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Alright, so I've been talking to a lot of people about this recently and this gnawing feeling in my gut won't leave me alone. It's fucking itching, unrelenting mistrust. Without trust, a relationship just won't work. I've given up on much my entire life, so I'm proving to myself that I'll do anything I can to make this work. So here's the deal.
I've been dating my girlfriend (let's call her Michelle) for about 4 months now. I broke up with her about a month ago and we got back together a few days later. She lives about 4 hours away and I don't get to see her often so I had it in my mind that it was the long distance. It turns out that I was skyping her every day on her schedule, waking up every morning, with that feeling of obligation, to skype her in the evening. I was whipped and didn't even know it. Anyway, lack of communication.
We decided to give it another shot. However, when I broke up with her, she told me she lied to me about one thing. Her story changed from having a few boyfriends (she's 19), to having 12 boyfriends, cheating on EVERY SINGLE ONE, and worse, moving on with the guy she cheated with. Straight up bunny hopping. Oh yeah, turns out she was dating a guy when she hooked up with me. So I guess I'm glad she told me, but now I have to deal with this mistrust. I was easily able to give her the benefit of the doubt before she disclosed this information to me, but now...heh. I can't trust her, I just can't. Not yet at least.
It's funny, it's only when you are faced with trials and hardships do you ever realize whether or not you can trust someone. I've told her about my trust issues and how important it is that she does everything she can to let me know that she cares and wants to be in this relationship. We planned on skyping tonight at 10:30. She goes to bed every night, consistently, at 12:00 to 12:30. She blew me off at 10:30 and said that her eating was irregular today and that she was really tired and needed to sleep. This just adds to my feelings of mistrust when I need her to be there the most.
Obviously she has commitment issues, is probably afraid of being single, and probably got into our relationship for the wrong reasons. But that doesn't mean that we don't have a future together. And if it's meant to be, it shall be, and I'll be damned sure to try my best to make it work. Problem is, now that the going is tough, I don't see her stepping up to the plate.
This is a stringy post and there's a lot I left out. If any of you are willing to help me, you can ask me what you think I left out, questions that I need to ask myself, or anything else that has relevance to my problem. I'm fucking torn up right now and I'm begging for some answers. Thanks.
EDIT: I broke up with her. Turns out facebook said she was online 3 hours after she said she was falling asleep. Didn't respond to any of my important texts. I skype her and she immediately logs off. Then I call her and she eventually calls back and says she was sleeping. She hangs up and says that she can't talk because her roommate is asleep. Are you fucking kidding? IF YOU GAVE A SINGLE FUCK. ONE SOLITARY FUCK. You would have walked outside to talk to me. Zero sacrifice and effort. You guys were right. I put her commitment to the test and she didn't show up.
 
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Didn't read. Dump her.
Edit: Read. Dump her.
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On April 23 2013 13:23 hp.Shell wrote:
Didn't read. Dump her.
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Did she cheat on the last guy with you? Because if she did, 100% hasn't changed her ways.
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United States10149 Posts
On April 23 2013 13:23 -Kaiser- wrote:
but srsly. dumb her.
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I made her aware of her commitment issues and told me she never thought of it like that. She said she wants to prove it to herself and I want to believe her. But I feel like serial cheating is just a symptom of an underlying problem. Is there nothing I can do?
Lol at all the responses so far.
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On April 23 2013 13:23 -Kaiser- wrote:
There's plenty of great women out there who aren't cheaters. Why date someone who shows no respect or caring for the feelings of others?
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Dump her. :/
Nothing wrong with her having 12 bfs imo, but goddamn is there something wrong with cheating on every single one of them.
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Is there nothing I can do?
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On April 23 2013 13:32 beachbeachy wrote:
Is there nothing I can do?
You can give her a chance. Does she deserve one? Only you will know the answer to that question.
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She's 19, and during your relationship break went out with 12 guys. Lol,unless you're into the whole cuckold thing, dump her ass.
