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TeNken.1
United States226 Posts
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CaucasianAsian
Korea (South)11584 Posts
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paper
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AzureEye
United States1360 Posts
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HeavOnEarth
United States7087 Posts
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Chef
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Manifesto7
Osaka27154 Posts
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mahnini
United States6862 Posts
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MeriaDoKk
Chile1726 Posts
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Cambium
United States16368 Posts
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konadora
Singapore66355 Posts
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Archaic
United States4024 Posts
http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=96463 | ||
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LaSt)ChAnCe
United States2179 Posts
but it's really not so much the site as it is the people, go to the sites and get to know the people, don't just go after any specific site | ||
IntoTheWow
is awesome32277 Posts
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Probe.
United States877 Posts
+ Show Spoiler + watch out for Chris Hansen | ||
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kroko
Finland2136 Posts
The guys adds were like competition who had the biggest e-penis. Adds were like "Hello I am handsome rich guy with BMW"... So I decided this is not for me and continued with lonely nights... with only company my hand T_T | ||
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Ronald_McD
Canada807 Posts
Especially not places that find people based on there "compatibility" with you | ||
lilsusie
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clazziquai
6685 Posts
On June 30 2009 16:32 lilsusie wrote: I hear that eharmony is actually for relationship seekers and match.com is for hook ups. One of my friends met and married a girl he found on eharmony... Oh wow. :O | ||
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Jonoman92
United States9104 Posts
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Hurricane
United States3939 Posts
 http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-8198559878970672169&hl=en | ||
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Cube
Canada777 Posts
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Ilikestarcraft
Korea (South)17731 Posts
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opsayo
591 Posts
On June 30 2009 16:49 Hurricane wrote: I remember Day[9] did a standup thing about eharmony. It was really funny but it made it sound like it was a kind of shitty site. I'm not sure if he was being serious about his review though http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-8198559878970672169&hl=en That was impressive, stand-up is really difficult. More power to him! | ||
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wishbones
Canada2600 Posts
 Good vocabulary i guess u need one to be standup funny. Depends also. ne way goood view! | ||
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s4v4nt
Germany28 Posts
Just think if e-dating would really work and everyone finds a partner there, then there wouldnt be any dating sites anymore. But the reality is they dont work, they promote with all kinds of stuff like psychological compability etc just to fool you. my suggestion is go read some articles about "natural game" and try meat girls outside. | ||
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BlueRoyaL
United States2493 Posts
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MoeMoeKyun
United States215 Posts
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-StrifeX-
United States529 Posts
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Kennigit
Canada19447 Posts
On June 30 2009 23:36 -StrifeX- wrote: Just get off the computer and go out man. Parties, Clubs, Bars, and hot spots. The more your out the better, If you want to try some online crap (which probably full of married women or women with serious problems) that is up to you. Good Luck though. You would THINK it works like this. I''ve spent the last 4 years of my life in bars clubs blah blah spent thousands on booze and THIS is by far the greatest thing ever. I signed up for an online dating site about a week and a half ago and it's pretty much the greatest thing ever created. 60% of the users are female...why? Why would girls "who get hit on all the time by guys in clubs" sign up for an online dating site? Most of them are either really hot or at least cute. Why would THEY sign up? Because every saturday night 3 things happen 1) Sober decent guys too pussy to approach them 2) Assholes/Drunk decent guys who look like idiots now approach them 3) Both get turned down and they all go home alone The numbas speak! On top of this they girls get probably 50 emails a day from guys who think they are heroic and are like "Hey send me nude pix" "hey gimme yo digits shortyyyy" "nice rack wanna webcam?". Im serious, so when you write a decent email that doesn't make you look like a needy pussy you are in the top 10% of what she would receive that day. But yeah all you do is, create yourself a baller profile, only put up a few of your best pics and gogo. I usually 1 email a day from some new girl...not all hot, infact there are some real chubba chubbas who detail themselves as "average" in the weight catagory but are clearly 250. It's really wierd at first but once you get used to it its heroic cause you can wake up on sunday morning not shaven, not showered and hung over. Send out a few emails. Get a couple back GG! and i use plentyoffish.com i think it's biggest in world. | ||
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niteReloaded
Croatia5282 Posts
Not from personal experience, but it makes perfect sense. | ||
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[-Bluewolf-]
United States609 Posts
