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This guy, although most likely a troll, kept going on about how he was going to kill himself and just wanted to talk to me. Although I know he is probably trolling, it just feels kind of weird when he says "my death is partially your fault" after the game (he wanted to pause to talk more when I beat him.. but I unpaused so I could win and he took at as bm apparently as I was being manner before). there's always like that 99.9% chance he's serious which is kind of weird. How would you handle a situation like this?
chat log from drop.sc
(Kingshapy is him, his text is bolded)
00:19 [All] KingShapy: so ive slowly been considering suicide due to things piling up
00:30 [All] KingShapy: so im prob gonna end up doing it
00:50 [All] KingShapy: do you think its the right thing to do?
00:58 [All] HonahFamiry: lol
01:02 [All] KingShapy: ?
01:08 [All] HonahFamiry: if ur srs call someone, if not then i dono
01:19 [All] KingShapy: yeah im serious?
01:21 [All] KingShapy: but
01:45 [All] KingShapy: i just dont know
02:00 [All] HonahFamiry: therapy > random people on bnet 
02:08 [All] KingShapy: im not asking for help
02:13 [All] KingShapy: my mind is made up
02:32 [All] KingShapy: im asking ur opinion morally or otherwise
02:55 [All] HonahFamiry: if u were srs, you wouldn't be on bnet playing starcraft
03:02 [All] KingShapy: what ya mean
03:04 [All] HonahFamiry: if i were suicidal, and that is not what i would be doing
03:22 [All] KingShapy: i got nothing else in my life
03:28 [All] KingShapy: its ther eason im considering it
03:54 [All] HonahFamiry: or ur trolling keke
04:04 [All] KingShapy: what would i gain from trolling
04:24 [All] HonahFamiry: what does anyone gain from it
04:35 [All] KingShapy: no idea
06:16 [All] HonahFamiry: or u were distracting me while u 7 gate -_-
06:22 [All] HonahFamiry: -_-*
06:22 [All] KingShapy: theres only 6
06:24 [All] KingShapy: and
06:37 [All] KingShapy: i just want someone to talk to
07:47 [All] KingShapy: it lived? *in reference to the bunker he almost killed*
07:56 [All] HonahFamiry: lol guess so
16:06 [All] HonahFamiry: its tough to come back after a 6 gate i main protoss
16:18 [All] KingShapy: fuuny
16:19 [All] KingShapy: funny
16:22 [All] KingShapy: lol i main zerg
17:27 [All] KingShapy: gg bro wp
17:31 [All] HonahFamiry: gg 
17:32 [All] KingShapy: im gonna go hang myself now
17:38 [All] HonahFamiry: tt
17:40 [All] KingShapy: you have a good life
17:46 [All] HonahFamiry: call 911, not my faul
17:47 [All] HonahFamiry: t
17:55 [All] KingShapy: why would i call 911
17:59 [All] KingShapy: sec
17:59 [All] KingShapy: but
17:59 [All] KingShapy: after this
17:59 [All] KingShapy: ill leave
(here he pauses, I unpause cause I've won the game basically)
18:04 [All] KingShapy: bro
18:06 [All] KingShapy: why
18:08 [All] KingShapy: wont you talk to me
18:13 [All] HonahFamiry: sry
18:13 [All] HonahFamiry: i log onto bnet
18:13 [All] HonahFamiry: to play starcraft
18:14 [All] KingShapy: well
18:21 [All] KingShapy: im hidng bases for ur bm
18:24 [All] KingShapy: so i can talk to you
18:26 [All] HonahFamiry: im not being bm..
18:32 [All] KingShapy: your resuming
18:35 [All] KingShapy: when i pause
18:40 [All] KingShapy: that is BAD Manners
18:42 [All] KingShapy: or BM
19:00 [All] KingShapy: im just gonna hide bases
19:03 [All] KingShapy: so i can talk to you
19:06 [All] KingShapy: call 911?
19:10 [All] KingShapy: why would i do that to myself
19:19 [All] KingShapy: second
19:26 [All] HonahFamiry: cause u can be anonymous and talk to someone
19:32 [All] HonahFamiry: just like you want to do now
19:32 [All] KingShapy: yeah
19:33 [All] HonahFamiry: w/e
19:37 [All] KingShapy: im 100 percent serious
19:43 [All] KingShapy: ive been considering this for a long time
19:43 [All] HonahFamiry: ur trolling, i want to play another game
19:44 [All] HonahFamiry: pls leave
19:49 [All] KingShapy: no
19:51 [All] KingShapy: you bmed me
19:57 [All] KingShapy: and i wanna talk to someone about this
20:32 [All] HonahFamiry: well whats wrong
20:53 [All] KingShapy: for starters
20:56 [All] KingShapy: my mom has cancer
21:09 [All] HonahFamiry: mhmmm
21:35 [All] HonahFamiry: my mom died when i was 14
21:48 [All] HonahFamiry: but seriously pls leave
21:52 [All] HonahFamiry: i want to play more games
21:52 [All] HonahFamiry: lol
< I finally kill all of his buildings>
After the game he messages me saying "my death will be partially your fault"
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LOL so I dono. On one hand I'm human and picture the .1% chance that he is serious and thus try to tell him to call someone. On the other hand, I picture some idiot who's going to post this on reddit or something for the L3wLz. I am surprisingly human though and felt kind of weird after this game.