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She's not worth your time beachbeachy. Why take drama or stress when you can just forget? The longer it takes you to dump her the more time you'll spend being miserable until you do. Text dump her. It's 'kay. Do it. 5. 4. 3. Say it. Do it. DO IT NOW!
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19 years old, 12 boyfriends, all cheated on? You kidding me? It's going to be tough, but you have to leave her. I'm sorry.
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lol I'm kinda drunk atm and reading this make me laugh my ass off hahahaha
seriously tho its so funny that you can still put up with her.
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If you don't want open relationship with that, don't have relationship with that.
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I think she is going for some sort of record, demote her to fuck buddy. If you can't, dump her.
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Northern Ireland25082 Posts
Dump.
Not for her sexual shenanigans, which to me are a symptom rather than the illness. I don't wish to pseudo-psych by any means, just my experience with any girl remotely similar to your gf hints of issues that are bubbling under that aren't limited simply to fidelity. The girl mentioned in the OP has 'stats' tbh that are far 'worse' than even the most infamous of any of my acquaintainces, anyone I have ever met.
Do it. Sorry to be blunt.
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Trust me once a cheater always a cheater. Dump her before you get any more attached to her beacuse it'll just hurt more when she does cheat on you.
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She cheats on every single boyfriend she has. You wont be any different because:
She was in a relationship with someone else before she got with you, thats a relationship built on mistrust and lies.
Dump her.
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Germany38463 Posts
19 and youre clinging onto someone you've only been with for four months and has commitment issues a huge boyfriend past?
Immature girl, dump her and move on, you're young and you can find someone closer.
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Northern Ireland25082 Posts
I don't buy 'once a cheater always a cheater' btw, but '12 times a cheater, always a cheater' is a reasonable jump to make
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On April 23 2013 13:21 beachbeachy wrote:
Obviously she has commitment issues, is probably afraid of being single, and probably got into our relationship for the wrong reasons.
I think you're misunderstanding the difference between commitment issues and wanting the D
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On April 23 2013 13:23 hp.Shell wrote:
Didn't read. Dump her.
Edit: Read. Dump her.
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No matter what anybody says, there aren't different "levels" of people - there are just people. And in this case I'd just go for an open relationship.
Really all you can do is make your boundaries clear. And if she crosses them, calmly tell to gtfo.
+ Show Spoiler +and personally, putting myself in the situation, I'd give her kudos for telling me the truth about her past bfs. That's a step in the right direction. However, it would unsettle me so she has to agree to certain shit and constantly tell me the truth or she wouldn't be in my life for very long. fucking own up to and tell her about anything thats eating you inside, but don't create the shit by thinking about it. deal only with what's there
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No progress with her so move on but sounds like you can utilize her when possible.
edit: Possible sounds too passive, situation calls for or something along those lines is a better way of saying it.
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once a cheater always a cheater... seriously ANYONE who dates a girl...who cheated on their BF/GF with you... what do you expect from them in the future...?
people make my head hurt... my little brother is a fool when it comes to women and insists on learning all of the worst lessons to learn...the absolutely hardest way possible.
"her family is fucking crazy but i love her " sry pal... from experience, i promise this cannot work out for you.
3 years later he is walking around pitiful and depressed for 6 months.
"She cheated on her last boyfriend but she says shed never cheat ON me".... Bad idea little bro... dont bother.
6 months later he is depressed for 2 months.
"I dont care if she has gained a lot of weight, its not all about looks" Ur right, but fat chicks have insecurity issues..and will flock to anyone/thing that gives them attention...
2 years later... depressed again...
lol people.../sigh just refuse to see things clearly when sexual organs are involved.
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I don't think there's anything left for me to say, haha. It's tough, but yeah... dump her.
