[Girl blog] Follow up to part 1.

On April 17 2012 10:16 Th1rdEye wrote:
Noctem.. do it bud : )

p.s. where the fuck u been

On April 17 2012 10:29 Freezer_au wrote:
Take your time Noct, no need to all in.

On April 17 2012 10:35 NoctemSC wrote:

That's what you guys tell me all the time in practice
That applies to real life too? D:

Edit: oh my goodness, is my own Team trolling me now? D:

On April 17 2012 10:50 obesechicken13 wrote:

All this time you thought they were training you at Starcraft.
Jacket on. Jacket off :D

On April 17 2012 10:56 dAPhREAk wrote:
someone told me in college:

if neither has had sex before, it should take a year or less (maybe shorter, cant recall).
if the guy only has had sex before, a month at least
if the girl has had sex before, a week at least

take it with a grain of salt. its not an exact science.

it obviously depends on how old you are as well...

On April 17 2012 10:59 NoctemSC wrote:

before having sex?
No sir, I'm asking when I should ask her to be my one and only ♥
Sex is just sex, I could get that from any random floozy.

On April 17 2012 10:11 NoctemSC wrote:
Hey Teamliquid,
Noctem again. So recently I posted a girl blog found here Basically asking for advice about this girl.
Well I think you guys deserve an update, I also need more advice D:
So we've hung out 6 out of the last 8 days I've been talking to her.
By day 3 we were cuddling on a mutual friends couch, day 4 we were holding hands, day 5 I finally worked up the balls to kiss her. Now we talk every day and I really like this girl. She has no problem kissing me at all in public and I love it.
My question is when should I seal the deal? We've talked quite a bit, I took her down to the staples center, we went to a nice restaurant and I could genuinely see myself with this girl.
I don't want to rush things because I've been hurt in the past and I don't want a repeat but I fee like if I wait too long something could happen. What are you thoughts on this guys/girls?

On April 17 2012 11:01 dAPhREAk wrote:

lol. fuck me. i totally misread "seal the deal."

On April 17 2012 11:01 HardlyNever wrote:
Plan it out, class it up.

Nice dinner, maybe something else (movie, drinks at a good bar), then bring her home (or back to her place) to seal the deal. Make the plan, stick to it, and don't wuss out unless you are getting some SERIOUS signs that she isn't comfortable with the situation.

Take charge of the situation, everything else should fall in place. I wouldn't wait too long, month at the absolute max, but it depends on the girl.

Edit: just read your above post. Not 100% sure what to make of it. I guess you could ignore my advice, but sex and "being one and only" are probably closer related than you might think. Just my 2 cents.

lol. fuck me. i totally misread "seal the deal."

In my experience, if you want to be with her, ask her for a date/her to be your gf before you nydus her main- just a safer practise IMO

EDIT- I screwed up the intended meaning (like many others).

If you enjoy her presence, ask her to be your gf. Done.

On April 17 2012 11:30 Jerubaal wrote:
You gotta mark your territory, dude. You gotta rip her clothes off and say THIS IS MINE!!!!!

On April 17 2012 11:38 Rubber wrote:
I've always been curious when dating someone turned into some sort of proposal rather than a natural progression of spending a lot of time with them in a romantic way. Has it always been this way? In my opinion, asking someone to be your "gf" doesn't have to be a big deal. After the 5th date or so I'd say it's pretty much implied.

On April 17 2012 11:38 Rubber wrote:
I've always been curious when dating someone turned into some sort of proposal rather than a natural progression of spending a lot of time with them in a romantic way. Has it always been this way? In my opinion, asking someone to be your "gf" doesn't have to be a big deal. After the 5th date or so I'd say it's pretty much implied.