDESQUE ASKED TO SEE YOU IN A SPEEDO!
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On December 14 2011 11:47 Klondikebar wrote:
Ok I know what will make me feel better...
<.<
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KENNIGIT I BELIEVE JARRYDESQUE ASKED TO SEE YOU IN A SPEEDO!
This +1
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On December 14 2011 11:47 Klondikebar wrote:
Ok I know what will make me feel better...
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JARRYDESQUE [...] IN A SPEEDO!
I fixed it. 
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On December 14 2011 11:52 GDR wrote:Show nested quote +On December 14 2011 11:47 Klondikebar wrote:
Ok I know what will make me feel better...
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JARRYDESQUE [...] IN A SPEEDO! I fixed it.
SSSSSSSSHHHHHHHHH! One hotty at a time!
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On December 14 2011 11:56 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On December 14 2011 11:52 GDR wrote:On December 14 2011 11:47 Klondikebar wrote:
Ok I know what will make me feel better...
<.<
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JARRYDESQUE [...] IN A SPEEDO! I fixed it. SSSSSSSSHHHHHHHHH! One hotty at a time!
This+1!
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Oy oy. I think Kennigit would be preferable - I'm too skinny xD.
Come on Kennigit! For justice! For ESPORTS. FOR KLONDI'S BROKEN HEART!
Here is me being silly in the meantime.
+ Show Spoiler +
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On December 14 2011 12:10 jarrydesque wrote:Oy oy. I think Kennigit would be preferable - I'm too skinny xD. Come on Kennigit! For justice! For ESPORTS. FOR KLONDI'S BROKEN HEART! Here is me being silly in the meantime. + Show Spoiler +
I like your purse.
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On December 14 2011 12:10 jarrydesque wrote:Oy oy. I think Kennigit would be preferable - I'm too skinny xD. Come on Kennigit! For justice! For ESPORTS. FOR KLONDI'S BROKEN HEART! Here is me being silly in the meantime. + Show Spoiler +
You're...actually really cute. And I don't think you're much skinnier than Kennigit.
Sweet, got it working. THIS is being silly!! I'm the one on the left.
+ Show Spoiler +
This was my senior day in highschool. We were paired with a girl who was tasked with making us look as silly as possible for our scavenger hunt in the mall. My other cheek says "playgirl bunny" on it and yes, I wore those damn rabbit ears ALL DAY!
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On December 14 2011 12:29 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On December 14 2011 12:10 jarrydesque wrote:Oy oy. I think Kennigit would be preferable - I'm too skinny xD. Come on Kennigit! For justice! For ESPORTS. FOR KLONDI'S BROKEN HEART! Here is me being silly in the meantime. + Show Spoiler + You're...actually really cute. And I don't think you're much skinnier than Kennigit. Sweet, got it working. THIS is being silly!! I'm the one on the left. + Show Spoiler +This was my senior day in highschool. We were paired with a girl who was tasked with making us look as silly as possible for our scavenger hunt in the mall. My other cheek says "playgirl bunny" on it and yes, I wore those damn rabbit ears ALL DAY!
anyone ever tell you you have a penis in your hair?
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On December 14 2011 12:40 RoMGraViTy wrote:Show nested quote +On December 14 2011 12:29 Klondikebar wrote:On December 14 2011 12:10 jarrydesque wrote:Oy oy. I think Kennigit would be preferable - I'm too skinny xD. Come on Kennigit! For justice! For ESPORTS. FOR KLONDI'S BROKEN HEART! Here is me being silly in the meantime. + Show Spoiler + You're...actually really cute. And I don't think you're much skinnier than Kennigit. Sweet, got it working. THIS is being silly!! I'm the one on the left. + Show Spoiler +This was my senior day in highschool. We were paired with a girl who was tasked with making us look as silly as possible for our scavenger hunt in the mall. My other cheek says "playgirl bunny" on it and yes, I wore those damn rabbit ears ALL DAY! anyone ever tell you you have a penis in your hair?
Oh I'm sorry, did the giant bunny ears make my hair make a funny shape? 
You're just jelly of the penis in my hair!
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On December 14 2011 12:41 Klondikebar wrote:Show nested quote +On December 14 2011 12:40 RoMGraViTy wrote:On December 14 2011 12:29 Klondikebar wrote:On December 14 2011 12:10 jarrydesque wrote:Oy oy. I think Kennigit would be preferable - I'm too skinny xD. Come on Kennigit! For justice! For ESPORTS. FOR KLONDI'S BROKEN HEART! Here is me being silly in the meantime. + Show Spoiler + You're...actually really cute. And I don't think you're much skinnier than Kennigit. Sweet, got it working. THIS is being silly!! I'm the one on the left. + Show Spoiler +This was my senior day in highschool. We were paired with a girl who was tasked with making us look as silly as possible for our scavenger hunt in the mall. My other cheek says "playgirl bunny" on it and yes, I wore those damn rabbit ears ALL DAY! anyone ever tell you you have a penis in your hair? Oh I'm sorry, did the giant bunny ears make my hair make a funny shape? You're just jelly of the penis in my hair!
When I open the thread, I always read the last post first, and this confused the hell out of me until I read back. -_-
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I'm personally not persuaded by those who insist homosexuality is not a choice. Whilst I dont believe sexuality is a choice in any conventional or simple understanding of a choice "two paths, ill take the left one... etc.". I think there are things in our lives, by our actions, influences, habits, even thoughts, that we have a degree of choice over, and which can effect, or even alter our sexuality.
That said, Klondike, with your post earlier where your friend insists it is a choice, whats the insinuation. If you were to say, yes it entirely, 100% is, and I choose to be gay, what is her then contention?
I'm assuming its You can choose X, I believe in Y, Y dictates X is sick and wrong, those who choose X are sick and wrong.
X = homoseX (see its even in the word!!) uality, and Y = Y (again THIS IS UNCANNY! :O) aweh.
Or to phrase it differently, is she religious, and if not whats her problem?
edit: lol just read the posts above, hair penis made me laugh out loud. Hey dawg we heard you like cock, so we put a dick in your hair so you can have cock on the mind, while you've got cock on the mind
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On December 14 2011 12:10 jarrydesque wrote:Oy oy. I think Kennigit would be preferable - I'm too skinny xD. Come on Kennigit! For justice! For ESPORTS. FOR KLONDI'S BROKEN HEART! Here is me being silly in the meantime. + Show Spoiler +
I think I'm skinnier then you! >.< I'm so tiny
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On December 14 2011 12:10 jarrydesque wrote:Oy oy. I think Kennigit would be preferable - I'm too skinny xD. Come on Kennigit! For justice! For ESPORTS. FOR KLONDI'S BROKEN HEART! Here is me being silly in the meantime. + Show Spoiler +
you are very cute 
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