Match.com was always the most active, likely due to their advertising budget, and had the most robust "filter" options on their searches. Sadly, it is also quite expensive for a membership, and it doesn't indicate who is an active member and hence can reply on the site. If one can sneak in a contact method in your message it works fairly well though. Okcupid.com was always a good site and it is 100% free. Decent searching options as well. It also encourages one to fill out a real profile with its setup so you get less of the generic "I like long walks on the beach and having fun" crap that tells you absolutely nothing about someone. PlentyOfFish.com is free, but the worst in terms of the datability of the users. To top it off, the code and functionality of the site is the worst of the bunch. Yahoo Personals were occasionally alright, but this has a membership fee again. It was dying back then, wouldn't be surprised if it was dead now. eHarmony, True.com, etc were all worthless for me. | ||
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Fr33t
United States1128 Posts
On June 30 2009 16:49 Hurricane wrote: I remember Day[9] did a standup thing about eharmony. It was really funny but it made it sound like it was a kind of shitty site. I'm not sure if he was being serious about his review though http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-8198559878970672169&hl=en Thanks for linking to this video! Day[9] is so fucking awesome, hahaha | ||
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Kennigit
Canada19447 Posts
Hey.. you seem like a pretty sweet guy.. and yes i do get a few older men that will try to buy me.. ahah.. so i just ignore them.. there's even one guy that is a painter.. and wants to make a portrait of me.. naked.. lol.. anyways.. haha.. and as for travelling, i've been to Scotland, the mountains of Italy, and the Rocky Mountains in Alberta.. so much fun!! so tell me a bit more about you.. you wouldnt believe what kinda msgs ive gotten on here. ive had one dude ask me to have a three some with him and his gf. which ya wierded me out just a tad. and ive had to hold my own since i was 16, moved out young, and ive always been the type who went my own way and did what i actually wanted to do so. I think the most important thing is not to get discouraged when girls dont email you back. I fucked up so many the first few days and the site shows you the status of your message..almost all of mine were "read deleted"...But you have to just keep going and get over your ego. Last night i read this girl's profile and realized we were basically the same person, same humor etc. emailed her and i see "read - deleted"...In rage mode i emailed 4 others and they all replied so yeah just dont get discouraged if you suck. | ||
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Obscura
United States5 Posts
I've browsed OKCupid (free), and it's like if MySpace were devoted entirely to hooking up/dating. I made an account the other day, and my profile is mostly empty except for a picture and I answered some of their "match questions" and there already are people rating/matching me. I'm not sure what to make of it. Match.com is $20 a month, so it's expensive. I looked at it, and yeah someone already mentioned that you can't tell who signed up for the service or not, so you won't know if messaging someone is a waste of time or not. From this, I would probably say try OkCupid, it's free and you've got nothing to lose, or if you want a really serious relationship try EHarmony and then if you get desperate go to Match. | ||
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CursOr
United States6335 Posts
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Sinensis
United States2513 Posts
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Plexa
Aotearoa39261 Posts
On July 01 2009 01:17 cUrsOr wrote: Dno about that... but it certainly gives you the shittiest "how you two met" story =/go to school/college. youll either meet girls there or make friends that have parties w/ girls there. i dont recommend the "local" scene as far as clubs and bars... um because, to be nice, you have a better chance of meeting someone smart and interesting at school. the intraweb is not a good way to form that lifelong relationship... unless youre just looking for teh sex. then you go to club Meat Market. gl hf | ||
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StorrZerg
United States13919 Posts
not by finding? though that might create a bond but thats different | ||
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Xusneb
Canada612 Posts
I don't see anything negative about relationships online as long as they quickly lead to a real-life encounter. Basically, use the sites to find potential partners and then set up a RL date and proceed like any other normal relationship. The initial starting point of contact - whether it's online, at a club, whatever - does not matter! | ||
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vRoOk
United States1024 Posts
On June 30 2009 11:58 Archaic wrote: http://www.craigslist.com/ http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=96463 Sad but true : / Still working on it | ||
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Hypnosis
United States2061 Posts
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epicdoom
United States489 Posts
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fanatacist
10319 Posts
Go to the Chatterbox forum Go to any thread that has the line "Post Your Pics" in some shape or form, that has over 1000 pages. Observe the thread for a week or two - see who the respected veterans are, who the newbie "plz rate me!!!111!1! ;DD" bitches are. Respect the veterans, bash the newbies. This is how you make friends. Use your mutual friends in the veteran ring to make more veteran friends, a lot of them will be girls. If they have any sense of humor (and if you have any trolling ability) you will gain support in your trolling ability from other vets. Bond with the girl vets that are in your area (state away at most). Talk to them outside of the forum (AIM/MSN/Phone). Webcam is the weapon of choice. Play the game on them while still retaining your badass status. Eventually make plans to meet up with them, "I am off work for a few days, want to meet up and do something?" Meet them, get high (optional), eat White Castle (optional), have sex. Go back home. Repeat. This has been working for me. | ||
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StorrZerg
