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God damnit... Okay, so here's my situation. I'm supposed to do shit with this girl today, we'll say she's my girlfriend (she is), and she got out of school early and stuff, so she's supposed to call me... or I was supposed to call her at 1:00 p.m. or something; I can't really recall which.
So, around 1:30 I get to thinking, maybe I was supposed to call her, and I do. (looking back, it was a mistake) So, I call her house, and someone else answers, presumably her mother. I find out the bitch went and did stuff with some stupid friend of hers.
Gah, what the hell is wrong with people today? If I set something up with someone, I make damn sure they know I'm going to break it before I just go behind their back and do shit with someone else. What a cunt.
So, now, what I'm wondering is should I get back at her, or just blow it off like I really didn't care? I'm thinking the latter, but I could be wrong. I mean, getting back at her would show that I'm a pussy, who has nothing better to do than hang out with her, and that I really need her. However, just doing nothing shows that I'm in a position where it doesn't matter what she does, because I can always do something else, even if what I said I did was a lie.
Advice is thanks.
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Why not just tell her how you feel...
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Go and tell her that you are disappointed;;
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Going and saying anything is literally impossible, as I have no idea where she is.
PsylO, good question, but I can't really answer that, because I don't have an answer. Perhaps I will just do that...
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How old are you and your girl?
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16, currently, going to be 17 three days apart from each other.. That's in July though...
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you'll always be #2 compared to your girlfriends best friend. remember that... (well, almost always)
On May 06 2004 11:47 TeCh)PsylO wrote:
Why not just tell her how you feel...
that's the way dood
On May 06 2004 11:56 LaZyScV wrote: Show nested quote +On May 06 2004 11:51 SickofLife wrote:
16, currently, going to be 17 three days apart from each other.. That's in July though... No wonder. Still young.
thats what i just thought
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Just chill out, maybe she forgot. She's female, so, theres really no guaranteed explanation.
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Bill307
Canada9103 Posts
If you're in the relationship for sex or some other casual purpose, then don't act needy and just brush it off: chances are she doesn't even realize that she made you upset and will find it stupid if you tell her, just like how stereotypically men get annoyed when their wives are upset over nothing when they didn't do anything wrong.
If you want it to be a serious relationship (which I wouldn't recommend at that age), then you should be telling all of this to her, not to us. The reason this advice is different is because ideally in a serious relationship, you're both looking for someone who will care about how you feel, whereas these details often seem silly or dumb in a casual situation.
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show her who's boss remember the code 
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On May 06 2004 12:11 hasuwar wrote:
Have you boned her yet?
Eh, no, but that's only because of certain inconviniences, such as the parents being home.
I'm not really in it specifically for sex, though it is a nice addon, but I'm not really looking to get uber serious either...
Eh, I should probably just blow it off. It's not so much that I'm pissed because I have nothing to do, it's just I've never actually ditched anyone myself, so whenever I get ditched, it kind of irritates me.
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Clearly she's screwing around on you, and theres only one thing that can be done about that....sleep with her best friend...
how about you ask "hey, I thought we had plans, what happened?" you can't lose face value for being a straight shooter, but if you think that you can, add in lines like "did we have plans monday? cause I went out with a buddy of mine and I totally forgot, I'm so sorry" that would work nice too because then it'll make her feel guilty, but also lured into a false sense of security to say something like "yeah we had plans, but I forgot to" as to which you can reply "I lied, I stayed at home and waited for your call, but you never called, do you know what it's like to love someone that doesn't love you back? DO YOU KNOW HOW RUDE THAT IS? DO YOU EVER THINK ABOUT ANYONE BUT YOURSELF YOU SELFISH FUCKING CUNT! NO, BECAUSE YOUR TOO BUSY FUCKING THE FOOTBALL TEAM TO CARE ABOUT MY FEELINGS!" or something along those lines....
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people are posting too many personal problems on tl in these days... and is this even a real problem?
but just act like you dont care  i know i would.
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shes a normal female, she calculated what would happen and has lies ready for you or otherw ays to manipulate you, just shake the hell out of her
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id do the same thing back at her and be like oops!~ i forgot
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What were you guys supposed to do?
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Norway28892 Posts
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Just blow it off, if she's a friend then she wouldn't do it on purpose, maybe forgot or something, if you get mad over it or something then chances are she'll think you're overeacting. =/, thats my 2 cents.
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Russian Federation1020 Posts
Let it go now, if it happens alot, might wanna think about your position =D
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these bitches need to learn how to multitask better.
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There is some good advice in here. 
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MURICA15980 Posts
shake it off. She probably just forgot, but tell her she forgot but don't make a huge deal out of it. Just tell her what you said here and that you expect her to keep her appointments.
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Braavos36402 Posts
don't listen to klogon. go with the anal.
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I'd give you some advice, but last time I posted in a thread, totally not relating to, you posted no on topic posts, and just flamed me for pretty much no reason.
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On May 07 2004 19:43 Mydnyte wrote: I'd give you some advice, but last time I posted in a thread, totally not relating to, you posted no on topic posts, and just flamed me for pretty much no reason.
What the hell? I never said anything. Quote me. I don't recall flaming you.
EDIT: I found out what happened. It was strange. This guy came over to her house, out of nowhere, and kinda invited himself in. Then she got stuck with him at her house for a long time, and kinda forgot she was supposed to call me. And her bitch step-mom never told her I called... What a cunt. So, it was just me over reacting.
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 SickOfLife
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I wouldn't sweat that Myd, I think he was just kidding.
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I was just kidding, man. It was a joke, because the Backstreet Boys suck.... Yeesh.
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Fine.
Do what Psylo said, or just play it cool.
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play it cool dont be a fool --a
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dude it dont mean shit... lool how can u be sick of life at 16??
honestly dont have a whinge about it ull just come out looking like a wimp. just say "where were you? i called and u just disappeared" and thats it.
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wow how can an adolescent possibly be sick of life? omg such a mysterious anomaly!!!!!!!
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On May 06 2004 12:11 hasuwar wrote:
Have you boned her yet?
rofl that made me laugh =)
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United Kingdom10597 Posts
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United Kingdom10597 Posts
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I thought my EDIT in the other post explained it all, but I guess it didn't. She hadn't made other plans, this freak was following her around and shit. Seriously, the guy is totally messed up; I think he might be in a cult, too, which really freaks me out. Anyhow, I found out why, and it was really no big deal.
On a side note: I'm not sick of life, I like the song Sick of Life. How many fucking times do I have to explain this to people?
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United Kingdom10597 Posts
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SickOfLife, if you explain it again, you'll get a fat yawn.
Might as well get one now.
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obviously shes a bitch. ignore her completely and deal with the fact you will not be dating or fucking her. If you dont, you are her bitch.
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MURICA15980 Posts
Heh... a little late for that toasty. Obviously you didn't read the whole thread to the end, eh?
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maleorderbride
They are dating - they are boyfriend/girlfriend.
Whether they fuck or not was left out for reasons undisclosed (even though he did say they weren't.) Which really doesn't matter in any relevance whatsoever to the post he made.
He is not her bitch.
She is not a bitch.
Ignoring her completely is extremely childish and stupid.
EDIT: Wee spelling errors are fun !
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Canada5062 Posts
On May 07 2004 17:56 STIMEY d okgm fish wrote:
shes a normal female, she calculated what would happen and has lies ready for you or otherw ays to manipulate you, just shake the hell out of her
hahaha
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dont demand anal, just casually jam it in when u bone her and say u forgot to ask if she goes nuts..tell her that she forgot to call.
but if its goes in really easy and is loose..get the fuck outa there!
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