EPTAt that point though, you're in the clear. Your friend punched you when you were simply showing him love. That means it's okay to make out with his ex-gf. Proceed to Cloud Nine.
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StorkHwaiting
United States3465 Posts
At that point though, you're in the clear. Your friend punched you when you were simply showing him love. That means it's okay to make out with his ex-gf. Proceed to Cloud Nine. | ||
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iamperfection
United States9644 Posts
On June 01 2012 00:24 StorkHwaiting wrote: LOL. Dude, the most elegant solution is to make a pass at your friend. If he kisses you back with feeling, then you know he's gay. If he's like uh wtf dude?? Then maybe he's straight. Or he could just be surprised by your suddenness. The best way to make sure is to kiss him again and then pull back and giggle. That should bring him out of his shell. If he punches you, then he's probably not gay. But even then... there's still a chance he's just playing hard to get. At that point though, you're in the clear. Your friend punched you when you were simply showing him love. That means it's okay to make out with his ex-gf. Proceed to Cloud Nine. I think we can all agree this is the right course of action. | ||
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jacosajh
2919 Posts
On June 01 2012 00:23 Gleen wrote: Don't have the necessary skill to manage storm drops and talk with a girl. Dealing with this girl is going to be much much worse. | ||
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B.I.G.
3251 Posts
On June 01 2012 00:25 iamperfection wrote: I think we can all agree this is the right course of action. please video tape this test for the sake of research! But seriously, I've had had many people I considered friends who turned out to be total liars, so don't count out this girl yet... I dont know, something about your friend's story is kinda suspicious.. I mean what dude would message you on facebook that your banging the same chick right? Also, IF she's a notrious whore who doesn't seem to be to secretive about her escapades, why would she bother lying about it? The most important question here is: Who of those two has the most to gain from lying? -Your friend has his honor to defend -And the girl... I guess it's either her relationship (or w/e) with you or her reputation... If I were you I would delve deeper into these "cheating" stories. Figure out who the guy (supposedly) is that messaged him on facebook. Usually, it will be someone you know.. | ||
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TheFish7
United States2824 Posts
On June 01 2012 00:25 iamperfection wrote: I think we can all agree this is the right course of action. If you have any other gay friends you could have them make a pass at him and then get the skinny later on. Its hard to really say who is lying in this case just based on the information presented - because I don't really understand what the cultural norms are in Brazil concerning gay men, and girls dating multiple people at once. If this was happening in the states, I'd be somewhat more inclined to believe the girl (although I have met some crazy bitches who want to juggle more than one guy) | ||
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Endymion
United States3701 Posts
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alQahira
United States511 Posts
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MysteryMeat1
United States3292 Posts
On May 31 2012 23:30 Mongoose wrote: Ok firstly this is hilarious.. Secondly, If he really was gay and wanted to keep it secret, would it not be extremely mean for the girl to go ahead and tell everyone about it? So here are my logical possible conclusions (they are quite cynical, mind you) 1) Your friend actually is gay (which is ok. I reckon a lot of gay people wouldn't want people to know about it, especially as teenagers), but the girl shows an extreme lack of respect for spreading it. Imagine what she could do to you after you break up. Would you want your biggest secrets to be revealed the moment you break up? Could you trust her? 2) She's a manipulative liar who likes to use guys. So why would you want her? Of course both of these could be wrong, as I don't know any extra information.. But both of these options are pretty common behaviour among teenagers (I'm 20 myself so have seen many things like this) Yeah, it would be really mean... 1) If my friend was gay, i think the only real problem would be his mom. But yeah, if he is gay, that girl will be ruled out of any possible relationship we'd have (even friendship). I don't keep people i couldn't trust close to me, while i must admit that i'd never tell her any secrets... heck, I dated a girl for two years and she didn't any secrets i had or still have. 2) If she's a manipulative liar, i won't want her anymore.[/QUOTE] Wait so you wouldn't go out with her because she told you that your friend was gay, and he ends up being gay. I don't think you can rule out friendship because you don't trust her. I think she just likes you and she ended up lying to protect your friend from the masses finding out he's gay. On the gay part I don't believe it. If he is that emotionally distraught over leaving this girl, then it doesn't really make sense that he's gay, unless something else happened. I think you have to dig deepr, but if you confront your friend and ask are you guy, your might get the wrong response and it will be that much harder for you to get to the bottom of this mud pit. | ||
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JingleHell
United States11308 Posts
Just find a different chick to date. | ||
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Ghostcom
Denmark4782 Posts
On June 01 2012 00:24 StorkHwaiting wrote: LOL. Dude, the most elegant solution is to make a pass at your friend. If he kisses you back with feeling, then you know he's gay. If he's like uh wtf dude?? Then maybe he's straight. Or he could just be surprised by your suddenness. The best way to make sure is to kiss him again and then pull back and giggle. That should bring him out of his shell. If he punches you, then he's probably not gay. But even then... there's still a chance he's just playing hard to get. At that point though, you're in the clear. Your friend punched you when you were simply showing him love. That means it's okay to make out with his ex-gf. Proceed to Cloud Nine. This thread just keeps delivering! I vote yes! | ||
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CyDe
United States1010 Posts
Anyway, I think you should confront your friend, at the very least. Regardless of this girl, you really ought to find out. Good luck, it might be a little hard, though. | ||
