Ok guys. You need to help me out here. The situation is, I've never dated a party girl before, you know the wild hot types. So far my girlfriends all fall under two categories - cutesy (usually tiny and kiddy looking) or studious (nerdy). Girls who like me seem to come from these categories too.
So I would like to have the experience of dating a girl like this. So far I've thought of getting one from clubs, but I'm not good in dancing and where I am it seems that relatively few people get to know others in clubs. I can drink quite well though so bars are a possible choice.
My characteristics are: somewhat muscular, average looking, wear specs, currently hairline is receding sadly to say. I can talk and joke a lot. Other points somewhat connected to the situation are that I'm 25 and have a normal corporate job. If there is other relevant info I missed out please tell me.
Now my goal is to get a girl of the aforementioned type. Do you guys have any suggestions as to increasing the probability of getting one? If you are dating/have dated one yourself I would value your input even more.
*EDIT
Due to the feedback from many kindly forumers I have realized that dating is not necessarily the right way to go, hence I should aim for one-night stands instead. If you know how to become the type of guy who attracts a lot of these type of girls I would like to hear input as well.
Well the cute and nerdy ones came naturally. I also have the category "sporty" that I am eyeing but the trouble is there are very few sporty girls where I stay... all the girls hate getting tanned for some reason.
Just go to a club buy a drink and carry it onto the dance floor, the drink in your hand excuses your poor dance moves as you don't want to spill, the alcohol helps you relax and move better anyway (to a point, obviously). it's not too difficult to pick up girls in that setting, it's rather more difficult to pick up girls for longer than a short casual relationship though.
On February 25 2013 01:21 targ wrote: Well the cute and nerdy ones came naturally. I also have the category "sporty" that I am eyeing but the trouble is there are very few sporty girls where I stay... all the girls hate getting tanned for some reason.
hmm. first one doesn't date party girls, that is usually a nice way of saying slut. i've "dated" a few in my day, and mostly i met them because I lived that life, drugs, clubs, parties, etc. I mean, you may not have success every time you go to a club, but the more you go the better your chance of success. go where they go, do what they do. you want to find a studious girl, go to the library, a "party girl," go to parties. pretty obvious really, but don't date party girls. there is a reason you don't take them home to your mother, trust me.
On February 25 2013 01:21 targ wrote: Well the cute and nerdy ones came naturally. I also have the category "sporty" that I am eyeing but the trouble is there are very few sporty girls where I stay... all the girls hate getting tanned for some reason.
So let me update this:
Cute Nerdy on: Party on: Sporty
Yes yes LOL, I wonder are there any more categories to be added?
On February 25 2013 01:33 Slayer91 wrote: Well if you want to find a party girl, you must first become... partyboy (drop the glasses get the pants)
I did give my image some consideration. Trouble is my eyes can't stand contacts and I can't see well without specs so that part I can't change. I'm open to all other suggestions on image.
On February 25 2013 01:21 targ wrote: Well the cute and nerdy ones came naturally. I also have the category "sporty" that I am eyeing but the trouble is there are very few sporty girls where I stay... all the girls hate getting tanned for some reason.
So let me update this:
Cute Nerdy on: Party on: Sporty
Yes yes LOL, I wonder are there any more categories to be added?
On February 25 2013 01:33 Slayer91 wrote: Well if you want to find a party girl, you must first become... partyboy (drop the glasses get the pants)
I did give my image some consideration. Trouble is my eyes can't stand contacts and I can't see well without specs so that part I can't change. I'm open to all other suggestions on image.
If you're looking for the experience of sleeping with a party girl, start going to parties. House parties are best. Joke, dance, be confident, and as the night progresses it's likely you'll find someone to take home. It's also likely that person will be a "party girl type." Get her number and you might wind up earning yourself a fuckbuddy.
If you're looking for a girlfriend, stop looking at categories. It's shallow and, frankly, if you're going to spend your time, money, and emotional energy on somebody, it should be somebody you like, not somebody who fits into a category. If you just want to fuck somebody and check their "type" off your list, get a fuckbuddy. Getting a "girlfriend" who you may or may not like as a person simply due to their image is a waste of her time and yours.
On February 25 2013 01:48 Shady Sands wrote: If you're in Chicago, I can recommend a party girl. She and I just broke up. She's a great fuck
Haha thanks man, unfortunately I'm in SEA now, was in Cali a couple days back though. Would you mind elaborating on:
A. Where did you meet her
and
B. How did you attract her
and
C. What type of guys does she like
Thanks!
On February 25 2013 01:49 Vega62a wrote: If you're looking for the experience of sleeping with a party girl, start going to parties. House parties are best. Joke, dance, be confident, and as the night progresses it's likely you'll find someone to take home. It's also likely that person will be a "party girl type." Get her number and you might wind up earning yourself a fuckbuddy.
