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Chibi[OWNS]
Profile Joined May 2003
United Kingdom10597 Posts
December 01 2005 08:05 GMT
#101
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mnm
Profile Blog Joined August 2003
United States4493 Posts
December 01 2005 08:07 GMT
#102
ugh im so fuckin full..
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Cloud
Profile Blog Joined November 2004
Sexico5880 Posts
December 01 2005 08:07 GMT
#103
I still think this is a joke and she is laughing her ass off to all the other people that openly declared being the "shy quiet antisocial introvert", aka. n.e.r.d.
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TruthBringer
Profile Joined November 2003
United States578 Posts
December 01 2005 08:08 GMT
#104
Haha, she spoke her mind! See that wasn't so bad.
Carbon FC
Chibi[OWNS]
Profile Joined May 2003
United Kingdom10597 Posts
December 01 2005 08:09 GMT
#105
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TruthBringer
Profile Joined November 2003
United States578 Posts
December 01 2005 08:12 GMT
#106
I say stuff to people all the time that I don't really expect them to care about. Sometimes it gets people started talking to me. You can't go around expecting everyone to be highly critical of what you say and what you talk about. If you did, you'd never be willing to talk to anyone except established friends.
Carbon FC
mnm
Profile Blog Joined August 2003
United States4493 Posts
December 01 2005 08:12 GMT
#107
hey i am spewing out truths here.. i aint makin ne of this stuff up.. i think i need.. not alcohol.. but sobe energy.. or something like frapuccino thatll really wake me up.. so that i do get that active mind.. or w/e..

my bf is gosu social extrovert.. i wish i was like him
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Chibi[OWNS]
Profile Joined May 2003
United Kingdom10597 Posts
December 01 2005 08:17 GMT
#108
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mnm
Profile Blog Joined August 2003
United States4493 Posts
December 01 2005 08:21 GMT
#109
u know.. this is one of the topics i talk about.. when i cant think of anything else to talk about.. i can go on for hours talking about how quiet i am.. ok maybe not hours.. but i can at least talk about it bec i talk about it so much
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Chibi[OWNS]
Profile Joined May 2003
United Kingdom10597 Posts
December 01 2005 08:22 GMT
#110
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TruthBringer
Profile Joined November 2003
United States578 Posts
December 01 2005 08:24 GMT
#111
Damn, i got pwned by Chibi . . .
I still think you just need to speak your mind and not worry about what other people think. Once you get in the habit of speaking your mind, you are better equipped to think quickly and react to other people.
Carbon FC
Chibi[OWNS]
Profile Joined May 2003
United Kingdom10597 Posts
December 01 2005 08:26 GMT
#112
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TruthBringer
Profile Joined November 2003
United States578 Posts
December 01 2005 08:31 GMT
#113
Don't you ever think about idiot drivers, annoying parents, funny stories, good movies, bad fashion decisions, cute animals, . . . any light, fun topics that many people can relate to? My mom said the stupidest thing to me the other day, she told me that I should never date a Buddhist girl. I didn't even want to know her reasons. I mentioned it to my friend, he laughed at me for having to put up with crazy stuff like that from my Mom, but then he told me something stupid that his mom said.

Granted not everyone gets such a good source of comic relief from their parents, but there are tons of things that you can find in common with people and talk to them about.
Carbon FC
mnm
Profile Blog Joined August 2003
United States4493 Posts
December 01 2005 08:36 GMT
#114
thats another thing! most people my age have all these fun stories to tell about how life was like back in high school or college.. all the crazy things they did.. gosh.. i didn't do anything exciting back then.. nor did my friends back then.. no funny anecdotes here..
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ManaBlue
Profile Blog Joined July 2004
Canada10458 Posts
December 01 2005 08:40 GMT
#115
I think Chibi has this one nailed, but if there is one thing I can say with certainty that hasn't been mentioned and may shed some light on your social actions for you, it's this.

i go to church on sundays.. just out of curiosity.. i do get another opportunity to talk to people there.. and people do approach me but.. i always forget peoples names.. and i forget the things theyve told me..


Do you know why you forget their names and what they told you? Because you don't care. If you did, you'de remember, speak, form relationships, be approachable.

Everyone is selfconcious in public and in dealing with people they don't know. Ever notice that the people that get all the attention in a group are kind and happy and seem excited when they see people? And people just seem to gravitate toward them, like they don't even need to try to be popular? That's because they make people comfortable around them, and they form relationships with people that grow over time.

If you can't remember a person's name, or their story, why the fuck should they bother talking to you? You obviously don't give a shit.

Would you want to talk to a person like you? Someone who is so introverted and quiet that you can't understand what they are thinking, whether they like you around them, whether they can string enough words together to engage you socially? No. You wouldn't.

Think more about what you do in social situations, not what you aren't doing. That's where you'll find your answer.
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mnm
Profile Blog Joined August 2003
United States4493 Posts
December 01 2005 08:44 GMT
#116
well how the heck do u remembers ppls names esp when u meet a bunch of them at a time..

check out my gosu conversation skills:

(16:59:38) mnm: bzzt
(16:59:52) Peter: *swats the fly*
(16:59:57) mnm: =[
(17:00:05) Peter: :-)
(17:00:18) mnm: *pokes the rubber duckie*
(17:01:03) Peter: =[
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lIlIlIlIlIlI
Profile Blog Joined October 2004
Korea (South)3851 Posts
December 01 2005 08:45 GMT
#117
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TruthBringer
Profile Joined November 2003
United States578 Posts
December 01 2005 08:49 GMT
#118
Besides Starcraft what are 5 very important or interesting things to you?

I completely love soccer, when I play with people I love talking about the game, talking about my team's weaknesses, what we should have done better etc.
I like animals a lot. So I end up talking to people about animals. As long as it stays interesting, nobody ever has a problem with it. I told my friend about how a tree frog jumped on my foot or that I was harassing a juvenile alligator when I was in a kayak. I took a picture of an anole biting my hand. Even the stupid squirrels on campus provide inspiration, you can throw anything near them and they chase after it. I've thrown ice cubes, hot coals, sticks, acorns, apple cores . . . no matter what the squirrels chase it down and investigate it.
Maybe I am just a complainer but I do complain a lot about my mom. Other people can always relate because pretty much everybody gets pissed off by their mom or dad.

Okay well, I am not going to list 5 things, and you don't have to either, but there are obviously things which you care about and other people do too that you can talk with them about.
Carbon FC
ManaBlue
Profile Blog Joined July 2004
Canada10458 Posts
December 01 2005 08:50 GMT
#119
On December 01 2005 17:44 mnm wrote:
well how the heck do u remembers ppls names esp when u meet a bunch of them at a time..

check out my gosu conversation skills:

(16:59:38) mnm: bzzt
(16:59:52) Peter: *swats the fly*
(16:59:57) mnm: =[
(17:00:05) Peter: :-)
(17:00:18) mnm: *pokes the rubber duckie*
(17:01:03) Peter: =[


You don't get what I'm saying do you?

The point is not "how to do" something. What I'm saying there mnm is that you claim to what to be a more engaging conversationalist. I believe this is a lie. I think you are ashamed of your history of social behavior and envy the "life of the party" so much that you what an artificial way to emulate them.

If you really wanted to talk to people...not talk AT them, or galavant around them, be the loud mouth one woman show...then you would speak to people and care about what they are telling you. Get to know them.

What the fuck is "meeting" people good for if you're doing it for the sake of "meeting" more people. If you do that you won't truely meet anyone. See what I mean?
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Chibi[OWNS]
Profile Joined May 2003
United Kingdom10597 Posts
December 01 2005 08:53 GMT
#120
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