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Hello guys, me again...
Yesterday I decided to talk with my friend, trying to see how he reacts when i talk about his ex, before i say that i'm interested in her. So, yesterday after work i called him for a beer and we begin talking. Everything was normal until i asked him how he feels about her.
Me: Hey man, what about girl B. Did you get over her?
He: Oh yeah man, i'm fine and making out with anoter girl.
Me: Oh yeah? Great! I mean, its good for you
He: Of course, besides, Girl B was a liar you know
Me: No... what are you talking about?
He: After she dumped me I found out she was dating with two other guys at the same moment
Me: LOL?
He: Yeah man, she's a b**ch.
Me: Lol man, are you sure?
He: Of course. One guy told me in facebook that she was dating him.
Me: After she broke up with you, no?
He: No.
Me: And now? How is she?
He: Idk man, I know that she is going out with another dude.
HOLY SHIT! After that I didn't even talked with him about how i am feeling, how i am attracted to that girl. I know the guy, he would never say something like that if he didn't know something... So I decided to go home and talk with the girl about what he said. Late night yesterday i was playing some PvZ and she poped up on msn. I quit and so we begin talking.
She: Hi hi, i need to tell you something
Me: Hi! Go on!
She: I don't know exactly how to say this but i'm sure you noted
Me: Noted what?
She: How we're attracted by each other
Me: Ah, that? Yeah yeah... i noted
She: So... what you think?
Me: I don't know... sure, i'm attracted by you... but then there's friend B you dated, and he is my friend after all.
She: I'm sure he wouldn't mind
Me: How can you be so sure?
She: He didn't told you why i broke up with him, right?
Me: No.
She: He is gay.
Me: WTF?
She: Yeah, he's a fag. She told me "I really like you but... i'm gay". He couldn't even get hard with me
Me: No way, i can't believe. I mean, then why would he date you and not tell us
She: Coz his mom would die of disgust.
Me: Holy shit
She: Yeah, i'm sure he told you guys that i dumped him but the truth is that hes gay, I couldn't accept lying just to make his life easier with his mom, so i put an end to our relationship
Me: oh my god...
After that i took some time to digest what she said. WHAT THE FUCK? I mean, no problem whit he being gay, its just... how he tell me that he is doing great, making out with another girl and then girl B comes and say "oh, the reason i broke with him... he's gay". Then she called me once again on msn
She: So, can we make out sometime?
Me: Oh well, aren't you making out with another guy?
She: No, who told you that?
Me: A friend of mine told me he saw you with this guy who is a friend of him
She: What a lie, i'm not making out with anyone.
Me: Well, alright. I just need to figure if friend A is okay with me making out with you.
She: Why? I told you he doesn't care
Me: I know, but... just give some time to cope with those news.
She: Okay, i need to sleep. Bye <3
Me: G.night ^^
Oh man, this is getting worse. That guy (Friend B) isn't the type to lie about something serious as that. And what girl B told me... i don't know what to think, i do now that my friend has some gay stereotypes but nothing that you could point and say: Man, why don't you just get out of the closet, you're gay. i know its complicated because his mom is old and full of prejudice...
Any advices? Shoul i just get out of this or try to see what the real truth?
If you don't know what i'm talking about, read this: Bros b4 Hoes?
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So the plot thickens... Time to put on your detective hat and do some research man..
I suggest you make a list of facts/evidence you have found on this thread and our mighty fine TL research team will interpet the data and come up with a conclusion
First some questions btw:
Question 1: Was the conversation with her really that short? As in, did she really go to the point of the attraction right away, or was she "circling" the subject a bit before going in for the kill (question)?
Question 2: What do you know about your friend? According to her there are three things that you should be able to know or check:
-He's a blatant liar
-He's gay
-apparently his mom is very anti gay according to her
Any of those things true or feaseble?
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Don't care what you do, as long as you keep this thread updated. This has potential to be hilarious  good luck
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I guess he wasnt that close of a friend if you didnt know that his gay or that he lies about stupid shit to save face?
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well, your friend did call Girl B a liar, so maybe she is just lying again
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Great care my friend, it's clear that at least one of the two are lying (possibly both as well) and you need to keep your shoes out of the mud. May I carefully suggest that you keep yourself clear of the girl for at least another few days while you sort things out.
Also, yes, keep us updated, the drama is delicious.
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On May 31 2012 22:49 B.I.G. wrote:
So the plot thickens... Time to put on your detective hat and do some research man..
I suggest you make a list of facts/evidence you have found on this thread and our mighty fine TL research team will interpet the data and come up with a conclusion
First some questions btw:
Question 1: Was the conversation with her really that short? As in, did she really go to the point of the attraction right away, or was she "circling" the subject a bit before going in for the kill (question)?
