EPTOn January 09 2011 15:05 elixir_gum wrote:
this guy is so trolling lol
this guy is so trolling lol
wow that's what i first thought too
Can't get girls... Why? - Page 2
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Talent.L
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wow that's what i first thought too | ||
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zerglingsfolife
United States1694 Posts
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prototype.
Canada4215 Posts
On January 09 2011 14:54 Jstor wrote: Before you tell me to approach more, I approach like 10 chicks a day. That's not normal... | ||
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IamBach
United States1059 Posts
On January 09 2011 15:15 Gescom wrote: What's your rank on iccup? This. And have lots of money+shave | ||
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Kimaker
United States2131 Posts
Don't use pickup lines. Ever. If it comes natural fine, but if you're using already concocted ones that weren't spur of the moment, don't try. Find a skill and get good at it. I play drums and guitar and write. I don't advertise these facts to women. When we happen to be hanging out and I get a chance to play, I do it, and it impresses them. Both the playing, AND the fact that I wasn't up my own asshole about a particular skill set I have. In the end it just sounds like your trying too hard. Relationships and trying work once you're in one. But before that, treat them like they don't particularly matter that much to you. Sad truth, women like being ignored to a degree, gotta play the game man. Also... To anyone who says, "Date in your league" I got some news for you, "Your league" is whatever you decide it is. Unless you have a tumor, roughly the size of a grapefruit and shaped like my great aunt Meredith, hanging off of your face, you get to decide what your league is by how you carry yourself. | ||
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Ryalnos
United States1946 Posts
Yeah, wtf. Consider getting to know them first before harassing them by hitting on them. Going to the mall for practice is such the wrong mentality for this. | ||
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Blisse
Canada3710 Posts
10 girls a day. LOL | ||
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jlim
Spain943 Posts
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Thereisnosaurus
Australia1822 Posts
also grainy self shots. Listen. If you're having chicks run away from you and say leave me alone, you're doing something very wrong, or you come from a completely different culture. The best way of getting a woman to think you're worth her time (not the fastest, or easiest, just the best) is to *be* worth her time. Changing your voice won't do that. Pandering to their interests for the sake of it won't do that. Getting ripped is... a start. Of course, it's only a start if you'd like to catch a girl or two who would go out with a guy for his muscles alone, which are usually the kind of girl who will lie to you about important things and cheat on you with the closet bodybuilder at the first opportunity. It helps, but girls need a package, and I don't mean that in the innuendo way. Being fit helps, being handsome helps, having a bit of money helps. So does being genuine, which is a lot harder. So does being confident, knowing when to spend what money you have and what on, knowing how to take care of yourself- in a brawl, in the laundry, in the kitchen, in the supermarket. Being able to be honest in a diplomatic way, to enjoy the company of their *other* male friends- and girl friends for that matter, to be interested in what they are interested in, or at least give an interesting reason why you're not. Having a little of all of these isn't like a job application, you don't write it down on a piece of paper and hand it to prospective dates. It's the fact that you do, genuinely, have those qualities that allow you to be genuinely confident that you are worth knowing, and probably getting to know better. False confidence quickly becomes arrogance or mild insanity. Genuine confidence, and the skills that are the reason you have it, carry you where you want to go when you want to go there. Long story short, there is no easy way to women, no trick. a couple of million years of evolution and a couple of decades of social conditioning will ensure that even your average woman will see through tricks attempted by someone who hasn't had a decade or so's practice at it. Since I guess you didn't go to drama school, learn to be a con artist or grow up reading books on artful courtship, that means that you're gonna have to do it the hard way. That is, don't look worth it, don't act worth it, BE worth it. | ||
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d_so
Korea (South)3262 Posts
here's a few things you have to take into consideration: 1.) if you approach a girl, especially a stranger, you have to realize that it's standard procedure for the girl to reject you provided she's not drunk. Think about it from her perspective: let's say she finds you cute. But if you guys are both strangers and she seems too willing to accept your advances, then she'll look easy. And it doesn't matter how loose-legged a girl is, no girl is going to allow herself to look easy (provided she's not drunk). 2.) But surely not all girls reject, right? There are cases where it works, and you want to know how you can get "lucky" as such. Well, given that the standard move for a girl is to reject, you need to represent an incentive she desires so strongly she disregards her inhibitions. And you need to have this incentive in ample supply. K to summarize so far, point 1 states that standard play for a girl is to reject a stranger's advances. Point 2 states that for a girl to react positively to your advances, you need to have something she desires strong enough to reject the safety of standard play. 3.) But what is it that girls want? Well, the answer is easy cuz different girls want so many different things that, over time, you'll eventually find someone to want what you have. But if you're trying to specify what one specific girl wants, then you have to think about it much more strategically, and factor in several things like: - age - her social status - her $$ status Of course, we're just talking about strangers here so I listed features you can evaluate right off the bat. If you're trying to hit on someone you have a bit more information on, then you'd focus in things like her interests and her history, but you don't have that luxury of information with strangers. Ok so let's make this quick. Start with age: If she's young, or looks young, it's more likely she cares about looks. If she's older, odds say she cares more about security. If she's socially insecure (you can tell this by what she's wearing and where she's wearing it) she wants someone she can latch on to lift her status. If she's socially secure, like a cool girl or whatever, she's probably more interested in talent and ability. $$$ is harder to judge because $$$ often influences social decisions as well. And finally, there's her looks.. but that's like most ambiguous aspect of them all. It's hard to estimate any sort of reaction based on what the girl looks like, so don't let looks sway into preconceived notions. You also realize that a lot of this stuff is relative. Like, you might consider yourself to not be rich, but if you're richer than her friends, then maybe you are rich. And such. 4.) K so what do you do? What is your goal? Your goal is to use whatever skills you may have to communicate that YOU represent what that girl wants, and that you are worth the risk of foregoing standard play. Whatever mode of communication is up to you, though standard forms are humor or buying stuff. So in short: 1. Girls reject cuz they pretty much have to reject. 2. The onus is on you to get her to reject standard play 3. Analyze what you think the girl wants and if it fits with what you have (remember to keep things relative) 4. Communicate to her that you represent what she wants Most likely though, you'll still get rejected. This is where you'll need to make a decision: do you like this girl enough that you're willing to overcome this rejection and try again? Or were u just fucking around and hoping for some easy attention. If it's the latter just move on to another chick. | ||
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AirbladeOrange
United States2574 Posts
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sob3k
United States7572 Posts
Either way no point responding. | ||
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esla_sol
United States756 Posts
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Impervious
Canada4222 Posts
On January 09 2011 15:24 Blisse wrote: Don't hit on random girls. Talk to girls you know. Why not both? I was hitting on a random girl while I waiting in line at the LCBO earlier today - got her number and email, chatted with her on msn for a bit, and now we're going out for breakfast in a few hours. Gonna take it from there, I guess..... I'm definitely not the most "attractive" guy out there. I'm overweight and I haven't shaved in a couple of days (which is not a good look for me). But I've got a bit of charisma, and it was actually her idea to meet up sometime tomorrow. I'm not looking for a GF at the moment (too busy and in the process of getting busier)..... It was just some casual flirting..... | ||
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kamikami
France1057 Posts
You are trolling right ? | ||
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mizU
United States12125 Posts
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jlim
Spain943 Posts
On January 09 2011 15:39 esla_sol wrote: your genetic code was never meant to be passed on. LOL harshest reply I've ever seen | ||
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Railxp
Hong Kong1313 Posts
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Exteray
United States1094 Posts
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norsK
United States131 Posts
troll imo | ||
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