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A different type of relationship,

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Ilovesunzandsonz
Profile Blog Joined April 2011
62 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-04-13 11:50:04
February 28 2012 07:38 GMT
#1


****
cmen15
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
United States1519 Posts
February 28 2012 07:56 GMT
#2
waittt so shes probably going to read this?? I feel like that brings a new element to the girl blog thing lol. Trolling aside sorry to hear about that stuff but you seem to be in a good state of mind. Time can heal most wounds! <3
Greed leads to just about all losses.
Turbovolver
Profile Blog Joined January 2009
Australia2394 Posts
February 28 2012 08:01 GMT
#3
Sounds like you got too possessive. You have to be able to accept some time away and people prioritising other things, especially when you only have an online relationship!


By the same token, though, the way she had those changes of heart suggests that things were a bit more complex.

What's most important is your positive mindset
The original Bogus fan.
beetlelisk
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Poland2276 Posts
February 28 2012 08:09 GMT
#4
Making someone who is close to you in any way, hate you isn't the way to go. I disagree about the idea of making it "easier to break up" this way. Do it like adults. Look now you wrote this blog and she's probably gonna see it so what was the point?

Too bad it has ended, many people including myself dream about something similar (meeting a nice, cute, gamer girl through internet - TL of most places!) to happen in our lives. Somehow I'm 24 and never had a girlfriend and the only good thing about it is only I decide to what to do in my free time, but that's it.

GL HF
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Abort Retry Fail
Profile Joined December 2011
2636 Posts
February 28 2012 08:32 GMT
#5
Don't be too possessive.
Let things happen naturally.
BSOD
choas
Profile Blog Joined November 2011
Canada23 Posts
February 28 2012 08:37 GMT
#6
i played world of warcraft for six years. my fist day playing i meant a girl, i will skip a lot of the details but after 4 years of hang out online and playing wow together i got a plan ticket and went 2,000km to see her. by this time we were both done high school and more or less done college. at the end of my 1 week stay i came back to my place, i remember her crying at the airport before i left. so the next month we started dating and i would fly out to see her every 2 or so months one month she even came too see me. this went on for 1 year and 2 months then i asked her too marry me, she said yes i got to say i was the happiest guy in the world but over time our relationship started too fall through and break away she would spend more and more time at bars and drinking and having fun on her own witch i was okay with but that took away from our time together.

so a month before i was moving out there to live with her she broke up with me. now too say it left me with a bad taste in my month would be a understatement, but in the end i have to say. it was the funnest time iv had in my life and even today i look back on it and it still hurts but i can at least smile about it and tell a bad ass story haha. so stay strong and am sure you will meet someone even better :D nothing wrong with making a girl blog on team liquid. we have some of the smartest and most colorful people on the internet i know iv been around team liquid since mid 2009 iv been more of a LuKeR but its always nice too read blogs or news about the Community. glhf
eohs
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
United States677 Posts
February 28 2012 09:03 GMT
#7
times have changed my friends I remember you had to go to a bar to find a girl .. or at work or something never have i ever really heard of ppl falling in love over the internet. My friends first off love is a STRONG word you are very very young bud.. you got plenty of time to LOVE someone later... I thought at 18 i wanted 1 girl and thats it.. you soon realize that you can have more then 1 girl later and how many mistakes you make for just trying to have that 1 girl. I am not saying cheating I am just saying you are at a young age and in college where there are single ladies all around you.. go for the gold and get one? GL bud time heals all wounds your right. Shit I am still cool with all my ex's and some of them are already married and have kids lol. Everything happens for a reason.
WELCOME TO THE PARTY
MisterD
Profile Blog Joined June 2010
Germany1338 Posts
February 28 2012 10:23 GMT
#8
not gonna lie, after the first two or three paragraphs, all i could think about is that she'd steal your headphones or something.. A random girl writes you a PM novel on a weeks old blog on a gaming website and you get together from there? How can that not be some kind of scam x) no clue how you turned out to be "together" two months without having your headphones stolen, i guess you were rather lucky in that regard.
Gold isn't everything in life... you need wood, too!
OpticalShot
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
Canada6330 Posts
February 28 2012 14:16 GMT
#9
On February 28 2012 19:23 MisterD wrote:
not gonna lie, after the first two or three paragraphs, all i could think about is that she'd steal your headphones or something.. A random girl writes you a PM novel on a weeks old blog on a gaming website and you get together from there? How can that not be some kind of scam x) no clue how you turned out to be "together" two months without having your headphones stolen, i guess you were rather lucky in that regard.

LOL headphones =P Based on the OP's post count, he might not get the reference, heheh.

Anyhow, sad to hear that it didn't work out very well - but I honestly don't think a relationship can fully develop via online interactions only. Friendship works, but there is an emotional line that you can't simply cross by staring at a monitor and talking into a microphone. If you both found many grounds to agree with each other, and got along very well, perhaps you could have met face-to-face? BUT then that's the part where you lose your headphones, so maybe everything turned for the better, indeed.