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Don't try to fix her imo usually you can't really change people even when they say they want to change. That's on them, not you. I'd say get out while you can with some feelings intact. Long-distance relationships are always hard but with this lack of trust already its fucked
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Cheat on her. Then dump her. :D
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Northern Ireland25082 Posts
On April 23 2013 14:04 Masq wrote:Show nested quote +On April 23 2013 13:21 beachbeachy wrote:
Obviously she has commitment issues, is probably afraid of being single, and probably got into our relationship for the wrong reasons. I think you're misunderstanding the difference between commitment issues and wanting the D
I think you're misunderstanding there's a difference wanting the D because you're a slut sexually liberated woman, with wanting the D because you have serious self-esteem issues. No idea which is the case here mind, but I've met people from both camps
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On April 23 2013 14:04 Wombat_NI wrote:
I don't buy 'once a cheater always a cheater' btw, but '12 times a cheater, always a cheater' is a reasonable jump to make
It's like flipping a coin, and having the coin always come up tails. 
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Dump. Dump! DUMP. DUMP!
Dump her. Dump her! DUMP HER. DUMP HER!
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Realize, and ensure that you have fully understood this.
If you stay with her, or try to make it work, she will cheat on you. She will then dump you. If the new guy doesn't work out, she might decide to go back to you, because hey, you already know and tried to work it out.
She may not mean it, doesn't matter. You're being a bit of a doormat, she's going to step all over you, and you are going to be posting a whiny blog later about how she broke your heart, hurt you, or how you're pissed off because she did exactly what you were afraid she was going to do. Help prevent lousy girl blogs, and just dump her ass and move on to someone that doesn't take 4 hours to find out she's fucking someone else.
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On April 23 2013 13:23 hp.Shell wrote:
Didn't read. Dump her.
Edit: Read. Dump her.
If you really care about her, figure out a way for her to talk to a psychiatrist. This is very very obviously a relationship that you should end.
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Russian Federation3631 Posts
so this is where maury episodes come from
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All of the "dump her" posts may seem harsh (because it's probably not what you want to read), but they are sound advice. Mistrust dooms a relationship. Have some self-respect and do the deed.
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How did you even consider any other option besides dumping her a possible idea? Dump her, there is no fixing her.
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man how are you so wrapped into this already for 4 months?
is this your first girlfriend....
dump her....thats rediculous.
kind of gross too...
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It's only been 4 months and you've already dumped her once. Sounds like it shouldn't be too hard to just end it. It's for the best man just hit it then proceed to quit it.
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EDIT: I broke up with her. Turns out facebook said she was online 3 hours after she said she was falling asleep. Didn't respond to any of my important texts. I skype her and she immediately logs off. Then I call her and she eventually calls back and says she was sleeping. She hangs up and says that she can't talk because her roommate is asleep. Are you fucking kidding? IF YOU GAVE A SINGLE FUCK. ONE SOLITARY FUCK. You would have walked outside to talk to me. Zero sacrifice and effort. You guys were right. I put her commitment to the test and she didn't show up.
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Everything about this screams "complete waste of your time". Seems to be a pretty straightforward get-out-of-there. So yeah, good for you. Now stay the hell away lol.
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lol this was pretty cut and dry.
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On April 23 2013 15:45 beachbeachy wrote:
EDIT: I broke up with her. Turns out facebook said she was online 3 hours after she said she was falling asleep. Didn't respond to any of my important texts. I skype her and she immediately logs off. Then I call her and she eventually calls back and says she was sleeping. She hangs up and says that she can't talk because her roommate is asleep. Are you fucking kidding? IF YOU GAVE A SINGLE FUCK. ONE SOLITARY FUCK. You would have walked outside to talk to me. Zero sacrifice and effort. You guys were right. I put her commitment to the test and she didn't show up.
On a side note, now that you've dumped her, work on being less of a doormat in future relationships. Between your OP and this post you sound like the prototypical guy who thinks acquiescing to every female request and bending over backwards accommodating them is being 'nice' and not just being a walking bag of insecurity with 'I have no confidence' plastered all over. Get your own shit together, know that you are worth being with(and if you fail to do that, change whatever you need to in order to believe it), and act accordingly.