United States13919 Posts
On July 01 2009 01:49 fanatacist wrote: Go on Gaiaonline.com Go to the Chatterbox forum Go to any thread that has the line "Post Your Pics" in some shape or form, that has over 1000 pages. Observe the thread for a week or two - see who the respected veterans are, who the newbie "plz rate me!!!111!1! ;DD" bitches are. Respect the veterans, bash the newbies. This is how you make friends. Use your mutual friends in the veteran ring to make more veteran friends, a lot of them will be girls. If they have any sense of humor (and if you have any trolling ability) you will gain support in your trolling ability from other vets. Bond with the girl vets that are in your area (state away at most). Talk to them outside of the forum (AIM/MSN/Phone). Webcam is the weapon of choice. Play the game on them while still retaining your badass status. Eventually make plans to meet up with them, "I am off work for a few days, want to meet up and do something?" Meet them, get high (optional), eat White Castle (optional), have sex. Go back home. Repeat. This has been working for me. So does your GF know this? | ||
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fanatacist
10319 Posts
This was after she broke up with me the first time and before we started going out [: Well I mean I talked on this forum since before we went out, then we went out and I didn't try to meet up with anyone, then she left me and I was almost 17 and I figured "fuck why not make something out of these potential girls," and in ~1 year I did the above to 3(4 if you count one of the girl's friend) girls. EDIT: She knows about the girls and how I was a moral-less slut, but she doesn't know that I met them on gaiaonline lol. | ||
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StorrZerg
United States13919 Posts
On July 01 2009 01:57 fanatacist wrote: This was after she broke up with me the first time and before we started going out [: Well I mean I talked on this forum since before we went out, then we went out and I didn't try to meet up with anyone, then she left me and I was almost 17 and I figured "fuck why not make something out of these potential girls," and in ~1 year I did the above to 3(4 if you count one of the girl's friend) girls. EDIT: She knows about the girls and how I was a moral-less slut, but she doesn't know that I met them on gaiaonline lol. rofl. | ||
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Railxp
Hong Kong1313 Posts
On July 01 2009 01:57 fanatacist wrote: This was after she broke up with me the first time and before we started going out [: Well I mean I talked on this forum since before we went out, then we went out and I didn't try to meet up with anyone, then she left me and I was almost 17 and I figured "fuck why not make something out of these potential girls," and in ~1 year I did the above to 3(4 if you count one of the girl's friend) girls. EDIT: She knows about the girls and how I was a moral-less slut, but she doesn't know that I met them on gaiaonline lol. AHAHAHHA that last line is golden. | ||
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TeNken.1
United States226 Posts
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R3condite
Korea (South)1541 Posts
On June 30 2009 11:19 TeNken.1 wrote: Sup ya'll. I'm considering signing up for one of these sites (match.com / eharmony / yahoo personals / etc.) and just wondering if anyone has had experience with any of them and which one is the best for a mid-twenties guy. Mod Edit: Do not put stupid image macros in your post. rofl... mod owned | ||
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Probe.
United States877 Posts
On July 01 2009 00:58 Kennigit wrote: Heres a couple emails from my inbox for all the haters... I think the most important thing is not to get discouraged when girls dont email you back. I fucked up so many the first few days and the site shows you the status of your message..almost all of mine were "read deleted"...But you have to just keep going and get over your ego. Last night i read this girl's profile and realized we were basically the same person, same humor etc. emailed her and i see "read - deleted"...In rage mode i emailed 4 others and they all replied so yeah just dont get discouraged if you suck. FOOL. Both those people were me. I'm just a guy who likes fucking with you. | ||
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OmgIRok
Taiwan2699 Posts
-> i found out about this site when i was in 4th grade. I know i know, you don't have to tel me | ||
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MK
United States496 Posts
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Cambium
United States16368 Posts
On July 01 2009 14:29 Probe. wrote: FOOL. Both those people were me. I'm just a guy who likes fucking with you. Tip: don't fuck with a guy who's red... | ||
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omninmo
2349 Posts
ostensibly to find marriage partner. these sites bank serious cash. all sorts of micro transactions within. | ||
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KurtistheTurtle
United States1966 Posts
On June 30 2009 23:43 Kennigit wrote: All the heroes in this thread have obviously never tried it but you definitely should because 90% of you are single and reading this on your computer anyways. Don't bash it before you try it. Meeting girls irl may be more traditional and accepted, but online you can instantly filter and sort through MANY MANY times the amount of girls you'd meet in rl. You can screen them with emails and stuff and find the girls you're really looking for who you might not otherwise meet. Now think about attractive pre-med chicks who are too busy to do anything besides school. If you met you could vibe with them and take things further no problem. You won't meet them at parties, maybe a starbucks if they're studying there. Snag a date with one of them and down the road you're married to a doctor anyway | ||
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Cambium
United States16368 Posts
On July 01 2009 16:10 omninmo wrote: most popular chinese dating site ostensibly to find marriage partner. these sites bank serious cash. all sorts of micro transactions within. w...o...w... Crazy. | ||
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