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So this is my third "girl blog". I sorta feel like my girl blogs haven't been true girl bogs and I hope this one IS a better one.
The night was young. It started with me hanging out with one of my smoking buddies and their group of friends. One of my friends who tries to pick up girls brought one with him probably with the intent of hooking up later.
I made my presence known. Someone was having trouble remembering her name and I remembered it so I said it and she was pleasantly surprised that I had remembered it and was very friendly towards me and we hit it off. While I was hanging out with this group of people and the girl (literally just a bunch of guys and one girl sausage fest) sitting at an outside table.
I had one problem here. I am a nice person and try to be nice to other people. I knew that my friend wanted to try to hook up with the girl but I felt like she wasn't going to do anything with him so I sorta just "took over" instead.
After I made this decision, I wanted to get her number so I would be able to keep in touch throughout the night as it was only 9:30 in the evening. I pretty much new I could get her number whenever I asked her, but I waited because I didn't want to ask in front of my friend that brought her coz I'm a nice guy. When some other people came and he was talking to them, I just gave her my phone with the new contact opened and she filled it out silently. Discretion is key!
So I text her later this night at about 11:30 to see if she wanted to smoke some weed because there was some freed weed going around there. I got the convo here coz I know text messages are always fun to read :o
Me: Hey Stranger
Her: Heyy
Me: Whats going on?
Her: Not much! Hbu?
Me: Do you like to smoke weed?
Her: Yea!!
Me: Come to the quad (place where I am)
Her: Nahhhh not right now!
Me: Haha stubborn!
Last text was at 11:56 PM. The next time I checked back with her was 1:38 AM
Me:Still wanna chill tonight?
Her: I'm in bed haha
Me: We should share a bed
Her: That's okay I'm comfy lol
Me: I could make you more comfy.....I have 2 pillows
Her: Haha that's ok!
Me: Ok have a good, comfortable night in your bed with ONE pillow haha
Her: Hahaha thank you! You too
She is definitely showing interest and with the number success and the vibe I am getting from the texts, I am going to follow this and see where it leads to by probin around a bit more so there will probably be a blog about the results of the initial meeting tonight....
 
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Right after Yom Kippur, too.
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doesnt seem like a good vibe from texts to be honest lol
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What? Thats her showing interest?
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dude can you get any more creepier
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this is called a good vibe???
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I guess the problem here is that text messages can be taken out of context. Maybe you weren't creepy and she wasn't avoiding you.
+ Show Spoiler +Just kidding, she is avoiding you because you're creepy
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rofl, I can almost touch the creepy and the awkward in this blog. love it, keep it coming. i hope you never reach the 2 stars.
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wow.....
well....at least you are putting yourself out there
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Let's do a line by line analysis
Me:Still wanna chill tonight?
Her: I'm in bed haha
Here, she's trying to be polite. Because her excuse also refers to the time (e.g. its her bedtime) it means that she finds you texting her at 1:38 AM to be a little rude/wierd
Me: We should share a bed
Her: That's okay I'm comfy lol
Okay you just took her excuse and... did the worst thing possible
Me: I could make you more comfy.....I have 2 pillows
Her: Haha that's ok!
She's still trying to be polite
Me: Ok have a good, comfortable night in your bed with ONE pillow haha
Her: Hahaha thank you! You too
Still trying to be polite
This is how it should have gone:
You ask her if she wants to smoke, she says no
So at 1:38 AM you text her this
You: Man this shit is amazing, we're getting so blazed right now
Her: I'm sleeping
You: That's cool, I'll text you next time
Instead of
You: Hey wanna come over and hang out
Her: No
You: My bed is comfy
Her: NO... EWWWW
Why write this?
- You give her two reasons to come over to your place (meet more people, possibly of the opposite gender from her AND good weed) without actually asking her to come over
- You also implicitly tell her that you're not afraid to meet her in the presence of other guys--you're confident enough not to have to monopolize her time during the moments you guys hang out
- She probably is tired/sleepy anyhow so she won't come over and call your bluff
- She'll feel like she owes you one for turning you down, so that next time when you do get some product or have any excuse to call her over, you have a better chance of success
- You enter her head as a nice guy trying to offer her the chance to meet new people and smoke good weed instead of a creepy guy trying to pick chicks up via SMS at 1:40 AM
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Basically you never ever want to go into any party feeling like you have to get laid that very night. You won't get laid that way. Play the long game.
Give her all the reasons in the world to want to trap you in the basement of the library and give you head without ever asking her to do anything or even spend time with you.
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On September 29 2012 16:19 StateofReverie wrote:
So this is my third "girl blog". I sorta feel like my girl blogs haven't been true girl bogs and I hope this one IS a better one.
