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I fucking hate girls. - Page 6

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marttorn
Profile Blog Joined May 2011
Norway5211 Posts
June 27 2011 22:49 GMT
#101
That sucks bro, but I suggest you just move on and get over her. You're not gonna get her back, and trying to will make you look pathetic. So just hold your head high and forget her. Don't be a doormat. Stick up for yourself. I can understand your situation, but there's nothing to get here.
memes are a dish best served dank
Bippzy
Profile Blog Joined March 2011
United States1466 Posts
June 27 2011 22:58 GMT
#102
That seriously sucks dude, But i think the moment you heard she was saving her emotions for someone you probably should have put her on the backburner as an acquaintance barely a friend and moved on. I disagree with fighting for a girl when she doesnt want to be won by you.
LEENOCK LEENOCK LEENOCK LEENOCK LEENOCK LEENOCK LEENOCK LEENOCK LEENOCK LEENOCK LEENOCK LEENOCK
Slaughter
Profile Blog Joined November 2003
United States20254 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-06-27 23:45:53
June 27 2011 23:45 GMT
#103
If you treat girls as something very different/special/mystical beings instead of just regular people similar to you they will crush you (intentionally or not).
Never Knows Best.
AngryFarmer
Profile Joined June 2011
United States560 Posts
June 28 2011 03:30 GMT
#104
Well I'm unsure how well the best friend thing would go if you ended up getting back into contact. Sounds like you guys went through a messy ending so it's often really hard. I've broken up with a girl once and I found that going back to being friends was a lot harder than I thought it would be. Despite saying we'd only be friends, I'd still want her back and I would feel quite neglected because she woudl spend less time with me. If I were you, I'd forget about her for a while. If she comes back to you, and you're ready for her then I guess things will work out but don't force anything.
vitruvia
Profile Joined June 2009
Canada235 Posts
June 28 2011 07:27 GMT
#105
play some SC2 then read some novels.
what quote?
Ryuu314
Profile Joined October 2009
United States12679 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-06-28 07:51:05
June 28 2011 07:48 GMT
#106
she sounds like a dick.

honestly. that's all i have to say.

EDIT: I'll elaborate lol. Despite how great of friends she may have been to you, anyone who shoves their relationship into your face when they know you have strong feelings for them is just simply being an asshole. There's a difference between unintentionally or pseudo-harmlessly talking/referencing a relationship to you and shoving it into your face. This sounds like the latter and that's a dick move. Unless I'm terribly wrong, seriously reconsider whether she really was such a great friend or not.
Slaughter
Profile Blog Joined November 2003
United States20254 Posts
June 29 2011 06:10 GMT
#107
Agree with Ryuu. I was in a similar but different situation. My friend though was very reluctant to even mention her relationship and would not try to directly talk about it when it was a fresh wound for me. Now though I give her advice on it and she comes to me for it on the relationship and we can talk about it, though I still think it makes her feel mildly weird to talk about it with me (or could just be her more private personality.
Never Knows Best.
ILOVEKITTENS
Profile Blog Joined April 2011
Korea (South)112 Posts
July 05 2011 17:54 GMT
#108
I figured I would summarize the situation as a card game. The cards will be color-coded to match the color of the players. This will enunciate how badly you handled this situation and why you will never have more success with women if you maintain this mentality. Let's play...

THE SEDUCTION GAME!


Player 1 enters the game under the alias 'King of Blades', by which he shall be referred to henceforth.

      --- Player Stats
  • Emotional person
  • 0/11 (0%) BvG (Boy vs. Girl) win rate
  • Career length: 5 years.


Player 2 enters the game under the alias 'Girl', by which she shall be referred to henceforth.

      --- Player Stats
  • Younger player
  • 1/1 (100%) BvG win rate
  • Career length: ~1 year (estimated)


Cards have been dealt

'King of Blades' plays a card:

[image loading]


'Girl' plays a card:

[image loading]


The last card 'Girl' played allows her to successfully play another card! This is due to fact that 'Girl' is now in control of the situation, as a result of a lack of initiative by 'King of Blades'.

