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[Girl blog] Follow up to part 1.

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NoctemSC
Profile Blog Joined November 2011
United States771 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-06-11 08:34:48
April 17 2012 01:11 GMT
#1


*****
http://www.twitch.tv/noctemsc <--Most epic fun times
Th1rdEye
Profile Blog Joined December 2006
United States1074 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-04-17 01:16:35
April 17 2012 01:16 GMT
#2
Noctem.. do it bud : )

p.s. where the fuck u been
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Silent12ill
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
United States358 Posts
April 17 2012 01:17 GMT
#3
^^ where the fuck u been
NoctemSC
Profile Blog Joined November 2011
United States771 Posts
April 17 2012 01:18 GMT
#4
On April 17 2012 10:16 Th1rdEye wrote:
Noctem.. do it bud : )

p.s. where the fuck u been

Dude, been busy with work D: It's not my fault.
Also, women are a lot more work than I remembered.
I've been going out every night till like 3am-waking up at 6am to go to work D:
Totally worth it though.
http://www.twitch.tv/noctemsc <--Most epic fun times
Freezer_au
Profile Blog Joined January 2003
Australia1461 Posts
April 17 2012 01:29 GMT
#5
Take your time Noct, no need to all in.
NoctemSC
Profile Blog Joined November 2011
United States771 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-04-17 01:36:30
April 17 2012 01:35 GMT
#6
On April 17 2012 10:29 Freezer_au wrote:
Take your time Noct, no need to all in.

That's what you guys tell me all the time in practice
That applies to real life too? D:

Edit: oh my goodness, is my own Team trolling me now? D:
http://www.twitch.tv/noctemsc <--Most epic fun times
obesechicken13
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States10467 Posts
April 17 2012 01:50 GMT
#7
On April 17 2012 10:35 NoctemSC wrote:
Show nested quote +
On April 17 2012 10:29 Freezer_au wrote:
Take your time Noct, no need to all in.

That's what you guys tell me all the time in practice
That applies to real life too? D:

Edit: oh my goodness, is my own Team trolling me now? D:

All this time you thought they were training you at Starcraft.
Jacket on. Jacket off :D
I think in our modern age technology has evolved to become more addictive. The things that don't give us pleasure aren't used as much. Work was never meant to be fun, but doing it makes us happier in the long run.
NoctemSC
Profile Blog Joined November 2011
United States771 Posts
April 17 2012 01:52 GMT
#8
On April 17 2012 10:50 obesechicken13 wrote:
Show nested quote +
On April 17 2012 10:35 NoctemSC wrote:
On April 17 2012 10:29 Freezer_au wrote:
Take your time Noct, no need to all in.

That's what you guys tell me all the time in practice
That applies to real life too? D:

Edit: oh my goodness, is my own Team trolling me now? D:

All this time you thought they were training you at Starcraft.
Jacket on. Jacket off :D

FML D:
Starcraft is training for real life dating scenarios.
Mind = blown.
http://www.twitch.tv/noctemsc <--Most epic fun times
dAPhREAk
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Nauru12397 Posts
April 17 2012 01:56 GMT
#9
someone told me in college:

if neither has had sex before, it should take a year or less (maybe shorter, cant recall).
if the guy only has had sex before, a month at least
if the girl has had sex before, a week at least

take it with a grain of salt. its not an exact science.

it obviously depends on how old you are as well...
NoctemSC
Profile Blog Joined November 2011
United States771 Posts
April 17 2012 01:59 GMT
#10
On April 17 2012 10:56 dAPhREAk wrote:
someone told me in college:

if neither has had sex before, it should take a year or less (maybe shorter, cant recall).
if the guy only has had sex before, a month at least
if the girl has had sex before, a week at least

take it with a grain of salt. its not an exact science.

it obviously depends on how old you are as well...

before having sex?
No sir, I'm asking when I should ask her to be my one and only ♥
Sex is just sex, I could get that from any random floozy.
http://www.twitch.tv/noctemsc <--Most epic fun times
HardlyNever
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States1258 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-04-17 02:02:24
April 17 2012 02:01 GMT
#11
Plan it out, class it up.

