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Ok, so I have been in college for the past month or so(freshman), and I have been fooling around with girls at parties and such nothing serious. I was in the math lab today and my pen that i was using was out of ink, so i was trying to get it working again by just scribbling around with it, hoping that some spare ink would find its way down.
Unfortunately, nothing came of it, but I did make some noise with the scribbling. A hot asian girl(im white and normally not into asians, but she was a good 7.5) who was sitting diagonal to me facing me, offered to give me a pencil. At that time I didn't think anything of it, but soon after I could tell she was just eyefucking the shit out of me. When I would look in her direction, she would turn and look the direction I was looking in, as if to see what i was looking at while not making it clear she was staring at me.
I wasn't sure what to do at that point, until she walked out and went to her class which was the door right across from the room we were in. So, now I know what time her class is and where(sounds stalkerish I know) so I'm thinking of going back to the math lab this friday at around that time to see if she is there.
What should have I done? Is she into me or am I just full of shit? Should I go there on friday and try talking to her? I feel that might be a bit awkward though if i saw her just sitting there and started talking to her "hey... doing math hw? cool, cool... so you were staring at me 2 days ago, lets fuck"
 
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This blog instantly reminds me of this, from world-famous baller.
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Don't turn into this guy, that's what you should do
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more like 1 star right, cause i auto rate girl blogs 1 star.
you know to be quite honest, your hypothetical line of starting to talk with her isn't all that unreasonable if you play a line like that off correctly it can work.
But i imagine you're the shy nerdy type so just talk to her like how you would talk to any other person you meet at school, start off with the usual bullshit small talk where you from why are you here blah blah blah.
it really is that simple, either way
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Just talk to her. It's not rocket science. "hi how you doing?" will go a long way. Talk about school stuff, be casual, don't overthink it, don't act desperate. Be confident and friendly, and if shes interested you will find out pretty quick.
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Austin10831 Posts
She was probably just making sure you weren't chewing on her pencil, but on the off chance she was giving you an ocular-mind rape, I think you should show up at her class or dorm room or in the parking lot at night when she's getting into her car.
One thing girls love (and I mean LOVE) is surprises, so you'll want to surprise her. I think the best way to do this is to approach her wearing a ski mask, so she doesn't know who you are right away. You should also try to disguise your voice (pretend like you're doing an impression of Christian Bale as Batman in The Dark Knight). Girls also love a guy with a sense of humor, so break the ice with something funny and outrageous, like, "Put your hands in the air, this is a rape." I know that sounds a little "blue", but in my experience Asian girls who are at least a 7 will respond very positively. From there on, she's yours for the taking. Good luck.
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I take it back, follow BroOd's advice.
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Hungary11291 Posts
On September 30 2010 03:41 DoubleZee wrote:
Just talk to her. It's not rocket science. "hi how you doing?" will go a long way. Talk about school stuff, be casual, don't overthink it, don't act desperate. Be confident and friendly, and if shes interested you will find out pretty quick.
Your post should be mandatory reading material before creating a girl blog.
edit: How could you, turncoat!
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On September 30 2010 03:44 BroOd wrote:
She was probably just making sure you weren't chewing on her pencil, but on the off chance she was giving you an ocular-mind rape, I think you should show up at her class or dorm room or in the parking lot at night when she's getting into her car.
One thing girls love (and I mean LOVE) is surprises, so you'll want to surprise her. I think the best way to do this is to approach her wearing a ski mask, so she doesn't know who you are right away. You should also try to disguise your voice (pretend like you're doing an impression of Christian Bale as Batman in The Dark Knight). Girls also love a guy with a sense of humor, so break the ice with something funny and outrageous, like, "Put your hands in the air, this is a rape." I know that sounds a little "blue", but in my experience Asian girls who are at least a 7 will respond very positively. From there on, she's yours for the taking. Good luck.
You forget the bag over the face. That adds extra kinky-ness that is sure to elicit a response.
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On September 30 2010 03:44 BroOd wrote:
She was probably just making sure you weren't chewing on her pencil, but on the off chance she was giving you an ocular-mind rape, I think you should show up at her class or dorm room or in the parking lot at night when she's getting into her car.
