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How do you approach a girl?
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nimysa
United States383 Posts
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Wizard
Poland5055 Posts
I have no idea why people always ask these questions. You go up to the girl and you ask her out. It's that simple. don't try to act cool, don't try to rub off your charisma [if you have it]...be the person you are every day to your friends, family, etc. If she says no, no loss, there's another couple billion women out in the world; if she says yes, good for you. | ||
mikeymoo
Canada7170 Posts
optional steps- "Hey, I think I've seen you somewhere before, I'm [NAME]." *she looks confused* "No? Hm? Are you sure you've never [ACTIVITY] before?" "No? Maybe I saw you at [LOCATION]?" "What book are you reading? That looks interesting, what is it about?" "Sorry, what's your name again?" -end of optional steps *ask her out* Or you could go get some chloroform. EDIT: Optional areas. | ||
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Wizard
Poland5055 Posts
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paper
13197 Posts
On July 12 2008 09:39 mikeymoo wrote: *tap tap* optional steps- "Hey, I think I've seen you somewhere before, I'm [NAME]." *she looks confused* "No? Hm? Are you sure you've never [ACTIVITY] before?" "No? Maybe I saw you at [LOCATION]?" "What book are you reading? That looks interesting, what is it about?" "Sorry, what's your name again?" -end of optional steps *ask her out* that's just creepy | ||
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GoShox
United States1850 Posts
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boesthius
United States11637 Posts
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conCentrate9
United States438 Posts
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mikeymoo
Canada7170 Posts
Not if it's done in the right tone. Not for everyone obviously. | ||
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Night[Mare
Mexico4793 Posts
the basic idea is to act "cocky and funny". Coockiness will make the woman attracted to you, while the funniness will stop woman from seeing you as an arrogant jerk. You might not understand how this works, as it's not logical. If you want more insight to this then read what i posted a bit in the beggining. =) | ||
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Showtime!
Canada2938 Posts
There are many ways of going about it. In fact, the 3-5 second rule works well if you're trying to break the ice with a stranger. Works like this. You make eye contact, raise 3 or 5 fingers, start the countdown and she'll be like "wtf is he doing?!?!", approach her once all your fingers are down and say something witty and funny, such as: "someone's a little shy. I noticed you were looking at me and there's no point yelling across the room, so I thought I would introduce myself. I'm ____." Keep it simple. Cockiness only works to a certain extent. You don't want to come off as arrogant, but you do want to 'own' the room, or place to a certain extent because women like men who are confident. There are 8 simple 'roles' you can play it. Note: choose wisely because not all girls like the same roles. Anyway, there are lots of tools to help you out. D'Angelo's kit is okay for starters. | ||
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Wizard
Poland5055 Posts
On July 12 2008 10:14 conCentrate9 wrote: "Let's see if you can dodge my lurker spine!" rofl | ||
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thoraxe
United States1449 Posts
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ShaLLoW[baY]
Canada12499 Posts
On July 12 2008 10:33 thoraxe wrote: Or use pheromones that turns girls crazy like in that movie Oceans 13, although it may also cause ALL of the girls in the library to drool all over you. I'm sure that would be an acceptable side-effect. | ||
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Ancestral
United States3230 Posts
My problem is all the girls I'm legitimately attracted to are already close friends  . | ||
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ShaLLoW[baY]
Canada12499 Posts
On July 12 2008 10:43 Ancestral wrote: My problem is all the girls I'm legitimately attracted to are already close friends .Quoted for sad-but-truth | ||
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ZhenMiChan
Netherlands1181 Posts
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useLess
United States4781 Posts
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Mastermind
Canada7096 Posts
On July 12 2008 11:01 useLess wrote: the only correct answer to this question is "drunk" ya, that usually works. | ||
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Chef
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