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Porcelain
Profile Blog Joined June 2011
United States218 Posts
July 28 2011 10:50 GMT
#41
On July 28 2011 19:47 Zeaket wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 28 2011 19:37 Yew wrote:
It also doesn't help that a ton of guys act like morons and harass them online, or act like white knights.


Act like? A lot of them are morons :p.


I seem to encounter the morons on xbox live, mostly. Gotta love the "white knights."
Twitter: http://twitter.com/#!/Porcelain_Sam
oblisk
Profile Blog Joined January 2011
Canada15 Posts
July 28 2011 10:53 GMT
#42
On July 28 2011 18:25 Porcelain wrote:
After many months of being a simple fan of esports, and nothing more than a spectator, I became a female who plays SC2. :D

I went to MLG Columbus, furthering my love for esports. For the first time it REALLY hit me. It was early in the morning that Sunday at MLG. My friends and I arrived early to secure seats for the entire day. If you went to MLG Columbus, you know getting a chair was a freakin’ battle. As the convention center filled it really, really hit me - I was like, the ONLY girl in the room. Okay, maybe not the only literal girl (dr. pepper girls weren't too hard come by lol) but females were few and far between... The ones who absolutely love this game. I wasn't shocked, but I really thought there would be more of us. Amidst the "sausage fest" (ugh, I hate that term) I exchanged glances with a few other female spectators… We all shared the same expression.

Why, why, why?! I know with society/culture this isn’t surprising, but it hurts my heart there aren’t more of us out there! I want to share my love of esports and gaming with those of the same gender. Damnit.

Guys, you have no clue how difficult it is (not to mention sad) when none of your female friends have an interest in gaming. They’re just too rare – Ladies, let’s embrace and spread our love of gaming. I’m trying to make an effort, but I wish it were easier. Maybe in a few more years (as esports <3 hopefully <3 grows) we’ll see a substantial increase in the female gaming scene. It would make my heart happy! :D

Girls play a lot of video games. Just different type of games. ie Farmwhoring and World of Whorecraft, Cooking Mama, etc.

Also, why do you embellish your story with such an over-exaggerated mundane fact of you being a female?

Attention whore faggotry thread = ACHIEVED

User was warned for this post
바보처럼 공부하고 천재처럼 꿈꿔라.
pStar
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
996 Posts
July 28 2011 10:54 GMT
#43
I am all for girls gaming and playing. In fact, it would be absolutely awesome!!

However, what really grinds my gears is girls being stupid "OMG IM A GIRL AND IM STREAMING WATCH IT"

They think they can get attention because they are a girl.

Yew
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States940 Posts
July 28 2011 10:55 GMT
#44
On July 28 2011 19:53 oblisk wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 28 2011 18:25 Porcelain wrote:
After many months of being a simple fan of esports, and nothing more than a spectator, I became a female who plays SC2. :D

I went to MLG Columbus, furthering my love for esports. For the first time it REALLY hit me. It was early in the morning that Sunday at MLG. My friends and I arrived early to secure seats for the entire day. If you went to MLG Columbus, you know getting a chair was a freakin’ battle. As the convention center filled it really, really hit me - I was like, the ONLY girl in the room. Okay, maybe not the only literal girl (dr. pepper girls weren't too hard come by lol) but females were few and far between... The ones who absolutely love this game. I wasn't shocked, but I really thought there would be more of us. Amidst the "sausage fest" (ugh, I hate that term) I exchanged glances with a few other female spectators… We all shared the same expression.

Why, why, why?! I know with society/culture this isn’t surprising, but it hurts my heart there aren’t more of us out there! I want to share my love of esports and gaming with those of the same gender. Damnit.

Guys, you have no clue how difficult it is (not to mention sad) when none of your female friends have an interest in gaming. They’re just too rare – Ladies, let’s embrace and spread our love of gaming. I’m trying to make an effort, but I wish it were easier. Maybe in a few more years (as esports <3 hopefully <3 grows) we’ll see a substantial increase in the female gaming scene. It would make my heart happy! :D

Girls play a lot of video games. Just different type of games. ie Farmwhoring and World of Whorecraft, Cooking Mama, etc.

