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AppleTart
Profile Blog Joined March 2010
United States1261 Posts
June 24 2011 23:07 GMT
#21
Never ask for girl advice on TL
always tired -_-
Mattchew
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
United States5684 Posts
June 24 2011 23:10 GMT
#22
http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=236982
There is always tomorrow nshs.seal.
Cudaflu
Profile Joined July 2010
33 Posts
June 24 2011 23:11 GMT
#23
Because chivalry is dead and boys rarely ask girls out on dates anymore, I would think most girls would say yes to any genuine request and give you the courtesy of at least one date.

Also, you should act quickly. It sounds like the "friend zone" could be imminent.

If she does reject you, move on. It really isn't a big deal to be turned down, and I'm sure she would do it politely if you are friendly with each other.
nosliw
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
United States2716 Posts
June 24 2011 23:13 GMT
#24
Don't do it over the internet please. If you are afraid of eye contact, or you get shy, just wear a sunglasses when you talk to her. It's summer now, so it's quite normal to wear sunglasses to hide your uncomfortable glance. Best of luck to you!!!
sYz-Adrenaline
Profile Blog Joined July 2008
United States1850 Posts
June 24 2011 23:15 GMT
#25
On June 25 2011 08:11 Cudaflu wrote:
Because chivalry is dead and boys rarely ask girls out on dates anymore, I would think most girls would say yes to any genuine request and give you the courtesy of at least one date.

Also, you should act quickly. It sounds like the "friend zone" could be imminent.

If she does reject you, move on. It really isn't a big deal to be turned down, and I'm sure she would do it politely if you are friendly with each other.


Chivlary lives.. but only in few numbers.
Can you feel the rush?
Ryalnos
Profile Joined July 2010
United States1946 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-06-24 23:29:03
June 24 2011 23:16 GMT
#26
On June 25 2011 07:41 Mailing wrote:
I never knew why people start relationships in HS :X

It's a time when you have no money and when school ends, if you play to go to any University, there is a good chance you will break apart.


Because she's a 'seriously beautiful girl' has talked to him before, of course :d.
Kamais_Ookin
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
Canada4218 Posts
June 24 2011 23:22 GMT
#27
On June 25 2011 08:07 AppleTart wrote:
Never ask for girl advice on TL
There's been many times where TL gives good girl advice, your probably just too tired to see it. -_-
I <3 Plexa.
Lennon
Profile Joined February 2010
United Kingdom2275 Posts
June 24 2011 23:23 GMT
#28
Grow some balls.
Kamais_Ookin
Profile Blog Joined May 2010
Canada4218 Posts
June 24 2011 23:24 GMT
#29
On June 25 2011 08:23 Lennon wrote:
Grow some balls.
Every man has a pair, it's just that some need to grow some hair on their balls.
I <3 Plexa.
RogerX
Profile Blog Joined December 2010
New Zealand3180 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-06-24 23:38:12
June 24 2011 23:28 GMT
#30
LOL tbh, I didnt check out Chill's blog cus i thought it was for girls, misleading title I guess. Anyway, thanks guys. thats all I needed

Oh and please delete or close this threat if you wish, I have no use for it now.
Stick it up. take it up. step aside and see the world
Danger_Duck
Profile Blog Joined March 2008
Burkina Faso571 Posts
June 24 2011 23:54 GMT
#31
If she's actually popular, you better just ask in person during the week. There's actually more of a mental block for girls on Fridays due to the weekend
TBA
Darclite
Profile Joined January 2011
United States1021 Posts
June 25 2011 00:36 GMT
#32
Even as someone who knows nothing on this subject, I can tell it's just something you have to do. You already have the things in common and the ability to make her laugh on your side. And judging by how you describe her she seems like a nice girl and you really like her. So go for it. Try to soon also (not that you need to panic every second you don't, but I find trouble that I become friends with every girl I like and get into an awkward situation) but you want to find out soon, be able to start getting close to her more quickly, or get over it more quickly if it doesn't work out. And definitely ask in real life. I don't even think it's a matter of confidence, but asking over the internet is weak/chidish/tacky.

On June 25 2011 07:10 SEA_GenesiS wrote:
However my mind doesnt like my mind

Anyway its time to eat some breakfast and fruit salad
Fruit salad, Yummy yummy.



Both of these lines made me die laughing lol.