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Gleen
Brazil707 Posts
I'll go on and do some research on the girl background too, if she a manipulative type there must be other guys she used. I don't think she is one of those thou. Maybe i'll go and ask her cousin (girl A from previous blog), I'm sure she must know something... | ||
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linuxguru1
110 Posts
On June 01 2012 00:24 StorkHwaiting wrote: LOL. Dude, the most elegant solution is to make a pass at your friend. If he kisses you back with feeling, then you know he's gay. If he's like uh wtf dude?? Then maybe he's straight. Or he could just be surprised by your suddenness. The best way to make sure is to kiss him again and then pull back and giggle. That should bring him out of his shell. If he punches you, then he's probably not gay. But even then... there's still a chance he's just playing hard to get. At that point though, you're in the clear. Your friend punched you when you were simply showing him love. That means it's okay to make out with his ex-gf. Proceed to Cloud Nine. Be sure to get some good practice first though. I wouldn't settle for anything less than a couple of weeks of practicing. You should find someone who you know has experience, or is at least willing to learn aswell. After all you wouldn't want your friend to dislike you for being a bad kisser, if he does turn out to be gay  OT: How good are you at reading people's emotions off their faces/gestures/...? If you know your friend pretty well and are able to pretty accurately tell when he's lying, you could just ask him if he's gay. That would resolve the whole issue, would it not? If you don't think you're able to you could always stall for time. Usually, as time passes, some issues seem to resolve themselves. E.g. suppose this girl you like is a, yet to become notorious, slut she will get tired from waiting for your response after a relatively short while and will move on to someone else. Then you'll know she probably tried to manipulate you for her own sick and perverted amusement. (© Pedofinder General on that last bit  )Another option could be to come clean about your feelings to your friend. Something like "I'm actually really into her. She asked me if I would like to go out with her. I told her I need time to evaluate first. What are your thoughts?" See, it's possible he's be giving you biased statements about the girl at this time to help him forget about her. Given this, if he realises you're interested in her and is a close friend, the truth will come out. Allow me to quickly sum up possible outcomes to demonstrate my point. For the next part I will assume that you want act based solely on your friend's opionion about you dating his ex-girlfriend and that your friend is a good friend. Event M (mean) means she's as mean and heartless as he initially said she is. Event NM (not mean) means she's not. Event K (okay) means he expresses that he doesn't mind if you go out with her. Event NK (not okay) means he expresses he would prefer you not go out with her for whatever reason supplied by the incoming list. Event ND (no date) means he'll tell you to not date her. Event D (date) means he'll "grant you permission" to date her. By "expresses" I mean that he'll say that to you, regardless of truth or lies. Example of how to read "M + K -> D": The girl you like is mean and evil and your friend says it's okay to date her. In this case you should date the girl. Possible outcomes:
So now, thanks to the list above, you'll be able to chose the optimal course of action based on the replies you get after talking to your friend about your fondness for this girl. -- Wow that took some time to write :D EDIT: Because I took so long I missed the new information >_> Allow me to add a rule that overrules all lists or statementsmentioned above: Not that close to the guy? -> Date her... always. | ||
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MateShade
Australia736 Posts
On June 01 2012 00:11 Chill wrote: I have seen the future. It's a disaster. Haha chill, glad to see you pop up with gems every now and then like the old days On topic, find out what's going on first, trick them into meeting eachother and ambush them till they tell you the truth But seriously she doesn't seem like the right choice in any circumstance | ||
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MateShade
Australia736 Posts
On June 01 2012 01:24 CyDe wrote: I mean, either way it seems to me that you guys are just getting together, as she so aptly put it, "to make out." I mean, who in hell messages someone who they are attracted to and asks if they can make out? It just seems weird, at least to me (since girls never did that to me ahahaha). So even if your friend is lying... where is this going to go? Anyway, I think you should confront your friend, at the very least. Regardless of this girl, you really ought to find out. Good luck, it might be a little hard, though. If you checked his nationality, English isnt his first language, I'm sure you can get the gist of what's going on without taking it so literally | ||
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DrTJEckleburg
United States1080 Posts
On June 01 2012 00:23 Gleen wrote: Don't have the necessary skill to manage storm drops and talk with a girl. Word of advice: She will wait, but your opponent won't. Never stop what you're doing to speak to a woman unless it's life or limb threating. | ||
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solidbebe
Netherlands4921 Posts
On June 01 2012 02:06 DrTJEckleburg wrote: Word of advice: She will wait, but your opponent won't. Never stop what you're doing to speak to a woman unless it's life or limb threating. Lol girl: I gotta talk with you it's pretty serious dude: lol srry im storming the shit out of some zerg rite now girl: wat | ||
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Arcanefrost
Belgium1257 Posts
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Gleen
Brazil707 Posts
On June 01 2012 02:12 solidbebe wrote: Lol girl: I gotta talk with you it's pretty serious dude: lol srry im storming the shit out of some zerg rite now girl: wat lol, i'd probally do that but her answer would be "why aren't you doing raids with our guild in wow instead?" | ||
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iamperfection
United States9644 Posts
On June 01 2012 02:15 Gleen wrote: lol, i'd probally do that but her answer would be "why aren't you doing raids with our guild in wow instead?" Well that bit of information would have been useful from the start. Dump her and move on. Pack it up tl our work is done here. | ||
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