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pinky29
Profile Joined January 2019
57 Posts
Last Edited: 2020-05-09 07:10:02
May 09 2020 07:02 GMT
#1
So...I'd like to post this on the Awesome/Confusing BM thread, but the more I start to read threads from the post, the more it starts to look like actual threats on life and/or users validating end-user suicide.

I'm 37, have two kids (pre-teen), wife/job etc. and understand people can get frustrated. I've raged before. But some of the things I'm starting to see are "next level." I actually have my kid playing Modern Warfare with the mic muted because it is more realistic and there are less, real life, predators opposed to Fortnite

Anyway, you watch real case situations like this:



But I'm not a streamer. I play this game to unwind; and I've played tens of thousands of game since 98. So while this was very visible from a top streamer perspective, this happens regularly in games and can turn into REAL life scenarios. Similar to the case where someone got swatted and was killed.

https://www.cnn.com/2019/09/14/us/swatting-sentence-casey-viner/index.html

Anyway, my point is, from a regular player when I see something like this below, it is incumbent on both Blizzard and the operating site (Teamliquid.net) to act on these situations. It is not funny. It is a liability and can create real world, potentially harmful, situations.

https://imgur.com/a/nETDHVJ

https://imgur.com/a/aOluuSm


EDIT: I have many more examples of real life threats and/or direct implications of suicide. I have many screenshots showing these scenarios. If you are someone that does this without malicious intent - STOP now. Again, I'm not perfect and said insults to players in retrospect I probably didn't mean or have been rude; but I've NEVER threatened life or asked someone to kill themselves.
GreasedUpDeafGuy
Profile Joined August 2018
United States398 Posts
May 09 2020 07:08 GMT
#2
you seem like a real drama queen

User was temp banned for this post.
Cant catch me. You're wasting your time
pinky29
Profile Joined January 2019
57 Posts
May 09 2020 07:10 GMT
#3
On May 09 2020 16:08 GreasedUpDeafGuy wrote:
you seem like a real drama queen


Thanks Bud. Have kids and get back to me in 20 years.
fastr
Profile Joined February 2011
France902 Posts
May 09 2020 08:24 GMT
#4
On May 09 2020 16:10 pinky29 wrote:
Show nested quote +
On May 09 2020 16:08 GreasedUpDeafGuy wrote:
you seem like a real drama queen


Thanks Bud. Have kids and get back to me in 20 years.


While his post was unnecessarily rude, I don't think your patronizing tone is helping your point. You being a certain age or having kids doesn't make your argument holds anymore value than someone 20 years younger and childless. In fact, most arguments following the "As a mother..." template holds generally little merit, hence the meme.

Also, you should realize that TL is an ancient community for an ancient game and you're far from the only member in their 30/40s with kids already.

Now to answer your original point:

Anyway, my point is, from a regular player when I see something like this below, it is incumbent on both Blizzard and the operating site (Teamliquid.net) to act on these situations

The way you word it make it seems like you believe TL.net is some kind of official website for Starcraft. It's not, and it is in no way affiliated with Blizzard.
Regarding Blizzard, sure they could always do more to tackle BM. I think muting players who get repeatedly reported for BMing should be more common. But as far as online multiplayer goes, Starcraft is actually one of the game where people are the most well-behaved (Do you know of any other game where the opponent will wait for you when you pause the game?)

I actually have my kid playing Modern Warfare with the mic muted because it is more realistic and there are less, real life, predators opposed to Fortnite

I don't know how old your kids are, but since you said pre-teens I'm gonna assume 12 or younger. You do realize a game like Modern Warfare (on top of being the worst cesspool of a community for an online game of the past decade) is rated PEGI 18? Maybe show them how to play Minecraft or something.

One more thing, on your last screenshot it seems to me you actually offensive GGed your opponent, which prompted his colorful answer. Once you offensive GG someone, two things happen in my opinion: 1 you deserve to hear what your opponent has to say to you, 2 you don't get to go on a forum later and play the victim.
phodacbiet
Profile Joined August 2010
United States1740 Posts
May 09 2020 08:30 GMT
#5
The first BM looks like the dude is mentally unhinged, and I agree, that has no place in the game. The second BM looks like you taunted your opponent. While I don't condone what he said to you, what were you expecting when you offensive GG?
vyzion
Profile Joined August 2016
308 Posts
May 09 2020 08:31 GMT
#6
On May 09 2020 16:08 GreasedUpDeafGuy wrote:
you seem like a real drama queen

User was temp banned for this post.


someone's tone deaf
everytimee
Profile Joined May 2010
United States122 Posts
May 09 2020 08:35 GMT
#7
So you pull a punk move and you want protection from text chat? You really do sound like a drama queen.
pinky29
Profile Joined January 2019
57 Posts
Last Edited: 2020-05-09 08:50:28
May 09 2020 08:49 GMT
#8
On May 09 2020 17:24 fastr wrote:
Show nested quote +
On May 09 2020 16:10 pinky29 wrote:
On May 09 2020 16:08 GreasedUpDeafGuy wrote:
you seem like a real drama queen


Thanks Bud. Have kids and get back to me in 20 years.