The night was young. It started with me hanging out with one of my smoking buddies and their group of friends. One of my friends who tries to pick up girls brought one with him probably with the intent of hooking up later.
I made my presence known. Someone was having trouble remembering her name and I remembered it so I said it and she was pleasantly surprised that I had remembered it and was very friendly towards me and we hit it off. While I was hanging out with this group of people and the girl (literally just a bunch of guys and one girl sausage fest) sitting at an outside table.
I had one problem here. I am a nice person and try to be nice to other people. I knew that my friend wanted to try to hook up with the girl but I felt like she wasn't going to do anything with him so I sorta just "took over" instead.
After I made this decision, I wanted to get her number so I would be able to keep in touch throughout the night as it was only 9:30 in the evening. I pretty much new I could get her number whenever I asked her, but I waited because I didn't want to ask in front of my friend that brought her coz I'm a nice guy. When some other people came and he was talking to them, I just gave her my phone with the new contact opened and she filled it out silently. Discretion is key!
No you're not a nice guy. Get over yourself. You want to give the impression of being a nice guy, but in reality you're just like every other guy; opportunistic and self serving. Its ok, we're all like that at times, but don't hide it under a guise of being a nice guy.
Oh and the nice guy route would either be to leave her to your friend whether he succeeds or not. Or at least ask him if he's cool with you going for it. Depends on your friendship anyway.
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On September 29 2012 16:28 Jerubaal wrote:
Right after Yom Kippur, too.
sorry but this is the best one liner that I've seen on this site (or any for that matter) in such a long time....
had me laughing for minutes...
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On September 29 2012 17:45 CatNzHat wrote:sorry but this is the best one liner that I've seen on this site (or any for that matter) in such a long time.... had me laughing for minutes...
could someone explain this line to me please? i don't quite get the joke
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Me: Hey Stranger
Her: Heyy
Mistake #1
Stranger is not a great choice of words, especially because you guys just met once and didn't spend that much time together. It reinforces in her head that you guys are strangers. It's a type of word you use to someone you are close with.
Me: Whats going on?
Her: Not much! Hbu?
Not really a mistake, but especially when you don't know a girl very well, she's gonna stay defensive. What's going on? or What are you doing? are kind of first few words you need to avoid because she's just gonna give you a generic response like "nothing"
Me: Do you like to smoke weed?
Her: Yea!!
Me: Come to the quad (place where I am)
Her: Nahhhh not right now!
Mistake #2
You don't invite a girl to physically meet you unless you established connection with her by talking to her a lot. She didn't even hestitate to reject you, and she didn't even provide an excuse.
Me: Haha stubborn!
Mistake #3
Shows you are clingy and still trying to get her to come. What do you gain from jokingly calling her stubborn? Dont do this
Me:Still wanna chill tonight?
Her: I'm in bed haha
Mistake #4
Why would you physically invite her to meet you again after you got shut down before you talked to her a bunch more?
Me: We should share a bed
Her: That's okay I'm comfy lol
Mistake #5
Creepy...and creeppppy. She's already defensive towards you, rejected you, and she now sees that you are trying to sleep with her. Shoulda given up here.
Me: I could make you more comfy.....I have 2 pillows
Her: Haha that's ok!
Mistake#6
More creepyness. She's politely rejecting you. Why would you say something like this?
Me: Ok have a good, comfortable night in your bed with ONE pillow haha
Her: Hahaha thank you! You too
It was not good vibes. It was more like her rejecting you and you not noticing it.
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Ouch, these guys are telling it as it is. Best of luck, but that came across as incredibly awkward, not gonna lie. Also you aren't really a nice guy...you even mentioned in an older blog that you aren't a very nice guy.
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Don't see why you needed to text her 2 hours after you just met her, then text her again 2 hours after she denied you.
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On September 29 2012 17:48 targ wrote:Show nested quote +On September 29 2012 17:45 CatNzHat wrote:On September 29 2012 16:28 Jerubaal wrote:
Right after Yom Kippur, too. sorry but this is the best one liner that I've seen on this site (or any for that matter) in such a long time.... had me laughing for minutes... could someone explain this line to me please? i don't quite get the joke
His previous blog
Yom Kippur
the original comment made me laugh quite a bit ^_^
Also, to the OP, you realise you can't just say your a nice guy, you have to actually be a nice guy, and going after someone you know you friend likes (in an extremely creepy manner btw, that text conversation wasn't good) isn't being a nice guy.
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*waiting on QuanticHawk's post
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Slammed :/
..by all XD
Take the above pieces of advice. You came off as creepy. As a rule always try to put yourself in the girls shoes and how this all feels/looks to her. Not good.
