EPTOn May 09 2016 02:01 Skynx wrote:
Damn this thread kicked off all of a sudden.
Damn this thread kicked off all of a sudden.
Thanks to Dougler
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We are extremely close to shutting down this thread for the same reasons the PUA thread was shut down. While some of the time this thread contains actual discussion with people asking help and people giving nice advice, it often gets derailed by rubbish that should not be here. The moderation team will be trying to steer this thread in a different direction from now on. Posts of the following nature are banned: 1) ANYTHING regarding PUA. If your post contains the words 'alpha' or 'beta' or anything of that sort please don't hit post. 2) Stupid brags. You can tell us about your nice success stories with someone, but posts such as 'lol 50 Tinder matches' are a no-no. 3) Any misogynistic bullshit, including discussion about rape culture. 4) One night stands and random sex. These are basically brags that invariably devolve into gender role discussions and misogynistic comments. Last chance, guys. This thread is for dating advice and sharing dating stories. While gender roles, sociocultural norms, and our biological imperative to reproduce are all tangentially related, these subjects are not the main purpose of the thread. Please AVOID these discussions. If you want to discuss them at length, go to PMs or start a blog. If you disagree with someone's ideologies, state that you disagree with them and why they won't work from a dating standpoint and move on. We will not tolerate any lengthy derailments that aren't directly about dating. | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States46686 Posts
Thanks to Dougler | ||
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Kleinmuuhg
Vanuatu4091 Posts
On May 09 2016 01:05 Acrofales wrote: Wow. I am in Singapore for work. If you happen to live in Singapore and want to take a girl out on a 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th, or 217th date, I recommend the Gardens by the Bay. What a spectacular place, and has everything you might possibly want in a date. Especially cloud kingdom after dark! | ||
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TheDougler
Canada8324 Posts
Thanks to the people here who are cheering me on, I love that stuff. And I acknowledge those who think this is going to end poorly and are "just looking out for me" or whatever. The thing is, I spent my entire adult life meeting girl after girl who isn't interested in me, and trying to fake it till I made it. That's not what's going on here. She likes me, I like her, she's brilliant and funny and beautiful and she seems to think I'm pretty swell too. That's all we need for this to work baby, not some set of rules. | ||
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Kleinmuuhg
Vanuatu4091 Posts
Glgl hf | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
And nobody can say things are going to end poorly, because no matter how many things you are messing up (and you are, and that's okay when you're getting your first experiences) attraction is not a choice and if it's really really high you can screw up plenty before she loses romantic interest. Especially if she's inexperienced herself, which seems to be the case. | ||
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B.I.G.
3251 Posts
Treat a "bad girl" like a lady and you could get a devout wonderful woman out of it. Treat a "good girl" like a tool for sex and you'll get someone that is emotionally completely detached from you. All of you have more power over setting the pace in a relationship then you might think. You can influence like at least half this stuff. | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On May 09 2016 18:40 B.I.G. wrote: You reap what you sow guys... Treat a "bad girl" like a lady and you could get a devout wonderful woman out of it. Treat a "good girl" like a tool for sex and you'll get someone that is emotionally completely detached from you. All of you have more power over setting the pace in a relationship then you might think. You can influence like at least half this stuff. Not quite sure what your comment was related to... but I think few people would even bother with someone who they thought was "bad" in the first place. | ||
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B.I.G.
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In this context I meant "bad" as in a girl that shows what is often considered as bad behavior such as having many different partners for example. Considering that definition I can promise you quite a few people have bothered with girls like that. | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States46686 Posts
I don't know how frequently you'll change the girl per se, as opposed to the chemistry just not working out/ them not appreciating you treating them differently. You'll probably break up and fail at the relationship. | ||
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B.I.G.
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mofried
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Over the last month it got realy bad, I'm seeing a very nice girl whom I realy like, so I thought atleast, but I can't get an errection with her which drives me fucking crazy. I'm thinking non stop about that girl at home, I realy don't know what to do, should just forget her but I can't.. | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
It's like my friend who keeps porking his ex, rotates 3+ other women and is wondering why he doesn't feel connected to any of them. Dating's actually pretty simple if you have self control. | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
Since my last update I've met two girls, both through tinder with no real intention of finding something serious. First girl was a bit bigger than her pictures and she was trying way to hard to be funny. Wasn't really attracted to her in any way so I just never talked to her again. Just came back from the date of the second girl actually. She was fairly easy to talk to, looked more or less like I expected her too. She was really not my type at all though. She is a first year in university and she is going to be a student who plans parties etc, hard to explain but the translation would basically be "Party people". I don't know, might try to hook up with her? No great "luck" that is. Got another date coming up this weekend though! | ||
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LemOn
United Kingdom8629 Posts
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On May 11 2016 05:32 LemOn wrote: Still with the Tinder huh Tinder is just that good hehe  I don't really put in a lot of effort, I practically ask them out within 5 messages. As I am not really bothered with looking for something more serious I don't mind using tinder. And swiping is a lot of fun :D | ||
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DarkPlasmaBall
United States46686 Posts
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IgnE
United States7684 Posts
I changed my pictures on tinder/bumble (read: got actual pictures that showed my face) and now I match up with hot chicks left and right. I like bumble better than tinder but I think there's a surplus of woman in my city (D.C. area). The problem with tinder/bumble is that hot women can still be dumb. Need some kind of iq test or something. | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On May 11 2016 07:19 DarkPlasmaBall wrote: Do you see a lot of really attractive women on Tinder as you swipe through? I've never used online dating, but I always wondered how scarcely hot guys and girls would appear, presumably because most wouldn't need to "resort" to online dating... But on the other hand, online dating has become completely normalized and can streamline the process pretty well, right? Although I've also heard that women get wayyy too many messages. Oh yeah. Most girls are very attractive. I do believe a handful of the girls just use it to boost their own ego. However this is Sweden, people are generally very bad att asking out each other so Tinder is honestly a good choice. | ||
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Deleted User 101379
4849 Posts
On May 11 2016 15:00 bloodwhore~ wrote: Oh yeah. Most girls are very attractive. I do believe a handful of the girls just use it to boost their own ego. However this is Sweden, people are generally very bad att asking out each other so Tinder is honestly a good choice. Yeah, quite a few attractive women on Tinder, even in northern Germany - though 75% of the one's I see are actually Danish, because Tinder is bad with borders. However, I recently reduced my search area back to 20km since I noticed that I don't actually want anyone further away, and now I'm back to seeing at most 2-3 profiles a day - also usually all of them danish. I still met a nice woman through Tinder with whom I've been occasionally enjoying the nice weather the last two weeks. Nothing serious, since she isn't actually looking for a relationship (according to her profile), but it's been nice to have a reason to go outside for a coffee. Too bad she's a WoW and Minecraft nerd (her words) and I'm not a big fan of either while she's not a big fan of Heroes of the Storm nor 4x games. Well, and she likes Jar Jar Binks. On Friday she wants to cook together with me, so I now have to think of something nice that I want to eat, something that probably shouldn't be pizza, chicken fillet or meat loaf. | ||
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bloodwhore~
1010 Posts
On May 11 2016 15:33 Morfildur wrote: On Friday she wants to cook together with me, so I now have to think of something nice that I want to eat, something that probably shouldn't be pizza, chicken fillet or meat loaf. I know what you can eat | ||
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