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Froadac
United States6733 Posts
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EvilTeletubby
Baltimore, USA22251 Posts
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United States6733 Posts
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Golgotha
Korea (South)8418 Posts
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EvilTeletubby
Baltimore, USA22251 Posts
Doing what Golgotha suggests isn't going to help your chances. If anything, it'll up your anxiety and increase the likelihood of you chicken-shitting out or finding excuses. And tbh, you're setting yourself up for all sorts of negative self-turmoil is you wait for 3 months, plotting your time to strike, only for her to say "no thanks" after you spend hours after hours agonizing over every fucking detail of when/where you're going to ask her, how you're going to say it, what you'll be wearing etc. etc. etc and missing opportunities with other girls because you've been focusing for way too fucking long on someone you probably couldn't have in the first place. Just fucking do it so you can get used to being rejected and move on to the next one. And if she says yeah, all the better.  | ||
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Golgotha
Korea (South)8418 Posts
look, if you gonna ask her now, then might as well just ask her to be your girlfriend. either way she will understand that you really really like her. | ||
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OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
Ask asap and with clarity. Quality + single girls get taken real fast in prom season. You know as well as anyone that all the 'single' girls are fair game, no matter how much friendship she has with a boy or another. Asking her past Valentine's Day is asking for a disaster. It's like completing your 2-1 mech upgrades and not moving out against carrier-teching Protoss - you still have a chance to win later, but it's going to be hell. At least from my personal experience, all the decent girls were booked at the end of February (my prom was in May IIRC). I'd hate to give you the what if scenarios, but since you're not entirely convinced yet, how about this? You wait 3 months, agonizing as ETT said, then ask her in the most awkward fashion ever with an obvious desperate tone, but she says someone asked her two months ago and she said yes to him. You will have no option by then (only 0.5 month left), and you would have disappointed both yourself and her. I'm not trying to push action just for the short-term entertainment sake of TL, and I'm sure others are feeling the same. From our collective experiences, asking early is monumentally better than later. You also have to do prom-prep like: 1) signing up for tables/seating, 2) booking the limo, 3) planning the after-party (VERY IMPORTANT), and 4) pre-ordering the corsage to match her dress (so you gotta know what dress she's wearing). There is going to be bad drama if you don't do item 1 well ahead of the actual sign-up date. Limos may get booked out depending on availability. I highly suggest NOT going to the 'official after-party' (I'm sure every school has one), have a private one with close friends (or just your date, ehhh). Corsage is a small detail but girls do appreciate it if you put a little thought into it. | ||
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Froadac
United States6733 Posts
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