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On April 23 2013 16:30 red_ wrote:Show nested quote +On April 23 2013 15:45 beachbeachy wrote:
EDIT: I broke up with her. Turns out facebook said she was online 3 hours after she said she was falling asleep. Didn't respond to any of my important texts. I skype her and she immediately logs off. Then I call her and she eventually calls back and says she was sleeping. She hangs up and says that she can't talk because her roommate is asleep. Are you fucking kidding? IF YOU GAVE A SINGLE FUCK. ONE SOLITARY FUCK. You would have walked outside to talk to me. Zero sacrifice and effort. You guys were right. I put her commitment to the test and she didn't show up. On a side note, now that you've dumped her, work on being less of a doormat in future relationships. Between your OP and this post you sound like the prototypical guy who thinks acquiescing to every female request and bending over backwards accommodating them is being 'nice' and not just being a walking bag of insecurity with 'I have no confidence' plastered all over. Get your own shit together, know that you are worth being with(and if you fail to do that, change whatever you need to in order to believe it), and act accordingly.
I feel like this is unfair. I never accommodated to her every whim. I stood my ground where I needed to.
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You relationship is not special, it's not different than all the others.
If cheating is a problem to you (and I think it should)
Dump her.
edit: Good job
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TLADT24920 Posts
On April 23 2013 17:00 beachbeachy wrote:Show nested quote +On April 23 2013 16:30 red_ wrote:On April 23 2013 15:45 beachbeachy wrote:
EDIT: I broke up with her. Turns out facebook said she was online 3 hours after she said she was falling asleep. Didn't respond to any of my important texts. I skype her and she immediately logs off. Then I call her and she eventually calls back and says she was sleeping. She hangs up and says that she can't talk because her roommate is asleep. Are you fucking kidding? IF YOU GAVE A SINGLE FUCK. ONE SOLITARY FUCK. You would have walked outside to talk to me. Zero sacrifice and effort. You guys were right. I put her commitment to the test and she didn't show up. On a side note, now that you've dumped her, work on being less of a doormat in future relationships. Between your OP and this post you sound like the prototypical guy who thinks acquiescing to every female request and bending over backwards accommodating them is being 'nice' and not just being a walking bag of insecurity with 'I have no confidence' plastered all over. Get your own shit together, know that you are worth being with(and if you fail to do that, change whatever you need to in order to believe it), and act accordingly. I feel like this is unfair. I never accommodated to her every whim. I stood my ground where I needed to.
maybe he's being a bit unfair but the fact that you had a problem with making such an obvious decision(in most people's eyes) especially considering her past history doesn't bode well for you. His advice is pretty sound about the niceness part imo. At least, you caught the situation now before it got worse and you got attached to her then letting go is harder.
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Oh my god man. Holy god man oh man. Dump.
ROFL "10 or 15 times she cheated so yeah I gave her the benefit of the doubt" holy god oh man.
I know what happened here; you were slayn by the boobs. That's right. You thought she was hot so you thought she was worth a chance.
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On April 23 2013 13:23 -Kaiser- wrote:
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In case you are not sure
+ Show Spoiler +On April 23 2013 13:23 hp.Shell wrote:
Didn't read. Dump her.
Edit: Read. Dump her.
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On April 23 2013 17:00 beachbeachy wrote:Show nested quote +On April 23 2013 16:30 red_ wrote:On April 23 2013 15:45 beachbeachy wrote:
EDIT: I broke up with her. Turns out facebook said she was online 3 hours after she said she was falling asleep. Didn't respond to any of my important texts. I skype her and she immediately logs off. Then I call her and she eventually calls back and says she was sleeping. She hangs up and says that she can't talk because her roommate is asleep. Are you fucking kidding? IF YOU GAVE A SINGLE FUCK. ONE SOLITARY FUCK. You would have walked outside to talk to me. Zero sacrifice and effort. You guys were right. I put her commitment to the test and she didn't show up. On a side note, now that you've dumped her, work on being less of a doormat in future relationships. Between your OP and this post you sound like the prototypical guy who thinks acquiescing to every female request and bending over backwards accommodating them is being 'nice' and not just being a walking bag of insecurity with 'I have no confidence' plastered all over. Get your own shit together, know that you are worth being with(and if you fail to do that, change whatever you need to in order to believe it), and act accordingly. I feel like this is unfair. I never accommodated to her every whim. I stood my ground where I needed to.
