Can't get girls... Why? - Page 3

haha this gave me lols.

here's a few things you have to take into consideration:

1.) if you approach a girl, especially a stranger, you have to realize that it's standard procedure for the girl to reject you provided she's not drunk. Think about it from her perspective: let's say she finds you cute. But if you guys are both strangers and she seems too willing to accept your advances, then she'll look easy. And it doesn't matter how loose-legged a girl is, no girl is going to allow herself to look easy (provided she's not drunk).

2.) But surely not all girls reject, right? There are cases where it works, and you want to know how you can get "lucky" as such. Well, given that the standard move for a girl is to reject, you need to represent an incentive she desires so strongly she disregards her inhibitions. And you need to have this incentive in ample supply.

K to summarize so far, point 1 states that standard play for a girl is to reject a stranger's advances. Point 2 states that for a girl to react positively to your advances, you need to have something she desires strong enough to reject the safety of standard play.

3.) But what is it that girls want? Well, the answer is easy cuz different girls want so many different things that, over time, you'll eventually find someone to want what you have. But if you're trying to specify what one specific girl wants, then you have to think about it much more strategically, and factor in several things like:
- age
- her social status
- her $$ status

Of course, we're just talking about strangers here so I listed features you can evaluate right off the bat. If you're trying to hit on someone you have a bit more information on, then you'd focus in things like her interests and her history, but you don't have that luxury of information with strangers.

Ok so let's make this quick. Start with age: If she's young, or looks young, it's more likely she cares about looks. If she's older, odds say she cares more about security. If she's socially insecure (you can tell this by what she's wearing and where she's wearing it) she wants someone she can latch on to lift her status. If she's socially secure, like a cool girl or whatever, she's probably more interested in talent and ability. $$$ is harder to judge because $$$ often influences social decisions as well. And finally, there's her looks.. but that's like most ambiguous aspect of them all. It's hard to estimate any sort of reaction based on what the girl looks like, so don't let looks sway into preconceived notions.

You also realize that a lot of this stuff is relative. Like, you might consider yourself to not be rich, but if you're richer than her friends, then maybe you are rich. And such.

4.) K so what do you do? What is your goal? Your goal is to use whatever skills you may have to communicate that YOU represent what that girl wants, and that you are worth the risk of foregoing standard play. Whatever mode of communication is up to you, though standard forms are humor or buying stuff.

So in short:

1. Girls reject cuz they pretty much have to reject.
2. The onus is on you to get her to reject standard play
3. Analyze what you think the girl wants and if it fits with what you have (remember to keep things relative)
4. Communicate to her that you represent what she wants

Most likely though, you'll still get rejected. This is where you'll need to make a decision: do you like this girl enough that you're willing to overcome this rejection and try again? Or were u just fucking around and hoping for some easy attention. If it's the latter just move on to another chick.