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gameguard
Korea (South)2132 Posts
He was the brightest person on earth. He would lighten up any situation. He was the centerpiece of our gatherings. He was the most loyal friend one could hope for. He had so much love to give for his friends and family. Its like I lost a part of me. My heart feels empty. How can i cope?   | ||
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GrapeD
Canada679 Posts
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DavidLindley
United States84 Posts
PM me if you need to talk. | ||
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DoomsVille
Canada4885 Posts
 .My only advice is to remember that he would want you to be happy and live your life to the fullest. Try to do that for him. It won't be easy, but he deserves that, right? | ||
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RedJustice
United States1004 Posts
You need to start by taking the time you need to grieve in whatever way is good for you. If that means talking to someone, find a person you feel able to talk to. If that means you need to be alone, tell family/other friends you need to be alone for a while and then take your time working through your grief. You can PM me as well if you want. | ||
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Triscuit
United States722 Posts
Just take your time in coping. Don't try to rush it and act like everything's normal; that's only going to make it worse. I really hope you have someone to just vent your frustration and sadness with, but know that TL can help as well. | ||
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DusTerr
2520 Posts
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Dice17
United States520 Posts
Words do not always heal, but there is a saying that I have learn to trust "It will get better and life does get better" | ||
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Interloper
Sweden217 Posts
My dad died unexpectedly last december, and i just broke down. Not to say i'm done with my grieving over the loss of him, bit i am already some what on the upswing (waiting for another down i guess). What i did, and still do, is talk alot about him, even tho it hurts like a motherfckr. It has made me atleast used to the idea that he is gone now. Not to say that this is some kind of "rule of thumb" for grieving, because its not. Everyone deals with it in a different way, and you will find what is best for you. But what is so great about talking with others, atleast for me, is that you are able to remember all the good times and you are able to be happy while thinking about the one you lost. | ||
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nofAcedAgent
United States952 Posts
I lost my best friend in January, even though he wasnt human - it was the worst day of my life. The only advice I have is to remember those sixteen years fondly. His life force is with you now, I truley belive that. Stay up man. | ||
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JiSu
Korea (South)140 Posts
The best way to deal when you lose someone close to you is time. Time will heal all things. Very cliche but it is the only real solution. Other things can speed up the process such as spending time with his family and closed ones, talking to your other close friends (especially girls), doing stuff that will always cheer you up, being alone in your room, crying your eyes out, punching your pillows 1000 times. Please don't be discouraged and go emo for too long, try to have a positive attitude. Never get rid of the stuff/memories that you have of him. Keep them and treasure them always. | ||
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Dalguno
United States2446 Posts
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Impulsa
United States122 Posts
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gameguard
Korea (South)2132 Posts
He treasured his friends and family more than anything in life. He was like a glue or thread that kept us all together over the years. I think the best way we can honor him is to keep our friendships strong in the coming years. He would be happy to see that. | ||
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Primadog
United States4411 Posts
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OpticalShot
Canada6330 Posts
Those were the exact words I muttered to the family members of my friend 3 months ago. I lost a classmate/friend who was 23 years old. It'd be a stretch to say he was among my closest friends (or vice versa in his perspective), but we had good times hanging out after classes, skipping classes to play foosball, and so on. It was just a swirl of emotions at the funeral and afterwards, but I don't think it took too long for any of us to accept the facts and move on. Cherish the good times, move on with life as usual - you and your friends will be fine. If you want to talk in more detail about post-funeral emotions, feel free to PM me. | ||
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Grettin
42381 Posts
Moving on won't be easy but eventually the pain will ease, i'm sure. Good luck to you and my condolences. Oh, and i just want to share this with you. Always brings joy to my life after something bad happens. Such a beautiful song in my opinion. + Show Spoiler + http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UiyFeT0Tpkk I hope it doesn't offend you in anyway. Stay strong! | ||
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TheGiz
Canada708 Posts
I used to go to this hockey school run by a Russian named Nikolai. He worked us very hard, and whenever I feel like stopping anything I just imagine his voice in my head as he pushed us through the drills: Come on guys! Keep going! Keep going! Keep going! Yes! That's it! Move it! Harder! That's it guys! Keep going! Keep going! Non-stop, you just have to keep pushing yourself even in the face of grim tragedy. Life gets better if you can just keep going. | ||
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Knap4life
Slovenia333 Posts
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gameguard
Korea (South)2132 Posts
On August 05 2011 22:02 Grettin wrote: Sad to read such a story. I really don't know how you feel right now. Never lost any of my friends or close relatives yet. Moving on won't be easy but eventually the pain will ease, i'm sure. Good luck to you and my condolences. Oh, and i just want to share this with you. Always brings joy to my life after something bad happens. Such a beautiful song in my opinion. + Show Spoiler + http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UiyFeT0Tpkk I hope it doesn't offend you in anyway. Stay strong! thanks for that video. I saw this movie a while back and appreciated the beauty in death. But when it is a personal matter, its hard to see anything positive. I know that all i got are memories now, but 16 years was too damn short. btw i love that track. Its really soothing. | ||
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[uci] Fizik
United States263 Posts
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obesechicken13
United States10467 Posts
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