Every 34 seconds? Honeslty where do we get these retarded statistics, cosmo? I'm not making fun of you, sorry if you misunderstand it like that, i ment the general A GUY TIHNKS ABOUT SEX EVERY X amount of seconds, etc. shit. I don't know where we would get a study that could prove that. But it's normal to find some things more fun then sex, maybe you just haven't found anyone to make it interesting enough yet. I sure haven't. Anyway have a doctor diagnose you, not your friends.

CaucasianAsian

Korea (South)11591 Posts

July 19 2007 17:47 GMT

going to the doctor for a testosterone blood test on monday

Many of the side effects etc... are common within me. so... it's possible

oshibori_probe

United States2934 Posts

July 19 2007 17:54 GMT

and you ask TL.net why?

paper

13196 Posts

July 19 2007 18:11 GMT

he's not really asking anything o__o

gl tho~

Bockit

Sydney2287 Posts

July 19 2007 18:23 GMT

On July 20 2007 02:54 oshibori_probe wrote:
and you ask TL.net why?

Why do people keep posting comments like these in blogs?

alffla

Hong Kong20321 Posts

July 19 2007 18:41 GMT

wtf

so..what cna you do about it?!! O_O

Hot_Bid

Braavos36389 Posts

July 19 2007 18:46 GMT

kill self immediatly

TheFoReveRwaR

United States10657 Posts

July 19 2007 19:22 GMT

You Sir, are FREE...this is a gift

Do you know how absolutely retarded my constant(daily need) for sex makes me? Think about all the great stuff you could accomplish with the extra time. On the other hand, I feel incredibly sorry for you

rpf

United States2705 Posts

July 19 2007 19:30 GMT

#10

It's pretty easy to diagnose yourself with anything. Go see your doctor before jumping to the conclusion that you have some debilitating disease.

to miss the mark

Bosnia-Herzegovina1381 Posts

July 19 2007 19:40 GMT

#11

I say you stary jacking off 3 times a day.
and start enjoying it!

Navane

Netherlands2749 Posts

July 19 2007 21:36 GMT

#12

lol!

Navane

Netherlands2749 Posts

July 19 2007 21:37 GMT

#13

i ment: you only have a problem cause someone told you you had a problem?

i'd love to live in a world without sex, seriously

diehilde1

Germany522 Posts

July 19 2007 22:47 GMT

#14

damn that sux... i can relate to that on some level since my gf is taking anti-depressants and since then her sex drive practically went away. i have a really hard time dealing with it, uninspired handjobs and the occassional blowjob is all i can get out of her. maybe a pity intercourse once a week. of course she cant get an orgasm on those damn anti-depressants. i tell you, it WILL destroy any relationship u will ever be in if u have no real sex drive and ur partner senses ur doing all the sexual interaction just to please him. he subconciously will feel sexually unwanted (as i do myself somehow). the difference is i know its cus of anti-depressants, ur partner will have no clue whatsoever what the reason may be, which makes it far worse.
i hope for you that you can find a way to deal with this shit

Nazarene

Denmark996 Posts

July 19 2007 23:16 GMT

#15

dude, you have no weird disorder. you are completely normal. just relax, everything will work out. i wouldnt even think about it if i was you.

DeadVessel

United States6269 Posts

July 20 2007 03:54 GMT

#16

hey it's ok, go to the doctor see what's really up. don't worry about it until you know what's going exactly (it's harder said than done but try). you can't do anything about it now so just chill out. you'll probably be fine

eXigent.

Canada2419 Posts

July 20 2007 07:16 GMT

#17

Many many many men go through periods of time where they have no sex drice what so ever. Its hormonal, and happens all the time. It also goes away rather easily, and trust me being only 17 there is no way you have experienced constant great sex. Wait a few years, until you can goto the bar's/clubs, and you can start seeing how enjoyable an active sex life can be.!

Physician

United States4146 Posts

July 20 2007 09:44 GMT

#18

"Having Hyposexual Desire Disorder can lead to brain tumors in the future due to the reduced amount of hormones entering the brain from sexual arousal and intercourse / masturbation."

lol.. where you hear that?.. its total bull.. btw the disorder you mention, is an artificial human construct.. there is no single disease that causes a chronic decreased libido, but many can have it as a symptom and don't bother linking me to any DSM classifications etc..

Even the term hyposexual desire disorder is a misnomer in my honest opinion, if anything it should be hyposexual desire syndrome.. i.e. just a collection of symptoms.. and in in this case actually just a main one with some conditions..

This is just the sort of bullshit "disorders" that the drug companies invent, like EDS (excessive daytime sleepiness), SAD (social anxiety disorder) and even ADD etc.. to sell more boutique bullshit indications for their drugs.. i.e. instead of saying hyposexual desire disorder - you might as well say.. GlaxoSmithKline says buy Wellbutrin..

On average, the average male thinks about sex every 34 seconds.

That's total bullshit too..

Superiorwolf

United States5509 Posts

July 20 2007 10:09 GMT

#19

On average, the average male thinks about sex every 34 seconds.

That's not true at all, do you really believe that statement? If so, I laugh at you.

merz

Sweden2760 Posts

July 20 2007 11:00 GMT

#20

First of all, you've got to stop believing in stuff said by people who really doesn't have a clue at all.

Second of all, the situation sucks for you indeed, I can't even imagine a situation where I would puke after having sex. Jesus, too most people sex is just an amazing experience and you sure wouldn't wanna barf after something like that. (Okay, actually theres a lot of amazing experiences that can backfire and make you barf, but hell, nevermind)

Maybe all this pressure from people saying how good sex is and how much they think about it, makes it even harder? Imo you should just try to accept your situation, and just be yourself. It doesn't have to mean that you have some sort of disorder just because you dislike something that most people enjoy.

To me, this just sounds like a little thing we call bad conifidence. Having bad confidence can fuck most things up, like you say that you don't find yourself attractive at all while youv'e been complimented by women. Take their word for that you are good looking, accept that compliment and allow it to raise your confidence a little.

You say you are a "scrawny white kid" who doesn't work out or is anything out of the extraordinary. Yet women find you attractive, that makes you something out of the extraordinary in my book. So how are you just a "scrawy white kid" if people find you attractive? If you feel that you aren't "buff enough" work out. Don't just sit there and let the bad confidence take over, do something about it.

Denying yourself confidence from comments is dangerous, even though having too much confidence is dangerous too, you must allow yourself to be complimented when a lot of people are trying to say the same thing.

By pressuring yourself to like sex it'll become even worse, thinking so low of yourself doesn't work out great either.

Okay I kinda wandered off the topic but it might be worth to spend some thoughts on.