On June 26 2012 13:48 Shai wrote:
The worst of it is having been a denizen of the internet for almost 15 years I have myself become much more argumentative. Why do people have to be so contrary? I understand the need for conflict in order to grow, but most conflict on the internet is utterly meaningless.
Why do people have conflict in the first place?
Generally, either there is a misunderstanding, or people have different ways of doing things and different reasons why their way is right. The first is amplified greatly by the internet. Text is harder to read than voice and expression. The second is something which people eventually get over as they age - which is the notion that things must be done their way. Guess where younger people tend to socialize - on the internet.
Meaningless is a strong word. It may not have meaning to you, but to a 15-year-old who's just learning that he can say things reasonably intelligently if he tries, it could make for a great proving ground. And above all that, there may be people (even adults) who value things differently than you do for whom such conversations are incredibly meaningful.
The internet is a frustrating place - but only as much as you let it be. If you feel you're having problems coping with internet personalities and their tendancies, go somewhere else. I'll warn you, though - you may find that people in real life have just the same problems as those on the internet. The difference is that people in real life are more inclined to hide that side of themselves until you really get to know them.