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IamaGrapeMan
Profile Blog Joined November 2010
Canada165 Posts
April 08 2012 20:42 GMT
#81
i think you'll both have crossed some boundary that can't be returned from. it'll be an uphill battle for both of you.
it's hard but i think the best thing to do is to part ways and move on.
Kukaracha
Profile Blog Joined February 2011
France1954 Posts
April 08 2012 21:25 GMT
#82
Greetings my fellow male human being,

If you have some dignity, an if you still are in possession of your testicles, you should leave this creature right now.
Backstabbing partners who dislike what you like the most in your life just isn't a good thing.

However, you could become her pet and forgive her everything.
Le long pour l'un pour l'autre est court (le mot-à-mot du mot "amour").
Etrnity
Profile Joined November 2010
United States88 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-04-09 22:00:04
April 08 2012 21:50 GMT
#83
Zalfor
Profile Blog Joined October 2005
United States1035 Posts
April 08 2012 22:04 GMT
#84
Hey lemon, its me from lp

In all seriousness you need to get out of that relationship asap. Ill eqxpandonthis lzter as im deathly ill right now and stuck in aplane.

Gtfo. Be free dude
555, kthxbai
mordk
Profile Blog Joined November 2010
Chile8385 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-04-08 22:17:11
April 08 2012 22:16 GMT
#85
Do not get back with her, all confidence and trust is destroyed. If you are going to be together your best bet is to actually be apart for a bit, clear both your heads, and talk like adults.

Personally, I wouldn't get back with her in a million years, I would never be able to trust her again. Forgive her, sure, trust her enough to be her couple, never.
Monsen
Profile Joined December 2002
Germany2548 Posts
April 08 2012 22:51 GMT
#86
I don't even get why you took her back. You were on a good path to something better. Not that it's that hard to find something better than a girl that cheats and constantly lies to you. I don't like all the vengeful advice, but still- get the fuck away from that.
11 years and counting- TL #680
Kamikiri
Profile Joined October 2010
United States1319 Posts
April 08 2012 23:27 GMT
#87
Honestly when she was cheating on you and blaming it all on you was lying to the most extreme and never telling the truth, she honestly doesn't look like a very good person to be in a relationship with.

She is a major liar and will lie straight to your face which is terrible and even tried to hurt you to keep the blame off of her self for what she did, you honestly should just not get back with her and stay away from her she will hurt you.

You deserve someone better, you honestly thought it was your fault so you tried so hard to better yourself in the future it will be very easy for you to find another girl eventually, there are plenty of people in this amazing world.

Just my 2 cents but you really should not get back with her, the most important part is that she cheated lied for so long and still has not told you everything. It is obvious she has lied A LOT and has no intentions of ever telling you the truth, you can never be able to fully trust her and she will most likely never tell you the truth. She is a cheater/liar and she obviously never learned her lesson from it from what it seems so she will just do it again and hurt you.
Romance_us
Profile Joined March 2006
Seychelles1806 Posts
April 08 2012 23:35 GMT
#88
Do you REALLY need to even ask us? Leave her. Immediately.
Notes and feelings, numbers and reason. The ultimate equilibrium.
Poo
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
Canada536 Posts
April 08 2012 23:39 GMT
#89
Shes been lying to you, dump her. Trust is #1, if she's clearly not trustworthy - move on to the next one. You may ask a lot of 'what ifs' to how she might change her behaviour, but if its been happening long term and shes aware of her decisions and is repeating them.. it probably won't change significantly.
Try hard or don't try at all.
Rice
Profile Blog Joined July 2007
United States1332 Posts
April 09 2012 01:02 GMT
#90
shes gotta go bro
Freedom will be defended at the cost of civil liberties.
Wortie
Profile Joined September 2011
Netherlands212 Posts
April 09 2012 02:11 GMT
#91
You should not ask yourself if you still love her, but you should ask yourself if you still trust her.

I would say that you should let her go, because if you constantly have to look over your shoulder to see if your women is still home then thats not a very good basis for a relationship.
Gprime
Profile Blog Joined March 2011
Canada198 Posts
April 09 2012 03:50 GMT
#92
the answer to me is obvious. she doesnt show you her phone...she is still hiding things from you. my advice is to leave her. i know you love her and i dont want to sound harsh, but shes a leech. she wants someone to take care of her, and to me it seems like the only reason she wants it to be you is because she lost her other option. you dont need a woman like that in your life.
diablo 3 killed my skill.
Masq
Profile Blog Joined March 2009
Canada1792 Posts
April 09 2012 04:04 GMT
#93
shes using you, find another girl
MountainDewJunkie
Profile Blog Joined June 2009
United States10341 Posts
April 09 2012 04:31 GMT
#94
When the trust is lost, it's over. To forgive is noble, to dismiss/forget is idiotic:

Blog title should read: "Cheating EX-GF"

That's my 2 cents.

And no, regardless of circumstance, relationships should never continue after cheating has occurred. I suppose if you're married and have children, you can keep the sham going for them, but that just leads to miserable, ineffective parents, and a very unstable household.
[21:07] <Shock710> whats wrong with her face [20:50] <dAPhREAk> i beat it the day after it came out | <BLinD-RawR> esports is a giant vagina
MooMooMugi
Profile Blog Joined January 2011
United States10531 Posts
April 09 2012 07:56 GMT
#95
In my honest opinion, if you are even a little suspicious of her being disloyal you should fully prepared to break off the relationship as soon as possible, trust is EVERYTHING
|LoL & SC2 IGN both my username| Just livin' the baylife| Hearthstone ID: MooMooMugi#1544| Dank Memer since 2011
StorkHwaiting
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
United States3465 Posts
April 09 2012 09:37 GMT
#96
On April 09 2012 13:31 MountainDewJunkie wrote:
When the trust is lost, it's over. To forgive is noble, to dismiss/forget is idiotic:

Blog title should read: "Cheating EX-GF"

That's my 2 cents.

And no, regardless of circumstance, relationships should never continue after cheating has occurred. I suppose if you're married and have children, you can keep the sham going for them, but that just leads to miserable, ineffective parents, and a very unstable household.


Even better would be Cheating CHINESE GF (Soon to be ex.. maybe.. not sure still :\.. )
Shield
Profile Blog Joined August 2009
Bulgaria4824 Posts
April 09 2012 10:21 GMT
#97
"And she is Asian". What does this mean? White girls are still hot.
StorkHwaiting
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
United States3465 Posts
April 09 2012 10:59 GMT
#98
On April 09 2012 19:21 darkness wrote:
"And she is Asian". What does this mean? White girls are still hot.


It means she is an exotic minx, not like those humdrum white girls. Therefore, this type of sexually deviant behavior is somewhat understandable. It is part of her erotic Oriental nature.
Riedell VII
Profile Joined February 2012
United States12 Posts
April 09 2012 17:16 GMT
#99
She's been dodgy, sketchy and downright dishonest. Move along. There are more women out there. Good luck.
Slardar
Profile Joined April 2010
Canada7593 Posts
April 09 2012 19:18 GMT
#100
The way you wrote it out, I know you still have immense feelings for her, so it might be disheartening to read the overwhelming consensus so far in your blog (dump her). In the end it is your decision, I believe you should take some time to reflect, ask parents, close friends have an open discussion about it.

From what you posted, that doesn't seem to be what I would consider "healthy relationship" material. Make a choice and live with it, don't go middle of the road.
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