If you're looking for a girlfriend, stop looking at categories. It's shallow and, frankly, if you're going to spend your time, money, and emotional energy on somebody, it should be somebody you like, not somebody who fits into a category. If you just want to fuck somebody and check their "type" off your list, get a fuckbuddy. Getting a "girlfriend" who you may or may not like as a person simply due to their image is a waste of her time and yours.
Yea I'm thinking how to get my way into more parties, my old friends are a very good bunch but rather staid. Now I'm considering how to extend into more circles that I'm out of college.
My thinking is that if I meet someone I really like then I don't care what "category" she is, but now that I'm not then I would like to meet and attract some wild types. Whether we just fuck or date after that depends on how compatible we are.
On February 25 2013 01:48 Shady Sands wrote: If you're in Chicago, I can recommend a party girl. She and I just broke up. She's a great fuck
Haha... this is the second blog you are venting in about her.
I mean, it's one of those things where the story isn't really good enough to warrant a blog post, but God damn am I pissed about it
You sure it's not worth a blog post?
Like, it'll just be more of the same bitching about girls and money and how the emotional intensity of our relationship was directly proportional to how much cash I was bleeding from my wallet.
On February 25 2013 01:48 Shady Sands wrote: If you're in Chicago, I can recommend a party girl. She and I just broke up. She's a great fuck
Haha... this is the second blog you are venting in about her.
I mean, it's one of those things where the story isn't really good enough to warrant a blog post, but God damn am I pissed about it
You sure it's not worth a blog post?
Like, it'll just be more of the same bitching about girls and money and how the emotional intensity of our relationship was directly proportional to how much cash I was bleeding from my wallet.
Ok, I got a good picture of your perspective from this post. Not everything needs to become a girl blog. Keep your head up!
You really don't want to do this. She'll let her hair down, but she'll let her body down as well. You'll see her in clubs just hanging out and dancing, giving her number to every man she sees, and she'll never come home at night cause she's out romancing. Even if you buy her champagne and roses and diamonds on her finger, diamonds on her finger.
On February 25 2013 02:24 Jibba wrote: You really don't want to do this. She'll let her hair down, but she'll let her body down as well. You'll see her in clubs just hanging out and dancing, giving her number to every man she sees, and she'll never come home at night cause she's out romancing. Even if you buy her champagne and roses and diamonds on her finger, diamonds on her finger.
On February 25 2013 01:11 targ wrote: Ok guys. You need to help me out here. The situation is, I've never dated a party girl before, you know the wild hot types. So far my girlfriends all fall under two categories - cutesy (usually tiny and kiddy looking) or studious (nerdy). Girls who like me seem to come from these categories too.
So I would like to have the experience of dating a girl like this. So far I've thought of getting one from clubs, but I'm not good in dancing and where I am it seems that relatively few people get to know others in clubs. I can drink quite well though so bars are a possible choice.
My characteristics are: somewhat muscular, average looking, wear specs, currently hairline is receding sadly to say. I can talk and joke a lot. Other points somewhat connected to the situation are that I'm 25 and have a normal corporate job. If there is other relevant info I missed out please tell me.
Now my goal is to get a girl of the aforementioned type. Do you guys have any suggestions as to increasing the probability of getting one? If you are dating/have dated one yourself I would value your input even more.
The only way to increase the probability of meeting a party girl is to go where party girls are.
Parties.
Also, it's not worth it to target a specific subset. It's best to simply to go to girls you are personally attracted to in the first place.
On February 25 2013 01:31 HotShizz wrote: hmm. first one doesn't date party girls, that is usually a nice way of saying slut. i've "dated" a few in my day, and mostly i met them because I lived that life, drugs, clubs, parties, etc. I mean, you may not have success every time you go to a club, but the more you go the better your chance of success. go where they go, do what they do. you want to find a studious girl, go to the library, a "party girl," go to parties. pretty obvious really, but don't date party girls. there is a reason you don't take them home to your mother, trust me.
This 100%. I tried doing that one time...I'll never do it again.