She said that she had been with 12 boyfriends, she is 19, let's say she is matured early and started dating at the age of 12, which means she had 12 relationships that lasted half a year for each, and that she had cheated on all of them during the half year that each relationship existed. If you would had stood your ground you should had said "nice knowing you, let's play poker sometime" the moment she told you this.
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Propose anal, do it anyways, then dump her.
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On April 23 2013 19:55 Burrfoot wrote:
Propose anal, do it anyways, then dump her.
This chap has exactly the right idea.
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Not sure what you're looking to get out of her except maybe threesomes.
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On April 23 2013 20:38 Dandel Ion wrote:
Not sure what you're looking to get out of her except maybe threesomes with another dude.
Fixed.
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You heard it first here, but dump her.
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Hyrule19035 Posts
After much deliberation amongst the people it has been determined that there is only a single course of action: dump her
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Easy dump, this isn't hard.
She wasn't even worth writing this blog about, man.
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she's a keeper! don't let her get away. practice makes perfect.
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Italy12246 Posts
On April 23 2013 17:13 CecilSunkure wrote:
Oh my god man. Holy god man oh man. Dump.
ROFL "10 or 15 times she cheated so yeah I gave her the benefit of the doubt" holy god oh man.
I know what happened here; you were slayn by the boobs. That's right. You thought she was hot so you thought she was worth a chance.
Boobs are a fucking deadly weapon.
Also, dump, gtfo of there and don't look back. Ever.
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One thing before you dump her. Fuck her and fuck her hard. Fuck her like there is no tomorrow, like it is the last time because it would really be the last time then dump her.
But seriously, this girl cleary has issues and you have trust issues - This will NEVER work!
Don't waste your time, there are lots of other girls, find one near to you and does not dick hop 12 times! One you could trust. You are only 4 months and you are meant to dump probably your next 3 girlfriends before you can get a serious one since you are only what? 19?
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On April 23 2013 22:26 Monsen wrote:Show nested quote +On April 23 2013 20:38 Dandel Ion wrote:
Not sure what you're looking to get out of her except maybe threesomes with another dude. Fixed.
Yes, I thought that was obvious.
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personally i get the impression that she just got tired with you and decided to fuck with you a bit, and this is how it turned out. she never had 12 bfs or cheated on them (maybe 1 or whatever) , girls can and will lie about any old shit to fuck with you if they have no respect or attraction for you. i would get over it and wise up to the world, if your girl isnt respectful and attracted to you then you will get all sorts of shit, so make sure she is and any time she isn't you need to realise and get your ass back into gear. when she told you that crap you should have laughed, made a joke and teased her about it. instead you took your balls out and snipped them off with a sissor right infront of her. life is harsh, if u wanna succeed your desires then you need to make sure you're doing the right thing
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On April 23 2013 23:53 FFGenerations wrote:
personally i get the impression that she just got tired with you and decided to fuck with you a bit, and this is how it turned out. she never had 12 bfs or cheated on them (maybe 1 or whatever) , girls can and will lie about any old shit to fuck with you if they have no respect or attraction for you. i would get over it and wise up to the world, if your girl isnt respectful and attracted to you then you will get all sorts of shit, so make sure she is and any time she isn't you need to realise and get your ass back into gear. when she told you that crap you should have laughed, made a joke and teased her about it. instead you took your balls out and snipped them off with a sissor right infront of her. life is harsh, if u wanna succeed your desires then you need to make sure you're doing the right thing
She told me after I broke up with her. She has no reason to lie. The problem was me thinking I'd give her a chance.