Nice dinner, maybe something else (movie, drinks at a good bar), then bring her home (or back to her place) to seal the deal. Make the plan, stick to it, and don't wuss out unless you are getting some SERIOUS signs that she isn't comfortable with the situation.

Take charge of the situation, everything else should fall in place. I wouldn't wait too long, month at the absolute max, but it depends on the girl.

Edit: just read your above post. Not 100% sure what to make of it. I guess you could ignore my advice, but sex and "being one and only" are probably closer related than you might think. Just my 2 cents.
Out there, the Kid learned to fend for himself. Learned to build. Learned to break.
dAPhREAk
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Nauru12397 Posts
April 17 2012 02:01 GMT
#12
On April 17 2012 10:59 NoctemSC wrote:
Show nested quote +
On April 17 2012 10:56 dAPhREAk wrote:
someone told me in college:

if neither has had sex before, it should take a year or less (maybe shorter, cant recall).
if the guy only has had sex before, a month at least
if the girl has had sex before, a week at least

take it with a grain of salt. its not an exact science.

it obviously depends on how old you are as well...

before having sex?
No sir, I'm asking when I should ask her to be my one and only ♥
Sex is just sex, I could get that from any random floozy.

lol. fuck me. i totally misread "seal the deal."
DYEAlabaster
Profile Blog Joined August 2011
Canada1009 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-04-17 02:05:39
April 17 2012 02:04 GMT
#13
On April 17 2012 10:11 NoctemSC wrote:
Hey Teamliquid,
Noctem again. So recently I posted a girl blog found here Basically asking for advice about this girl.
Well I think you guys deserve an update, I also need more advice D:
So we've hung out 6 out of the last 8 days I've been talking to her.
By day 3 we were cuddling on a mutual friends couch, day 4 we were holding hands, day 5 I finally worked up the balls to kiss her. Now we talk every day and I really like this girl. She has no problem kissing me at all in public and I love it.
My question is when should I seal the deal? We've talked quite a bit, I took her down to the staples center, we went to a nice restaurant and I could genuinely see myself with this girl.
I don't want to rush things because I've been hurt in the past and I don't want a repeat but I fee like if I wait too long something could happen. What are you thoughts on this guys/girls?




In my experience, if you want to be with her, ask her for a date/her to be your gf before you nydus her main- just a safer practise IMO

EDIT- I screwed up the intended meaning (like many others).

If you enjoy her presence, ask her to be your gf. Done.
cmen15
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
United States1519 Posts
April 17 2012 02:06 GMT
#14
On April 17 2012 11:01 dAPhREAk wrote:
Show nested quote +
On April 17 2012 10:59 NoctemSC wrote:
On April 17 2012 10:56 dAPhREAk wrote:
someone told me in college:

if neither has had sex before, it should take a year or less (maybe shorter, cant recall).
if the guy only has had sex before, a month at least
if the girl has had sex before, a week at least

take it with a grain of salt. its not an exact science.

it obviously depends on how old you are as well...

before having sex?
No sir, I'm asking when I should ask her to be my one and only ♥
Sex is just sex, I could get that from any random floozy.

lol. fuck me. i totally misread "seal the deal."

lLOLOL dAPhREAK you just made my night, and yea you don't have to rush this. If she likes you then she is not going anywhere : )
Greed leads to just about all losses.
sc4k
Profile Blog Joined January 2010
United Kingdom5454 Posts
April 17 2012 02:16 GMT
#15
give it 3 weeks starting from now, do not even once mention the word girlfriend. See if she brings it up and let her take the lead. Alls you have to do buddy is just keep being awesome, be available if she wants to go out, find some other things to distract you so you don't text her all the time. Women are like cats, you have to let them come to you, don't come on too strong, but suggest more dates and keep going at it, just don't try and make it 'more serious' before she suggests it.
NoctemSC
Profile Blog Joined November 2011
United States771 Posts
April 17 2012 02:23 GMT
#16
On April 17 2012 11:01 HardlyNever wrote:
Plan it out, class it up.