So when you see her standing there With green eyes and long blonde hair She wont be wearing underwear and you'll discover This girls not the one and shell never be fun You should just turn and run because you'll find out that Some girls try too hard Some girls try too hard to impress With the way that they dress With those things on their chest And the things they suggest to me
Ok dude i'm gonna be 900% serious here, so serious it wraps around and becomes negative amount sof serious, then climbs past 0 and becomes positive amounts of serious again that's how serious I am
if you're gonna be boning a "party girl" make sure to wear a condom
don't wear two condoms, that's bullshit it's actually bad unless you decide to fuck her twice, then you want two condoms, one at a time but like the point is, don't wear two condoms at once, and don't wear 0 condoms at once, wear exactly one condom
A) 1 you don't want to get her preggers B) 2 you dont wabnt her to get you preggers 3 or STDed or whatever the man verison of preggers is
you know what i'm saying
E: also yeah meet party girls at parties
C) also don't let her give you a blowie without a condom or you'll get double preggers
C) also don't let her give you a blowie without a condom or you'll get double preggers
yeah I agree with that so much. you dont want to know how many herpes and other viruses shes gathered in/around her mouth from contact with other mouths/cocks/vaginas
On February 25 2013 04:23 Blazinghand wrote: Ok dude i'm gonna be 900% serious here, so serious it wraps around and becomes negative amount sof serious, then climbs past 0 and becomes positive amounts of serious again that's how serious I am
if you're gonna be boning a "party girl" make sure to wear a condom
don't wear two condoms, that's bullshit it's actually bad unless you decide to fuck her twice, then you want two condoms, one at a time but like the point is, don't wear two condoms at once, and don't wear 0 condoms at once, wear exactly one condom
A) 1 you don't want to get her preggers B) 2 you dont wabnt her to get you preggers 3 or STDed or whatever the man verison of preggers is
you know what i'm saying
E: also yeah meet party girls at parties
C) also don't let her give you a blowie without a condom or you'll get double preggers
One shalt be the number of condoms, and the number of the condoms shall be one. Two shalt thou not use, nor either use thou zero, excepting that thou then proceed to use one. Three is right out. Once the condom number one, being the first number, is reached, then thrustest thou thy Holy Penis towards thy wench, who, being naughty in my sight, shall suck it.
On February 25 2013 04:23 Blazinghand wrote: Ok dude i'm gonna be 900% serious here, so serious it wraps around and becomes negative amount sof serious, then climbs past 0 and becomes positive amounts of serious again that's how serious I am
if you're gonna be boning a "party girl" make sure to wear a condom
don't wear two condoms, that's bullshit it's actually bad unless you decide to fuck her twice, then you want two condoms, one at a time but like the point is, don't wear two condoms at once, and don't wear 0 condoms at once, wear exactly one condom
A) 1 you don't want to get her preggers B) 2 you dont wabnt her to get you preggers 3 or STDed or whatever the man verison of preggers is
you know what i'm saying
E: also yeah meet party girls at parties
C) also don't let her give you a blowie without a condom or you'll get double preggers
One shalt be the number of condoms, and the number of the condoms shall be one. Two shalt thou not use, nor either use thou zero, excepting that thou then proceed to use one. Three is right out. Once the condom number one, being the first number, is reached, then thrustest thou thy Holy Penis towards thy wench, who, being naughty in my sight, shall suck it.
On February 25 2013 01:21 targ wrote: Well the cute and nerdy ones came naturally. I also have the category "sporty" that I am eyeing but the trouble is there are very few sporty girls where I stay... all the girls hate getting tanned for some reason.
So let me update this:
Cute Nerdy on: Party on: Sporty
LOL at this
But what makes you think that nerdy/studious girls can't party?
I've got myself a party girl. No special tricks, just go up to her and talk.
Edit: It always surprises me how much thought is put into approach and whatnot. It's actuallly pretty simple: 1.Go to whatever place that has the kind of girls you like. 2. Get eye contact 3. If you do, smile at her and if she gives you back an even bigger smile, go to her 4. just open up with fucking saying hello
pretty much the way you get tought in kindergarten lol
On February 25 2013 04:23 Blazinghand wrote: Ok dude i'm gonna be 900% serious here, so serious it wraps around and becomes negative amount sof serious, then climbs past 0 and becomes positive amounts of serious again that's how serious I am
if you're gonna be boning a "party girl" make sure to wear a condom
don't wear two condoms, that's bullshit it's actually bad unless you decide to fuck her twice, then you want two condoms, one at a time but like the point is, don't wear two condoms at once, and don't wear 0 condoms at once, wear exactly one condom
A) 1 you don't want to get her preggers B) 2 you dont wabnt her to get you preggers 3 or STDed or whatever the man verison of preggers is
you know what i'm saying
E: also yeah meet party girls at parties
C) also don't let her give you a blowie without a condom or you'll get double preggers
One shalt be the number of condoms, and the number of the condoms shall be one. Two shalt thou not use, nor either use thou zero, excepting that thou then proceed to use one. Three is right out. Once the condom number one, being the first number, is reached, then thrustest thou thy Holy Penis towards thy wench, who, being naughty in my sight, shall suck it.
dam, lol. Thats hella good.
If you want a party girl, house parties is were its at.
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