Also "nice guy" or not. Grow some and graduate the 5th grade. NEVER just hand a girl your phone, for her to put in her number
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I'm glad i can always find golden threads like these. It gives me hope for all gamers out there that if they can't get a chick they can always blog about it and then beat off. Guy here seems like a nice guy some I am not gonna be rude but you should try and work on your skills man. As many have pointed out there needed to be a different approach and a much different way to handle the situation.
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LOL man i just opened his blog page. All 1 or 1.5 stars LOL
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It's ok, his next blog will be about how he slept with this girl anyway.
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This blog cheered me up after a shitty day at work, Thankyou StateofReverie for writing this, so everyone else has something to leave their hilarious comments on :3
P.S. she isn't into you, you might wanna focus all your efforts on that girl you hugged a couple blogs back, and if not her, maybe the one you gave some pie to!
Edit: Saying you're a nice guy 3x in a blog (Just a guess I didn't count) doesn't actually make you a nice guy, your actions define who you are.
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You invite her, she declines, the end. If you keep texting her you're being needy and desperate. If she wanted to be with you she'd find a way to make time. Like previous posters stated, you made one hell of a shitstorm.
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Real talk I love those answers. All of the analysis of the texts in this thread are way off.
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Man, you've been consistently making weird/creepy blogs like EVERY single day... of your freshman life. C'mon man..... and damn... your blog ratings are impressive LOL.
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Jesus fuck dude
You have like 0 tact. You need a lot of work, like everything you said was basically the opposite of what you should have done to get anywhere. I can guarantee you are coming across as a super creep and she will have had a good gossip about how much of a weirdo you are to her friends
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This is a 5/5 blog for sure.
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On September 29 2012 19:52 heyoka wrote:
Real talk I love those answers. All of the analysis of the texts in this thread are way off.
Why exactly?
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Well on the bright side, she didn't report you to the authorities, because holy crap you came across creepy.
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Am I the only one thinking this is a troll blog?
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Firstly, covertly getting the number of a girl whom your friend brought and wanted to hook up with is the opposite of nice. its douchey. Ask him where he stands so you aren't being a little weasel
From what you have written she is not giving you good vibes. She is simply not giving you no vibes. So yes compared to not replying to you she is giving you good vibes. That said, did you ever suspect that she wants to be nice by not outright rejecting you harshly?
what was the idea with the 2 pillows? You text women decently..
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Ahahahahahahahahaahhh ohhgod I don't think i could add anything to what everyone else has already said, those texts are not OK
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On September 29 2012 21:55 il0seonpurpose wrote:
Am I the only one thinking this is a troll blog?
Not at all. Theres pages full of people saying this. Chill believes it is all fiction.
My take is that he stretches the truth and plays dumb sometimes for the fun. So slightly trollish but we seem to all love a good troll.
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And why is this blog not featured ???
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Wow, this made me laugh out loud. Reminds me of a few mistakes ive done in the past. Im sure lots of people have done em here and you usually wont see it right away. Looking back at this you will probably feel like a right idiot.
But thats quite allright!
On September 29 2012 17:25 Shady Sands wrote:+ Show Spoiler +Let's do a line by line analysis Me:Still wanna chill tonight? Her: I'm in bed haha Here, she's trying to be polite. Because her excuse also refers to the time (e.g. its her bedtime) it means that she finds you texting her at 1:38 AM to be a little rude/wierd Me: We should share a bed Her: That's okay I'm comfy lol Okay you just took her excuse and... did the worst thing possible Me: I could make you more comfy.....I have 2 pillows Her: Haha that's ok! She's still trying to be polite Me: Ok have a good, comfortable night in your bed with ONE pillow haha Her: Hahaha thank you! You too Still trying to be polite
This is how it should have gone: You ask her if she wants to smoke, she says no So at 1:38 AM you text her this You: Man this shit is amazing, we're getting so blazed right now Her: I'm sleeping You: That's cool, I'll text you next time Instead of You: Hey wanna come over and hang out Her: No You: My bed is comfy Her: NO... EWWWW Why write this? - You give her two reasons to come over to your place (meet more people, possibly of the opposite gender from her AND good weed) without actually asking her to come over
- You also implicitly tell her that you're not afraid to meet her in the presence of other guys--you're confident enough not to have to monopolize her time during the moments you guys hang out
- She probably is tired/sleepy anyhow so she won't come over and call your bluff
- She'll feel like she owes you one for turning you down, so that next time when you do get some product or have any excuse to call her over, you have a better chance of success
- You enter her head as a nice guy trying to offer her the chance to meet new people and smoke good weed instead of a creepy guy trying to pick chicks up via SMS at 1:40 AM
Thank you for this well written analysis kind sir.