SEA_GenesiS HWAITING!!!
They're fools. You should eat them.
The_LiNk
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Canada863 Posts
June 25 2011 00:37 GMT
#33
Don't ask the girl out. Hint at her that you like her until she asks you out. I think poking her with sticks is a good hint.
Zaranth
Profile Blog Joined June 2011
United States345 Posts
June 25 2011 01:17 GMT
#34
I'd like to add one thing if I may ... be like Day[9] and don't lie about yourself or your gamer/nerdness. If she won't accept you for who you are even if she is super awesome than it's not worth it. I always respect guys who are confident in themselves and who whey are; guys who are ashamed of something they do are not appealing.

I'm sure if you ask her out in person she'll say yes and you'll have a blast. A movie is nice, be a gentleman and you should be fine. Don't move too fast. Open doors for her. If not the car door at least the doors to the theater. Some girls hate that but I think it is respectful and shows you are thinking about her. (Hope this Midwestern USA advice will help you in NZ!)

GL HF!!!
Maker of Cheerfuls @eZaranth
LolitsPing
Profile Blog Joined March 2011
United States285 Posts
June 25 2011 01:29 GMT
#35
I'm sorry but this is a thread that deserved to be closed if the answer revolves asking a girl out through facebook or in real life...
That's what your real life friends are for...
Also, might wanna check out this link: http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=236982 for future reference...

+ Show Spoiler +
Just nydus the main already
Citius, Altius, Fortius
Rarak
Profile Joined May 2010
Australia631 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-06-25 01:53:44
June 25 2011 01:51 GMT
#36
On June 25 2011 10:17 Zaranth wrote:
I'd like to add one thing if I may ... be like Day[9] and don't lie about yourself or your gamer/nerdness. If she won't accept you for who you are even if she is super awesome than it's not worth it. I always respect guys who are confident in themselves and who whey are; guys who are ashamed of something they do are not appealing.

I'm sure if you ask her out in person she'll say yes and you'll have a blast. A movie is nice, be a gentleman and you should be fine. Don't move too fast. Open doors for her. If not the car door at least the doors to the theater. Some girls hate that but I think it is respectful and shows you are thinking about her. (Hope this Midwestern USA advice will help you in NZ!)

GL HF!!!


While day9 is great and all, I wasnt aware that he is a dating guru. Its best not to let your weirdness/quirks out all at once or it might scare her off. E.g None of my gfs or my now fiance had any idea i played games etc when we met. unless the girl is really into that, i wouldnt go down that path.

Also, if she is reallypopular like you say, and you are not I expect rejection incoming, girls care alot about social status. There is only one way to find out however, so ask her out, in person if you think you have a shot.

If it doesnt work, try to increase your social status and try again with some other chick, plenty of em out there.

gl
SlimeBagly
Profile Blog Joined August 2010
356 Posts
June 25 2011 01:59 GMT
#37
You didn't make texting an option in the poll. Or, you could ask your friend to text the request for you.
mutalisks are awesome!
Rising_Phoenix
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
United States370 Posts
June 25 2011 02:15 GMT
#38
Just Leeroy Jenkins is up and get in there. Honestly the worst thing to do is turtle up like E. Honda and wait for them to try and push in with a small life advantage, since they'll just move on to other players.
Early to bed and early to rise, makes a man stupid and blind in the eyes
Caphe
Profile Blog Joined May 2007
Vietnam10817 Posts
June 25 2011 02:31 GMT
#39
Just ask her out, if you fail, at least you tried right? If shes so beautiful as you say, if you don't act fast, you won't have a chance in the future.
And, dont go to the movie on a first date. It sucks, some dinner is good then you can decide what to do later.
Terran
StorkHwaiting
Profile Blog Joined October 2009
United States3465 Posts
June 25 2011 02:51 GMT
#40
On June 25 2011 08:01 intrigue wrote:
i kinda want to close this thread. i hope you understand that facebook shouldn't even be an option.


I've had 3 diff girls ask me out on dates while facebook chatting me. Guys totally overthink this shit and try way too hard with the whole confidence/mystery/etc crap. If the girl likes you, she doesn't give two shits how you ask her out. She'll just be glad you asked her. And believe it or not, most of the time a girl has a very good idea whether she likes a guy or not long before he asks her out.

So, no, I totally disagree. If he sers has trouble bumping into her in real life, then there's nothing wrong with hitting her up on FB and just saying "Hey, I been looking for you all week in school. Where the hell you been? etc etc. OK, cool, well I was thinking of going out to so and so this weekend and was wondering if you'd like to come with me."

That's really all it takes.
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