'Girl' plays a card:

[image loading]


'King of Blades' plays a card:

[image loading]


'Girl' plays a card:

[image loading]


'King of Blades' plays a card:

[image loading]



'Girl' plays a card:

[image loading]

The game is over!

'Girl' wins the game! 'King of Blades' loses! 'King of Blades' receives the following statuses as a result of the game:

[image loading]

[image loading]





TL;DR
1. You got infatuated with a girl.
2. She liked having you as a friend.
3. Your infatuation made the friendship awkward.
4. Your inability to cope with the fact that she was messing around with her ex-boyfriend, despite you being JUST A FRIEND, has ruined the friendship.
5. Now she wants nothing to do with you, because you clearly lack social tact and control.
6. You make this out to be her fault, instead of thinking about it from her perspective.

I hope that you learned something from this experience, and that the next time you get close to a girl, you don't let your infatuation ruin the relationship and cloud your judgment. Not every girl who talks to you often and hangs out with you wants to be your girlfriend. NO girl is obligated to be 'faithful' to you if you are not even going out. What if she was just being friendly to you, and you took it as interest? I think most of the evidence points towards this: her appreciating you like a brother/twin, her continued relationship with her boyfriend (which was none of your business, btw), her saying no to dating you... What you may confuse as you being an 'emotional' person is your issue with attachment, in my limited opinion.

Regardless, I wish you all the best in the future. FIGHTING!!!
Kurr
Profile Blog Joined April 2010
Canada2338 Posts
July 05 2011 18:20 GMT
#109
You may love kittens, but I love your posts.
(╯°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻ | ┻━┻ ︵╰(°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻
TheGiz
Profile Blog Joined October 2010
Canada708 Posts
July 05 2011 18:57 GMT
#110
You call those problems? I wish that was all I had to deal with.

None of anything I read seemed like a relationship in any way, shape or form. None of this shit matters. YOU'RE IN HIGH SCHOOL - NONE OF IT MATTERS!

Learn a thing or two about not being a pussy either. Sure, it's fine to not do anything on a first meeting or whatever, but by the second time - you better have at least had a heavy kiss or two. The other guy did, because he wasn't a pussy, and he got his dick sucked for it.

Chalk it up to a learning experience and gtfo of her life. Having her out of your life will do you good, and it will open you up to opportunities with less evil girls, hopefully.
Life is not about making due with what you have; it's about finding out just how much you can achieve. Never settle for anything less than the best. - - - Read my blog!
Kipsate
Profile Blog Joined July 2010
Netherlands45349 Posts
July 05 2011 18:58 GMT
#111
Ilovekittens I love you
WriterXiao8~~
Slithe
Profile Blog Joined February 2007
United States985 Posts
July 05 2011 19:48 GMT
#112
Everything is so clear now that it's in Magic Card form.'

King of Blades, don't worry bro this type of girl trouble is as common as it gets, and plenty of guys have come out of it stronger and wiser. Also, the timing is great for you because college is coming up soon, and everyone knows that's the real deal. High school is just the shitty practice round.
clayn
Profile Joined November 2010
Germany444 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-07-05 19:53:39
July 05 2011 19:52 GMT
#113
forget that bitch she was hanging out w/ you because she needed your attention
Lennon
Profile Joined February 2010
United Kingdom2275 Posts
July 05 2011 19:57 GMT
#114
You got friendzoned. Get over it.
Why do you even care about friendship WITH A GIRL? Come on, bro.
Ravencruiser
Profile Blog Joined May 2011
Canada519 Posts
July 05 2011 20:28 GMT
#115
LOL I felt so tempted to post some memes after ilovekitten's post (she put you in the friend zone, you put her in the rap... nvm I don't want to get banned), but then I remembered I already posted a couple pages ago so I'll reiterate.

You don't hate girls, girls hate you
"Yah, free will is a bitch" - Drone
Haemonculus
Profile Blog Joined November 2004
United States6980 Posts
July 05 2011 21:06 GMT
#116
On June 28 2011 05:44 Lanaia wrote:
Girls like having attention. This girl sounds a bit like an attention whore. Most girls are. It gets ridiculous. Read your facebook news feed and tell me this isn't the case.