Also, why do you embellish your story with such an over-exaggerated mundane fact of you being a female?

Attention whore faggotry thread = ACHIEVED

This is exactly what I was talking about where guys act like morons lmao
Porcelain
Profile Blog Joined June 2011
United States218 Posts
July 28 2011 10:56 GMT
#45
On July 28 2011 19:53 oblisk wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 28 2011 18:25 Porcelain wrote:
After many months of being a simple fan of esports, and nothing more than a spectator, I became a female who plays SC2. :D

I went to MLG Columbus, furthering my love for esports. For the first time it REALLY hit me. It was early in the morning that Sunday at MLG. My friends and I arrived early to secure seats for the entire day. If you went to MLG Columbus, you know getting a chair was a freakin’ battle. As the convention center filled it really, really hit me - I was like, the ONLY girl in the room. Okay, maybe not the only literal girl (dr. pepper girls weren't too hard come by lol) but females were few and far between... The ones who absolutely love this game. I wasn't shocked, but I really thought there would be more of us. Amidst the "sausage fest" (ugh, I hate that term) I exchanged glances with a few other female spectators… We all shared the same expression.

Why, why, why?! I know with society/culture this isn’t surprising, but it hurts my heart there aren’t more of us out there! I want to share my love of esports and gaming with those of the same gender. Damnit.

Guys, you have no clue how difficult it is (not to mention sad) when none of your female friends have an interest in gaming. They’re just too rare – Ladies, let’s embrace and spread our love of gaming. I’m trying to make an effort, but I wish it were easier. Maybe in a few more years (as esports <3 hopefully <3 grows) we’ll see a substantial increase in the female gaming scene. It would make my heart happy! :D

Girls play a lot of video games. Just different type of games. ie Farmwhoring and World of Whorecraft, Cooking Mama, etc.

Also, why do you embellish your story with such an over-exaggerated mundane fact of you being a female?

Attention whore faggotry thread = ACHIEVED


First mean comment = Achieved!

Obviously, you didn't read through the comments. Ah, can't please everyone! Not only am I not a whore, but I'm new to this community and I was being genuine.
Twitter: http://twitter.com/#!/Porcelain_Sam
TheAmazombie
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
United States3714 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-07-28 10:58:45
July 28 2011 10:58 GMT
#46
On July 28 2011 19:53 oblisk wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 28 2011 18:25 Porcelain wrote:
After many months of being a simple fan of esports, and nothing more than a spectator, I became a female who plays SC2. :D

I went to MLG Columbus, furthering my love for esports. For the first time it REALLY hit me. It was early in the morning that Sunday at MLG. My friends and I arrived early to secure seats for the entire day. If you went to MLG Columbus, you know getting a chair was a freakin’ battle. As the convention center filled it really, really hit me - I was like, the ONLY girl in the room. Okay, maybe not the only literal girl (dr. pepper girls weren't too hard come by lol) but females were few and far between... The ones who absolutely love this game. I wasn't shocked, but I really thought there would be more of us. Amidst the "sausage fest" (ugh, I hate that term) I exchanged glances with a few other female spectators… We all shared the same expression.

Why, why, why?! I know with society/culture this isn’t surprising, but it hurts my heart there aren’t more of us out there! I want to share my love of esports and gaming with those of the same gender. Damnit.

Guys, you have no clue how difficult it is (not to mention sad) when none of your female friends have an interest in gaming. They’re just too rare – Ladies, let’s embrace and spread our love of gaming. I’m trying to make an effort, but I wish it were easier. Maybe in a few more years (as esports <3 hopefully <3 grows) we’ll see a substantial increase in the female gaming scene. It would make my heart happy! :D

Girls play a lot of video games. Just different type of games. ie Farmwhoring and World of Whorecraft, Cooking Mama, etc.

Also, why do you embellish your story with such an over-exaggerated mundane fact of you being a female?

