EPTAlso, keep in mind that I tend to use a conversational type of language in these. If you have a problem with that, then deal with it.
If you guys haven’t read one of my previous topics, this is pretty much where I talk about stuff that I normally won’t talk about. I try to bring some hope, some light into these topics and give a more realistic, calm side of myself that you guys don’t really see a lot. And in reality, I just give my own point of view. Keep in mind I’m not a therapist. If you really do need help, there are professionals who, by all means, can help you with this. But I’d like to shed some hope, some light, because I like to think of myself as a very positive, happy person. And I would like you guys to have a little light in your life, have a little smile when you start your day. And that’s my goal when it comes to me making these. It’s to make people smile, and have a good time. Forget about their bullshit day, and stuff like that.
But anyways, the topic this time is going to be fear. Now you might think to yourself, “That’s not much of a controversial topic. It’s pretty simple.” In reality, it’s something I’m going through right now, that I somewhat demolish. Fear is always there. Fear is something that will pertain to our lives forever. But if we find a way to overcome it, we become such better human beings. The reason for why i’m scared, or I have fear, is because I’m going into High school. And this is a new experience. This is completely breathtaking. It makes me wonder how I’ll do as I go through High school, and it’s hard to believe I’ve come this far in my life. I had a fear that I might not be able to keep up throughout High school. And I just said “Fuck it. Let’s give this shit a try.” You only get to be you once. Make sure you try to take risks. Life is about those things that we do. Those big moments, those big leaps. And if you go with it in confidence, fear kinda just vanishes. And right now, it’s the summer, and the fear has slowly diminished to nothing, knowing I’m going to be moving up with most of my friends, and I already have some friends going to the same High school. And right now, I’m in a place knowing I can be happy, have no problems from anywhere, and the problems that arrived would be mine, and mine only being at home over the summer.
Fear goes into various things. Fear of being rejected, regardless of if you have a crush on somebody, fear of being accepted, depending on how you look or what you’re dressed like, or fear of just the unknown. I don’t know, people are just like that. And in reality, if we break these down and figure ourselves out, it becomes a lot easier.
The first one is fear of rejection. If you’re out there and you have a loved one, somebody that you have this major crush on, and you just want to pour your soul into them, but in reality you do this, and you do all these different kind of things and it fails. You find yourself in a position where you have no more confidence, and you feel devastated. Listen, my friend, it’s fine. Dealing with rejection is something that will make you stronger. The only way rejection will make you stronger is that in the future, maybe this person wasn’t the ideal person for you for a reason. And the more we are able to handle rejection, the easier it will be to move on to the next person you might have a crush on. Believe me, there are plenty of people out there that you’ll be able to get a shot with. And he or she might be the lucky one. Don’t stop trying. Life is about all these obstacles we’ll be able to jump and leap over. And I believe in you. I really believe in you. I believe in all of you guys, and you’ll be able to find that person. Just don’t give up, seriously.
Now fear of acceptance. Just because you dress a certain way, or just because you might not be “Ms. America” or “Mr. Bodybuilder,” who gives a fuck? Who gives a flying fuck about how you look? Make sure that you, obviously, take care of yourself. If you want to dress a certain way, make sure you take care of yourself. And from there, everything will be so much better. Because as I said, going back to relationship-wise and with rejection, if somebody doesn’t like you because of the way you are, fuck them! You know what? I will tell you right now that you are gorgeous! You are beautiful in your own particular way! Fuck anybody that says otherwise! Because life is too short to worry about petty bullshit! Just because Little Susie or Little Rick didn’t like you, who gives a fuck? On to the next one. You know what? Find out what he or she didn’t like about you and fix that shit, so that whenever you become, like, this hot piece of person, he or she will be regretting every second. And I’ve seen this in real life. I’ve seen my friends from school grown into beautiful girls, and great-looking guys. I say this with the confidence that I know I like girls, by the way. Just having girls drooling, and boys going to their knees for these people, and they feel like shit, and I laugh at that shit. Right now, if you are growing up, or if you’re an adult already, figure yourself out. Take care of yourself, and when you do, so many good things will come. Believe me, I say that, right now, you who’s listening, you’re fucking gorgeous! I would give you a massive hug if I could come through the screen. Have confidence in yourself. That really exerts attraction. And you know what? Fuck that fear of “Ohhh my god, I’m so ugly.” You’re not ugly! No! If you feel like you’re something, and you know you can take care of it, do something about it. And remember, if you’re not the most attractive person, make sure that if you feel like you’re not the best looking person, have a positive personality and energy! Because that attracts so many people, regardless of looks. Make sure that they’re there for you, and not for your “goodies,” or what you have money-wise, or anything. You’re perfect! You are fucking perfect, and I can’t say this enough!
And last, fear of the unknown. Why are you fearing the unknown? You don’t even know what you’re fearing. It’s sorta stupid. Like, live your life positively. Remember you only get to be the person you are once. Fight your fears. Make the fear that you have your fucking bitch. Just make that fear your bitch, and own it. Because the moment you do, life gets so much better. I just owned the fear of moving up, and being independent and responsibility. And it feels great. I feel like a boss.
And your fears, the moment you conquer them, you’re going to feel like you’re on top of the world. Believe me. Don’t let your fears consume you. You’re better than that. I believe you are. And this has been what I think about fear and thank you so much to everybody listening. If you want to share this stuff with somebody else, by all means, that is up to you. And to everybody that listened, thank you so much. Thank you for reading this. I’ll talk to you guys later. See ya.