One thing girls love (and I mean LOVE) is surprises, so you'll want to surprise her. I think the best way to do this is to approach her wearing a ski mask, so she doesn't know who you are right away. You should also try to disguise your voice (pretend like you're doing an impression of Christian Bale as Batman in The Dark Knight). Girls also love a guy with a sense of humor, so break the ice with something funny and outrageous, like, "Put your hands in the air, this is a rape." I know that sounds a little "blue", but in my experience Asian girls who are at least a 7 will respond very positively. From there on, she's yours for the taking. Good luck.
This is fool proof. Just remember to update us on how it went.
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Tell her you play Starcraft!
???
Oh sup Friday night date
Profit!
:-P
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If it feels like she's into you, she is, unless you're ugly and have no idea what that feels like.
The fact you've been doing stuff at parties when inhibitions are lowered says to me you're probably not an ugly toad so,
she's into you. Don't wait forever, talk to her asap, chat about random shit, take interest in her, ask her out for a drink. When you're out with her chatting, ask her if she'd like to go back to your place for a movie.
Watch movie, have sex, continue to have fun for as long as you want to.
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Next time you think it might be happening why not just ask them for help with the math or ask if they want to work on it later or dinner or really absolutely anything. Do something besides just sit there wondering.
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Austin10831 Posts
On September 30 2010 04:12 Energin wrote:
If it feels like she's into you, she is, unless you're ugly and have no idea what that feels like.
The fact you've been doing stuff at parties when inhibitions are lowered says to me you're probably not an ugly toad so,
she's into you. Don't wait forever, talk to her asap, chat about random shit, take interest in her, ask her out for a drink. When you're out with her chatting, ask her if she'd like to go back to your place for a movie.
Watch movie, have sex, continue to have fun for as long as you want to.
This is good advice too, but some quick notes: If you are in fact ugly, you can grab a pair of women's pantyhose and pull them over your face. The tightness will distort your features (perhaps into something more handsome) and the color will even out your skin tone, hiding any acne or blemishes.
It also helps to keep something in your pocket that you can use as a conversation starter. A good example of this is a switchblade or a butterfly knife. Flip it around in your hand and talk in a menacing tone, as girls are historically attracted more to "bad boys" than anything else. She may be unsure what to do, so suggest she, "Get in the car" and then drive her back to your place. I suggest you don't actually take her to your own place in case she's a bitch and you don't want to see her again, so you should rent some place, like a cabin in the woods, so you have anonymity later if you need it and so no one will disturb you while you have all the sex this guy is talking about.
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7.5 . GOOD ENOUGH ! Go talk to her and REDEEM YOUR FREE PENCIL !!
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Soon she'll reveal she's totally into you+ Show Spoiler +
Just start a casual conversation. Tell her you have a pen that never runs of out of ink then smooth over into BroOd's style.
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On September 30 2010 04:20 BroOd wrote:Show nested quote +On September 30 2010 04:12 Energin wrote:
If it feels like she's into you, she is, unless you're ugly and have no idea what that feels like.
The fact you've been doing stuff at parties when inhibitions are lowered says to me you're probably not an ugly toad so,
she's into you. Don't wait forever, talk to her asap, chat about random shit, take interest in her, ask her out for a drink. When you're out with her chatting, ask her if she'd like to go back to your place for a movie.
Watch movie, have sex, continue to have fun for as long as you want to. This is good advice too, but some quick notes: If you are in fact ugly, you can grab a pair of women's pantyhose and pull them over your face. The tightness will distort your features (perhaps into something more handsome) and the color will even out your skin tone, hiding any acne or blemishes. It also helps to keep something in your pocket that you can use as a conversation starter. A good example of this is a switchblade or a butterfly knife. Flip it around in your hand and talk in a menacing tone, as girls are historically attracted more to "bad boys" than anything else. She may be unsure what to do, so suggest she, "Get in the car" and then drive her back to your place. I suggest you don't actually take her to your own place in case she's a bitch and you don't want to see her again, so you should rent some place, like a cabin in the woods, so you have anonymity later if you need it and so no one will disturb you while you have all the sex this guy is talking about.