Attention whore faggotry thread = ACHIEVED


Wow, this is a bit overkill. What game is "Cooking Mama"? =)
Also, if you were just looking for attention there are a TON of better ways to do so than posting on a niche website that you are a girl.
We think too much and feel too little. More than machinery, we need humanity. More than cleverness, we need kindness and gentleness. Without these qualities, life will be violent and all will be lost. -Charlie Chaplin
oblisk
Profile Blog Joined January 2011
Canada15 Posts
July 28 2011 10:58 GMT
#47
I'm sorry, I just lost to a 7pool and I was raging. Please forgive my inept attitude, it was not of me.
바보처럼 공부하고 천재처럼 꿈꿔라.
Kurumi
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
Poland6130 Posts
July 28 2011 11:04 GMT
#48
I hope Your genes won't be wasted.
Gamer girls hwaiting~
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valaki
Profile Joined June 2009
Hungary2476 Posts
July 28 2011 11:08 GMT
#49
Okay, we know you are a girl gamer now. Good for you, but please, from now on, don't start every thread with this statement, because it calls for a shitstorm. It's for your own sake, trust me. Regards.
ggaemo fan
Garnet
Profile Blog Joined February 2006
Vietnam9030 Posts
July 28 2011 11:09 GMT
#50
Probably the same reasons why guys don't read Twilight.
katzby
Profile Blog Joined July 2011
United States110 Posts
July 28 2011 11:10 GMT
#51
Hey fellow girl gamer! I'm going to MLG Anaheim too, I'm so excited! The only thing souring this event a little is that I really wanted to go with one of my good friends. She was considering it, but finally told me that she didn't have that much interest in Starcraft 2 to go all 3 days plus stay at a motel for the weekend. So sad

As for me, I kinda enjoy the male-dominated scene. I have a lot more fun with guy friends than with girl friends usually, because we relate more I suppose. Even then, I usually prefer grinding games by myself than chatting or playing with 'partners', female or male. I get super annoyed when some guys from battle.net talk to me, because I know they're only speaking to me cos I'm a girl. Even with praise. I remember one person saying to me how amazed he was that I went from Bronze to Platinum saying that I was proof that girls don't suck at games. I got really peeved at that. As if there was any difference between the skill level of male and female gamers, it's just the time and motivation you put into it which is influenced by gender roles concerning women and gaming, but that's another story.

I feel like a lot of girls get into gaming because of their boyfriends. I find that a little disheartening. Why can't a girl discover a love for a game all on her own? And sometimes it's not even true love, it's a false kind of love. An example being my friend who went out and bought the game because of her boyfriend. This was before I decided to get Starcraft. I remember how she was saying how she loved the game and stayed inside all day playing Starcraft like a 'nerd'. I was delighted; I had found my kindred spirit. When I actually bought the game, and played with her, to my dismay she was not what she had seemed. She usually left after one game because the game would give her a headache, and preferred team games instead of 1v1s. I also gave my guest passes to my other friend. She wasn't very good of course, but she was delighted with the cute Zerglings and Overlords that I sent over to her base. Then, I encouraged her to buy the game as well, but in the end she decided against it..... RL girl friends suck as SC2 partners.

But yeah, I do hope that other girls can wake up and see what a great game they're missing!

Corinthos *
Profile Blog Joined February 2006
Canada1842 Posts
July 28 2011 11:13 GMT
#52
welcome to the tl & community

i hope you will meet your counterparts and enjoy the game!
SarR
Profile Joined June 2011
476 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-07-28 11:17:38
July 28 2011 11:15 GMT
#53
Within online communities like TL and Iccup.com and various chat channels on servers like Iccup and Bnet servers, its easy to lose sight of a most glaring reality. Gaming as it relates to electronic games is still very much a niche thing. Compare the amount of people world-wide who knows what FIFA world-cup is about to how many know what OSL/MSL/Proleague is and you can see the point expressed in the results of such comparison. Im fairly certain this would never change.