Feel pretty good about this. I don't ever want to hear from her again ^^
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This exact thread happens about once a week, advice and outcome are always the same 
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On April 23 2013 23:38 woreyour wrote:
One thing before you dump her. Fuck her and fuck her hard. Fuck her like there is no tomorrow, like it is the last time because it would really be the last time then dump her.
It sounds like he would probably be risking STDs to do this... but anyway, dump is done, lesson learned. 
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stop thinking of her as a girlfriend, stop having feelings for her, and dump her. but keep her around to get laid.
(and use a condom of course)
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On April 23 2013 15:45 beachbeachy wrote:
EDIT: I broke up with her. Turns out facebook said she was online 3 hours after she said she was falling asleep. Didn't respond to any of my important texts. I skype her and she immediately logs off. Then I call her and she eventually calls back and says she was sleeping. She hangs up and says that she can't talk because her roommate is asleep. Are you fucking kidding? IF YOU GAVE A SINGLE FUCK. ONE SOLITARY FUCK. You would have walked outside to talk to me. Zero sacrifice and effort. You guys were right. I put her commitment to the test and she didn't show up.
You broke up with her! Great!
...Then you stalked her Facebook and tried furiously to contact her in all the ways you could think of.
She said she was sleeping (with another guy) when you tried to call her.
She said her "roommate" is asleep (they just had sex).
You live and you learn, I guess.
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On April 24 2013 04:04 wongfeihung wrote:Show nested quote +On April 23 2013 15:45 beachbeachy wrote:
EDIT: I broke up with her. Turns out facebook said she was online 3 hours after she said she was falling asleep. Didn't respond to any of my important texts. I skype her and she immediately logs off. Then I call her and she eventually calls back and says she was sleeping. She hangs up and says that she can't talk because her roommate is asleep. Are you fucking kidding? IF YOU GAVE A SINGLE FUCK. ONE SOLITARY FUCK. You would have walked outside to talk to me. Zero sacrifice and effort. You guys were right. I put her commitment to the test and she didn't show up. You broke up with her! Great! ...Then you stalked her Facebook and tried furiously to contact her in all the ways you could think of. She said she was sleeping ( with another guy) when you tried to call her. She said her "roommate" is asleep ( they just had sex). You live and you learn, I guess.
lol, you totally misread that. He broke up with her AFTER and in part BECAUSE of the facebook/contact things.
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On April 23 2013 17:00 beachbeachy wrote:Show nested quote +On April 23 2013 16:30 red_ wrote:On April 23 2013 15:45 beachbeachy wrote:
EDIT: I broke up with her. Turns out facebook said she was online 3 hours after she said she was falling asleep. Didn't respond to any of my important texts. I skype her and she immediately logs off. Then I call her and she eventually calls back and says she was sleeping. She hangs up and says that she can't talk because her roommate is asleep. Are you fucking kidding? IF YOU GAVE A SINGLE FUCK. ONE SOLITARY FUCK. You would have walked outside to talk to me. Zero sacrifice and effort. You guys were right. I put her commitment to the test and she didn't show up. On a side note, now that you've dumped her, work on being less of a doormat in future relationships. Between your OP and this post you sound like the prototypical guy who thinks acquiescing to every female request and bending over backwards accommodating them is being 'nice' and not just being a walking bag of insecurity with 'I have no confidence' plastered all over. Get your own shit together, know that you are worth being with(and if you fail to do that, change whatever you need to in order to believe it), and act accordingly. I feel like this is unfair. I never accommodated to her every whim. I stood my ground where I needed to.
you continued to date her even though she smelled like the recipient of a 12 man bukkake, and as a result, you are now a doormat that smells of crusty old semen
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On April 23 2013 13:21 beachbeachy wrote:
Straight up bunny hopping.
Straight up bunny humping*
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On April 23 2013 13:58 Sermokala wrote:
Trust me once a cheater always a cheater. Dump her before you get any more attached to her beacuse it'll just hurt more when she does cheat on you.
So true
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On April 24 2013 05:00 QuanticHawk wrote:
you continued to date her even though she smelled like the recipient of a 12 man bukkake, and as a result, you are now a
doormat that smells of crusty old semen
Ahahahaahahahaha
man I am having a bad night but this turned it around, thanks hawk.