BroOd, you are a silly, silly man.
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Yeah, if you still have that writing utensil you've got a built-in conversation starter.
Although you'll probably want to try to catch her in the hall or sit next to her so it looks casual. Obviously don't just get up in the middle of class and go "heres your pencil back"
do you not have any game, do you really need advice?
Don't be afraid to talk to girls, is good advice. Ask her name, introduce yourself, talk about how hard last friday's test was.
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On September 30 2010 04:20 BroOd wrote:Show nested quote +On September 30 2010 04:12 Energin wrote:
If it feels like she's into you, she is, unless you're ugly and have no idea what that feels like.
The fact you've been doing stuff at parties when inhibitions are lowered says to me you're probably not an ugly toad so,
she's into you. Don't wait forever, talk to her asap, chat about random shit, take interest in her, ask her out for a drink. When you're out with her chatting, ask her if she'd like to go back to your place for a movie.
Watch movie, have sex, continue to have fun for as long as you want to. This is good advice too, but some quick notes: If you are in fact ugly, you can grab a pair of women's pantyhose and pull them over your face. The tightness will distort your features (perhaps into something more handsome) and the color will even out your skin tone, hiding any acne or blemishes. It also helps to keep something in your pocket that you can use as a conversation starter. A good example of this is a switchblade or a butterfly knife. Flip it around in your hand and talk in a menacing tone, as girls are historically attracted more to "bad boys" than anything else. She may be unsure what to do, so suggest she, "Get in the car" and then drive her back to your place. I suggest you don't actually take her to your own place in case she's a bitch and you don't want to see her again, so you should rent some place, like a cabin in the woods, so you have anonymity later if you need it and so no one will disturb you while you have all the sex this guy is talking about.
This is the best advice. I've done this a couple of times, the first time I was a bit worried because she was freaking out a bit, but very quickly I realized that this is just women's way of showing attraction in these situations. Sometimes they will love you so much that they will even try to give you money in exchange for a relationship!
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Here are some advices i can give, in any case just do what you want and just stay cool whatever happens or whatever you have to do. Just keep my advices that you think are right, I'm not here to argue 
None of us were there so we don't really know if these were real signs of interest or not. But let's say they were.
In anycase you dit a first big mistake, the one that brought you on TL to ask :
- You did not talk to her
I mean this is a good lesson for the future. You do not have to be drunk at a party to talk to someone. Worst scenario ? this is awkward and who cares or this is juste terribly awkward and you just excuse yourself for having to help your grandmother and leave.
This is a mistake for multiple reasons : the second time you speak to her this is even more awkward and worst of all you have no insurance to meet her ever again.
Now enough blaming you and what you "can" do :
Well the nly thing to do is actually the same as the first. Just go in when you see her, don't jump on her though this is creepy, just casual. You just have to fix the mistake you created. Something on the line of : "Hey, thank you for the other day." She will say thanks. Try to say something funny about it, about her or about something around whatever like casual conversation. Then just say you must leave for X reason and add. "Ho by the way what's your name ?" She tells maybe. "I'm Joe" give her your hand, strong handshake keep her hand 1s more than normal. "You look cool Rachel, ......"
The ..... depends on how well it has been going and how she is responding :
a) If she is so into you just ask for her number and plan a coffee/drink/good casual activity right on the spot (just say you will call in a few days for details). Then leave now.
b) If it has been very bad just say "See you around" and just leave, if she doesnt like you she will say no and blow most of your chance ever after.
c) If it is so-so you must actually try to get some insurance to see her again. Ask for more detailled informations about when she is there, or you could just ask for when she finishes her class and say "I'm finishing at around_same_time, I'll be hungry/thirsty come with me at the close_students_cantina just after your class, see you". If she is interested she will wait for you, if not she will leave but that is okay you then do not have to pursue her ever. During your mini date be cool, funny, a little cocky with humour, and never ever kiss her feet and talk about both interesting stuff and sexually charged subject (jokes). If possible go to point a). Do not stay with her for very long.
Regards.
P.S : Brood also as some very cool stuff !
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Why do I feel like I read this exact same thread before, with the exact same advice from Brood?
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