Nice dinner, maybe something else (movie, drinks at a good bar), then bring her home (or back to her place) to seal the deal. Make the plan, stick to it, and don't wuss out unless you are getting some SERIOUS signs that she isn't comfortable with the situation.

Take charge of the situation, everything else should fall in place. I wouldn't wait too long, month at the absolute max, but it depends on the girl.

Edit: just read your above post. Not 100% sure what to make of it. I guess you could ignore my advice, but sex and "being one and only" are probably closer related than you might think. Just my 2 cents.

I appreciate your input a lot, thanks.
When I said that I meant that this girl I actually care for quite a bit, I'd prefer making her my lady before engaging in coitus.


lol. fuck me. i totally misread "seal the deal."


All good man

In my experience, if you want to be with her, ask her for a date/her to be your gf before you nydus her main- just a safer practise IMO

EDIT- I screwed up the intended meaning (like many others).

If you enjoy her presence, ask her to be your gf. Done.


I wish I was able to Simplify it like this
We've been on a date before and we both enjoyed it. I fully plan on asking her out before I nydus her main too.

http://www.twitch.tv/noctemsc <--Most epic fun times
Jerubaal
Profile Blog Joined June 2010
United States7684 Posts
April 17 2012 02:30 GMT
#17
You gotta mark your territory, dude. You gotta rip her clothes off and say THIS IS MINE!!!!!
I'm not stupid, a marauder just shot my brain.
NoctemSC
Profile Blog Joined November 2011
United States771 Posts
April 17 2012 02:32 GMT
#18
On April 17 2012 11:30 Jerubaal wrote:
You gotta mark your territory, dude. You gotta rip her clothes off and say THIS IS MINE!!!!!

I'm pretty sure that's considered rape in most countries.
http://www.twitch.tv/noctemsc <--Most epic fun times
Rubber
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
United States150 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-04-17 02:39:07
April 17 2012 02:38 GMT
#19
I've always been curious when dating someone turned into some sort of proposal rather than a natural progression of spending a lot of time with them in a romantic way. Has it always been this way? In my opinion, asking someone to be your "gf" doesn't have to be a big deal. After the 5th date or so I'd say it's pretty much implied.
"DONT TOUCH ME WITH THAT @#$%ING PROBE." User was probed for this post.
NoctemSC
Profile Blog Joined November 2011
United States771 Posts
April 17 2012 02:46 GMT
#20
On April 17 2012 11:38 Rubber wrote:
I've always been curious when dating someone turned into some sort of proposal rather than a natural progression of spending a lot of time with them in a romantic way. Has it always been this way? In my opinion, asking someone to be your "gf" doesn't have to be a big deal. After the 5th date or so I'd say it's pretty much implied.

Because being someones Girlfriend/Boyfriend sets boundaries for the remainder of the time you're with the person.
If you were just casually seeing each other ground rules would be very flimsy.
"you're not my boyfriend, don't tell me not to go to the clubs" etc.
http://www.twitch.tv/noctemsc <--Most epic fun times
GrapeD
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
Canada679 Posts
April 17 2012 04:23 GMT
#21
I think you might be over thinking it a little bit. If you want her to be your girlfriend then ask her. If she says yes then oh joyous day. And if shes looking for something less serious then dragging it out before you ask her isn't going to help.
Some people hurt people. I defenestrate those people.
PiGStarcraft
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
Australia987 Posts
April 17 2012 05:36 GMT
#22
On April 17 2012 11:38 Rubber wrote:
I've always been curious when dating someone turned into some sort of proposal rather than a natural progression of spending a lot of time with them in a romantic way. Has it always been this way? In my opinion, asking someone to be your "gf" doesn't have to be a big deal. After the 5th date or so I'd say it's pretty much implied.


Yeah if she genuinely likes you she won't fuck around. Unless you're like 18-19 and you and her are people that fuck anything in sight it shouldn't even need to be asked. That being said it's always nice to ask her to be your girlfriend. Don't see why you need to do anything special to ask that though, sounds like you're pretty much theere already.
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Silent12ill
Profile Blog Joined November 2009
United States358 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-04-17 05:47:49
April 17 2012 05:47 GMT
#23
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