While his post was unnecessarily rude, I don't think your patronizing tone is helping your point. You being a certain age or having kids doesn't make your argument holds anymore value than someone 20 years younger and childless. In fact, most arguments following the "As a mother..." template holds generally little merit, hence the meme.

Also, you should realize that TL is an ancient community for an ancient game and you're far from the only member in their 30/40s with kids already.

Now to answer your original point:

Show nested quote +
Anyway, my point is, from a regular player when I see something like this below, it is incumbent on both Blizzard and the operating site (Teamliquid.net) to act on these situations

The way you word it make it seems like you believe TL.net is some kind of official website for Starcraft. It's not, and it is in no way affiliated with Blizzard.
Regarding Blizzard, sure they could always do more to tackle BM. I think muting players who get repeatedly reported for BMing should be more common. But as far as online multiplayer goes, Starcraft is actually one of the game where people are the most well-behaved (Do you know of any other game where the opponent will wait for you when you pause the game?)

Show nested quote +
I actually have my kid playing Modern Warfare with the mic muted because it is more realistic and there are less, real life, predators opposed to Fortnite


One more thing, on your last screenshot it seems to me you actually offensive GGed your opponent, which prompted his colorful answer. Once you offensive GG someone, two things happen in my opinion: 1 you deserve to hear what your opponent has to say to you, 2 you don't get to go on a forum later and play the victim.


This was a well thought out post. So I appreciate that. Your first comment
The way you word it make it seems like you believe TL.net is some kind of official website for Starcraft. It's not, and it is in no way affiliated with Blizzard.
.

This is not true. In fact if you were around a while it was claimed to be an "official Sc2 site" for information. You even have employees POST on this site. It would be very disingenuous to claim this site is "one of many" any they are "absolved" from any responsibility when it comes to real life threats or posting. There are balance threads specifically based on the feedback from this site; while it is not direct, TL is a conduit to Blizzard and the SC community.
fastr
Profile Joined February 2011
France902 Posts
May 09 2020 09:05 GMT
#9
This is not true. In fact if you were around a while it was claimed to be an "official Sc2 site" for information. You even have employees POST on this site. It would be very disingenuous to claim this site is "one of many" any they are "absolved" from any responsibility when it comes to real life threats or posting. There are balance threads specifically based on the feedback from this site; while it is not direct, TL is a conduit to Blizzard and the SC community.


I've been around a while. If you hover on people's name, you can see how old their account is. Yours shows January 2019. Mine shows February 2011. Now this isn't a dick measuring contest, maybe you've been reading TL for years without having an account, but for the past decade or so I've been browsing TL, I don't ever recall a time where they claimed to be an "official SC2 site". I could be wrong though, since the website opened in 2001.

I also don't recall current Blizzard employees posting on TL for years. Last I can remember was David Kim back in 2012 or so? But I mean, even if current Blizzard employees were posting here now, I don't see how that would make TL anymore "official". A lot of development teams of PC game titles actively post in their respective subreddit, that doesn't make reddit an official website of said development studio.

So again, I fail to understand your point about how TL is in any way shape or form responsible for people BMing on ladder.
pinky29
Profile Joined January 2019
57 Posts
May 09 2020 09:05 GMT
#10

One more thing, on your last screenshot it seems to me you actually offensive GGed your opponent, which prompted his colorful answer. Once you offensive GG someone, two things happen in my opinion: 1 you deserve to hear what your opponent has to say to you, 2 you don't get to go on a forum later and play the victim.


So this is why I started this discussion, Fastr (quote above). I offensively called GG - Yes I did. I've played this person several times.."GH/HF" then they've sent several horrific messages to me in-game. Then they call on actual harm. It escalates over time. So, again, as someone approaching 40 (age is more about experience when I see these comments).. But my 12 yr old kid starts to see this in games that are rated E. So where is the accountability? How do you defend this kind of behavior?
pinky29
Profile Joined January 2019
57 Posts
May 09 2020 09:15 GMT
#11
On May 09 2020 18:05 fastr wrote:
Show nested quote +
This is not true. In fact if you were around a while it was claimed to be an "official Sc2 site" for information. You even have employees POST on this site. It would be very disingenuous to claim this site is "one of many" any they are "absolved" from any responsibility when it comes to real life threats or posting. There are balance threads specifically based on the feedback from this site; while it is not direct, TL is a conduit to Blizzard and the SC community.


I've been around a while. If you hover on people's name, you can see how old their account is. Yours shows January 2019. Mine shows February 2011. Now this isn't a dick measuring contest, maybe you've been reading TL for years without having an account, but for the past decade or so I've been browsing TL, I don't ever recall a time where they claimed to be an "official SC2 site". I could be wrong though, since the website opened in 2001.