What would you do? lol
edit: he was just a troll (see below for his message to me later on). mods can feel free to delete this thread.
 
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I think you handled that fine, don't beat yourself up over this!
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Hmm, I feel the same way. From my experiences with the internet this is almost guaranteed to be fake, but it is also kind of a weird way to try and troll.
The last sentence makes it seem like it is a troll though, few suicidal people that I have seen blame it on someone else.
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If you're unsure whether he did it or not, add him as a friend so you can see if he logs on again.
That's probably what I'd do if I felt bad after something like that. :/
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edit: he took off bnet friends only-block to message me, and it appears he's actually just a trolling douche bag. regardless, I made this thread to create a discussion (this is not the first time this has happened to me on bnet) not discuss him primarily. but still mods can close it if ye want. here is what he said *be prep'd for major douch baggery* taken from bnet chat:
KingShapy: reported >.>
You: ?
KingShapy: for making thread outside
game
that is against TOS
linking thread
You: ok
KingShapy: to my report
anyway i was trolling
your a idiot
You: mmk
KingShapy: enjoy your temp ban bro
ignoring
LOL omg some people. btw since you are probably reading this Kingchapy, it's *you're an idiot". not "your a idiot"
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so guy fakes suicide to try and win a game (with a suboptimal 6gate no less)
calls other guy who beat him an "idiot", despite other guy being both respectful, and better than him at starcraft
SMH
seriously, that is so disrespectful to people who are actually depressed. Dem trolls.
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Really pathetic someone would do this to try & garner a free win by making you not play & talk to them. Should just report him & move on. Highly doubt this was serious or he wouldn't be all mad about you beating him. He'd have other things on his mind.
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Jeez i couldnt handle this come on to SC2 for some fun, this is too heavy for me T_T
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I wouldn't talk back to this. Even if it's serious you can't help him because you are some random guy on the other end of the continent. And otherwise, don't feed the tröll 
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On April 21 2012 19:02 firehand101 wrote:Jeez i couldnt handle this come on to SC2 for some fun, this is too heavy for me T_T
erm he was trolling (as seen a few posts up ) guess i'll edit the op since this hasn't been closed..
but this is a really fucking lame weird way to troll people. it's actually messed up compared to the "confusing sc2 bm thread".
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Blazinghand
United States25550 Posts
Man what a punk. Just block him and move on.
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Agreed, block and move on.
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Yeah you did fine man, just another worthless troll trying to creep people out.
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if he was suicidal he woldn't have that kind of confidence/demeanor to start insinuating it's your fault and ur bming him, was just an idiot. If not? His choice, don't think to much about it.
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I hate punks like that. He might as well say he was inflicted with terminal cancer and was just about to die and wanted to win one last game before he did. That would be just as moral.
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The short, short answer - there's nothing you can do. Best you can do is report him to Blizzard - because really, even if he's not a troll and he's serious, b.net's structure doesn't let you know where he is, who he is, or give you any other possible recourse than the report function.
if he was suicidal he woldn't have that kind of confidence/demeanor to start insinuating it's your fault and ur bming him, was just an idiot. If not? His choice, don't think to much about it
It depends. Suicidal individuals run a gamut of possible responses depending on where they are in the thought process that can end with suicide. Most people that have made a firm commitment to themselves to end their lives actually look like they're happier - because they've made the decision, and there's a light at the end of the tunnel. (In manner of speaking.)
In terms of what you can do for yourself - best thing is to realize that there's nothing you can do, and that you cannot be held responsible for the actions of others. So report, block, and move on.
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I honestly don't think you responded appropriately. :/ One win isn't really worth egging on a potentially suicidal person. It doesn't matter if it turned out to be a lie; you had no way of knowing whether or not he was serious when he initiated the conversation, and the correct thing to do would be to assume he is serious. If you weren't willing to talk with him you should have, at the very least, ignored him. Laughing at him and calling him a liar were probably the worst things you could have done.
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If this had been an actual person from the internet seriously telling you they were suicidal then you did pretty much everything you could. Now that you know they're a troll then it's no stain on your conscience, so I'm glad you're breathing easier!
For the future, you could always recommend a random internet person to call the nation suicide hotline (if they're not trolling, of course). They're well trained for situations where someone is thinking about it and need to talk with someone. You could google the 800 number and give it to them.
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Wow...trolling about something this serious is just unbelievable. He is so stupid...
especially when he says he's gonna report you lawl
I swear it's not against the TOS to talk about him in a TL thread...is it?
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In that situation, I would offer to chat with him after the game for as long as he wants while offering the disclaimer that I'm not the right person to talk about this with. If he doesn't want to wait to chat, he should leave the game first.
Then I can one-up or match him on any mom-cancer-death story. And we can cry together if he believes me, or I can get out of the conversation if he doesn't.
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