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On September 29 2012 22:10 meteorskunk wrote:Show nested quote +On September 29 2012 21:55 il0seonpurpose wrote:
Am I the only one thinking this is a troll blog? Not at all. Theres pages full of people saying this. Chill believes it is all fiction. My take is that he stretches the truth and plays dumb sometimes for the fun. So slightly trollish but we seem to all love a good troll.
Shh, let them people write guides on how he actually should've texted.
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Most definitely troll. Anybody above middle school wouldn't do this shit.
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This is so good, keep us updated with progress man! I really think you can do it!
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ahahahahhaah I am going to show this to all my co-workers, next time I need some advice, I am going to come to you.
+ Show Spoiler +But in all seriousness, you're a creeper, don't ever talk to women like that again, or even talk to this woman again. She denied you, and now thinks you're a creeper!
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On September 29 2012 23:58 OneOther wrote:
Most definitely troll. Anybody above middle school wouldn't do this shit.
You say that.... but I think it's feasible. Not everyone insta-gets awesome/mediocre social skills.
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well you live and you learn. this is why i like reading girl blogs, takes me back to my awkward days lol.
don't ever sound desperate even if you want to get some action or want to make things possible with a girl b/c doing so will not get you anywhere. think to yourself - if i say this would it make it awkward?
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My gosh...When I mad this blog, I did NOT realize that it would make me come off as a creeper LOL
Ok there seems to be two main trains of thought here, that I am a creeper for what I sent and that I am not a nice guy.
I guess nice guy is a relative term and in this case, I was being the nice guy. I AM a nicer guy than my friend, I've known him long enough that all he does is pick girls up and try to bang them and if that doesn't work, move onto the next one. Also since we were just all sitting at a table together, I think it might have been a bit awkward to ask my friend for his permission when she was sitting RIGHT next to him. I also couldn't really talk to her more than I would have liked to because once again, my friend was there and I didn't want to cock-block him but after I gave him time and realized that he's not going anywhere with her, I gave myself permission to go. When I talked to him about it, he was fine with it coz he realized that he wasn't going to go anywhere with her either.
Also for being a creeper.....is it creepy that I like to meet new people? I just love how on TL something that is different is considered as creepy and weird and socially awkward, etc...The first perspective was how this all came off as a failure and that I should move on and not waste any time because I pretty much fucked this up.
Before I got her number, I DID make it clear that I wanted to chill with her later. She was going to a dance with a friend at the time being. Instead of calling or trying to figure out where she was, I figured I would just save myself the trouble and just text her quickly. I am NOT much of a texter I have to admit. O I just realized, this is sorta the first "text conversation I've had with a female" in college. All my other text convos are with guys hah
I will just leave you with this mind breaking question - If I was being creepy, than why did she keep responding to texts? Like why respond to my texts if she was already back in her own bed already?
I also KNEW that her room mate was going to sleep early (at 11). I texted around 12 and she was still out enjoying the friday night so I re-texted an hour and a half later to see what her plans were again. I certainly don't take any offense that she refused me either, I just wanted to get her response and since she RESPONDED AT ALL and responded pretty positively as well.....BUT I DONT text people that often in general (why text when you can talk face to face) so I don't really have that much 'experience' in the field persay
On September 30 2012 00:53 Antimage wrote:
well you live and you learn. this is why i like reading girl blogs, takes me back to my awkward days lol.
don't ever sound desperate even if you want to get some action or want to make things possible with a girl b/c doing so will not get you anywhere. think to yourself - if i say this would it make it awkward?
whole point was to poke around in an awkward area! If I try not to make things awkward, doesn't that put her on some sort of a pedastool?
Also just because I failed once doesn't mean I'm friendzoned.
Does it make you desperate if you are direct with what you want?
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On September 30 2012 00:55 StateofReverie wrote:
I guess nice guy is a relative term and in this case, I was being the nice guy. I AM a nicer guy than my friend, I've known him long enough that all he does is pick girls up and try to bang them and if that doesn't work, move onto the next one.
As opposed to trying to getting a girl high and bang her?
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On September 30 2012 01:01 Dfgj wrote:Show nested quote +On September 30 2012 00:55 StateofReverie wrote:
I guess nice guy is a relative term and in this case, I was being the nice guy. I AM a nicer guy than my friend, I've known him long enough that all he does is pick girls up and try to bang them and if that doesn't work, move onto the next one. As opposed to trying to getting a girl high and bang her?
She was smoking with us initially and that WAS my friends plan before I intervened. When I asked her she did say she liked to smoke too
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WE can't know if it was creepy unless we see how you guys interacted but unless there was some real flirtation going on then inviting someone you just met to cuddle with you over text is a little invasive of personal space..
