EPTThanks for giving me a place to blow off some steam, but for obvious reasons I'm not leaving this up here. Cheers to those of you who commented. Bless you all.
Count your blessings, friends.
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im a roc
United States745 Posts
Thanks for giving me a place to blow off some steam, but for obvious reasons I'm not leaving this up here. Cheers to those of you who commented. Bless you all. Count your blessings, friends. | ||
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Slaughter
United States20255 Posts
The only thing I could think of is getting some evidence of the harassment (like recording the calls he makes or have pictures taken when he is harassing her in public or even a hidden mic on her person) then try to appeal to an authority at a higher level then the local police since they seem content to let their buddy get away with anything. Everything leaves a trace so if you can convince SOMEONE to do their actual job that has authority to investigate stuff should show up. I think an important thing is to support her as much as possible because with these kinds of things it is only a matter of time until she breaks (which is the guys goal). | ||
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Zambrah
United States7393 Posts
Truly heinous, I hope to god a solution is found to this because thats a personal hell that I can hardly fucking fathom. http://www.victimsofcrime.org/docs/src/stalking-a-handbook-for-victims.pdf?sfvrsn=2 maybe this is helpful, I hope so, I'm sure you've already looked into this sort of thing, but maybe this could help, noone deserves this and I hope that this issue can be resolved as quickly as humanly possible and that the sick fuck gets everything that coming to him and infinitely more. | ||
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sths
Australia192 Posts
Is it possible for her to transfer to another school in some other state. You said she has great grades maybe she can get a scholarship. It would be bad for your relationship obviously but if it gets her away from this monster it's still worth it. God, this sorta thing makes you wish Dexter was real. | ||
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Deleuze
United Kingdom2102 Posts
 this is horrible poor lady. | ||
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FFGenerations
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Ektor Baboden
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On December 20 2014 19:15 FFGenerations wrote: what? why dont the police take her seriously? is this some texas backwater village? go to another police department, speak to a detective or something. do it yourself I second this. Go to another police department. Like, right now. If you have all these calls and texts on her cellphone, any decent policeman would take it seriously. This sounds so absurd I don't even know if it is real - but you are the one who can verify it, not me. And if it's real, don't give up. | ||
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GoTuNk!
Chile4591 Posts
On December 20 2014 20:56 Ektor Baboden wrote: I second this. Go to another police department. Like, right now. If you have all these calls and texts on her cellphone, any decent policeman would take it seriously. This sounds so absurd I don't even know if it is real - but you are the one who can verify it, not me. And if it's real, don't give up. Do this, this guy is a fucking nutjob. You unwillingly got in a huge mess and now it is your duty to take care of it for the girl and most important your own safety. Make sure wherever you sleep he can't break in and murder you in your sleep, you can't be too cautious with this kind of psycho.. | ||
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hoby2000
United States918 Posts
On December 20 2014 20:56 Ektor Baboden wrote: I second this. Go to another police department. Like, right now. If you have all these calls and texts on her cellphone, any decent policeman would take it seriously. This sounds so absurd I don't even know if it is real - but you are the one who can verify it, not me. And if it's real, don't give up. This was my thought too, which is interesting. Our society has reached a point where we hear about a story, but the amount of horrifying events and ideas surrounding it scare us to almost want to believe it's not real. I'm not going to say one way or another simply because it's a blog I'm reading on a website so I'll just assume it's true, but thought the psychology of that response was interesting. Frankly, you've found yourself in the middle of battle of wits. This dude (the teacher) has thought through this situation extremely well, and is using his authority to abuse the situation. As other people have suggested, your only real move here is to get other parties involved. The only problem is that in doing that, the teacher will attempt to stop you. | ||
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DarkNetHunter
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Go to the FBI, report the police department to them along with anything you can do to support her case. | ||
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husniack
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Xapti
Canada2473 Posts
She should have purchased a gun as soon as she was 18; it's freaking 'murica (not that I'm personally in favor of handgun use; if anything people should carry rifles). Even a irritant spray or electroshock device could be useful. It sounds like she gets voice calls from the teacher? That would be an instant conviction right there if his calls were recorded and not obfuscated well. If I was in im a roc's shoes, and knew for certain that the woman wasn't lying (which despite the phone calls seems like a real possibility), I'd probably spend a significant portion of my life stalking the teacher when he isn't working. Pick the locks to his house, bug his computer(s) or inject a virus into his computer(s), find out his wifi signal password and/or monitor his wifi if possible, break into all his online accounts from the previous actions, steal the wireless unlock signal of his car, etc. I'd pretty much dedicate my life to infesting him in a covert manner, and I have no idea why you wouldn't be doing the same. I guess the fact that it's illegal is a good point, but in the case where the police seem to be ignoring the law, it's perfectly justifiable and also seemingly less likely that the police would even care. | ||
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B.I.G.
3251 Posts
And her friends know about this btw? YOU know about this? Is the police actively protecting him? If it really is some kind of inbred cult town than you should get the fuck out. Like seriously as far away as you can get. I don't understand how you or her friends can be so passive about this holy shit... | ||
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esdf
Croatia736 Posts
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WarSame
Canada1950 Posts
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QuanticHawk
United States32158 Posts
I think that you should have some definite questions about the validity of her stories. At the same time, you realllllly shouldn't have this blog up. Doubly so if she's actually facing a defamation suit. Or for no other reason, she might be pretty goddamn pissed that her bf is sharing her sexual assault stories with a bunch of random nerds. | ||
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Failfellow
United States7 Posts
You've gathered your thoughts. Now act. | ||
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