Any activity that is a niche thing usually have stigmas attached to it. Thats why its niche. Stigmatized activities usually don't attract many females.
Order
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
Lithuania231 Posts
July 28 2011 11:18 GMT
#54
My girlfriend watches sc2 matches with me sometimes. She despises "that bug race" the most and her favorite unit is "the little robot worker" (probe), because he makes the cutest sounds. But when I play she tells me to build "those jeeps" (hellions) to kill them! :D

Me and my brother we have the best of times watching sc2 with her! Also she cried both times we watched the dayly #100
Common Sense - so rare that it's a super power
TheAmazombie
Profile Blog Joined September 2010
United States3714 Posts
July 28 2011 11:19 GMT
#55
On July 28 2011 20:18 Order wrote:
Also she cried both times we watched the dayly #100


Who didn't?!
We think too much and feel too little. More than machinery, we need humanity. More than cleverness, we need kindness and gentleness. Without these qualities, life will be violent and all will be lost. -Charlie Chaplin
Order
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
Lithuania231 Posts
July 28 2011 11:21 GMT
#56
On July 28 2011 20:19 TheAmazombie wrote:
Show nested quote +
On July 28 2011 20:18 Order wrote:
Also she cried both times we watched the dayly #100


Who didn't?!

I know I did shed a tear once or twice :|
Common Sense - so rare that it's a super power
Lucumo
Profile Joined January 2010
6850 Posts
July 28 2011 11:21 GMT
#57
On July 28 2011 18:25 Porcelain wrote:
Guys, you have no clue how difficult it is (not to mention sad) when none of your female friends have an interest in gaming.

Hm, I guess that sucks. But normally it's not that hard to find girls/women in games. Whatever MMOG I play, I always stumble upon them. RPG is a genre many females enjoy and there are enough who play FPS etc. When I was still in school, we had female attendance at a small LAN party(<10), the girl sitting next to me played CoD2 and the likes and others had consoles(XBOX, PS2). Apart from that, there are also browsergames...
But I'm not from the US, so maybe it's different there. Who knows. Maybe you were just unlucky or have the wrong friends
Hassybaby
Profile Blog Joined November 2010
United Kingdom10823 Posts
July 28 2011 11:31 GMT
#58
On July 28 2011 18:25 Porcelain wrote:
Guys, you have no clue how difficult it is (not to mention sad) when none of your female friends have an interest in gaming.


Welcome to TL, I'm sure you can find friends here!
"These guys are mindfucking me into a sex coma" | "Mayonnaise is a must-have lubricant when performing necrophilia"
thehitman
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
1105 Posts
July 28 2011 11:41 GMT
#59
well be lucky, at least if you are decent looking you will be the main star for all the nerds out there.

Like me and my GF have visited a porn event and the attending girls there and my gf all felt like second tier to all the pornstars girls.

So having a lot of attention towards you won't hurt. But, I mean I wouldn't mind say more gamer girls.
Thereisnosaurus
Profile Blog Joined February 2010
Australia1822 Posts
July 28 2011 11:45 GMT
#60
I think girls need a certain competitive personality to really find an interest in gaming though... But starting out with a console RPG was the perfect intro for me.


This is decidedly untrue. In fact, you might be surprised to know that the largest single demographic of videogame players is middleaged women. Freaked me out, but it's true (if slightly ambiguous since demographics have different sized aged brackets, for example 10-15 and 28-36)

Obviously, they aren't playing FPS/RTS/RPG traditional titles. From what I've been able to glean, most are playing a mix of social games (farmville style stuff), puzzle games (popcap), simulations (spore, the sims) and MMORPGs (WoW, Gaia, Aion). A lot of younger women/girls are also very heavy portable users (DS in particular). As you say, they usually don't admit openly to be heavy game players, and they don't identify with the 'gamer girl' group you seem to come from, the ones who are at home with traditional combat oriented games being the core of their library. So it's not necessary to have a competitive mindset to be a female gamer, though I think those women who DO have that sort of mindset will gravitate towards the more male heavy games where competition is more highly valued.

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