Just think if some guy wants to come cuddle in your bed.. that's how it would be i guess if she had no particular attraction to you..
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On September 30 2012 01:07 StateofReverie wrote:Show nested quote +On September 30 2012 01:01 Dfgj wrote:On September 30 2012 00:55 StateofReverie wrote:
I guess nice guy is a relative term and in this case, I was being the nice guy. I AM a nicer guy than my friend, I've known him long enough that all he does is pick girls up and try to bang them and if that doesn't work, move onto the next one. As opposed to trying to getting a girl high and bang her? She was smoking with us initially and that WAS my friends plan before I intervened. When I asked her she did say she liked to smoke too
And you slid directly from that to inviting her to your bed.
You're not 'nicer', your friend is just less subtle. And that's not a bad thing, just get better at it.
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On September 30 2012 01:14 Dfgj wrote:Show nested quote +On September 30 2012 01:07 StateofReverie wrote:On September 30 2012 01:01 Dfgj wrote:On September 30 2012 00:55 StateofReverie wrote:
I guess nice guy is a relative term and in this case, I was being the nice guy. I AM a nicer guy than my friend, I've known him long enough that all he does is pick girls up and try to bang them and if that doesn't work, move onto the next one. As opposed to trying to getting a girl high and bang her? She was smoking with us initially and that WAS my friends plan before I intervened. When I asked her she did say she liked to smoke too And you slid directly from that to inviting her to your bed. You're not 'nicer', your friend is just less subtle. And that's not a bad thing, just get better at it.
I just don't believe in wasting time poking around the bush so I am rather direct in stuff I say
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GUYS, I THINK I FOUND OUT WHO STATEOFREVERIE IS!
+ Show Spoiler +
Sorry, I know there's a "No spouting meme's" rule to TL. I just thought this was appropriate for the moment.
Edit: QuanticHawk's post was as good as I had hoped <3
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shoulda just gone with the tried and true 'im a freshman premed, wanna fuck'
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Ya you totally poke around the bush! you could have just asked her for a hangout instead of trying to see how she responds to your texts abt pillows lol
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On September 30 2012 01:19 Ikidomari wrote:GUYS, I THINK I FOUND OUT WHO STATEOFREVERIE IS! + Show Spoiler +Sorry, I know there's a "No spouting meme's" rule to TL. I just thought this was appropriate for the moment. Edit: QuanticHawk's post was as good as I had hoped <3
QuanticHawks did not disappoint lol
Im asian. that picture is of a white college guy. Check your sources again
On September 30 2012 01:24 meteorskunk wrote:
Ya you totally poke around the bush! you could have just asked her for a hangout instead of trying to see how she responds to your texts abt pillows lol
thats what "chilling" is
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Hey dude, mind if I ask how old you are?
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I don't think having sex is that important of a goal in my life. I am a very intelligent person and I just can't stand people who do not stir me on an intellectual level. I have only found one person like that, but she has a boyfriend that she wants to get married to. I don't really care because I was just so amazed at her level of maturity and being a freshman such as myself I was just happy enough to have met someone like her.
Hmmm something doesn't add up here. I'm guessing you originally wrote that because you realized that you couldn't get a girl, so telling yourself that you don't care would make you feel better.
If you honestly are a nice guy you should treat women like a little more than body parts, or at the very least, pretend to. It's not like it's hard.
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On September 30 2012 01:31 StateofReverie wrote:Show nested quote +On September 30 2012 01:19 Ikidomari wrote:GUYS, I THINK I FOUND OUT WHO STATEOFREVERIE IS! + Show Spoiler +Sorry, I know there's a "No spouting meme's" rule to TL. I just thought this was appropriate for the moment. Edit: QuanticHawk's post was as good as I had hoped <3 QuanticHawks did not disappoint lol Im asian. that picture is of a white college guy. Check your sources again Show nested quote +On September 30 2012 01:24 meteorskunk wrote:
Ya you totally poke around the bush! you could have just asked her for a hangout instead of trying to see how she responds to your texts abt pillows lol thats what "chilling" is
WAIT
So you're an Asian, who goes to a Jewish school, smokes weed, and seems to be a bit of a creeper.
I did not see that coming at all.
I just assumed you were a white kid who got lucky and was born into a rich family
my sincerest apologies sir.
