EPTA shy girl - Page 2
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ShmotZ
United States581 Posts
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ahrara_
Afghanistan1715 Posts
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French_Toast
United States99 Posts
On March 12 2008 00:53 niteReloaded wrote: This girl who moved in the neighborhood a while ago recently sent me a msg on msn after she heard i torn my ankle ligaments on basketball. She's a cousin of a guy i play basketball with on weekends, she lives in his house. I guess he told her what happened so it was a good way to start talking... anyway, before that i only talked to her once, i really liked her, but never saw her much coz she's either studying or on uni or something. Anyway, we talked much on msn/sms in the last 2 weeks while i was home 24/7 coz of my injury and went to take a walk once my ankle got better. I got to know her a bit, and while before i thought she was confident i realized she is actually a shy girl, doesnt talk that much. I've realized that many people i perceived as confident/cocky are actually shy but have that mask to protect themselves i guess. Anyway, i like her, I'd say she likes me, but she doesnt like herself, in my opinion. That was my problem for so long so i think i can recognize it now. Today i ran into her in the street and I could tell she was insecure when i talked to her. She mentioned that she didn sleep the day before, and today she only slept a few hours. She looked sad, like she'll gonna cry the moment she gets to her room. I wanted to hug her, tell her she's beautiful and protect her. I did neither, but we agreed we'd go out to drink or walk again today. I wanted to share this just for the sake of it, but i'd like to know if you guys had experience dating this type of girl. She sometimes takes a tease seriously, she's not too open, but you can tell there's a whole other world underneath. How do you handle things here, how to make her open up a bit and allow you to get closer. Im thinkin I should seriously compliment her on specific things I like, perhaps not tease her too much, be honest, and show that i care. Basically be like the average nice guy, but with a bit more initiative. Thx for reading, I'm hoping some good comments show up down below.  You want to date this girl? You just went ahead and described her as a pathetic and dependent individual, now you want to date her? You would be much better off as a friend. And, just being a charismatic, independent, and confident person around her will help her out a lot. That is how she will open up, otherwise, dating a self-conscious wreck will most likely bring you down as well. There are plenty of other hot girls out there you can have sex with, or have a sexual relationship with. | ||
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Elvin_vn
Vietnam2038 Posts
On March 12 2008 09:45 French_Toast wrote: You want to date this girl? You just went ahead and described her as a pathetic and dependent individual, now you want to date her? You would be much better off as a friend. And, just being a charismatic, independent, and confident person around her will help her out a lot. That is how she will open up, otherwise, dating a self-conscious wreck will most likely bring you down as well. There are plenty of other hot girls out there you can have sex with, or have a sexual relationship with. qft "wise man says only fools rush in" but u know the next one  | ||
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Titusmaster6
United States5937 Posts
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niteReloaded
Croatia5282 Posts
If I talked to a confident girl, she'd most likely think of me the similar way i think of this girl. anyway, we went to a walk last night, and it was ok. Both she and I are a bit standoffish, so this is getting kinda weird lol. I did try to compliment her; we were in this dark alley (and no nothing's gonna happen!) and I told her she looks beautiful in the light of the moon. And then she says something like "i look best to myself in the dark" LOL I didn like it, i give her compliment, she puts herself down. i was like "awww dont do that!" perhaps we _should_ just be friends, this will be too demanding. | ||
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