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Sponkz
Denmark4564 Posts
@Kenpachi Don't go in any direction, if you try to act because of a flirt, you might fuck it up hardcore. | ||
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Duvon
Sweden2360 Posts
On September 24 2013 16:49 Sponkz wrote: If you fuck everything in sight, you are an asshole though (been there, done that, never again). @Kenpachi Don't go in any direction, if you try to act because of a flirt, you might fuck it up hardcore. I don't necessarily agree. As long as you are clear about fucking everything in sight and don't press too hard. | ||
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Osmoses
Sweden5302 Posts
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Sponkz
Denmark4564 Posts
If your only goal is to bang chicks for no reason, then you are indeed an asshole  @Osmoses Oh, i hope he ain't gonna go down the ONS-road. It didn't sound like he was gonna approach it that way | ||
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UniversalSnip
9871 Posts
On September 24 2013 17:06 Sponkz wrote: @Duvon If your only goal is to bang chicks for no reason, then you are indeed an asshole I take issue with the idea that "banging chicks" requires some secondary reason. | ||
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Sponkz
Denmark4564 Posts
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UniversalSnip
9871 Posts
On September 24 2013 17:24 Sponkz wrote: It is not so much the fact that you're banging chicks, more the way you look at women. If your ideology is "i can be direct and ask anyone if they wanna fuck, and if they don't, i will just ask someone else" then how exactly are you looking at women? Like they're fucking goddesses or like they're tools for your needs? uh yeah, there's a pretty wide swathe of middle ground to work with there, comprising what you might call the "normal attitude" territory, and you can really lean closer to either extreme or be squarely in the center of it, it's fine whichever way. | ||
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Lord Tolkien
United States12084 Posts
On September 24 2013 17:24 Sponkz wrote: It is not so much the fact that you're banging chicks, more the way you look at women. If your ideology is "i can be direct and ask anyone if they wanna fuck, and if they don't, i will just ask someone else" then how exactly are you looking at women? Like they're fucking goddesses or like they're tools for your needs? I think you're objecting to a perceived over-objectification of women here. Sex can be casual. Men and women can both enjoy it. It's why people hook up. If people are looking for casual sex and looking for others for casual sex, what's the problem? The approach is rather brusque if said friend is being direct about it (hence why he'd probably be labeled an asshole), but it shouldn't fundamentally be a problem. Though if the long distance relationship isn't open, then huge asshole territory there. What I'm trying to say in sleep deprived terms is that cruising doesn't necessarily entail a misogynistic attitude (though it can). Well, that and you can cruise for members of the same sex (ehm), but still. Hookup apps are there for a reason (though to my knowledge, there isn't a popular one for straight people so eh). | ||
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Duvon
Sweden2360 Posts
However, one reasoning behind it is: Having sex with someone (and spending an evening leading up to that), can get you closer to that person than maybe a month of casual getting-to-know each other would. If you are a bit unsure of what it is you are looking for in a partner (be it man or woman), you can with clear intentions of learning the field fuck around and come out wiser of it. Without being an asshole. I agree that fucking around simply for fucking arounds sake is assholey, and having a partner/multiple is generally the better way to get sex. Edit: To make it clear, my friend and this attitude isn't about just walking up to a random chick and say "wanna fuck" and then move on if it's a no. It's about targetting a girl, introduce yourself, learn a bit about her, let her know a bit about you, make it clear that you are interested in her, at least on a friend basis, gauge her reaction, and if it's "okaish"* make it clear, that you wish to have sex. If the "answer" is no, then you can describe a bit about why are so forward and your philosofy, and learn to know the girl more on a friend basis. Congrats, you've just given a great compliment to a girl "IM INTERESTED IN YOU", you've learned to know them, and maybe gotten a great compliment in return "YOU ARE COOL LETS GO FOR A RIDE". *This sounds an awful lot like seduction, but it really isn't. Also, a part of this attitude is that it makes you feel good. If a girl is interested in you, you get a huge compliment. If a girl who's got a boyfriend is interested in you, you just got an even bigger compliment. If a girl refers to her boyfriend as a reason not to, you also got a compliment. You, as said, also give compliments. | ||
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Osmoses
Sweden5302 Posts
Women are people, and just like men they are not all alike. Some do in fact just like to fuck. | ||
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mr_tolkien
France8631 Posts
As long as you're clear with what you're doing and that everybody's happy I don't see how it could be seen as bad. Everybody likes sex. | ||
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jcarlsoniv
United States27922 Posts
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Scip
Czech Republic11293 Posts
first I win honor against Roffles and then I win 1 dollar in a bet with bly about the result of the last game GG vs. Najin Sword. The bet was made halfway through the game when Najin had 8k gold lead, but I gave bly 150:1 odds. Baited and outsmarted, now I am 1 dollar richer :D come at me bros | ||
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Alaric
France45622 Posts
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NeoIllusions
United States37500 Posts
On September 24 2013 21:53 Alaric wrote: When will you win LANs rather than bets? Ouch. Alaric with the burns. | ||
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The_Unseen
France1923 Posts
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Sponkz
Denmark4564 Posts
On September 24 2013 21:53 Alaric wrote: When will you win LANs rather than bets? ahahaha that's so funny, cus it'll never happen the day scip wins a LAN, is the day Obama grows some balls the day scip wins a LAN, is when poverty and hunger is no more in Africa the days scip wins a LAN, is the same day he gets laid | ||
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Scip
Czech Republic11293 Posts
Also, please. I have won a LAN already, why would I not be able to do it again? | ||
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Requizen
United States33802 Posts
On September 24 2013 23:23 Scip wrote: Wow, watching Freeze's stream. What a laner. "hurr Sejuani camping she isn't doing anything".. apart from killing him several times apparently .. Damn laners. They don't understand. Also, please. I have won a LAN already, why would I not be able to do it again? I don't know, why wouldn't you be able to? | ||
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Scip
Czech Republic11293 Posts
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