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On September 30 2012 01:49 Ikidomari wrote:Show nested quote +On September 30 2012 01:31 StateofReverie wrote:On September 30 2012 01:19 Ikidomari wrote:GUYS, I THINK I FOUND OUT WHO STATEOFREVERIE IS! + Show Spoiler +Sorry, I know there's a "No spouting meme's" rule to TL. I just thought this was appropriate for the moment. Edit: QuanticHawk's post was as good as I had hoped <3 QuanticHawks did not disappoint lol Im asian. that picture is of a white college guy. Check your sources again On September 30 2012 01:24 meteorskunk wrote:
Ya you totally poke around the bush! you could have just asked her for a hangout instead of trying to see how she responds to your texts abt pillows lol thats what "chilling" is WAIT So you're an Asian, who goes to a Jewish school, smokes weed, and seems to be a bit of a creeper. I did not see that coming at all. I just assumed you were a white kid who got lucky and was born into a rich family my sincerest apologies sir.
He's Asian? I was totally picturing a Jew-fro.
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For all we know this is the prequel to the overly rich and tryhard asian individuals of Shady Sands' story.
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Lol your blogs keep getting better and better  . Look it at the bright side, u keep everyone entertained! And.. if u manage to prove ppl otherwise or ur just trolling everyone its a good thing too :D Keep it up bro!
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On September 30 2012 01:34 Chocolate wrote:Show nested quote +I don't think having sex is that important of a goal in my life. I am a very intelligent person and I just can't stand people who do not stir me on an intellectual level. I have only found one person like that, but she has a boyfriend that she wants to get married to. I don't really care because I was just so amazed at her level of maturity and being a freshman such as myself I was just happy enough to have met someone like her. Hmmm something doesn't add up here. I'm guessing you originally wrote that because you realized that you couldn't get a girl, so telling yourself that you don't care would make you feel better. If you honestly are a nice guy you should treat women like a little more than body parts, or at the very least, pretend to. It's not like it's hard.
That was written more than a week ago....Pretty sure that was like within the first week of college or 2nd week that I wrote that and it's been a little over a month now so It sorta adds up that sex isn't a top priority.
I do treat women more than body parts. I know a lot more females because when I talk to strangers, I usually make sure they are female and attractive to me. Maybe 1 in 5 strangers are males :O As a result, I know a lot of people that are NOT in my classes.
I have almost no friends in any of my classes and all of my friends are all purely outside of academic classes and stuch
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If she's more than just a body and the idol on which to project your dreams of the female gender, then you'll be able to answer this. What is her style?
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On September 30 2012 02:19 meteorskunk wrote:
If she's more than just a body and the idol on which to project your dreams of the female gender, then you'll be able to answer this. What is her style?
quiet and not one to cause unnecessary drama about details of her life, basic level of sociability (how much and what she contributed to group conversation), seems like a pretty normal person from what I've gathered...nothing too much to say OMG shes the one but not too little to say hit it and quit it
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I enjoyed skimming the comments!
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she was just being polite, you're a fucking creep and should just let it rest for a while ok? If you think she is still interested you have like zero social skills and should probably remain a loner forever... I repeat: she is NOT INTERESTED in you and just want to be polite and get rid of you at the same time, understand the signals bro and leave her alone. Good luck.
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On September 30 2012 03:25 HawaiianPig wrote:
LOL so flattered I have memes made for me :D
On September 30 2012 03:39 WarSame wrote:In case you are actually this bad with girls just check out some seduction site to get basic social skills. http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction is good for this.
As soon as I opened that, second thread is "Why Umbrellas are a useful seduction tool."
On September 30 2012 03:19 keit wrote:
she was just being polite, you're a fucking creep and should just let it rest for a while ok? If you think she is still interested you have like zero social skills and should probably remain a loner forever... I repeat: she is NOT INTERESTED in you and just want to be polite and get rid of you at the same time, understand the signals bro and leave her alone. Good luck.
If she wasn't interested, why would she still text me from her bed? I mean if she REALLY REALLY wasn't interested in me, wouldn't she just go to sleep and ignore my texts?
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On September 30 2012 03:41 StateofReverie wrote:As soon as I opened that, second thread is "Why Umbrellas are a useful seduction tool."
Yup... some of the stuff on there can range from pretty bullshit to complete-axe-to-the-balls-insane. Hopefully you are knowledgeable enough to sort through the shit to get the good stuff?... Although...
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On September 30 2012 03:41 StateofReverie wrote:
If she wasn't interested, why would she still text me from her bed? I mean if she REALLY REALLY wasn't interested in me, wouldn't she just go to sleep and ignore my texts?
no
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If she wasn't interested, why would she still text me from her bed? I mean if she REALLY REALLY wasn't interested in me, wouldn't she just go to sleep and ignore my texts?
