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Ok so... this is a sensitive issue.
Well, my buddy/roommate is living with me. We both play poker. I take adderall. I take it for adhd. he used to. he no longer does.
i really need these meds, they are important for my day to day life.
anyways i notice today he's been playing poker nonstop for like 12 hours. and he hasn't ate anything. basically it's like he's on adderall. and i know he's stolen one or more from me before (years ago though).
so anyways i check my bottle of adderall capsules to see how many i have and i notice that at least a couple of them are missing a substantial amount of medication beads from within the capsules. (you can open up the capsules and pour some of the beads out and then close them again).
now... it would be hard but i would confront him asking about it. but the fact is, im like 90% sure he would just lie even if he did take them. so what do i do...
 
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Catch him doing it, or put a note inside the botte letting anyone who opens it know you're on to them.
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since you have no hard evidence, and you don't want to confront him and make a bad situation between you two. Why not just forget it, but hide the drug in the future?
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You cant do anything about the med already stolen, buy a box and lock the meds, end of problem. I have lived with friends and theres not too much to do when things start this way because you dont trust him anyways.
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Hollow out a book and hide your stash in it.
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make fake capsules (put something that looks like medication beads) and hide your real ones.
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On February 08 2009 16:09 NrG.ZaM wrote:
Hollow out a book and hide your stash in it.
make sure the hollow part is shaped like a small rock hammer.
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I just don't understand why he would do it when he could go see a doctor and get them prescribed to him.
like really, it would be no problem for him. it just seems so... disrespectful. among other things
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i mean god damn i am doing him a favor by letting him stay with me
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I honestly think putting a little note in your bottle is the best way to go for now, as ridiculous as it sounds, lol.
Otherwise, just keep a tighter watch on your pills.
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On February 08 2009 16:09 NrG.ZaM wrote:
Hollow out a book and hide your stash in it.
This doesnt work well, hidding your stuff is like pretending the problem never existed. Using a locked box accomplish 2 things: you save your meds and you send a big "wtf dont steal to me" message to his friend without going into the actual conversation if he took them wich is pointless.
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Just confront him fuck it, what's he gonna say
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On February 08 2009 16:14 PH wrote:
I honestly think putting a little note in your bottle is the best way to go for now, as ridiculous as it sounds, lol.
Otherwise, just keep a tighter watch on your pills.
Honestly, this is a good idea. Then if it continues, you'll have more to confront him about
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On February 08 2009 16:19 Yogurt wrote:
Just confront him fuck it, what's he gonna say
-nothing.
-sorry i took them because... random explanation, never sure about your pills again.
-no i didnt took them stop accusing me. travis: im sure you did... end of conversation, never sure about your pills again.
Locked box FTW!
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Osaka27154 Posts
You can either hide them, and risk him searching your shit, or you can confront him. Confrontation doesn't have to be a huge deal though. Just rationally show him what is missing, and tell him your suspicions. If he is a man about it, he will apologize and come clean, and problem solved. If he gets offended, show him the door, since you don't want to live with a liar anyway.
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Physician
United States4146 Posts
- he is actually doing u a favor.. on the other hand he is phucking himself up doing so, and since he is a friend, maybe u should put a stop to it : )-
+ Show Spoiler + and since I am that sort of a guy, here is some advice: ink to catch a thief, specifically this one http://stores.globright.com/Detail.bok?no=3put it all around the bottle cap or around a few top capsules (don't eat the capsules though, just their content) ultraviolet light is all u need, and his fingers will shine, there is some products that take a week of hand washing to take off, this is just one example
edit: better link added
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On February 08 2009 16:11 Glider wrote:Show nested quote +On February 08 2009 16:09 NrG.ZaM wrote:
Hollow out a book and hide your stash in it. make sure the hollow part is shaped like a small rock hammer.
Make sure the book is a bible, too.
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motbob
United States12546 Posts
Say, "Hey, some of my Adderall went missing, if you took it please don't take it in the future, OK?"
If he denies it, end the conversation there. He probably won't take any after that now that he knows you know something's up.
If he admits it, take the opportunity to press the issue. Tell him you feel disrespected.
Just my opinion.
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i think you should let him know, even if indirectly, through a note like someone said
if he keeps taking'em confront?
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Yo look I don't got much advice for you besides confronting him. Either stop using addey or either chop up some bullshit and hide your own shit. When I say some bullshit I mean some exlax or either aspirin. Yes I know he might notice but hide your shit. He has a problem. His problem leads to your supply. Take care of your supply. I don't know what else to say to you. Fuck with his ass. Even though I have (edit)read your stuff you posted on the high thread I haven't seen or read where you are from. I know you make your living in a certain way but I have no other way to get to the point. Maybe you can understand what I'm saying since im sorta drunk. It is midnight central time.
