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I am back in my dorm by 1:30 A.M. on a Friday night. Some might ask what happened. why i'm not out socializing with everyone right now?
Well I am a very straight forward, no nonsense bullshit kind of person. I get turned off by "immature" people who are still in their high school phase of life, like I know that they will get out of it, but it takes time and until they change, I dont really feel attracted to them.
I don't think having sex is that important of a goal in my life. I am a very intelligent person and I just can't stand people who do not stir me on an intellectual level. I have only found one person like that, but she has a boyfriend that she wants to get married to. I don't really care because I was just so amazed at her level of maturity and being a freshman such as myself I was just happy enough to have met someone like her.
I know that there will definitly be people that agree to be friends with benefits with me at some point in my life so I just don't feel stressed out about this. I am going to be early tonight and am going to get some homework done tomorrow even though I don't have any that is due the following week really. Idk these are just the stuff that is going on through my head and it will be very amusing to me when I look back at a blog post like this to recapture the moment
  
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no offense but you sound like you are pretty socially awkward
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I see you're making daily college blogs 
And yeah, looking back on some of your old blogs can be a good experience.
Your titles are sort of misleading though. I know it's intentional, but still rofl
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Haha nice! Might I reccomend writing in a journal? Feel free to post these here as well, but when you say
Idk these are just the stuff that is going on through my head and it will be very amusing to me when I look back at a blog post like this to recapture the moment it makes me thing a journal might be a good idea for you. I personally am trying to write in mine more.
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On September 01 2012 14:42 P7GAB wrote:
no offense but you sound like you are pretty socially awkward
OFFENSE TAKEN! As a socially awkward college student that is...
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Just play starcraft every friday night while everyone is out wasting their life ^.^
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Nah, I hear ya. I had that phase where I needed to go out every night too. Then I got a steady gf and got lazy, lol.
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I would recommend that you join your school's debate team. Even if you don't enjoy the activity of competitive debating, the people you meet are wonderful. If you hang out with some world class debaters, they have some of the most insightful thoughts. Maybe you'll even meet a nice girl. Good luck in college!
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On September 01 2012 14:52 Shady Sands wrote:
Nah, I hear ya. I had that phase where I needed to go out every night too. Then I got a steady gf and got lazy, lol.
what do you even do, when you go out? I mean what could you do outside that you couldn't do inside?
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off chance that you aren't sarcastic.... socializing with others, human interactions, physical contact, etc. all those things that keep us sane...
You know.... it's nice just talking to someone face to face once in a while...
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The most intelligent are those with perspective
One thing you can´t get without meeting people
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On September 01 2012 15:28 Facultyadjutant wrote:
The most intelligent are those with perspective
One thing you can´t get without meeting people
This is an excellent point.
The OP sounds less like an intelligent person preferring the comforts of his own home, and a LOT more like an arrogant dick trying to justify his social awkwardness by citing his own intelligence, 'no bullshit attitude' (read: lack of tact), and the horribleness of other people.
The only person you're fooling is yourself.
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On September 01 2012 14:37 StateofReverie wrote:
I am back in my dorm by 1:30 A.M. on a Friday night. Some might ask what happened. why i'm not out socializing with everyone right now?
Not really, I spent most of my Friday nights in college playing video games in my dorm. Nothing abnormal about it at all 
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I feel bad for people who don't have a point in their life where they just do dumb stuff with friends, hook up with random girls, and in general be immature, silly, and care-free.
I feel equally bad for people who never outgrow that phase.
The dude posting about perspective has it right, but going through those different phases of life helps shape that perspective as well.
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Why don't you party it up with great people. Party people aren't bad people or dumb people. Find the right people. And stop being a stuck up nerd.
You're not over partying until you've partied hard. Come back when you've been to crazy dressed up parties where 100 percent of the people is on drugs, where girls wear nothing but duct tape to cover their nipples, techno music is banging and everybody is making out with everybody. Come to europe, boy.
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I don't know if it's just me but after a college week on a friday night,going out is a physical impossibility.
I'm not even that dedicated to it or anything,I'm just fucking exhausted after a week of classes and traveling by buss for at least one and a half hour every day.I get home on a friday,blaze up and pass out before midnight rofl.
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As long as you have friends you talk to outside of the internet, I don't think it's a big deal that you don't go partying every weekend.
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You sound like a guy with a really narrow perspective on life. GLHF.
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You should put previous blog entry links into new ones if you want to blog often.
Also, i responded on your last blog and the point I was trying to say you shouldnt make the wrong turns like I did. you are no better than other people yet. You might think so but in your time "not partying" its not like your making yourself useful as well. Your just making excuses for being socially awkward.
Fresh college year is best way to start over, meet new ppl, and enjoy new things. This is the opportunity to bang chicks and enjoy alcohol. If your done with school you need to get serious, but now you can do what you want. Like someone above said, ppl that never go out are kind of sad, nd ppl that are stuck on that phase are even more sad. Party gets real around your age, anything before is immature teen gathering.
Either go out and stop making excuses for being socially awkward OR what I did, make yourself better than others. If you cant make 100k $ each year while doing school or some other goal, then your no better than others
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People that go out and socialize often (more specifically, the ones that need it), are people very uncomfortable in their own skin. They need to be part of group settings to seem like their lives matter, have those friends they can always do stuff with, and have stories to tell. The activities and the attire for such outings also lends us information into what this person has on their mind. (I understand this is a generic label, but it's more apt to fit the habitual party-goer)
I was fortunate (or unfortunate) enough to go through an intense party and outgoing phase in high school, such that I've been over that kind of stuff for years. The scene is overplayed, the bars boring, and the people that do them often are the ones I'd rather not spend my time with anyways. That's not to say those of us that share my view or have similar experiences can't go out every once in awhile to unwind with friends or just relax.
It will more come to a point where you really start to determine your values that you'll be able to act with more certainty and enjoy activities.
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