There's this thing called courtesy, you may not have heard of it. Also, it wouldn't surprise me if she was lying as an attempt to get you to stop
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On September 30 2012 03:57 Lyter wrote:Show nested quote +
If she wasn't interested, why would she still text me from her bed? I mean if she REALLY REALLY wasn't interested in me, wouldn't she just go to sleep and ignore my texts?
There's this thing called courtesy, you may not have heard of it. Also, it wouldn't surprise me if she was lying as an attempt to get you to stop
Courtesy also could mean "oh i fell asleep during our text convo coz I was so tired last night" and therefore not returned my texts
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I'm too obsessed with girl blogs because i don't have my own love life because i sit on teamliquid trying to figure out how to have one instead of having one.
I don't like to speak for everyone but
Dear pre-med-possibly-finance major (i think) fellow gamimg website visitor
I think that most people agree that we enjoy shooting you down becauuse we think you deserve it. I am confident you are not a troll but rather a decent guy. However, it just feels right to me to try stop peopel from trying to read too deeply looking for romance because in the past it has helped me grow as a person but also made me make some bad decisions. It's like a drug love is. Well, take it slow thats all i want to say. and gl gl hf dd ofc
"it starts with jsut a little glance now
right away you're thinkin about romance now
you know you oughta take it slower
but ya just can't wait to get to know her"
-The Beach Boys - Here Today.
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Oh man, I love these blogs. Especially all the comments. :D
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Did I miss something with carlton? I did some searching and had determined that he goes to muhlenberg college. He said he goes to a jewish college in PA.
Either way yeah dude the whole thing did come off as creepy. Freshmen girls especially at a small school don't wanna tell guys to fuck off because then she might not be able to hang out with a large group of guys. They have a fear it will alienate other dudes so they are just nice and deflect.
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you sure as hell have a way with women
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Please stop interacting with women until you have a good idea of how creepy you are.
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I can't tell which is better, the total onslaught of creepiness that emanates from those texts, or the memes on this page LOL.
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On September 30 2012 05:02 lightrise wrote:
Did I miss something with carlton? I did some searching and had determined that he goes to muhlenberg college. He said he goes to a jewish college in PA.
Either way yeah dude the whole thing did come off as creepy. Freshmen girls especially at a small school don't wanna tell guys to fuck off because then she might not be able to hang out with a large group of guys. They have a fear it will alienate other dudes so they are just nice and deflect.
Yeah I figured that out in his last thread and posted it. Now we just need to wait for him to compromise his identity.
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On September 30 2012 00:55 StateofReverie wrote:
O I just realized, this is sorta the first "text conversation I've had with a female" in college. All my other text convos are with guys hah
On September 30 2012 00:55 StateofReverie wrote:
I will just leave you with this mind breaking question - If I was being creepy, than why did she keep responding to texts? Like why respond to my texts if she was already back in her own bed already?
BUT I DONT text people that often in general (why text when you can talk face to face) so I don't really have that much 'experience' in the field persay
On September 30 2012 00:55 StateofReverie wrote:
whole point was to poke around in an awkward area! If I try not to make things awkward, doesn't that put her on some sort of a pedastool?
Also just because I failed once doesn't mean I'm friendzoned.
Does it make you desperate if you are direct with what you want?
Oh my god. These liners are hall of fame material LOL. I can't believe a guy like this exists. How can someone have so little social common sense?
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+ Show Spoiler +On September 30 2012 03:52 TheKefka wrote:![[image loading]](http://i.imgur.com/252hb.jpg)
ROFL!!! OH GOD hahahahahahaha
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I could tolerate "persay" but pedastool was too much.
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Just because a girl texts you back, doesn´t mean she wants your dick
Edit: OP is obviously joking, and it´s hilariously spot on of the regular creepy guy hahahaha.
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On September 30 2012 08:50 Facultyadjutant wrote:
Just because a girl texts you back, doesn´t mean she wants your dick
Edit: OP is obviously joking, and it´s hilariously spot on of the regular creepy guy hahahaha.
The problem is that he's not joking. He's actually that socially awkward, and it's sad that he doesn't realize it.
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On September 30 2012 02:09 StateofReverie wrote:
I know a lot more females because when I talk to strangers, I usually make sure they are female and attractive to me. Maybe 1 in 5 strangers are males :O As a result, I know a lot of people that are NOT in my classes.
So, how does this prove that you don't treat women as body parts?
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Calgary25969 Posts
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I guess a lot of people are just jealous about my lifestyle LOL
but really, haters are gonna hate. What can I do? (Im sick btw so not much really)
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Please never stop writing blogs
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On September 30 2012 10:49 StateofReverie wrote:I guess a lot of people are just jealous about my lifestyle LOL but really, haters are gonna hate. What can I do? (Im sick btw so not much really)
huh? who!?!