Question 2: What do you know about your friend? According to her there are three things that you should be able to know or check:
-He's a blatant liar
-He's gay
-apparently his mom is very anti gay according to her
Any of those things true or feaseble?
1- Yeah, she just called me on msn and it was like "hey, know what? I like you. You like me. Why don't we make out?"
2- His mom is not only very anti gay, she's what we call "old hag", hating everything we do (RPG, music, games...), and always call that friend a disgust.
Also, i never thought he could be gay because he never showed something that you could point as "gayish". Hes some sort of emo kid, so i always put him on those emo things and not gay things.
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If she was going to lie, why lie about something so serious like his sexual orientation?
I'd try and see who your friend is making out with and go from there.
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Ok firstly this is hilarious..
Secondly, If he really was gay and wanted to keep it secret, would it not be extremely mean for the girl to go ahead and tell everyone about it?
So here are my logical possible conclusions (they are quite cynical, mind you)
1) Your friend actually is gay (which is ok. I reckon a lot of gay people wouldn't want people to know about it, especially as teenagers), but the girl shows an extreme lack of respect for spreading it. Imagine what she could do to you after you break up. Would you want your biggest secrets to be revealed the moment you break up? Could you trust her?
2) She's a manipulative liar who likes to use guys. So why would you want her?
Of course both of these could be wrong, as I don't know any extra information.. But both of these options are pretty common behaviour among teenagers (I'm 20 myself so have seen many things like this)
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On May 31 2012 23:29 Torte de Lini wrote:
If she was going to lie, why lie about something so serious like his sexual orientation?
I'd try and see who your friend is making out with and go from there.
That's what crossed my mind, why lie about something so serious. And what about the other guy she was supposed dating? My friend isn't the type to lie...
maybe they started a war against each other and are just spreading lies all around to see what happens? so childish...
On May 31 2012 23:30 Mongoose wrote:
Ok firstly this is hilarious..
Secondly, If he really was gay and wanted to keep it secret, would it not be extremely mean for the girl to go ahead and tell everyone about it?
So here are my logical possible conclusions (they are quite cynical, mind you)
1) Your friend actually is gay (which is ok. I reckon a lot of gay people wouldn't want people to know about it, especially as teenagers), but the girl shows an extreme lack of respect for spreading it. Imagine what she could do to you after you break up. Would you want your biggest secrets to be revealed the moment you break up? Could you trust her?
2) She's a manipulative liar who likes to use guys. So why would you want her?
Of course both of these could be wrong, as I don't know any extra information.. But both of these options are pretty common behaviour among teenagers (I'm 20 myself so have seen many things like this)
Yeah, it would be really mean...
1) If my friend was gay, i think the only real problem would be his mom. But yeah, if he is gay, that girl will be ruled out of any possible relationship we'd have (even friendship). I don't keep people i couldn't trust close to me, while i must admit that i'd never tell her any secrets... heck, I dated a girl for two years and she didn't any secrets i had or still have.
2) If she's a manipulative liar, i won't want her anymore.
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Can a mod delete this reply please? i pressed the wrong button.
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On May 31 2012 23:40 Gleen wrote:
Can a mod delete this reply please? i pressed the wrong button.
When that happens just say:
"Edit: Double post" or something like that
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Yeah... All you need to do is get together with your friend and his supposed girl that he is making out. If she exists and they kiss, the conclusion is pretty obvious. But I think i'm gonna take your friends side on this. Just because, if I were him, and was gay, and my mom was heavily anti-gay, I wouldn't try find a girl to date, tell her im gay and I only want to date her for pretend. I mean, how dumb is that? All he has to do is remain 'single'(for appearances anyway) and his mom can't say shit. If you try trick a girl into being your 'girlfriend' and then tell her you are gay, of course thats not going to work and backfire down the road, when she tells people. I just can't imagine anyone being that short-sighted\stupid. So I would give him the benefit of the doubt for the time being.
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Find another girl.
True or not, she's a bitch for telling you either way.
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Hey man, what about girl samantha. Did you get over her?
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I have seen the future. It's a disaster.
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On June 01 2012 00:05 iwearcapes wrote:
Hey man, what about girl samantha. Did you get over her?
What? Me? Don't know what you're talking about man... rofl
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Your friend's story seems a lot more believeable..
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why did you quit the sc match? Multitask.
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On June 01 2012 00:20 iamperfection wrote:
why did you quit the sc match? Multitask.
Don't have the necessary skill to manage storm drops and talk with a girl.
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