Partying life away - Page 2

On September 01 2012 16:22 TheKwas wrote:

This is an excellent point.

The OP sounds less like an intelligent person preferring the comforts of his own home, and a LOT more like an arrogant dick trying to justify his social awkwardness by citing his own intelligence, 'no bullshit attitude' (read: lack of tact), and the horribleness of other people.


The only person you're fooling is yourself.

On September 01 2012 18:43 Tommie wrote:
Why don't you party it up with great people. Party people aren't bad people or dumb people. Find the right people. And stop being a stuck up nerd.

You're not over partying until you've partied hard. Come back when you've been to crazy dressed up parties where 100 percent of the people is on drugs, where girls wear nothing but duct tape to cover their nipples, techno music is banging and everybody is making out with everybody. Come to europe, boy.

On September 01 2012 20:01 ruiyang wrote:
You should put previous blog entry links into new ones if you want to blog often.

Also, i responded on your last blog and the point I was trying to say you shouldnt make the wrong turns like I did. you are no better than other people yet. You might think so but in your time "not partying" its not like your making yourself useful as well. Your just making excuses for being socially awkward.

Fresh college year is best way to start over, meet new ppl, and enjoy new things. This is the opportunity to bang chicks and enjoy alcohol. If your done with school you need to get serious, but now you can do what you want. Like someone above said, ppl that never go out are kind of sad, nd ppl that are stuck on that phase are even more sad. Party gets real around your age, anything before is immature teen gathering.

Either go out and stop making excuses for being socially awkward OR what I did, make yourself better than others. If you cant make 100k $ each year while doing school or some other goal, then your no better than others

On September 01 2012 20:35 divito wrote:
People that go out and socialize often (more specifically, the ones that need it), are people very uncomfortable in their own skin. They need to be part of group settings to seem like their lives matter, have those friends they can always do stuff with, and have stories to tell. The activities and the attire for such outings also lends us information into what this person has on their mind. (I understand this is a generic label, but it's more apt to fit the habitual party-goer)

I was fortunate (or unfortunate) enough to go through an intense party and outgoing phase in high school, such that I've been over that kind of stuff for years. The scene is overplayed, the bars boring, and the people that do them often are the ones I'd rather not spend my time with anyways. That's not to say those of us that share my view or have similar experiences can't go out every once in awhile to unwind with friends or just relax.

It will more come to a point where you really start to determine your values that you'll be able to act with more certainty and enjoy activities.

On September 01 2012 20:35 divito wrote:
People that go out and socialize often (more specifically, the ones that need it), are people very uncomfortable in their own skin. They need to be part of group settings to seem like their lives matter, have those friends they can always do stuff with, and have stories to tell. The activities and the attire for such outings also lends us information into what this person has on their mind. (I understand this is a generic label, but it's more apt to fit the habitual party-goer)

I was fortunate (or unfortunate) enough to go through an intense party and outgoing phase in high school, such that I've been over that kind of stuff for years. The scene is overplayed, the bars boring, and the people that do them often are the ones I'd rather not spend my time with anyways. That's not to say those of us that share my view or have similar experiences can't go out every once in awhile to unwind with friends or just relax.

It will more come to a point where you really start to determine your values that you'll be able to act with more certainty and enjoy activities.

On September 01 2012 22:30 rogzardo wrote:
You shouldn't hate on freshman so much. The older you get, the more you will have wished you had banged a bunch of them.

On September 01 2012 15:28 Facultyadjutant wrote:
The most intelligent are those with perspective

One thing you can´t get without meeting people

On September 01 2012 14:37 StateofReverie wrote:I don't think having sex is that important of a goal in my life. I am a very intelligent person and I just can't stand people who do not stir me on an intellectual level.

On September 01 2012 14:58 Chairman Ray wrote:
I would recommend that you join your school's debate team. Even if you don't enjoy the activity of competitive debating, the people you meet are wonderful. If you hang out with some world class debaters, they have some of the most insightful thoughts. Maybe you'll even meet a nice girl. Good luck in college!

On September 02 2012 01:49 acrimoneyius wrote:


You sound so incredibly full of yourself. The irony here is that most really intelligent people don't have to proclaim they are.

On September 01 2012 22:56 StateofReverie wrote:

I concur. They are just really prude in general. Im not even talking from a sexual perspective but just as a person what the fuck is your problem if you dont even want to be friendly and have a normal conversation? Hopefully that will go away as they get more used to college though

On September 02 2012 03:14 EffervescentAureola wrote:
I would say I am quite similar to you, I don't have much friends but those select few who I am acquaintances with I am comfortable talking about a diverse range of topics. I prefer to stay indoors and watch a good movie, read a good book, play video games, or do anything that stimulates me intellectually. Partying or socializing is basically a waste of time for me; I do not avoid social interaction per se but I simply derive no satisfaction, personal or emotional, from such activities. I would much rather strive to improve myself in some way as opposed to killing brain cells by drinking, partying, and such. Also, surrounding yourself with people who have similar interests, perspectives, and dreams as yourself is the best thing you can possibly do. Not only will you have fun but you will feel like you belong by immersing yourself in an environment of your choosing. That I believe is the fundamental human desire: to seek meaningful companionship that stimulates you to grow and develop and be the best person you can possibly be. I have found that trying to party or attempting to be more social is not only an awkward experience for me, but also for those who encounter my behavior. You must first realize who you are, and never try to change yourself to please others or "fit in". If you find yourself in a place you don't want to be, change your surroundings, don't change yourself. Because none of us are alone, and whenever we might feel that we are, we must remind ourselves that perhaps we are simply looking in all the wrong places.