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God damnit... Okay, so here's my situation. I'm supposed to do shit with this girl today, we'll say she's my girlfriend (she is), and she got out of school early and stuff, so she's supposed to call me... or I was supposed to call her at 1:00 p.m. or something; I can't really recall which.
So, around 1:30 I get to thinking, maybe I was supposed to call her, and I do. (looking back, it was a mistake) So, I call her house, and someone else answers, presumably her mother. I find out the bitch went and did stuff with some stupid friend of hers.
Gah, what the hell is wrong with people today? If I set something up with someone, I make damn sure they know I'm going to break it before I just go behind their back and do shit with someone else. What a cunt.
So, now, what I'm wondering is should I get back at her, or just blow it off like I really didn't care? I'm thinking the latter, but I could be wrong. I mean, getting back at her would show that I'm a pussy, who has nothing better to do than hang out with her, and that I really need her. However, just doing nothing shows that I'm in a position where it doesn't matter what she does, because I can always do something else, even if what I said I did was a lie.
Advice is thanks.
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Why not just tell her how you feel...
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Go and tell her that you are disappointed;;
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Going and saying anything is literally impossible, as I have no idea where she is.
PsylO, good question, but I can't really answer that, because I don't have an answer. Perhaps I will just do that...
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How old are you and your girl?
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16, currently, going to be 17 three days apart from each other.. That's in July though...
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you'll always be #2 compared to your girlfriends best friend. remember that... (well, almost always)
On May 06 2004 11:47 TeCh)PsylO wrote:
Why not just tell her how you feel...
that's the way dood
On May 06 2004 11:56 LaZyScV wrote: Show nested quote +On May 06 2004 11:51 SickofLife wrote:
16, currently, going to be 17 three days apart from each other.. That's in July though... No wonder. Still young.
thats what i just thought
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Just chill out, maybe she forgot. She's female, so, theres really no guaranteed explanation.
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Bill307
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If you're in the relationship for sex or some other casual purpose, then don't act needy and just brush it off: chances are she doesn't even realize that she made you upset and will find it stupid if you tell her, just like how stereotypically men get annoyed when their wives are upset over nothing when they didn't do anything wrong.
If you want it to be a serious relationship (which I wouldn't recommend at that age), then you should be telling all of this to her, not to us. The reason this advice is different is because ideally in a serious relationship, you're both looking for someone who will care about how you feel, whereas these details often seem silly or dumb in a casual situation.
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show her who's boss remember the code 
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On May 06 2004 12:11 hasuwar wrote:
Have you boned her yet?
Eh, no, but that's only because of certain inconviniences, such as the parents being home.
I'm not really in it specifically for sex, though it is a nice addon, but I'm not really looking to get uber serious either...
Eh, I should probably just blow it off. It's not so much that I'm pissed because I have nothing to do, it's just I've never actually ditched anyone myself, so whenever I get ditched, it kind of irritates me.
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Clearly she's screwing around on you, and theres only one thing that can be done about that....sleep with her best friend...
how about you ask "hey, I thought we had plans, what happened?" you can't lose face value for being a straight shooter, but if you think that you can, add in lines like "did we have plans monday? cause I went out with a buddy of mine and I totally forgot, I'm so sorry" that would work nice too because then it'll make her feel guilty, but also lured into a false sense of security to say something like "yeah we had plans, but I forgot to" as to which you can reply "I lied, I stayed at home and waited for your call, but you never called, do you know what it's like to love someone that doesn't love you back? DO YOU KNOW HOW RUDE THAT IS? DO YOU EVER THINK ABOUT ANYONE BUT YOURSELF YOU SELFISH FUCKING CUNT! NO, BECAUSE YOUR TOO BUSY FUCKING THE FOOTBALL TEAM TO CARE ABOUT MY FEELINGS!" or something along those lines....
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people are posting too many personal problems on tl in these days... and is this even a real problem?
but just act like you dont care  i know i would.
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shes a normal female, she calculated what would happen and has lies ready for you or otherw ays to manipulate you, just shake the hell out of her
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id do the same thing back at her and be like oops!~ i forgot
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EPT
