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Ilovesunzandsonz
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cmen15
United States1519 Posts
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Turbovolver
Australia2396 Posts
By the same token, though, the way she had those changes of heart suggests that things were a bit more complex. What's most important is your positive mindset  | ||
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beetlelisk
Poland2276 Posts
Too bad it has ended, many people including myself dream about something similar (meeting a nice, cute, gamer girl through internet - TL of most places!) to happen in our lives. Somehow I'm 24 and never had a girlfriend and the only good thing about it is only I decide to what to do in my free time, but that's it. GL HF | ||
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Abort Retry Fail
2636 Posts
Let things happen naturally. | ||
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choas
Canada23 Posts
so a month before i was moving out there to live with her she broke up with me. now too say it left me with a bad taste in my month would be a understatement, but in the end i have to say. it was the funnest time iv had in my life and even today i look back on it and it still hurts but i can at least smile about it and tell a bad ass story haha. so stay strong and am sure you will meet someone even better :D nothing wrong with making a girl blog on team liquid. we have some of the smartest and most colorful people on the internet i know iv been around team liquid since mid 2009 iv been more of a LuKeR but its always nice too read blogs or news about the Community. glhf | ||
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eohs
United States677 Posts
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MisterD
Germany1338 Posts
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OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
On February 28 2012 19:23 MisterD wrote: not gonna lie, after the first two or three paragraphs, all i could think about is that she'd steal your headphones or something.. A random girl writes you a PM novel on a weeks old blog on a gaming website and you get together from there? How can that not be some kind of scam x) no clue how you turned out to be "together" two months without having your headphones stolen, i guess you were rather lucky in that regard. LOL headphones =P Based on the OP's post count, he might not get the reference, heheh. Anyhow, sad to hear that it didn't work out very well - but I honestly don't think a relationship can fully develop via online interactions only. Friendship works, but there is an emotional line that you can't simply cross by staring at a monitor and talking into a microphone. If you both found many grounds to agree with each other, and got along very well, perhaps you could have met face-to-face? BUT then that's the part where you lose your headphones, so maybe everything turned for the better, indeed. Reading that you were initially successful in an online relationship, I don't see why you can't succeed in an "offline" relationship. Maybe you should head out and help that qtpie downstairs with her math homework? =) Good luck! | ||
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Zorkmid
4410 Posts
On February 28 2012 16:38 Sonzzy wrote: So it was over. She didn’t want me, and at this point, I was feeling devastated. I didn’t know what to do. I decided it would be best if we didn’t talk again. Hey, all you guys who have stories similar to this OP, and to 96% of the girl blogs I've read here. Yes you! Do what this man did. You'll be much better for it. 5/5 - a treat to read a girl blog with a sane author. | ||
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DreamChaser
1649 Posts
 , but its always better to know your not the only one. | ||
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illKarasu
United States58 Posts
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iamperfection
United States9645 Posts
On February 28 2012 16:38 Sonzzy wrote: Edit: As much as i would like her to read this, she won't. She gave up on this site awhile ago sadly, or at least the blog portion. but thankyou for the responses Dude she is so going to read this. | ||
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LaSt)ChAnCe
United States2179 Posts
you're too possessive, too clingy, and too emotional about this she needs time away from you, even if she says she wants to spend all her time with you - give girls time away from you and they will be that much more attracted to you... let them spend all their time with you and they will get burned out quickly (as you saw) the out drinking with friends is probably out drinking with her new bf btw | ||
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Ilovesunzandsonz
62 Posts
On February 29 2012 04:30 LaSt)ChAnCe wrote: you're being passive-submissive (if that is a thing?) by making this on a forum you know she reads you're too possessive, too clingy, and too emotional about this she needs time away from you, even if she says she wants to spend all her time with you - give girls time away from you and they will be that much more attracted to you... let them spend all their time with you and they will get burned out quickly (as you saw) the out drinking with friends is probably out drinking with her new bf btw And yes, you were right for the most part. I was too clingy/emotional. But hey, we learn from our mistakes right? And she won't read this, as i said, she left TL awhile ago (a few months). We talked about it while we were still together. I just thought it would bring me closure, writing a blog since that's where it all started =] | ||
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Ruffian
United States369 Posts
On February 29 2012 05:15 Sonzzy wrote: And yes, you were right for the most part. I was too clingy/emotional. But hey, we learn from our mistakes right? And she won't read this, as i said, she left TL awhile ago (a few months). We talked about it while we were still together. I just thought it would bring me closure, writing a blog since that's where it all started =] I think that was my mistake in my last relationship as well! Totally learned from that haha. I'm sure you have too. Online relationships are definitely very difficult. It's like...ultimate long distance relationship. I enjoyed reading this girl blog and I wish you luck in the future! | ||
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rel
Guam3521 Posts
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LaSt)ChAnCe
United States2179 Posts
On February 29 2012 05:36 rel wrote: She's the girl of your dreams for what reasons exactly? Because she's a girl? That likes video games? lol a hot oriental girl with a sexy accent that likes starcraft and clingy nerds? (no offense intended, i'm a nerd) i can only imagine the possibilities... | ||
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beetlelisk
Poland2276 Posts
On February 29 2012 07:54 LaSt)ChAnCe wrote: a hot oriental girl with a sexy accent that likes starcraft and clingy nerds? (no offense intended, i'm a nerd) i can only imagine the possibilities... Yeah, what's wrong with that o.0? | ||
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~VespeR
Australia5 Posts
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mrGRAPE
Singapore293 Posts
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krndandaman
Mozambique16569 Posts
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FractalsOnFire
Australia1756 Posts
I honestly think its foolish to get into a romantic relationship over the internet. There's no physical intimacy, its just talking. Which you can do with friends, just need to find the right ones. | ||
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LaSt)ChAnCe
United States2179 Posts
did you read the quote i was responding to? | ||
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