Orrr..... she considered the guy she'd been hanging out with for months who never made a move... as just a friend?
I admire your commitment to being *very* oily
Ryalnos
Profile Joined July 2010
United States1946 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-07-05 21:33:48
July 05 2011 21:33 GMT
#117
Way to necro, kittens.

+ Show Spoiler +
jk <3
hazelynut
Profile Blog Joined December 2008
United States2195 Posts
July 05 2011 21:55 GMT
#118
ILK, you're going to run out of material. Your posts are beginning to get themed.

Enjoyed reading nevertheless :D
Zerg | life of lively to live to life of full life thx to shield battery | www.cstarleague.com <3
IceSlipper
Profile Blog Joined June 2011
Australia1028 Posts
July 06 2011 15:07 GMT
#119
For a start, what she did with him is none of your business, she doesn't belong to you in any way.. She wanted you as a friend, and you wanted your balls where his were..

If anything you lead her on by making her believe she has a friend, when all she has is an immature teenager with his balls in his hands..

Shes not your's and by the looks of it you've blown any chance that she ever will be by allowing yourself to get friendzoned.. Eat a cup of concrete, and harden the f@!# up!

\_/<-- sympathy cup is empty
Azide
Profile Joined March 2010
Canada566 Posts
Last Edited: 2011-07-06 17:42:53
July 06 2011 17:42 GMT
#120
+ Show Spoiler +
On July 06 2011 02:54 ILOVEKITTENS wrote:
I figured I would summarize the situation as a card game. The cards will be color-coded to match the color of the players. This will enunciate how badly you handled this situation and why you will never have more success with women if you maintain this mentality. Let's play...

THE SEDUCTION GAME!


Player 1 enters the game under the alias 'King of Blades', by which he shall be referred to henceforth.

      --- Player Stats
  • Emotional person
  • 0/11 (0%) BvG (Boy vs. Girl) win rate
  • Career length: 5 years.


Player 2 enters the game under the alias 'Girl', by which she shall be referred to henceforth.

      --- Player Stats
  • Younger player
  • 1/1 (100%) BvG win rate
  • Career length: ~1 year (estimated)


Cards have been dealt

'King of Blades' plays a card:

[image loading]


'Girl' plays a card:

[image loading]


The last card 'Girl' played allows her to successfully play another card! This is due to fact that 'Girl' is now in control of the situation, as a result of a lack of initiative by 'King of Blades'.

'Girl' plays a card:

[image loading]


'King of Blades' plays a card:

[image loading]


'Girl' plays a card:

[image loading]


'King of Blades' plays a card:

[image loading]



'Girl' plays a card:

[image loading]

The game is over!

'Girl' wins the game! 'King of Blades' loses! 'King of Blades' receives the following statuses as a result of the game:

[image loading]

[image loading]





TL;DR
1. You got infatuated with a girl.
2. She liked having you as a friend.
3. Your infatuation made the friendship awkward.
4. Your inability to cope with the fact that she was messing around with her ex-boyfriend, despite you being JUST A FRIEND, has ruined the friendship.
5. Now she wants nothing to do with you, because you clearly lack social tact and control.
6. You make this out to be her fault, instead of thinking about it from her perspective.

I hope that you learned something from this experience, and that the next time you get close to a girl, you don't let your infatuation ruin the relationship and cloud your judgment. Not every girl who talks to you often and hangs out with you wants to be your girlfriend. NO girl is obligated to be 'faithful' to you if you are not even going out. What if she was just being friendly to you, and you took it as interest? I think most of the evidence points towards this: her appreciating you like a brother/twin, her continued relationship with her boyfriend (which was none of your business, btw), her saying no to dating you... What you may confuse as you being an 'emotional' person is your issue with attachment, in my limited opinion.

Regardless, I wish you all the best in the future. FIGHTING!!!


Wow. I love you. I'm glad i skipped to page 6
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