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You could get into a massive 50 man orgy
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On April 23 2013 13:21 beachbeachy wrote:
EDIT: I broke up with her. Turns out facebook said she was online 3 hours after she said she was falling asleep. Didn't respond to any of my important texts. I skype her and she immediately logs off. Then I call her and she eventually calls back and says she was sleeping. She hangs up and says that she can't talk because her roommate is asleep. Are you fucking kidding? IF YOU GAVE A SINGLE FUCK. ONE SOLITARY FUCK. You would have walked outside to talk to me. Zero sacrifice and effort. You guys were right. I put her commitment to the test and she didn't show up.
Ew. You sound like the type of guy that drives girls away. Maybe she's a total bitch....and before I forget -- good job on dumping her (re: letting yourself be dumped, finally). Now what you should consider is... Why are you harassing the crap out of her, nagging on her, blowing up her phone/facebook/whatever over and over with no response? Girls see that and get disgusted by it. Like I said, she might be a huge bitch, but that means you just need to let her go, and nothing more. You don't need to do what you did and act like you're obsessed with what she's doing when she makes it clear she doesn't want to be seeing/speaking to you. When after a little while you start to notice she just doesn't care anymore, you should take that as a sign she doesn't want you, and that she may not have the balls to say so. You don't have to get super hurt and flip out about it, and flip out at her... When that's what you're facing, best to let it go and not make a fool outta yourself.
I don't think guys who do shit like call a girl 5 times because she won't answer, text her, facebook her, etc., realize it's a massive backfire and makes the guy look weak and desperate -- utterly regardless of how bitchy she acted.
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On April 24 2013 10:08 FallDownMarigold wrote:Show nested quote +On April 23 2013 13:21 beachbeachy wrote:
EDIT: I broke up with her. Turns out facebook said she was online 3 hours after she said she was falling asleep. Didn't respond to any of my important texts. I skype her and she immediately logs off. Then I call her and she eventually calls back and says she was sleeping. She hangs up and says that she can't talk because her roommate is asleep. Are you fucking kidding? IF YOU GAVE A SINGLE FUCK. ONE SOLITARY FUCK. You would have walked outside to talk to me. Zero sacrifice and effort. You guys were right. I put her commitment to the test and she didn't show up. Ew. You sound like the type of guy that drives girls away. Maybe she's a total bitch....and before I forget -- good job on dumping her (re: letting yourself be dumped, finally). Now what you should consider is... Why are you harassing the crap out of her, nagging on her, blowing up her phone/facebook/whatever over and over with no response? Girls see that and get disgusted by it. Like I said, she might be a huge bitch, but that means you just need to let her go, and nothing more. You don't need to do what you did and act like you're obsessed with what she's doing when she makes it clear she doesn't want to be seeing/speaking to you. When after a little while you start to notice she just doesn't care anymore, you should take that as a sign she doesn't want you, and that she may not have the balls to say so. You don't have to get super hurt and flip out about it, and flip out at her... When that's what you're facing, best to let it go and not make a fool outta yourself. I don't think guys who do shit like call a girl 5 times because she won't answer, text her, facebook her, etc., realize it's a massive backfire and makes the guy look weak and desperate -- utterly regardless of how bitchy she acted.
You didn't read my post at all. Or maybe you did and you were just looking for the wrong things. Sounds like you're coming from a huge bias. I can see why you're banned lol - not very intelligent posting.
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On April 24 2013 09:03 Torenhire wrote:Show nested quote +On April 24 2013 05:00 QuanticHawk wrote:
you continued to date her even though she smelled like the recipient of a 12 man bukkake, and as a result, you are now a
doormat that smells of crusty old semen Ahahahaahahahaha man I am having a bad night but this turned it around, thanks hawk.
holy shit hahahahaha
hawk's girl blog or general blog posts are so funny, I'm sorry hahahaha XD
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