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Okay, what the fuck dude. I just reread it and... what the fuck.
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Well played marttorn.
Also, i don't think anyone in here is jealous of your life style, as most of us will never face sexual harassment charges, which you came fairly close to with those texts.
Seriously, this isn't funny, its not cool, and its rather pathetic. I would rather face defenestration than post a blog making me look this stupid, are you leading up to a full tdot or whoever that was?
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On September 30 2012 10:49 StateofReverie wrote:I guess a lot of people are just jealous about my lifestyle LOL
GOLD
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On September 30 2012 10:49 StateofReverie wrote:I guess a lot of people are just jealous about my lifestyle LOL but really, haters are gonna hate. What can I do? (Im sick btw so not much really)
It's better to be the confident outgoing guy then get wrapped up into analysing every text you send or receive. Keep it up man, looking forward to seeing more posts.
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HAHAH these meme's... They should change TL guidelines so that MEME's are officially allowed on reveries blogs :D
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
LOOOL
follow-up blog plz
also
Me: Hey Stranger
Her: Heyy
![[image loading]](http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3odw431NL1r7nl5go1_500.jpg)
proof is there, she thinks she likes u
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I am having a horrible fever and a bad week. Thank you stateofreverie for cheering up my day. Do you have a paypal I can donate to?
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That chart is beautiful rofl.
flamewheel and rekrul's posts have some of the most consistently high hilarity-to-content ratios ^^
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On September 30 2012 15:46 QuanticIllusion wrote:
bitches love pillows
Someone make a meme out of this and get it front-paged on reddit
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On September 30 2012 15:03 Rekrul wrote:LOOOL follow-up blog plz also proof is there, she thinks she likes u
Do you want a follow up blog the next time I see her and her reaction? Or do you want when something actually happens that is significant?
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On October 01 2012 03:37 StateofReverie wrote:Show nested quote +On September 30 2012 15:03 Rekrul wrote:LOOOL follow-up blog plz also Me: Hey Stranger
Her: Heyy proof is there, she thinks she likes u Do you want a follow up blog the next time I see her or if anything happens to us
Speaking for everyone who has read this blog and its responses in its entirety,
YES
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Korea (South)17174 Posts
On October 01 2012 03:37 StateofReverie wrote:Show nested quote +On September 30 2012 15:03 Rekrul wrote:LOOOL follow-up blog plz also Me: Hey Stranger
Her: Heyy proof is there, she thinks she likes u Do you want a follow up blog the next time I see her and her reaction? Or do you want when something actually happens that is significant?
watever u feel is right
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On October 01 2012 03:38 marttorn wrote:Show nested quote +On October 01 2012 03:37 StateofReverie wrote:On September 30 2012 15:03 Rekrul wrote:LOOOL follow-up blog plz also Me: Hey Stranger
Her: Heyy proof is there, she thinks she likes u Do you want a follow up blog the next time I see her or if anything happens to us Speaking for everyone who has read this blog and its responses in its entirety, YES
Lol uh reread it I had to edit it to make the two seperate choices better
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Do you want a follow up blog the next time I see her and her reaction? Or do you want when something actually happens that is significant?
Undoubtedly you will find something significant in her small gestures, thus both options are the same.
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On October 01 2012 03:43 StateofReverie wrote:Show nested quote +On October 01 2012 03:38 marttorn wrote:On October 01 2012 03:37 StateofReverie wrote:On September 30 2012 15:03 Rekrul wrote:LOOOL follow-up blog plz also Me: Hey Stranger
Her: Heyy proof is there, she thinks she likes u Do you want a follow up blog the next time I see her or if anything happens to us Speaking for everyone who has read this blog and its responses in its entirety, YES Lol uh reread it I had to edit it to make the two seperate choices better
No really I just mean that whatever you plan on writing and posting, no matter what, just do it, I have no preferences.
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Just lemme do some homework and get that out of the way first...
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idra approved this method of getting teh ladies on his stream. 
thank you Idra, Now i can be forever alone!
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On September 29 2012 19:52 heyoka wrote:
Real talk I love those answers. All of the analysis of the texts in this thread are way off.
Agree. All those people saying he failed: You have no idea.
Rejection looks way different, at least where I come from hehe.
All those people saying he's a creeper: gosh...have you never asked a girl if she's dtf? I mean seriously, that is honestly the best way to get laid. It works, at least if you're not totally young anymore where everyone is so shy.
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This guy needs a subsection.
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Don't give up, I think you're on to something. I can't wait to read your next blog!
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girls give out their number all the time
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I'm not gonna lie but this really doesn't sound promising...It kind of sounds like something that will be long and drawn out.
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