Reading that you were initially successful in an online relationship, I don't see why you can't succeed in an "offline" relationship. Maybe you should head out and help that qtpie downstairs with her math homework? =)

Good luck!
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Zorkmid
Profile Joined November 2008
4410 Posts
February 28 2012 14:28 GMT
#10
On February 28 2012 16:38 Sonzzy wrote:
So it was over. She didn’t want me, and at this point, I was feeling devastated. I didn’t know what to do. I decided it would be best if we didn’t talk again.


Hey, all you guys who have stories similar to this OP, and to 96% of the girl blogs I've read here. Yes you!

Do what this man did. You'll be much better for it.

5/5 - a treat to read a girl blog with a sane author.
DreamChaser
Profile Blog Joined February 2011
1649 Posts
February 28 2012 17:38 GMT
#11
I just got rejected today , but its always better to know your not the only one.
Plays against every MU with nexus first.
illKarasu
Profile Joined March 2011
United States58 Posts
February 28 2012 18:05 GMT
#12
the story, the understandings, and even the structure of this blog is making me feel better about my heartbreak :p i like your presentation and perspective of this [:
iamperfection
Profile Blog Joined February 2011
United States9645 Posts
February 28 2012 18:12 GMT
#13
On February 28 2012 16:38 Sonzzy wrote:

Edit: As much as i would like her to read this, she won't. She gave up on this site awhile ago sadly, or at least the blog portion. but thankyou for the responses



Dude she is so going to read this.
http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=406168&currentpage=78#1551
LaSt)ChAnCe
Profile Blog Joined June 2005
United States2179 Posts
Last Edited: 2012-02-28 19:31:31
February 28 2012 19:30 GMT
#14
you're being passive-submissive (if that is a thing?) by making this on a forum you know she reads

you're too possessive, too clingy, and too emotional about this

she needs time away from you, even if she says she wants to spend all her time with you - give girls time away from you and they will be that much more attracted to you... let them spend all their time with you and they will get burned out quickly (as you saw)

the out drinking with friends is probably out drinking with her new bf btw
Ilovesunzandsonz
Profile Blog Joined April 2011
62 Posts
February 28 2012 20:15 GMT
#15
Nah i get the headphones things, i am for the most part, a lurker afterall =P. one of the best threads ever.

On February 29 2012 04:30 LaSt)ChAnCe wrote:
you're being passive-submissive (if that is a thing?) by making this on a forum you know she reads

you're too possessive, too clingy, and too emotional about this

she needs time away from you, even if she says she wants to spend all her time with you - give girls time away from you and they will be that much more attracted to you... let them spend all their time with you and they will get burned out quickly (as you saw)

the out drinking with friends is probably out drinking with her new bf btw


And yes, you were right for the most part. I was too clingy/emotional. But hey, we learn from our mistakes right?

And she won't read this, as i said, she left TL awhile ago (a few months). We talked about it while we were still together. I just thought it would bring me closure, writing a blog since that's where it all started =]
Ruffian
Profile Blog Joined August 2011
United States369 Posts
February 28 2012 20:35 GMT
#16
On February 29 2012 05:15 Sonzzy wrote:
And yes, you were right for the most part. I was too clingy/emotional. But hey, we learn from our mistakes right?

And she won't read this, as i said, she left TL awhile ago (a few months). We talked about it while we were still together. I just thought it would bring me closure, writing a blog since that's where it all started =]


I think that was my mistake in my last relationship as well! Totally learned from that haha. I'm sure you have too. Online relationships are definitely very difficult. It's like...ultimate long distance relationship.

I enjoyed reading this girl blog and I wish you luck in the future!
There's a class for this (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚✧
rel
Profile Blog Joined January 2005
Guam3521 Posts
February 28 2012 20:36 GMT
#17
She's the girl of your dreams for what reasons exactly? Because she's a girl? That likes video games?

lol
I'll tank push my way into her heart. ☮♥&$!
LaSt)ChAnCe
Profile Blog Joined June 2005
United States2179 Posts
February 28 2012 22:54 GMT
#18
On February 29 2012 05:36 rel wrote:
She's the girl of your dreams for what reasons exactly? Because she's a girl? That likes video games?

lol


a hot oriental girl with a sexy accent that likes starcraft and clingy nerds? (no offense intended, i'm a nerd)

i can only imagine the possibilities...
beetlelisk
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
Poland2276 Posts
February 29 2012 00:18 GMT
#19
On February 29 2012 07:54 LaSt)ChAnCe wrote:
Show nested quote +
On February 29 2012 05:36 rel wrote:
She's the girl of your dreams for what reasons exactly? Because she's a girl? That likes video games?

lol


a hot oriental girl with a sexy accent that likes starcraft and clingy nerds? (no offense intended, i'm a nerd)

i can only imagine the possibilities...

Yeah, what's wrong with that o.0?
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~VespeR
Profile Joined October 2011
Australia5 Posts
February 29 2012 01:58 GMT
#20
Are you sure she hasn't read this yet?
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