Zzz please stop thinking of this as random caucasian girl showing "signs" of interest. Korean girls generally in 99% of cases just treat everything as innocently as possible. It's the culture to be very friendly, and it's easy to misread or misunderstand intentions but most likely she only thinks of you as a friend. Also kissing her definitely wasn't a good first step. When dealing with people from another country/culture setting, think of their culture and their environments.

More stupid advice and suggestions are probably going to follow from people who have no idea, just gonna ignore blog

Torte de Lini

Germany38463 Posts

November 12 2011 17:35 GMT

#62

On November 13 2011 01:22 Jibba wrote:
Do you really think she came into your room while you were sleeping just because she's confused?

Check your headset, man.

Holy shit, the billards of cross-blog commenting!

calin

Australia107 Posts

November 12 2011 17:40 GMT

#63

On November 12 2011 18:29 Rekrul wrote:
this has nothing to do with her being korean or not

you were tested, and you failed the test

not all hope is lost though, and next time this happens just roll over and go to sleep instead of getting mad

This, girls will always test you..and yeah you fucked up

Grobyc

Canada18410 Posts

November 12 2011 17:59 GMT

#64

On November 12 2011 23:52 Stijx wrote:
Dude, I think she likes your roommate.

Best comment in the whole thread imo.

Whether your anger was justified or not (which I don't think it was), never lash out like that. The situation's probably still salvageable, but you really got to consider a lot of things when you make your next move, because she's clearly not one of those slutty college girls that just wants to be banged. Even if things don't work out it's not a big deal; that's college for you.

GettingIt

1656 Posts

November 12 2011 18:05 GMT

#65

So you like this girl and kiss her at 5a.m. when your both drunk (which believe it or not implies sexy time) which if fine. However, she says shes not ready and your roommate is there so it couldn't be right, so instead of dropping the matter you get pissed and kick her out? I think you in the wrong this time. If you really do like her, then go win her back!

babylon

8765 Posts

November 12 2011 20:15 GMT

#66

If you actually like her and weren't looking for a one-off hook-up, why would you get drunk and kiss her at 5AM in the morning? That's the wrong way to go about it if you're actually looking for a relationship.

Sterlymobile

United States1009 Posts

November 12 2011 22:33 GMT

#67

Think twice before buying her that plane ticket.

Manifesto7

Osaka27173 Posts

November 12 2011 23:55 GMT

#68

On November 13 2011 01:22 Jibba wrote:
Do you really think she came into your room while you were sleeping just because she's confused?

Check your headset, man.

lololol, new girl blog meme forever.

ImDrizzt

Norway427 Posts

November 13 2011 00:04 GMT

#69

I read this one time that girls really want you to take them, but they have to keep "pretending" they don't wanna, but dun give into that shit, just take her. (Pretend she's the gold, can't just land your CC on her, need to grind down the rocks first).

Probe1

United States17920 Posts

November 13 2011 00:06 GMT

#70

You should be focusing on what's important instead of a girl. Brood war.
STUDY STUDY STUDY STUDY STUDY!

kakaman

United States1576 Posts

November 13 2011 00:22 GMT

#71

Dude you got off easy. You could be missing a headset.

Kojak21

Canada1104 Posts

November 13 2011 00:27 GMT

#72

This exact thing happened to me last month... guess what happened

+ Show Spoiler +

I lost a headset

gokai

United States812 Posts

November 13 2011 00:41 GMT

#73

Wow, I just now got that joke.

Toadily

United States837 Posts

November 13 2011 00:54 GMT

#74

Wait wait, you guys are in Costa Rica and you and a Korean girl are communicating in Chinese? o.O

Risen

United States7927 Posts

November 13 2011 01:07 GMT

#75

On November 13 2011 08:55 Manifesto7 wrote:

Show nested quote +

lololol, new girl blog meme forever.

Oh god ahahaha

BottleAbuser

Korea (South)1888 Posts

November 13 2011 01:22 GMT

#76

Just rolling with it will get you laid easier, but for a relationship it will mean you have to deal with and accept weird shit cropping up on a daily basis. Your call.

(What you see as "mixed signals" I'd personally mark up as "cultural differences". For some people that's a plus and others it's unacceptable. As I said, your call.)

ckw

United States1018 Posts

November 13 2011 02:28 GMT

#77

You need to get out of Plat to get with a Korean chick bro.

Zlasher

United States9129 Posts

November 13 2011 02:42 GMT

#78

Jesus christ, you're not very good at this are you.

Listen to Rek. That is all.

FFGenerations

7088 Posts

November 13 2011 03:46 GMT

#79

1) it shouldnt matter what stupid shit SHE does if you are always cool either which-way :/ these are what ppl refer to as "tests" and passing them/being cool about it gets you points
2) if shes acting confused its probably because she is, she doesnt share the same head/mind as you
3) you said there was some heated gossip, it may have been you about you or another guy or anything really, either way then it may have left her feeling messed up and you didnt notice or werent able to notice. this happened to me - she was arguing with a guy and i didnt notice, then i later tried to be flirty with her (so to speak) and she took it all out on me -___-