First I'd like to apologize for my friend who used the fact that I was so drunk and posted a blog on this site using my account (here it is) and I'd like to thank the mods for closing it.
Now back to what exactly happened yesterday, which ensured me that life is not fair, led to emotional breakdown (and usually I'm a pretty stoic guy and don't react to such things emotionally) and heavy drinking later on.
Over the timespan of one hour I've been informed that:
1. My wife's grandfather has died. I didn't know him for long but you seldom meet old people who are so joyful and full of life and I absolutely loved the guy.
2. My friend has died from a disease that wasn't supposed to be lethal (meningitis). A month ago she celebrated her 24th birthday.
3. Another of the friends I know has been diagnosed with uncurable cancer. She is only 19.
4. My friend had a car accident (he was a passenger) and will spend at least 3 months in the hospital before they'll let him out...
Four horrible things to learn in such a short notice has literally make my heart break and my mind go numb
I just wish the days like that won't happen to any of you.