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StateofReverie
United States633 Posts
To fix this problem, I am gonna try a test for myself using my self discipline to flatter people and be nothing but a good person. That includes picking up trash and common courtesy such as flushing other people's toilets. I hope this works out and if not is always fine    | ||
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Aerisky
United States12129 Posts
You sound like you're saying "man people think I'm an asshole so I will ingratiate myself to everyone". If that's just how you are naturally, it's fine. I mean try to be overall a bit nicer if possible at all, but you don't have to go overboard to the point at which you know you won't be happy anyway. | ||
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Roe
Canada6002 Posts
On September 06 2012 11:58 StateofReverie wrote: I am naturally just an asshole. My humor is very sarcastic and laced with irony from obscure connections. But the bottom line is I am an asshole because I run over the boundaries. To fix this problem, I am gonna try a test for myself using my self discipline to flatter people and be nothing but a good person. That includes picking up trash and common courtesy such as flushing other people's toilets. I hope this works out and if not is always fine Why is only flattering people being a good person? And...flushing other people's toilets? what the heck? | ||
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Spiffeh
United States830 Posts
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Torte de Lini
Germany38463 Posts
No seriously, try just being quiet and mindful. It might be just enough of what you're aiming for. | ||
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iTzSnypah
United States1738 Posts
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EatThePath
United States3943 Posts
I think you'll find it a useful exercise, OP. ^^ Sarcasm is much more enjoyable when it's not habitual. | ||
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StateofReverie
United States633 Posts
On September 06 2012 12:17 Torte de Lini wrote: Have you tried just shutting up? No seriously, try just being quiet and mindful. It might be just enough of what you're aiming for. I am a good listener and am mindful but when I do talk, I have a twisted sense of humor On September 06 2012 11:59 Aerisky wrote: lol what an odd reaction, no offense. You sound like you're saying "man people think I'm an asshole so I will ingratiate myself to everyone". If that's just how you are naturally, it's fine. I mean try to be overall a bit nicer if possible at all, but you don't have to go overboard to the point at which you know you won't be happy anyway. I like to try new things | ||
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Torte de Lini
Germany38463 Posts
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Megaliskuu
United States5123 Posts
(if you do so pls record it) | ||
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KING CHARLIE :D
United States447 Posts
On September 06 2012 11:59 Aerisky wrote: lol what an odd reaction, no offense. You sound like you're saying "man people think I'm an asshole so I will ingratiate myself to everyone". If that's just how you are naturally, it's fine. I mean try to be overall a bit nicer if possible at all, but you don't have to go overboard to the point at which you know you won't be happy anyway. well said. | ||
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Qwyn
United States2779 Posts
Keep your humour to yourself if it's so twisted that others will not understand it and it makes you look like a dick - that's basic social etiquette. Listen more than you talk as a rule, and you automatically become less annoying. Think before you fucking speak (I've had this problem in the past) and don't say anything that could be taken as rude, if you don't want to look like an asshole. You do that, and if people still think you're an asshole then you couldn't please them anyway. Save the dicking around and hooligans for your close friends, and be kind to others and you're all good to go. A good mood is contagious. | ||
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docvoc
United States5491 Posts
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Deleted User 255289
281 Posts
as for the second statement, I say acting NORMAL would be a better idea. | ||
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mizU
United States12125 Posts
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StateofReverie
United States633 Posts
Define normal. more then 50% people consider themselves above average at their job and life | ||
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THE_DOMINATOR
United States309 Posts
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Chairman Ray
United States11903 Posts
On September 06 2012 14:19 THE_DOMINATOR wrote: Well if you're a dick and an asshole you can go fuck yourself! Well played, well played | ||
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Cornstyle
United States147 Posts
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Incze
Romania2058 Posts
On September 06 2012 16:06 Cornstyle wrote: Just counting down the clock till your out of here. And again, I hope your attempt at becoming a physician is in jest, cause its not going to happen unless your real life persona is a complete 180 of how you portray yourself here. So glad your stupid video post of your room mate got nuked. What the hell are you talking about? I find what the OP is trying to do admirable. Good luck with that, but I know from experience that trying to reduce the sarcasm/witty remarks is quite difficult, especially at first. | ||
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Cornstyle
United States147 Posts
On September 06 2012 16:20 Incze wrote: What the hell are you talking about? I find what the OP is trying to do admirable. Good luck with that, but I know from experience that trying to reduce the sarcasm/witty remarks is quite difficult, especially at first. Have you read any of his other blogs? Most of them have been bragging about being pre med as a freshman at his school and how he looks down at everyone else because he's going to be a doctor. He's a dick, no way about it which most of the people who are commenting on here are recognizing. He's not trying to be fresh or original. And as a medical student myself I don't want anyone with his attitude or stupidity (advertising your pot smoking online is not a good idea, admissions boards pay people silly amounts of money to look stuff up) in my profession. | ||
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BrTarolg
United Kingdom3574 Posts
Really, i'm very quirky, introverted and i don't understand social norms and find it very difficult to empathise with people. But thats OK. There are plenty of people who DO like me, and who i can just chill out, be normal and not have them poke and prod me to try and expose my bad side Some people will go out of their way to criticise you just because you are different sometimes | ||
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capu
Finland224 Posts
youtube video | ||
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Roe
Canada6002 Posts
no that's an asshole, the OP is a dick! | ||
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thurst0n
United States611 Posts
I have read your blog and I wish to give you my thoughts regarding what you have stated in your OP. In one word: Perspective. Let me initiate with an inquiry .. have You ever thought that it's not You that is the asshole but it's all the ignorant chumps that You surround yourself with? Let that thought fester. Let the idea really simmer. I believe that You are looking at this all wrong. There is a time and a place for everything. You must have discipline when discipline requires, but musn't feel as though YOU must change as a person; learn to censor yourself when necessary. For example, please do not make smart ass comments in front of your boss, as they are much less likely to appreciate them than your peers. But, Alas, Do not fear! I have a solution for You. Surround yourself with new people. Clearly the people you've surrounded yourself with are ignorant and need an education. It is not your responsibility to educate. It is their responsibility for be educated. But I digress.. If you're not appreciated for what You are then it's not You who needs to change, it's the appreciation. You only get one life. I hope you life that life for you and not for the ignorance of the ignorant. This is it, your moment is now. Don't make this choice lightly as it's one you yourself will be living with. | ||
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StateofReverie
United States633 Posts
On September 08 2012 09:00 thurst0n wrote: Dear OP, I have read your blog and I wish to give you my thoughts regarding what you have stated in your OP. In one word: Perspective. Let me initiate with an inquiry .. have You ever thought that it's not You that is the asshole but it's all the ignorant chumps that You surround yourself with? Let that thought fester. Let the idea really simmer. I believe that You are looking at this all wrong. There is a time and a place for everything. You must have discipline when discipline requires, but musn't feel as though YOU must change as a person; learn to censor yourself when necessary. For example, please do not make smart ass comments in front of your boss, as they are much less likely to appreciate them than your peers. But, Alas, Do not fear! I have a solution for You. Surround yourself with new people. Clearly the people you've surrounded yourself with are ignorant and need an education. It is not your responsibility to educate. It is their responsibility for be educated. But I digress.. If you're not appreciated for what You are then it's not You who needs to change, it's the appreciation. You only get one life. I hope you life that life for you and not for the ignorance of the ignorant. This is it, your moment is now. Don't make this choice lightly as it's one you yourself will be living with. I have almost no regrets in my life | ||
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