I also don't recall current Blizzard employees posting on TL for years. Last I can remember was David Kim back in 2012 or so? But I mean, even if current Blizzard employees were posting here now, I don't see how that would make TL anymore "official". A lot of development teams of PC game titles actively post in their respective subreddit, that doesn't make reddit an official website of said development studio.

So again, I fail to understand your point about how TL is in any way shape or form responsible for people BMing on ladder.


Ok. So this is my last response to you. I'm not marginalizing your questions but you are not informed. Please see my last response. My account dates back to 2004; I've sponsored matches with WhiteRa, Kas, MKP, DiMaga, GoODy, even long time players like Major (Special) and Puck/Nina. My account posts change b/c of my login source (b/c of Twitch) - that is not the point. It is the fact you reference the word "BMing on ladder" which is actual real world THREATS. Your continuous response leads me to believe you are somehow involved in this whole thing.
DrunkenSCV
Profile Joined November 2016
76 Posts
May 09 2020 10:07 GMT
#12
Someone should protect this 40 y.o. dude and his family from raging teenagers. We must act quickly, they may be coming after him RIGHT NOW.

User was warned for this post
imsupervisor1
Profile Joined August 2017
12 Posts
May 09 2020 10:22 GMT
#13
A 37 year old father of 2 and you offensive gg people then complain when they lose their cool. The internet is made up of all sorts of people!

Try being friendlier towards people and you might find that they will in turn treat you with some respect.
DarkPlasmaBall
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
United States46060 Posts
May 09 2020 10:25 GMT
#14
I think the best you can do now is report opponents to Blizzard. If you feel seriously threatened, then do that.
"There is nothing more satisfying than looking at a crowd of people and helping them get what I love." ~Day[9] Daily #100
Firebolt145
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
Lalalaland34503 Posts
Last Edited: 2020-05-09 10:46:51
May 09 2020 10:44 GMT
#15
This thread is quickly circling the drain.

The personal attacks don't belong anywhere on TL. TL has no power over what Blizzard does or doesn't do with SC2. To my knowledge we were never an official SC2 website, we were just the de facto community site for it.

The discussion about online BM is a valid one - let's try to stick to this.
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Andi_Goldberger
Profile Joined July 2018
Germany1608 Posts
Last Edited: 2020-05-09 11:52:10
May 09 2020 11:50 GMT
#16
could it be more malicious to have your kid shoot photorealistic soldiers in CoD than reading curse word-filtered messages of people threatening him over the internet? just a thought.
besides, you can tell him to mute his opponent at the start of every game if this really concerns you that much.
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DieuCure
Profile Joined January 2017
France3713 Posts
May 09 2020 14:01 GMT
#17
On May 09 2020 16:10 pinky29 wrote:
Show nested quote +
On May 09 2020 16:08 GreasedUpDeafGuy wrote:
you seem like a real drama queen


Thanks Bud. Have kids and get back to me in 20 years.


It's not because you are older than most of us there that you are right to overreact to a death threat on a ladder game.
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brickrd
Profile Blog Joined March 2014
United States4894 Posts
May 09 2020 14:55 GMT
#18
the people saying that death threats and suicide encouragement are normal internet behavior are nuts. it's insane to compare bad sportsmanship to threatening to kill a person. that's beyond "trash talk," and blizzard should be muting and banning people for that shit 100%.

the thing is, from what i've seen, they usually don't, and i don't imagine they're going to start. i also don't understand what exactly OP is proposing. while i agree there's a line that can be crossed, i don't think there's value in a bunch of forum posters holding hands and having a singalong protesting blizzard's abusive chat policies.

OP, you're not wrong in what you're essentially saying. but you do come across slightly like a person who just got angry over an online confrontation and is now trying to make a big deal out of it. i sympathize if awful things were said to you, but i don't get this thread. if you're serious then post this on the battle.net forums, maybe make a youtube video or something if you want to get attention behind it, but realistically i don't think there's anything here to get off the ground

the fact that you're apparently trying to accuse TL of being affiliated with blizzard when they're simply legally not affiliated doesn't help your case
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renaissanceMAN
Profile Joined March 2011
United States1840 Posts
May 09 2020 14:57 GMT
#19
never say gg until your opponent does (imo)

and always say "gl hf" and "gg"
On August 15 2013 03:43 Waxangel wrote: no amount of money can replace the enjoyment of being mean to people on the internet
Andi_Goldberger
Profile Joined July 2018
Germany1608 Posts
Last Edited: 2020-05-09 15:22:14
May 09 2020 15:21 GMT
#20
On May 09 2020 23:57 renaissanceMAN wrote:
never say gg until your opponent does (imo)

and always say "gl hf" and "gg"


https://twitter.com/Artosis/status/1144505774200090624?s=20
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