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Considering you don't wanna confront him, because that'd be rather difficult you could hide them or change the pills with something that has little or no effects to him.
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On February 08 2009 16:30 motbob wrote:
Say, "Hey, some of my Adderall went missing, if you took it please don't take it in the future, OK?"
If he denies it, end the conversation there. He probably won't take any after that now that he knows you know something's up.
If he admits it, take the opportunity to press the issue. Tell him you feel disrespected.
Just my opinion.
That's a really good way to phrase it, it's not offending yet gets to the point.
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On February 08 2009 16:23 Manifesto7 wrote:
You can either hide them, and risk him searching your shit, or you can confront him. Confrontation doesn't have to be a huge deal though. Just rationally show him what is missing, and tell him your suspicions. If he is a man about it, he will apologize and come clean, and problem solved. If he gets offended, show him the door, since you don't want to live with a liar anyway.
I agree with Mani. He's your friend after all. Express your concerns without being accusatory. I think hiding is just dodging the issue.
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On February 08 2009 17:05 xhuwin wrote:Show nested quote +On February 08 2009 16:23 Manifesto7 wrote:
You can either hide them, and risk him searching your shit, or you can confront him. Confrontation doesn't have to be a huge deal though. Just rationally show him what is missing, and tell him your suspicions. If he is a man about it, he will apologize and come clean, and problem solved. If he gets offended, show him the door, since you don't want to live with a liar anyway. I agree with Mani. He's your friend after all. Express your concerns without being accusatory. I think hiding is just dodging the issue.
Was about to write exactly what Mani wrote, just do it in a "non-serious" manner.
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mix some other drugs in with the adderol
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either hide your adderall better or confront him on it straight up
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Well everybody done said it. Just do what you got to do.
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confront him, u dont want some passive aggressive shit going on with ppl u live with. its the fucking worst. so confront him about it, say shit like.. yo i think im missing a couple of adderol pills, u know anything about it or see ppl going into my room n looking through my stuff?? if he denies it n u want to continue to be his friend jus say "keep an eye out for me will you?" so that he knows that ur counting ur pills.
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On February 08 2009 16:30 motbob wrote:
Say, "Hey, some of my Adderall went missing, if you took it please don't take it in the future, OK?"
If he denies it, end the conversation there. He probably won't take any after that now that he knows you know something's up.
If he admits it, take the opportunity to press the issue. Tell him you feel disrespected.
Just my opinion.
i think this is a really good plan, also i think you should tell him that it isnt like taking your weed or whatever, but you actually need this drug to interact normally. i think if you let him know that they are essential he will lay off.
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Yeah you could always go for the fake you know it's him approach like
"Hey have you seen any of my adderall laying around anywhere? I think I've been dropping them on the floor because I'm missing alot"
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dude
obviously spike the adderol with PCP and Crack
that way when he does take some he starts wiggin out and shit
:D
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On February 08 2009 16:28 Physician wrote:- he is actually doing u a favor.. on the other hand he is phucking himself up doing so, and since he is a friend, maybe u should put a stop to it : )- + Show Spoiler + and since I am that sort of a guy, here is some advice: ink to catch a thief, specifically this one http://stores.globright.com/Detail.bok?no=3put it all around the bottle cap or around a few top capsules (don't eat the capsules though, just their content) ultraviolet light is all u need, and his fingers will shine, there is some products that take a week of hand washing to take off, this is just one example edit: better link added
God you make some bad posts.
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Just say you're pissed that he did it shady or something, that you woulda given it if he needed (assuming it's true) and that it's just stupid to yank shit from your roomie
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Just calmly tell him you need to talk to him, then when he is calmly listening, go freaking wild on him screaming and punching and scratching and biting like a wild man!
Its the only civilized way to solve a confrontation. He will respect you for it.
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On February 08 2009 20:03 inReacH wrote:Show nested quote +On February 08 2009 16:28 Physician wrote:- he is actually doing u a favor.. on the other hand he is phucking himself up doing so, and since he is a friend, maybe u should put a stop to it : )- + Show Spoiler + and since I am that sort of a guy, here is some advice: ink to catch a thief, specifically this one http://stores.globright.com/Detail.bok?no=3put it all around the bottle cap or around a few top capsules (don't eat the capsules though, just their content) ultraviolet light is all u need, and his fingers will shine, there is some products that take a week of hand washing to take off, this is just one example edit: better link added God you make some bad posts.
according to alot of people, so do you. This one's no exception.
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
just walk up to him and be like
"YO IF U WANTED SOME DRUGS U COULDA JUST ASKED. SHARING IS CARING BRO"
see how he replies
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Dont hide the pills. Thats just dumb.
Just say to him that your missing some pill and that if hes taking them could he please stop. You dont need a confession or anything, you just need him to know that you are aware of his actions.
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