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StarN
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XCetron
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StarN
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XCetron
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StarN
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Hot_Bid
Braavos36375 Posts
you shouldn't be evaluating your long term future with her when you haven't even asked her out yet you abstain completely from drinking? why? going out for drinks is a great way to meet and socialize with people, you don't need to get shit wasted but it's something that will help you make friends in college and definitely later on in life | ||
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StarN
United States2587 Posts
I haven't been offered any alcoholic beverage, but if the opportunity comes i'll consider it. | ||
alffla
Hong Kong20321 Posts
just try it out i guess >_> | ||
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lazymej
Canada269 Posts
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Silver
New Zealand378 Posts
Andy way, just show her a good time and then elope to the black forest. once she is in love with you she will stop smoking because she has better things to fill the spaces. maybe. | ||
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paper
13196 Posts
get with her first =_= | ||
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Radical
United States481 Posts
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StarN
United States2587 Posts
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Tadzio
3340 Posts
As a smoker, I should say that dating someone that finds smoking disgusting is not fun, especially if they're vocal about it, and they always are. If you don't like her smoking, stop considering dating her. There's more non-smokers than smokers in the world, find someone to date that doesn't disgust you. I mean, you could say the same stuff about a fat chick, but figuring out how to get with the fat chick wouldn't seem reasonable, would it? "I met this really nice, pretty girl my age that I'd love to date. Problem is... she's fat. I've told her to lose weight, but she doesn't want to. When I hang around her and her fat friends I feel out of place. And when I see her eating, I'm disgusted by it. But we connect well together and I think we could make it well together. How can I get with this girl? I wish she'd stop being fat." Just keep your eyes open for a nonsmoker that you can connect with. You're young, your personality hasn't really hardened completely, should be pretty easy as long as you're outgoing. If this girl you like quits smoking again, you might wanna pounce, but don't hassle her about it. | ||
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Wizard
Poland5055 Posts
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haduken
Australia8267 Posts
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Bill307
Canada9103 Posts
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Myrmidon
United States9452 Posts
Out of curiosity, where are you in school, if you'd like to answer? In Germany or elsewhere? I'm not sure how it works in other countries, but the timing of when high school and college kids started for your school seems rather like it does in the U.S. | ||
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StarN
United States2587 Posts
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Myrmidon
United States9452 Posts
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Auspicious
United States175 Posts
On September 08 2007 12:42 Silver wrote: lol, your reasons for hating smoking and yet not minding drinking are messed up. drinking is evil too. and only slightly more widespread. Andy way, just show her a good time and then elope to the black forest. once she is in love with you she will stop smoking because she has better things to fill the spaces. maybe. The body is far more able to handle the effects of drinking than it is smoking in 99% of subjects | ||
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HeadBangaa
United States6512 Posts
You seem focused and driven; you'll do well in university and meet someone better there. You're going through Art School, the bastion of pseudo-intellectuals, uncreative and untalented emos, and out-homosexuals. Smoking adds much-needed character for a lot of these kids. | ||
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HeadBangaa
United States6512 Posts
On September 08 2007 15:07 Auspicious wrote: The body is far more able to handle the effects of drinking than it is smoking in 99% of subjects http://www.usatoday.com/news/health/2007-03-23-drug-study_N.htm Alcohol rated 5th-worst. Tobacco, 9th. Of course, I knew you were pulling the "99%" out of your Americanized, brainwashed-ass. | ||
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L!MP
Australia2067 Posts
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BluzMan
Russian Federation4235 Posts
Goddamn, sometimes it seems americans are doomed. EDIT: Btw, the scent is very dependent on what exactly she smokes. You could convince her to switch to better sigarettes or to just smoking pipe with tobacco which would be perfect. Tobacco flavors can get really pleasant and it's somewhat aristocratic. | ||
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SuperJongMan
Jamaica11586 Posts
You don't seem like the kind of guy that can make it work anyways. | ||
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Jim
Sweden1965 Posts
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Ilikestarcraft
Korea (South)17727 Posts
If under age smoking girls bother you dont go to korea. You'll see middle schoolers smoking on the streets. | ||
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Vin{MBL}
5185 Posts
On September 08 2007 19:11 Ilikestarcraft wrote: I find it weird im okay with smoking and smoke once in a while but i dont like when a girl smokes. If under age smoking girls bother you dont go to korea. You'll see middle schoolers smoking on the streets. hahahahahahaha middle schoolers?! ahhahahahah lmao | ||
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Pika Chu
Romania2510 Posts
To be on topic or on blog, i'm going to share a little story from my 11th grade. I never liked smoking, i only smoke for about 1 month when i was 13-14. So i was in 11th grade. I had a very nice coleague (right spelling? i meant class-mate) which i got in love with. She started smoking because her ex was smoking and all her friends were, so it kinda became natural since she spent alot of time with her friends. 1 month she fooled me. I didn't know she was smoking. She knew i'm completely against smoking so she didn't tell me and only smoke when i was not around and eating gum after. It seemed a little strange that her clothes always smelled of tobbaco but i knew her friends smoke so it was ok. She had some "enemies" (you know.. rivalry betwen girls) and one of those girls told me she started smoking. I didn't believe her but she told me to go to the girls bathroom (where it seems they were smoking). The door at the girls bathroom was closed but my curiosity > my embarassement. I opened the door, got in and saw her and her friends smoking. Every girl there was looking at me with a strange facial exclamation something like "wtf u doing here?" The moment i saw my gf smoking even knowing that she'll feel very ashamed in her group i get the cigarette right our of her mouth and throw it away and grab her hand and take her out (it happened quickly so she didn't have time to say anything or opose resistance). While i was getting her out of the bathroom (we were right in the middle of the door) she got back from that stone state she was into and she hit me and started yelling at me telling me she can do whatever she wants bla bla. I told her i care too much about her so i just couldn't let her smoke. She then said she doesn't care about me bla bla.. practically she told me i love her as she is or not. I said i love her as she really is not like she's pretending to be, if she wants to keep pretending then .. fine.. and i left. That happened on a friday. So the weekend came. I was in big pains as i was practically breaking up with her and i loved her much but i just didn't to turn back from the road i got onto. Monday at school she didn't came, neither did on tuesday, wednesday or thursday. I barely resist without calling her (i even cried during those days). On friday she came at school but i didn't go. I am living close to that high school so a ring woke me up. I open the door and surprise.. it was her. That was a rare moment of empathy in which i felt everything she felt and think without even a word  . We hugged and so on.. and she never smoke from that day till the day we broke up.She told me later that even though she was very embarased that moment made her love me more than ever because i had the strenght to get into girls bathroom and almost broke up with her just because i care about her and i want her to be healthy and quit harmfull things. | ||
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MiniRoman
Canada3953 Posts
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Luddite
United States2315 Posts
http://www.basicinstructions.net/2006/08/how-to-talk-to-your-kid-about-smoking.html | ||
micronesia
United States24682 Posts
On September 08 2007 18:04 BluzMan wrote: The fact that your girl smokes means such a lot to you? Goddamn, sometimes it seems americans are doomed. There is nothing wrong with having a non-negotiable demand that your close relationships with others need to exclude smoking. | ||
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KH1031
United States862 Posts
This should work | ||
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