EPTArtosis going to be a Father - Page 15
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Nick!
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Incognoto
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Outsited
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Wink and the Gun
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So youre saying me and my big sister were both accidents? For the record, the entire marriage vs non-marriage argument aside, there's nothing wrong with being an accident (which is very different from being unwanted). My son is, but that doesn't make him any less my son or make me love him any less. Frankly, with the majority of people I know, their first child is generally an accident, and I'd wager a lot more of us are than we've been led to believe. | ||
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Lyter
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Zaurus
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On November 04 2011 21:08 Asores wrote: And you base that on what? I know lots of people (including my parents) that had children before they got married. And none of them was unplanned. God damn it people. I am using words like maybe, usually to sound like I am considering all of the exceptions. So please.... Don't make me feel like I am talking to kids here please. I am not here to argue. Congrats to Artosis, I wish him all the best. I m not here to prove that his child will be a flop. But we should advocate the use of safety measures so we don't end up with unexpected babies. That's all I want to say. | ||
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Roblin
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edit: On November 04 2011 21:14 Zaurus wrote: God damn it people. I am using words like maybe, usually to sound like I am considering all of the exceptions. So please.... Don't make me feel like I am talking to kids here please. I am not here to argue. Congrats to Artosis, I wish him all the best. I m not here to prove that his child will be a flop. But we should advocate the use of safety measures so we don't end up with unexpected babies. That's all I want to say. bastard: born outside of marriage I'm by definition a bastard. do I care? nope. was I unintended? I don't know. do I care? nope. besides, if you happen to get pregnant without planning it, you usually abort it if you're not ready to take care of a child. | ||
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cwae
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Xiron
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ihasaKAROT
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AmericanUmlaut
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On November 04 2011 21:03 Zaurus wrote: LOL I don't have a religion. Having a kid is not something you can do without a proper planning. It is tough financially, physically and mentally. But if he is ready, why not. Having a child before marriage is usually not planned. Is not the idea of having a child before marriage that is wrong, but rather the idea of having one without proper planning. Most of you are going to be critical of me I am happy for him, and I hope he is prepared for what is to come. Raising a child is not easy, most of your parents are trying to get you off this forum/game. We should not be celebrating this like it is something big, it gives teenagers the wrong idea. It all sound great till you have to delicate Some of your time and money to your child. Bottom line is, I am happy for him, but we should not be spreading the wrong values here. Yep, most of us are going to be critical of you, because someone we love has just annouced that he's going to have a child, and you've responded with criticism of his moral values. That is an incredibly rude gesture at a moment when one traditionally congratulates the parents to be and wishes them well on the incredibly challenging and rewarding path of parenthood. What kind of parenting did you receive that you never learned such a basic social grace? To slightly enlighten you, there are many cultures and subcultures around the world in which having a child prior to getting married is common, acceptable, and not at all related to a lack of planning. Among my circle of friends, about half either started having kids before they got married or are raising children with no plan to get married at all. The idea that an unmarried couple's pregnancy is necessarily accidental or unwanted is as ignorant as the idea that it's acceptable to publically bring up the possibility literally minutes after the announcement of the pregnancy. | ||
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Keilah
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Captain Peabody
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 You gonna marry your gf now? Especially with a child, the security, permanence, and financial benefits of marriage could be a big help. I'll be praying for you. | ||
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