EPTOn June 25 2020 00:43 EEk1TwEEk wrote:
The world has gone mad with sexual abuse, black lives matter and other shit
The world has gone mad with sexual abuse, black lives matter and other shit
Care to expand? Or are you just overtly sexist and racist?
Harassment/Abuse in StarCraft 2 - Page 19
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Models
Canada88 Posts
Care to expand? Or are you just overtly sexist and racist? | ||
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dbRic1203
Germany2655 Posts
On June 25 2020 01:10 Charoisaur wrote: Yeah until recently I thought it's a meme that guys send dickpicks because why would you ever do that? I expected it was allways only meant as sexual harrsment. Never even thought about it as some form of "flirting" I mean how exactly should that ever work? E: On June 25 2020 01:12 JimmiC wrote: I think some people think, well I'd sure like it if she sent me a nude so I'll send her one, or something. And I guess there is another group of people who like to make people feel uncomfortable. I like to think it is more ignorance than malicious but who knows. Ah ok. You re probably right. | ||
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sM.Zik
Canada2551 Posts
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The_Red_Viper
19533 Posts
On June 24 2020 08:35 GreenHorizons wrote: From the thread on liquid dota but this post: and this: Are demonstrative of an overlapping community built around problematic sentiments. Sad to hear specific stories, but they are clearly necessary for some, as despite them many still question the validity/sincerity of what can only be the tip of a much larger iceberg surfacing all over the US and world. I don't think it's news to anyone on TL that sexism and racism (and the harm/abuse that comes with it) is rampant in gaming and beyond, especially in the US. My thought on all this coming to the surface for many people is that individuals don't commit these acts in isolation but as part of a community (or several) and imo it's a community's responsibility to address not only various individuals behavior but the larger cultural and systemic issues that both allow it to happen and for the various actors and enablers to survive/thrive, often at their victims expense. Making it about the drama of accountability and a redemption arc (rather than the substance of it) based on individuals (even if they specifically are why this hits home for you) neglects the underlying issues which perpetuate the situation which produces the reprehensible individual behavior in the first place imo. This is a really good post and something people should actually think about a little. Why does almost every woman one can speak to have a story to tell? It's easy albeit necessary to ostracize the black sheeps from the community / society at large, but the core issues are way deeper than some extreme examples existing. It's everyday actions which allow this to foster, everyday actions which normalize toxic behavior en masse. To stay in gaming/media, it's things like 'joking' about gamer girls, putting them down, it's sexist tropes in storytelling, it's playing a game with voice chat and instantly go "grill" when a woman talks, it's a lot of stupid shit which is seen as normal and trains people to apply some fucked up standards. So yeah if you really want things to change then it has to come from way more basic things than calling out obvious crimes, you have to hold people accountable for their behavior in general, most importantly people you actually like. | ||
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sneakyfox
8216 Posts
On June 25 2020 01:10 Charoisaur wrote: Yeah until recently I thought it's a meme that guys send dickpicks because why would you ever do that? Well solicited dickpics do work quite well (as do titpics). It's just that some people have trouble figuring out what "solicited" means, and yet other people are of course just creeps. | ||
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aringadingding
481 Posts
I think this kind of post is good as it makes you think about what you write and what you see in chats, an eyeopener of sorts. | ||
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CadenZie
Korea (South)545 Posts
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sneakyfox
8216 Posts
https://www.twitlonger.com/show/n_1sr9nkr | ||
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Kevin_Sorbo
Canada3217 Posts
www.twitlonger.com | ||
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stilt
France2755 Posts
On June 25 2020 01:45 Kevin_Sorbo wrote: The last girl avilo harassed also wrote a twitlonger. Some disturbing stuff in there. www.twitlonger.com This psycho is on the extreme side of the spectrum. A very large and shitty spectrum which vitiates men/women relationship. | ||
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quantumleap
Canada24 Posts
On June 25 2020 01:45 Kevin_Sorbo wrote: The last girl avilo harassed also wrote a twitlonger. Some disturbing stuff in there. www.twitlonger.com Jesuuuuussss I can't believe there's people like this out there. Not surprising Avilo is one of them though | ||
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WarSame
Canada1950 Posts
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States45678 Posts
On June 25 2020 01:41 sneakyfox wrote: Ykie made another post about Rapid: https://www.twitlonger.com/show/n_1sr9nkr On June 25 2020 01:45 Kevin_Sorbo wrote: The last girl avilo harassed also wrote a twitlonger. Some disturbing stuff in there. www.twitlonger.com Damn. Can these be added to the OP too? And I don't know if all these are in the OP yet (about Rapid): An account back in 2015 that's a sexual situation ( https://www.twitlonger.com/show/n_1sr9kmn ) 2018 was when Deity's sexual situation happened ( https://www.twitlonger.com/show/n_1sr9kev ) Another corroborative account about inappropriate conduct (not sure what the dates are) ( https://twitter.com/theresagaffney/status/1275471824839684096?ref_src=twsrc^tfw|twcamp^tweetembed&ref_url=https://tl.net/forum/starcraft-2/560609-sexual-harassment-abuse-in-starcraft-2 ) | ||
Nakajin
Canada8989 Posts
On June 25 2020 02:00 WarSame wrote: Hasn't Avilo always been a well known terrible person? I only played up until the end of WoL but I seem to remember him just being a horrible person all around. Yea, it took way to long for all his bridge to burn tho. Dude got voted on the US Nation War team even, well after it was clear he's an ass. | ||
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juvenal
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Kevin_Sorbo
Canada3217 Posts
On June 25 2020 02:00 WarSame wrote: Hasn't Avilo always been a well known terrible person? I only played up until the end of WoL but I seem to remember him just being a horrible person all around. Seems like everyone has known about it for a long time and yet here we are. Even the police couldn't deter him. What can you do at this point? | ||
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cenflamatty
19 Posts
All this proof and he is still in our community.. He participated in ESL Qualifiers this month. I will NOT support ESL as long as he is still able to participate.. We need to remove these people from the game and our community. STAND UP FOR JUSTICE! | ||
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JimmiC
Canada22817 Posts
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Models
Canada88 Posts
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SCC-Faust
United States3736 Posts
We've been friends/acquaintances for years and have a good relationship towards each other. I think it is pretty disrespectful that people are putting her and other people under the spotlight and scrutinizing really minute details. A lot of these allegations coming out now have existed for years, and in Rapid's case, back to 2014 from multiple people. Just because people are getting the courage now to speak publicly about them should not make them any less important. I think there is a really unhealthy attitude some people are holding in the Starcraft community about these problems. | ||
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